₦airaland Forum

blinking001:
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A- ant

Aktecco123:
gh

gh- ghana

dkdmy:
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R for rat

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

you really need not reply them .

FERNANDEZISBACK:
If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

you think wisdom is by age? See the nonsense you supporting .how on Earth should she accept such a useless proposal ..big betrayal to the family

Coolsperm:
Yoruba Muslims miscreants wants to bully the yourths

one of the foolish youth spotted..Reno is making real sense you dey here with your tribal ments

advanceDNA:
Read the first page...she said she wants to sleep with someone else and she doesn’t love the guy anymore..

it a wrong reason tho I don't support her breaking up with the guy for for nothing sake..but she sud break the convenant and stick him him

Giftlove11:
Nairalanders please, u people should help me on what to do.. I need help please
what should i do

you need spiritual counselling and deliverance at all. But you haven't really stated the reason why u want to leave him.

Giftlove11:
i've thought about it, but i'm still afraid if that would work without him, because even though a pastor pray for me am not sure if i can still make love with another person

all you need is Deliverance from any convenant .it depends on the pastor u go to..look for a deliverance pastor and leg him break it....it was a wrong choice you both doing that ...

Originalsly:
You wouldn't understand ..... a giver gives from the heart. He was moved to share money.... and that he did and kept it moving. But they can't use the money in prison. But they can give it to their family to help out. What will they do with the water?.... drink it all by themselves. Give water .... selfishness. Give money ... selflessness. You wouldn't understand.

who told you that they can't use the money in prison ? Abeg explain

osuofia2:
Staged, what they director of this staged scene failed to do was that he should have given them water instead of money

how will he pass the water to the inmate ? Can't u see that only when money being squeezed can pass through those irons ...it only a rare scenario which was captured in traffic by an ordinary Nigeria. nothing like staged here

Mercychen:
He tripped over the stair. It's a simple thing. He should have been more calculative and raised his foot a bit higher to avoid hitting it against the stair, knowing he was carrying something.

mercy

Mylordmygod1:
Crying and typing, we have already gone to meet the doctor who said it is going to be a two days work, and he said he we start the process in the evning.. He has collected her blood sample for test.. Even if i should keep it, the child might not be nomal because some blood have already rush out.. I need prayer

bros do scan first.the baby still dey healthy

ufotunang:
.... when

when the baby is born nau....leave the baby we go contribute in 5 month time.

GerraMeh74:
Make the move OP! Life is a risk, take am, finish what you have started, you should have done it earlier, but better later than never, pray about it God will see you through, you are honest with yourself because you know you can't take care of mother and child, carry on, God will see you through.

he should pray to God for a successful murder abi? You no get sense at all

Mylordmygod1:
i'm still young to cary a father responsibility, i won't be able to look after her

ops it too early to do that .tell her to keep the baby.you will be proud later.no worry about the money , it will be easy , we go support u for here

ThatFairGuy1:
Another angle just to rubbish Tinubu's ambition.
E no go work

Atiku/Tambowal must be Christians or Jew! See Hypocrisy

#BAT2023

suffer no dey tire you? For the sake of your hungry generation stop posting this old greedy tinubu here .pity your family

SmellySperm:
All these won't matter in heaven

Pls a good Samaritan residing in Lagos or pH should help me with accommodation for sometime mbok

I tot you said all these won't matter in heaven? why u come still dey find help on accommodation

Mercychen:
It's not a matter of being perfect. It's being careful.

Now tell me. Do you carry a cup of hot water the way you carry cold water? Ngwanu!

but no matter how careful one can be , accident happens ,beyond human control

Mercychen:
Nothing I hate more than clumsiness.

Couldn't he calculate his steps very well and tread carefully, knowing he was carrying something that fragile? Hian!

They'll have to higher a dummy cake to snap with.

oshey miss perfect

NovesaTillie:
I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.

he might be having some difficult time out there .just sit him down and ask him what wrong and how you can be of help..and put yourself in his position...men are humans like you..and whatever situation he might find himself it do not use it against him..find out what wrong and how you can be of help instead of feeling bad about it...Don't mind these broke nairaland guys telling you that you dating the lowest class of men ...most of time still dey live for their papa and mama house .if he's out of rent or broke do not judge him by that for tomorrow is a mystery.

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

this ops no mature at all. Why slap your wife and u proud to say it here.

ngoziwrites:
Thank you! These are exactly things I want to talk about. His and my plan. Our goals. Our interests. Our values etc.

But we just don't.....

ops 0.8.0.8.4.1.9.2.6.6.3. I think we really need to talk sometime.

pmoye:
This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.

Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.

I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.

The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.

Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.

If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.

Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.

Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.

very useless write up..... Is it a crime for the woman to hustle for herself and get rich ? Must they depend on on men?

Atticusxsz:
Biblically, animals do have spirits and there are verses in the scriptures to back up that claim.

wats the difference between a spirit and a soul

Candidlady:
so no afterlife for animals?

they weren't created in the image and likeness of God.they only have the breath of life

Candidlady:
so what do they have.!? Spirit/ghost?

none . Only humans have souls and spirits .

Candidlady:
iknow idont... Can you give me some of yours?



cant arrest you! Ionly pray/hope the souls of those animals torment you at night...

are you a petlover?¤please dont answer that, ialready know your answer¤

animals don't have souls

Atleast she for do small make up for face just to look beautiful before she start to cry....

BABANGBALI:
This guy’s prick go dey small but very thick

hmm general overseer

CuriousMynd:
A Nigerian man has revealed what she did to a lady whom he flew out of the country for a vacation in another country, Igbere TV reports.

On Twitter, the man identified as Mullah said he paid for the lady's flight and booked a hotel for them to stay in while they enjoy their vacation. However, when the said lady wouldn't sleep with him in the same bed, he had to fast forward the lady's return to the country.

Read the full gist;

https://twitter.com/MullahCo/status/1458896477523165185

What do you think about this whole situation?

but this hotel doesn't look expensive at all. The interior doesn't look fit inn just like the guy portrays himself to be ...abi na Ghana e dey