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Stelz2000:
I am a young girl, the only crime I committed was to be in love.my boyfriend doesn't care about any other thing apart from himself. during this lock down, he do invite me over when I refuse coming we get into a heated argument,due to I want my relationship to work, I'll lie to my parents about something and off I go. we stay in the same state but different city. Each time I get there, I don't feel happy because he doesn't treat me well.. he treats me like a maid. he expects me to do every single thing in the house, when water stops rushing in his apartment, he expects me to go downstairs and fetch water while he stays on bed and press phone. this has been going on for sometime. yet he claims he loves me. the worst of it all is he wakes me up in the middle of the night and ask for sex, when I refuse because I'm feeling sleepy and tell him in the morning. he will try to force himself on me, when he finds out I'm serious about the no.. that's how we will quarrel for the rest of the day and the next day.. he's so childish and self centered. Now, he invited Me again ,I came.. now I want to go back, he has refused.. my parents has been calling and I've told them I will be back tomorrow and he wants me to go against my parents wish. please advice me, what should I do?
is this love?
I forgot to add, he insults me and tells me awful words

My dear, anything in this life that doesn't give you peace of mind is not worth it, be it relationship or whatsoever. In years to come you'll be terribly mad at yourself for letting someone use you like a piece of shit. Make sure you leave that house tomorrow morning and as you're leaving never ever go back to that house again not for any reason because as you're leaving that house you're leaving that slavery you called relationship. believe me that nigga doesn't love you, and I'm saying this to you as a guy. I know how guys treat the ladies they love and the way that nigga is treating you is very far from it..

sunshineV:
U also shouldn't dish out nonsense. Use the internet wisely

Be cultured and be respectful! that's an advice. I'm done with you

Blindinglight:
the stock is far more better and detailed than infinix new release some users install gcam because Images shot with stock camera app are warmer while the images shot with GCam are cooler. Images shot with the stock camera app look more pleasing to the eyes while the images shot with GCam are closer to reality. HDR on stock camera app helps to bring more details but the HDR shots on GCam are much more detailed, thanks to the HDR+ on the GCam

okay

sunshineV:
GCam wasnt built for xiaomi device alone

Samsung, realme, oppo, Lenovo, LG etc all use GCam for better result

if you think all these phones uses GCam because their stock camera is bad u need to check yourself in in the nearest mental health care

Internet! Smh
So because of Gcam I should check into a mental health care?
Don't allow your love for trivialities make you lose your manners. Please be cultured!

Blindinglight:
if you buy DSTV NA ONLY SUPER SPORT YOU DEY WATCH

Your comparison is not in order.
Try again

xiaomi e-warriors will say it's because you're using transsion phone

I know say xiaomi people no go allow this thread rest..
the caption said infinix oo I wonder what they are doing here.
if xiaomi camera was good enough then what's the need for installing Gcam?

alosbaba007:
When you see a troll, you don't need to be told their behaviour must show.

We all know what we went tru with Infinix, Tecno, Gionee and Itel products those days, and for seeing the light now lets thank God.

No matter what anyone says Xiaomi has put a lot of smile and hope on millions of faces worldwide, even when hope was lost.

If Transsion releases a phone today the next thing you will hear is the camera and battery nothing else and if you google further all u will see is Quad-Core processor that's all as if the processor no get model nos. Not until few years ago before a full description of their soc are been updated on their website.

I have had my fair share of transsion products in the past and nothing will ever make me go back to them, let me give u some examples.

Infinix zero back then was an electric cooker on its own, fell one day face down and that was the end, less than 3 months use.

Infinix note 2, when i gt fed up with it smashed it up against a wall cos i couldnt even dash it out with its everlasting processing time, open an app phone go enter coma for 4-10mins, a phone that could not run mi switch the day my max1 arrived.

I once inserted a Sony 32G class10mmc, phone was telling me its 1G and my bb bold 10 was displaying the correct memory size for the mmc .

