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duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

mind if we start up something serious?

jditimiya:
Someone should send me the link now, i beg you all in the name you know.

Bros if you use this same energy beg God for blessings I sure say you go don blow .

siofra:
It's not that easy. I've tried my dear, it's been four years now.

4 years ? Lemme help your faith sister .

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

ops cancel that wedding plans .if she can keep those secrets from you I wonder how many more she's keeping ...if a woman doesn't give u peace leave her .you are still a young guy. And beside stop patronizing babalawo give your life to Christ.

Greenarrow01:
We have taken drugs with no result
Pls what do you suggest

bring am come church..He need Jesus Christ to heal him.

Handsomejok:
I am not willing to give her away to a stranger outside the country. I will rather send her to a motherless home until her mother will be available to pick her up because her mother is alive she is just nowhere to be found and I can't make the decision on her behalf. Also my family has nothing to do with my downfall because I was doing well for 7 years before I got married everything was fine and if truly the bad luck was from my family then my business would have not been successful for that long.

ops u and those pastors are empty barrels .instead of u to pray and go to a deliverance church u there accusing an innocent child .

Handsomejok:
I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.

After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.

After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?

ops you just made the biggest mistake of your life accusing your wife and daughter of being a witch ..that pastor that accussed them aswelll is just an empty pastor without the spirit of God .if he accussed them already why didn't he delivered them and reconcile your family back .. all the happenings in your home is as a result of demon. Either u or ur wife is possessed or there is an idol in that family tomenting ur family.all u need was to go to a living church n get deliverrance.not accusing innocent people.

saphiere:
I've been a victim.
Exactly. Mine hid the camera. I was at his mercy for years. But God who knew my heart turned things around for me.
Long story my dear. He made me do some unthinkable things to prevent him leaking the video. I was really at his mercies.

I have a very long bitter story to tell my children.

share your story with us first dear

Ammishaddai:
It's official : SCOAN is now a family business. And very soon it will lose many members hence destroying labor of TB Joshua

see this idiot that can't even look in between his ass is talking.

RZArecta:
She gave you time to get your act together, start arranging yourself and by the time she graduates and serves within two years, sisi won't be on her mind again because she'll need stability. Congratulations to you guys in advance

ops no mind this guy o

Omooba77:
Why are we not seeing Miracles as of Old?

the ones you see you condemn and call names .same man of God Tbjoshua whom God has been using for decades you all call him names and condemned him till his last days . Now u here saying why is there no miracles ?

Christistruth00:
T B Joshua was an Unrepentant Witchdoctor who liked Posing as a Pastor to attract People to his Synagogue Shrine

It is best to forget everything he said

you are a disgrace to your parent .

BassReeves:
TB Joshua is the disgrace, with mental problem

your father should be ashamed of having a son like you

OgaTheTop2:
You are not the one I quoted nau. Don't scam me joor!

ha boss I not scam you oo. I just want make u extend the blessing reach my side too �

OgaTheTop2:
Really... That mofo can lie for a celebrity

Speed Darlington.. my nyansh

Some yeye celebrity can blow lies like rain.. We have people on Nairaland as we have on the streets. You can't just come and rubbish someone by telling lies and expect you won't be caught at it...

Speed Darlington... Jeez

Bro, send me your account number make I send you something far better to flex.. Don't mind that useless rapper

0799906329 access bank more blessing boss

NigeriaNawa:
TB Joshua the con artist ?

who for your entire generation fit do watin him don do.pig like u

Franking:
Was the conman not alive when a building collapsed and killed many people?

watin him don do your papa generation don do am before?

gasparpisciotta:
Deborah, Mother in Isreal, was also a judge. In fact the only female judge in the affairs of Isrealites.

But wait!!!!

What if all the things being said about TB Joshua using hidden audio and video devices to manipulate majority of his disciples are true?

It has been alleged that he deploys espionage to get firsthand information about visitors so that he can manipulate them

These guys are usually amazed about how he is able to know so much about them and without them knowing that he started spying on them right from their first time.

Unfortunately these victims don’t know this, but they go ahead to give testimonies of such “heavenly” encounters.

Emmanuel TV is therefore a tool to promote this propaganda.

What would Jesus do?

Na God go purnish that your gutter mouth ...

mistijude:
It's still a surprise to me why CAN,PFN and other big men of God have not sent their condolence message regarding his death till now!

they are all bunch of hypocrites...

