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@ acidosis take it easy u dnt haf to be mean.

Am 22 and currently serving in Imo state. the problem i have right now is that i just can't keep a relationship and its really painful. my longest relationship lasted for just a year and two months. I fantasise alot about being happy with someone that luves and finally settling down but at this rate i don't knw what will become of me. a fwen of mine says its my fault i don't know why but i wish i had a guide book on these matters. i nid your adice pls, am also a very emotional person nd sometimes i feel like i act beore i think. currently i met someone buh he's presently abroad we talk about an average of once a week and hel be back by the end of the year.

@ poster dats some bad ish buh i do think u shld pay her off and secondly go for HIV test and check oda STDs since she wasn't sleeping wv just u. And please next tym use a condom as pregnancy shldn't be the only tin u wanna prevent.

@ poster have bin in sumfin like dah mine was worse cus even her clothes were in his closet and he knowingly shoed me some nasty nude pictures. i gess its tym for u to bounce dunno u buh i believe u deserve far better. I bounced and rite now am happier.

In a 3 month long distance relationship myself and we kinda cleared things up. he's in the US currently. We didn't put any restrictions on the relationship buh we communicate well enof cos i find dah trying to talk too much culd cause lots of issues. Am just praying dat evrytin works well. I guess everytin depends on ones determination

i think what you should do is to take it easy. dnt pursue to much. have you tried being her friend first? try it and check the results.

I am about to graduate and am thinking of going into fish farming but on a small scale cus i want to support myself. someone be kind enough to advice me