₦airaland Forum

goran3310:
You’re making a lot of assumptions here. A woman replying quickly to your messages, liking your posts, and checking up on you doesn’t automatically mean she’s romantically interested in you.

She told you she couldn’t date a guy like you, and instead of accepting her answer, you accused her of playing mind games. Then you claimed you never liked her anyway. Really? If you never liked her, why were you pursuing her in the first place?

As for her looking sad the next morning, you have no idea why she was sad. Maybe your reaction hurt her, maybe she was disappointed in how you handled things, or maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with you.

And here’s the biggest flaw in your argument: a woman can reject you without hating you, and she can feel hurt by your behavior without wanting a relationship with you. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

You’re interpreting her every move through the lens of your own ego and then generalizing about all women based on one personal experience.

Maybe she was sending mixed signals, maybe she wasn’t. But one thing is clear: you seem more concerned with proving that she wanted you than with accepting that she didn’t want a relationship with you.

That’s not understanding women. That’s refusing to accept rejection.

stuffs2002:
This clown and gay prostitute called VeryDarkMan is just a content creator looking for attention

Stephen0mozzy:
Till today, nobody from my family knows my salary.

If they don't know your salary, they can't raise their expectations or feel entitled to asking more than you give.

You need to stand well before you can help another person stand. This doesn't mean you should be stingy, it just means you should be calculative in disbursing your earnings - always, always work within a budget.

Have a budget for what you give to parents, to siblings. Random gifting only comes if you get money from side hustles.

Also the first time anyone shows entitlement to your money, block them - good parents will never do this though.

Secondly, nor to dey show off. If you dey struggle, but dey show off with lifestyle wry pass your net worth, then you dey find trouble... To attract parasitic expectations.

Cyberterror:
The agulu fraudster is also a shameless man who has never visited and condoled with victims of IPOB terrorists attacks in his own state and region but want to do 'good face' elsewhere.

Kalashnikov49:
Keep quiet.

FOIA can be withheld also, if it affects national security the US GOVERNMENT OR PRESIDENT.

So sharaaaaaaaaaaaaaaap when talking nonsense

Parachoko:
So you have being crying since 2023 Peter Obi lost the presidential election?

Una go still dey heartbroken when Adeleke work for Tinubu in 2027

Una go cry till 2031

Peter Obi Will Never Become The President Of Nigeria

chidiokay:
whatever you smoke please change your dealer, These your ideology now where does it originate from .. did we just kum out Noah ark n we are tryin to populate the world ... therefore women need to bear more children from more men to creat enough DNAs

1. Many times here we've said, Women are emotional beings,, emotion needs to be invest in one place, its not someting you can share around .. hence a woman can fvck/date 10 guys but will only love one
2. There are more consequences to women sleeping around, Nobody values a LovePeddler not her family, not the man she love,not even her children
please for a proper take in ... imagine your mother his a LovePeddler n your father is a LovePeddler ...which one hurt you the most . let the truth hit it
3 if its Money women to her rich, The fact there examples of Men that have two, five wives under obe roof and they are all living depicts Men have leverage womrn don't

if women are the actual ones with doing ... the world have existed for more than a 1000 years ... why are women not having two or more under one roof if they are the polygamist

A man can sleep with five wives in one week nd All will be pregnant carrying his DNA Buh should a Woman sleep with 5 husband in one week she can only get pregnant for one man, wait one year befire she ccan tajke in again ...

its an unnecessary arguement, since creation men maried two or more wives ...na sarah lead her maid to Abram's bed.

immortalcrown:
Going by nature, women are the ones that should be considered polygamous.

An average man has no need to bed many women but an average woman has the need to bed many men.

The thing is, humans invented wrong philosophies that misinterpret nature. Some of the philosophies favour women and are unfair to men. Some of the philosophies favour men and are unfair to women.

I am not supporting any form of sexual immorality. But let us face the reality. An average woman can satisfy up to 80% of the men that sleep with her. But an average man cannot satisfy up to 80% of the women that sleep with him. A man that sleeps with 10 different women will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 10 occasions. A man that sleeps with only one woman 20 times will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 20 occasions. But a woman that sleeps with 10 men will likely not reach orgasm up to 5 times out of those 10 times. A woman that sleeps with only one man for 20 times may not reach orgasm up to 10 times with him. Now, tell me the gender that naturally has the reason or need to keep sleeping around in search of satisfaction.

But like I said earlier, the world accepts and lives according to false ideologies. The claim that men are the ones that are polygamous in nature is widely accepted the same way the world believes that mothers make more sacrifices for children than fathers do. Whoever gets up to explain that men are not the ones polygamous in nature will be persecuted the same way anybody that says that fathers make more sacrifices than mothers will be persecuted. So, trying to debunk a false narrative that people have lived with over time is suicidal in today's world.