GreenFarmsNG:
Okay


Death to all false prophets


People who have been intimately involved with TB Joshua [Temitope Balogun Joshua] in his cult community called The Synagogue church Of All Nations located in Ikotun-Egbe, Lagos, Nigeria are beginning to speak out and expose the evils behind the scenes of this known occultist who calls himself a prophet. People have actually spoken out previously against TB Joshua explaining how they were loured to his compound, sexually violated and spiritually manipulated eventually finding themselves on the floor of his church rotating uncontrollably, but unfortunately the Christian community ignored their warnings and many just didn’t believe them. There are several books in circulation currently, one written by Hephzi-bah Bisola Johnson describing how she was trapped through spiritual manipulation, hypnotism and brainwashing for over a decade by TB Joshua abandoning her own life to become his sex slave and servant. Her book details faked healings and other “miracles” fabricated by TB Joshua, and gives first hand insight of a life of secrecy and tricks that TB Joshua used to lure naive people looking for quick fixes and miracles into “spiritual terrorism” and occultism. She narrates how her and the other cult members lived, how they were systemically initiated into the dark world through deceit and were terrorized to swear into secrecy and complete allegiance to TB Joshua and his evil. Ms. Johnson’s book is a real eye opener of the dangers of following man-made religious groups and “pastor/prophet worship,” instead of obeying God and following “The Way” which is a life of absolute holiness and obedience to God.



What most Westerners don’t know about “Temitope Balogun“, born June 12 1963 is that he is really a Muslim, and his real name is Abdul fatai, [which actually means servant of god in Arabic] he renamed himself TB Joshua in efforts to “repackage” himself to make himself more acceptable to the Christian community targeting the Christians to sell his occultic ministry, in fact, his “church” began as an “interfaith” church of sorts with a confused, mixed doctrine of Jesus combined with a falsified version of Islamic beliefs, mixed with black magic but has gradually changed it’s narrative (on the surface) as TB Joshua was groomed into becoming a more appealing typical Pentecostal style pastor who learned to pass his demonic, dark art signs and wonders off as “the prophetic.” It is quite embarrassing how Westerners are so easily deceived and captivated by pulpit magic and deception which oftentimes causes spiritual death, family breakups, the loss of lives, livelihoods and money.



A British lady disclosed that she narrowly escaped from the trap of Joshua’s Synagogue Church For All Nations. She is now married and told the story on video in the presence of her husband how she cohabited with T.B. Joshua for several years traveling with him to various countries in her quest to receive his anointing through sex. Others have came forth with accusations of pedophilia, arranged orgies with children, child rape, abortions and sudden death of those who have left the compound and disclosed TB Joshua’s secrets. TB Joshua is well known in Nigeria but remains a mystery to most Westerners. Because Westerners are not as spiritual as they think they are, they are easily fooled by the tricks of TB Joshua and other church witches believing everything to be an “act of God” or “a miracle”. TB Joshua has been the suspect of many mysterious deaths ( sacrifices) in Nigeria and South Africa and has been taken to court on many occasions for statutory rape but has always escaped being charged due to the corrupt judicial system in Nigeria, he always bribed the the lawyers and judges and has never been held accountable for his wrongdoings.

seee as your stupidity full ground

Mekzmoney:
I just got a job last month and I've been invited for a job interview @ ZASHADU company tomorrow.. I applied as a factory supervisor but I saw executive assistant position in the email.

Please i wouldn't want to start taking permission from my company if I'm not sure about the company. I've checked and found out that they are into bags and clothes manufacturing.. Please can someone tell me more about them, especially their salary structure. ?

Plus, I need a mini flat around fadeyi, ojota, palmgroove, Gbagada and ikosi ketu axis and my budget is between 300k to 400k.. Please help a brother.

Thanks for your anticipated responses

ops have you gotten any response on the mini flat you requested for.?

Leonel52:
Can you direct me to a link to watch the video?

. I only have it on my phone..don't have links

That video na family matter o . Na papa and brothers dey flog the girl for their house . It happened in Nigeria and u can hear the girl begging the father in igbo

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

we're is ur location

davonlee:
For about 1-2 months, I've been experiencing rectal discharge (a lump above my anus which brings out bloody mucur), constant weakness and pain in my abdominal area. Initially, I thought it was a disease called Hemorrhoids, because the symptoms are exactly the same, and I never imagined this could happen to me. Two nights ago, my stool was filled with dark red blood; so I had to quickly inform my parents. They advised I go for a full scale test. To cut the story short, I've been diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. I really need your prayers.

please can me .0.8.1.7.5.4.6.3.6.9.0

dawnomike:
One of my friends is married to this man and I still wonder how she copes... Well, she speaks highly of him though

boss I sent you an email

MrPRevailer:
Mind your mouth you vain talker.

