@ gree-die thanx, dat's an eye opener. He left for work and we didn't talk abt yday. Buh I guess he was a lot pissed cus he had to feed me and clear d alcohol and I fell sick, so he he had to watch me. Asked me why I still decided to frustrate him afta he promised to take kia of evrytin.am thinkn I shld wait for him to call so we cld talk. Do u think its ok?

Occupying myself wv stuff now; guess am just gonna give him as good as I get.

Yday evening was a bit messed up, I checked his fones and normally I wldn't do dat. Found wat I was lookn for and it wasn't funny. Am just gonna take it easy now; every1 is sayn be patient wv him, nd he's sayn dat I shld give him tym to sort out evrytin buh he still called d chick last nite. I got pretty angry and got drunk, dat made him mad at me cus he had to spoonfeed me cus I was too weak. Guess am takn it to far after all he ain't married to me. He's free to do what he wants. Thanx once again guyz.

Thanx for the love guys, I rily appreciate. Will deal wv stuff from now on...

[quote author=Konnektions146]i think u should concentrate on gettin a job, dont commit yur all int the relationship...hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
yu are still young and these are one of the experiences yu will add to yur CV. lmao.

so , Lady, remember he has been with yu and try to deal with the situation, more so, tell him to stop goin outside to pick calls as it wil increase yur level of discomfort wrt the ex's issues.

good luck[/quote. yeah will do dat asap.

I really nid advice am 23 yrs old currently tryna get a job. I have issues in my relationship: he's a nice person and very generous, I met him in Benin during one of his road shows and now we'r dating it's bin 4 months now. My issue is dat every girl he's bin with wants to come back; even his ex, girls at d office too. My heart does jumping jacks wen his phone rings and recently he's bin goin outside to pick his calls. I wanna walk away from it all today, cus I wanna be happy and not constantly thinkn if he's gonna leave me one day for any of dem. He keeps telln me to relax and not boda abt dose stuff and concentrate on building a relationship but I can't help being worried.I knw am his main girl but dat's no consolation at all. Nid advice from u guys before I makeup my mind.

Try and get him to compromise, don't try to change him because dat's who he is a buzy man. Don't always complain cus dat's nagging; a man who gets back from d office tired will definitely hate dat. Goodluck and don't throw him away...

Op pls mayb u shld go to her area, and call her to come meet u at a place; dat wld cut down d cost of cabfare. Let her order wat she wants, mayb go for a walk den say g'nite. Pls guys 7k is not a huge sum pls relax, not all girls her like dat. D first tym I spent tym wv my bf he pd my bike fare since we were both in GRA.I didn't judge him wv dat and rite now he steps up and does everytin he's supposed to.

My humble advice is to leave it alone, I don't think you should trail her. Everytin comes out in the end; seeing as u love her u mite just hurt urself. And sometimes things aren't always what dey seem

@ Poster, I think your friend should be horse-whipped. You shld neva confuse love and lust; am guessing the relationship you had wv bisoye was as empty as a well in harmattan season. Onome loved u buh my dear it's possible she's already crossed the thin line between love and hate, so move on. Next gurl u go out wv make sure u no her ows...

I can't say that I know how you feel, but I do think you should condition yourself enough to walk away. Someone out there love's even more than you love yourself. Like the song by backstreet boys Siberia; your heart has to do the time but eventually u'd have to get over it. Goodluck on dat Op...

@bukky dan it's obvious the poster is male *smh for somepple*...

Face your books, nd for the record gurls don't like cry babies.

Abeg who gave d OP admission into the university? Grammatical blunders everywhere..chai..

You lost me at ur first sentence..*hissing* as I go back to sleep.

3 days is emmmmm...na wah its a long time. If a guy's working and really busy he cld call once and mayb u'd call too. Buh I think u shld call wen u want...it's a free world

House pls I got a message from vitahealth pharmaceuticals for a test on friday pls wats d test format and deir pay like?

*passing thru*

@ Op forget him dear, 5 weeks is much too early, his sorry a.s.s doesn't deserve you.

I think its best pple find their way to diamond bank offices cus dis email of a thing, there's no confirmation dat any1 is writing the test yet

mr_prince: I Recieved a call from a friend of mine that works there! She only told me to send my full names, email addy, school, grade, and choice of venue. the Test is on the 1st of Dec. Its like they're not even accepting cvs this time around.

Pls was it ur friend u sent it to a mail related to d bank.

Cedoho@diamondbank.com not @diamond.com

Pls did anyone get a confirmation after sending the mail. It seems as if pple haf started preparing for d test.

Please would love to learn how to make sketches. How do I go about it? Just developed a love for it...thanks

Gurl maybe he's been thru alot.....i think u shld jez chill cus u deserve much better..i dnt knw u buh thats what i think. focus on the more important things in ur life now and mayb give oda guys a chance. i know how u feel and i can empathise.

Sad aye, guess he's not that into you. But i think you should just let things take their course. Besides what are your ages?

@ iice noted everything u sd tanx alot