I pray many people see the light and know that these companies are trials and error

Av never seen anyone complain about camera glass affecting their device over a long period of time or due to scratches the lens could not produce good quality pics like when it was brand new.

My former transsion products rear camera glass scratches like say na iron sponge dem use wash am. Picture quality is zero after a few months, all these are enough reasons to think twice about a brand, same issue all the time, make we no even go near NO UPDATE PART that one na season film.

Ask urself why Xiaomi is among the top 5 phone manufacturers in the world, what position is Transsion holding currently, then come back to this thread for reasonable arguments, even realme that started yesterday self cannot be compared with Transsion products.

All this epistle on top wetin??

my fellow transsioners, when are receiving our own?

Paxie55:
You guys should just shut up. I'm sure you guys are less than 20years. What are you saying? Sidnt you see where she said the guy prefer to follow his friends around than find a career? Like you guys didn't see where she has asked him to look for something to do?
Can you guys saying this rubbish stay with a stingy male friend that always come to your house to feed and never contribute shi shi? Stupid comments all over here.

You're an idiot. I'm very sure that when I did my NYSC you were still in primary school..

Positivechick:
okay.

Relief yourself from this entitlement syndrome &
leave the guy alone! He doesn't owe you anything and he deserves someone that's not entitled like you..
Make your own money and spoil yourself the way you want so you won't have any reason to create this kind of thread again

Positivechick:
I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that .

Since you're working take care of yourself, He's neither your father nor your husband.
It's better you change the notion that someone you're dating owes you a financial responsibility.
Sister he doesn't owe you a dime.

Ariza:
I wonder who wouldn't respond with 'K' when you talk too much.

See epistle of Rants! All rants!

It's very easy to identify a girl that lacks basic respect..

thormeydey:
Am I missing something? Call recording as always been on my phone ooo

wetin be the name of this your font

arthorjnr:
Exactly.
The whole hype around the whole thing.
Was if fun? Yeah.
Did I enjoy it? Yeah.
Was it over rated? Definitely!!!!!

it's highly overated and to make my own case worse I don't usually feel anything exciting while having sex except when I'm about to cum

the first time I had sex I regretted it not for anything but just because I was expecting more, I couldn't believe that's just it. I thought there was more to sex than what I experienced..

is no longer xiaomi is now Samsung .. make una leave transsion alone oo
meanwhile infinix note 5 received Android 10 update months ago

EXLOVER:
I'm going through hell right now, I was very happy with my single status o, until world people begin disturb me say i need girlfriend, call me names, call me even stingy sef. I decided to go into a relationship, I love her so much and she love me too, we don't stay together, we see ourselves on few occasion, have never caught her cheating before, but anytime i imagine her cheating, my heart beats very fast, if i call her and it's showing call waiting, my heart beats very very faster.

My girl is very beautiful, like everybody wants her, there was a time we were walking together and one mature man saw us and said, guy is she your girlfriend? Hold her very tight o.

I'm a cheater, but whenever i do it, I'm not always happy with myself, I feel really bad and hurt inside, I'm doing it because I'm having the feeling my girlfriend is cheating.


I feel like ending the relationship, because I'm tired of all the heart beats and BP. I have tried quarreling several times with her, and won't call her, but she will call to apologize, my heart ❤️ will just melt.

God relationship of a thing is very hard abeg. Is any Guy going through this same shit?

it's torture being in love.. I've been there man! but I thank God for growth

I no dey blame buhari again, make them kill themselves .
they are fighting for allah

MhizJoyce:
Sadly some guys come here to type off point, when they ought to reason with the op and avoid stories that touch in the near future. Pussies!

80-85% of ladies cheat on their spouses. Unfortunately, many of them won't be caught, especially considering what the guy below me just said. SMH for some guys.