A man that cannot satisfy his wife in bed will be sleeping around in the game of men being polygamous and everyone will act cool about it. A man that labours day and night to feed his family will grow old to suffer while the children are shouting "I will make mama proud" and everyone is cool about it. In conclusion, life is not balanced for any gender, and this is because we operate with ideologies built on emotions and sentiments.

Saturnalia:
Wetin I wan go do for South Afrika? I’m not a drug dealer. People are trying to Kpai you in their Country and you’re still going there. Is that not a symptom of insanity?

By your logic, am I also kissing the azzes of the Emiratis? And the Malaysians ? And the Singaporeans? And the Indonesians? And the Indians? And the Turkish? And the Ghanaians?

Are you the only people in the Universe?

Everywhere you go, wahala upon wahala. Instead of you to engage in a sober reflection of all your actions, you are here forming James Bond.

Na Tinubu and the FG I blame. No be your fault.

lexylaw09:
Nothing but love for you Mr president. I'm proud to have you as my leader

stuffs2002:
When Una dey insult Sultan E dey sweet Una. A whole Sultan was massively insulted by OBIDIENTS and you think the Islamic followers would be happy to vote you people?

When Una dey insult Soyinka E dey sweet Una
When Una dey insult Oba of Benin E dey sweet Una
When Una dey insult late Buhari E dey sweet Una
When Una dey insult Sowore E dey sweet Una
When Una dey insult Adeboye E dey sweet Una



We can't wait to see how Obi will be disgraced at the polls come 2027

aswani:
They detest APC yet in bye elections up and down the land since President Tinubu defeated Peter Obi hands down, APC are either winning or coming second, even in Aligbo.

What a very strange way to show how you detest a party.

Meanwhile we are yet to see any candidate personally endorsed by Peter Obí, even in Aligbo, winning bye elections.

Also, the living God has zero interest in Nigerian eleco, your cry to him in this instance is dead on arrival.

stuffs2002:
I am very happy to see OBIDIENTS fighting and insulting everyone from l
ate Buhari
Tinubu
Atiku
sultan
Bashir Apapa
Julius Abure
Deji Adeyanju
Adeboye
Sowore
Kenneth Okonkwo
to Oba of Benin
Soyinka
Joe Igbokwe
Wike
etc


OBIDIENTS have fought everyone and are massively hated by everyone so no on except Igbos will vote Obi

Imagine seeing opposition fighting is good news to me. Tinubu's re election will be the easiest

stuffs2002:
Yet na Una dey enter night bus to other regions just to escape poverty

mrmayormedia:
You are not sensible

obembet:
This is one of the reasons I’ll never support Obi or his supporters. They are quick to insult and criticize others, yet neither they nor their leader can handle even a fraction of the same treatment they give out.

StPete:
God of war Ragnarok for swap or sale

Antoeni:
Nothing concerns Chike with Election, Bandits, Terrorist And Kidnapping and Nigeria insecurity problems,
Na to Dey kn@ck People Wife Be His Own Focus

aybabz101:
Yes he did...and baba never protested against Jonathan....stop the lies

HacheNoire:
Where did Atiku import the word “slaves?

When did the Great people of River state notify Atiku about being in captivity?

Atiku needs to desist from cooking up narrations out of thin air!

The Great Nyesom Wike laid the foundation and invested in the structure that propels his political dominance across the state.

Having a solid political foundation and structure does not translate to slavery. All across the world, we have seen politicians build such structure and never a time did the media or opposition call it slavery, and this slavery narration will for the first time in history be coming from Atiku.

ariesbull:
How many Nigerians are doing well in Canada ? Or even abroad ....

NairaMaster1:
You people think that untill you travel out. How many of them out there are smiling?

Na waooo. Poverty the affect mental faculty

bixton:
Elementary naiveness and analysis you've got there. A sure proof you don't understand what manner of politics is at play.
Why would Wike run to PBAT!!!
Did Wike not come out publicly and openly saying it was SIM who went to meet PBAT....did you hear SIM say otherwise!!!

Was PBAT there when Wike picked SIM to become State Governor or was PBAT there when both Wike and SIM entered into an agreement....
So why do you want PBAT to come shred that agreement when he was never a witness to it!!!!!!!

How can purported elders of a State go to meet the President and were given a list of things to be done and they all signed and we never heard that they were threatened or ....
Only to return back to Rivers State and g against the very thing they had signed.

It's just a proof that one can't rely on certain people who are considered elders and spokespeople for the rest of others.