Did I ask for money or any material thing?

quilty conscience

MrPRevailer:
Moneyboyz

The God of Chosen is your ultimate solution. He has done it for many others whose properties could have been destroyed but God of Chosen intervened. Many miracles of such abound in Chosen.

My advice is contact me privately, I will give you my GO. Daddy's number. Call him and tell him your situation. He will pray a short prayer. And the angel of God will go to work on your behalf.

If you choose to take this step, you must decide that you will come to Chosen HQ and testify was God has done for you. Because you should not eat God's glory

scammorudeen

jesusjnr2020:
Okay. You weren't able able to finish the write up?

I didn't even reach 10 days, talk less of 40.

Thanks and God bless.

ops can I get ur Contact pls.neeed some advise

jesusjnr2020:
Okay. You weren't able able to finish the write up?

I didn't even reach 10 days, talk less of 40.

Thanks and God bless.

wow that wonderful.. wish to tap from your grace

jesusjnr2020:
After this fasting experience in the "wilderness", i found it impossible for me to even fast for 3 days dry. I could only do a 2 days dry for a long time until recently, even when I set out to do it for 3 days.

And this was under much suitable and convenient conditions, which showed that it was only God that had made it possible for me to be able to go for 8 full days or even 9 without taking food or water under those extreme conditions in the "wilderness.

Hence it wasn't by might nor by power but by the Spirit of God that I was able to accomplish that feat.

I also believe that it was also by the Spirit of God that those in the Bible days who were able to fast for forty days without water or food were able to do so.

God bless.


Modified:

I had to modify this comment because I thought it sufficed to say that after my fasting experience in the wilderness, I was able to achieve the greatest ever feat any man could achieve or has ever achieved on this Earth, which was to walk at the level of the Spirit where it was all about God, but alas, I was very wrong because many Christians could not even comprehend what that meant.

Some were even mocking that I had achieved absolutely nothing but just coming out naked and bony lol! Another even said that my fasting experience had no spiritual significance despite my clearly stating that spiritual achievement, hence I thought it was necessary that I took my time to expound on what walking at the level of the Spirit where it was all about God meant to God and also its benefits.

When I made to decision to begin walk at that level of the Spirit where it was all about God, which that fasting experience in the wilderness helped me achieve, I was just trying to love God, I believed He deserved that. But I didn't know that I was asking for serious trouble, because although God deserved such kind of love, God hardly get what He deserves despite having many who claim to be His servants, for they're not willing to give Him everything which He deserves but just whatever they liked.

So when God began to unleash blessings on me afterwards, I mean, it was quite scary. God had no reservations when He was blessing and rewarding me.

He had once said to me at the time, "I would show you, I would embarrass you" because of what I did for Him, so with all the blessings He began bombarding me with later on, He was just keeping true to His Word.

Wisdom

God blessed me with excess wisdom, many here in Nairaland have attested to that. It has been used to the confounding of several atheists here to the point that they couldn't gainsay or resist even as Jesus had said to His disciples. Luke 21:15.

It appeared still to have even assumed a different dimension last year when I was told that my time had come. There could be a connection between the rare degree of wisdom God has blessed me with and one name God calls me which is "Solomon".

Revelations

God blessed with an abundance of revelations, it made me write over thirty unpublished books with over thirty more pending. Even in Nairaland topics, God blessed me so much I can't simply keep up because I have hundreds of topics pending.

The greatest revelation one could ever receive from God, is the knowledge of His Word even that which was in the beginning which is Jesus. If the writings of all the apostles were anything to go by, only one of them was given that revelation even John the brother of James who was the only apostle that revealed that Jesus was the Word of God that was in the beginning with God. It wasn't a surprise that he was the closest to Jesus while He was here on Earth, and also the only apostle that proved impossible to kill!

That revelation of His Word, God also gave to me, and this made me to become one of the greatest threat to the works of Satan on planet Earth. Satan kept cofronting me afterwards even though I hadn't yet come out and was unknown to the world. He even offered me over a hundred million dollars not to preach that Word which was revealed to me. That made me understand the magnitude of threat that Word posed to him and his devices.