No mind them they'll learn the hard way..
especially those guys that are attacking the op here thinking that their gfs are faithful, they'll surely learn the hard way

op just try and understand him, maybe he's going through issues that you wouldn't know,maybe he's having mood swings. Take him out, shower him with gifts,call him on phone and talk to him heart to heart , visit him,try and win his heart , credit his account, you never can tell what he's passing through..


this would have been the advice our hypocritical Nigerian girls would have given if reverse was the case.
so op do the same

Carchoice:
If you have been with a lady that is so good and faithful and at a point in her life she tells you she's going for NYSC, send her a termination letter.

What you should know is that, no matter how faithful that your woman is, there's one OG that will bring her to her knees.

It's a pity a very good girl I admired so much suddenly gone bad, the way she carries her self; She's actually a lost corper I found in the streets of Lagos. Her man calls her on video everyday while I'm on the other side of the bed.

This morning I told her I will not touch her again. I'm done, I feel bad for my brother on the other end.


There's nothing like good girl or bad girl, it's all about home training and self respect. But konji is never part of the home training and self respect will be put aside for few minutes reboot.

My brother what you said is nothing but the truth..
I can remember when I was serving in one of the northern states, I met a friend very lovely & caring, with a good home training and above all she has the fear of God or maybe I assumed she did. she's from the west, I won't call her name because she's a nauralander too.
it happened that she had a fiance who's based in lag who always calls her every minute of the day to know how she's doing, he was forming Mr loverman that has a faithful girlfriend. So me and this girl started getting along very well and she will always use every opportunity to remind me how she'll never ever cheat on her man throughout her service year and I'll just smile and wave it off while in my mind I was busy drawing a plan for her, because I sincerely don't like it when a girl makes mouth unecesarily on how faithful she can be. So unlike other guys she met in camp I never bothered to ask her out or bring anything romantic Into our discussion and this was part of the plan to get her. infact I avoided any discussion that leads to that, so because of that I was a very good guy to her, I gained her trust in fact she became my best friend then. so it happened that anytime I receive a call from other female friends of mine that are corpers or when they visit me I could sense this jealousy in her but I ignored it shaa till a point it became obvious that she's been caught up, she's now madly in love with me then I knew it was the perfect time for me to strike.. mehn to cut the long story short this girl that swore heaven and Earth that she'll never cheat on her guy became my sexmate .. I bang this girl like tomorrow no dey while her fiance at the other end was madly in love . at some point I felt pity for the guy.
the morale of the story is that if your gf is going for services chances are that she must surely nak no matter how faithful you think she is, if you can't withstand this ugly truth better give her red card before she leaves for service.

this kind of news should stop making Front page.. we are no longer interested

Davash222:
Igbo people cannot stop doing good. It's in their DNA. I wish we the yorubas can learn from them.

I swear guy you like trouble

sexylassie2:
I don't argue with broke and frustrated boys.

You can cry me a river, you wont get any mention from me.

trying to get attention of someone who's only goal in life is to be a babymama.. you're very mad

sexylassie2:
That is so true...different rule for bekky, different rule for amaka

The way all these black boys worship white women, you will think white women are little gods without flaws

thrash! whatever that is coming from you is just thrash! whether right or wrong, as long as it's coming from you it is totally useless!
it's still better to be with a flawed white woman than an asshole like you!

ozile:
I stated dating this girl since last year, she is currently in 100level but I graduated last year, few days ago someone message me on fb that I should leave his girlfriend alon.
Wen I charted her up about the message she said that he was her else, that they still talk, so I ask if she still love the guy she said yes but the guy is dating someone else that she Brock up with him because he was double dating.
So I ask if she love me she said yes that if i claim I love her I should fight for the love.
So my question is can a girl love two different person.

oya nah go and join Boko Haram so Dem go train you for sambisa forest so you go dey fit to fight for the love..

all of you in that relationship are mad! I seriously doubt you're a graduate.

Henri8:
Wonderful. It's 8gig of Ram, 128gig of Rom.

mehn! the phone is massive

DONFRANSKID:
OPPO R11 4gb ram 64gb rom

okay ... I heard that their phone is always expensive