Protection

However in spite of the great threat I posed to Satan's works, he could do nothing to me, because God has blessed with the highest order of protection. The agents of Satan know me very well even though I haven't come out yet, being agents of the devil. But if any of them dare try to touch me, even if I don't pray for them to die as some do, that would be the end of the person, like someone who was struck down just one or two inches away from me on the street. Another "a chief of witches", a neighbor who died at about the same time I was fiercely attacked in the dream one particular day. Some others have been much wiser even though they knew the threat I posed, hence they didn't go that far regardless even they could see me, so as not to suffer a similar fate.

Last year I saw angel Michael descend from heaven saying "I'm here to protect you", and considering who angel Michael was, that shows that it's the highest level of protection I enjoy from God.

Power

God blessed me with power beyond measure, as He gave me the same measure of His Spirit that was on Jesus and His apostles. So every works Jesus did, i'd be able to do it and even greater works as He said, if the signs were anythings to go by, because the presence of God is so mighty upon me, I can hardly stand for long whenever I'm praying, and I could literally hear and feel the breeze of God breathing on me.

What's left is for me to unlock it fully by fasting as the Spirit of God revealed to me in December last year, and after I began to do that and fasted from last year into this year, a demon behind the depression and suicidal thoughts of a Nairalander got casted out in the month of January without me yet meeting her in person.

https://www.nairaland.com/6332975/how-fasting-helps-unlock-spiritual/2#98302344

That's only just a tip of the iceberg if what God revealed to me was anything to go by because another name He calls me is "miracle man".

Souls

Aside the souls that God has used me to bring several to salvation elsewhere, God has used me to bring several Nairalanders here back Him including an atheist here which many here know about after my first few months here in Nairaland.

Earlier this year, after a nairalander went through one of my threads she was literally crying out that night to God to forgive her for she had failed Him. She pmed me to let me know that my threads were so amazing, and asked me what she would do get herself back on track with God.

God was later thanking me for bringing her back to Him, but I was like, "you brought her back to Yourself, Lord!". But that's God for you, because He can only do what He's able to do if He has the kind of vessels that allow Him to showcase His ability, so whenever He has that, it means such a big deal to Him.

And those are just some of the instances of souls that God has used me to save here in Nairaland which I'm aware of.

But apart from saving souls, the extent to which the life of the Spirit i live and words I speak is able to inspire people to love God more and to have a deeper walk with Him, even though I was just trying to live a life that pleases Him is something beyond my comprehension. This is also true here in nairaland and some here could attest to this fact.

Not long ago, a friend of mine said to my greatest surprise, that he didn't even need to read the Bible to become so passionate for God and souls and to help the needy, but just looking at the example of my life was enough to inspire him to do so. This is someone God is using mightily to reach the unreached as shown in the collage below which he gave to me, for most if not all of those in the pictures apart from him were former pagans who became Christians because of his message.

Treasures Of The Earth

Last year, God told me He was going to give me the treasures of the Earth, and when that happens, those who really know me here would understand that I didn't get such by seeking it but His own Kingdom, righteousness and interest, so God added everything to me as He said in His Word. Matthew 6:33

So God is adding everything to me after i began to walk at the level of the Spirit where it was all about God, and I can remember once telling someone that God was giving me everything, and the response of the person who knew me very well was, "if someone gives God everything, God would also give the person everything" and that was so on point.

But it unfortunate that many Christians do not yet realize that truth, they give God crumbs yet expect God to give them quality or something better in return. It's only the kind of quality that you give to God that you should expect in return, hence Jesus said, "it's with the same measure you mete that it would be measure back to you." Matthew 4:8

The apostles and the Early church gave God everything, hence God gave them everything in return. The reason God has not given this church as much as He gave to the early church, is simply because they haven't given God close to how much the early church and the apostles gave to God.

If they had, God would have given them the same measure. The only reason God gave me the same measure as the apostles was because I gave Him the same measure they had given to God which is everything. Hence I'm one of those God's going to use to spearhead His final move on Earth.

God has not only blessed me beyond measure, but now God keeps telling me countless times that "you're a blessing!"

All these and many more which i wouldn't able to share now are the functions of the life of the Spirit I now lived where it's all about God. And that was what the fasting experience in the wilderness helped me to achieve, hence my sharing it here so it could inspire others to give God likewise.

God bless.

@op I appreciate God for grace upon you. I want ask you...how many days did you fast in the wilderness before God gave you this grace.did you finish the 40 days ?