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OriOko88:

Despite the huge number of sophisticated arms in the hands of civilians in the US, i have never heard a single case of soldiers and civilians clash over there. Wats the issue with our own army? Are they that idle that they now constitute nuisance everywhere?

Naso some army come harash one guy for my street on top girlfriend, when they saw how boys mount,dem use tactics japa. Very soon citizen go dey deal with army like we dey deal with police. They're gradually losing their prestige like the police. Cant they learn from US or UK army??

it's sad that after the hard military drills they are not taught how to be civil in dealing with civilians. Instead they dehumanize civilians at the slightest opportunity. I think their nonsensical licence to kill should be taken away and let me handle one of them man o'mano to see whether I'm truly a bloody civilian

superCleanworks:
they only have power hiding behind each other. worst set of cowards ever.

if i have the chance to punish such a fool, I will do something that will make every family sit up and watch their children to the point where they either kill that child by themself of hand him over to police before he puts them in trouble.
I will bring the cult fool in front of his family and make him watch as I behead his parents right in front of him.

tolexy007:
he is working and talking, do u have any problem with that?

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

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Nwaikpe:
May Israel totally obliterate Hamas and every muslim terrorist in this world. May Christian America rise to realize that their kids in college are being brainwashed to believe the propaganda of wicked Islamist. May they understand that the muslims are not only after Israel but also after Christian America and all Christians as well.

Anyone who is against the people of Saturday, will surely come after the people of Sunday too.


Totally Obliterate Hamas in Gaza and return Gaza to a serene community like that of Christians.


In the name of Allah I pray, Amin.









NB: Never come here to tell me how Jews hate Christians. I am safer with a wicked Jew than a kind muslim.

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LagosFirstSon:
The street in picture s named after a Yoruba man in Anambra state. As a Yoruba boy, I laugh when some tribal dumbos say that the Igbos hate Yoruba .

CP adeoye worked in Anambra and I watched him on Arise TV this morning speaks so passionately about Anambra and how the good people of Anambra showered him love and respect all through the period he worked in the state as police CP.

God bless Anambra state always

God bless the whole south east states

God bless the federal republic of Nigeria

God bless my brother and friend from another mother , his Excellency Mr Peter Obi.

Lisa290:
So who's son is he?

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God1000:
I pray for her safe return, maybe it's another case of hiding with one boyfriend.

IbeOkehie:
Fuel subsidy was not removed. The government is STILL paying subsidy on petrol and probably other fuels. Government simply raised prices.

Electricity was not privatized. Naira has NEVER been floated, not even once in Nigerian history. Government regulation of naira value translates to regulation of ALL PRICES in Nigeria. Regulation of prices suppresses productivity. Understand this and everything starts making sense. Yes, it's that simple.

Nigeria is a SOCIALIST country, that's why there's SCARCITY of fuel, forex, university education, electricity, gas and also rampant INFLATION.

Make una rest abeg. Government is still paying fuel subsidy. Scarcity will end when Nigerians start paying FULL PRICE for their fuel.

Good Luck to Nigeria.

NothingDoMe:
To deviate, since marketers are buying in bits, why do we still have so much dollar demand, resulting in the devaluation of the Naira?

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edogu:
This morning I went to a POS attendant to make a withdrawal and in the process she narrated to me how she was duped of N20,000.

According to her, a young man ( probably early 20s or less) approached her to make a withdrawal of N20,000. After inserting his ATM card into the POS machine, she returned the machine for him to insert his PIN. The transaction was successful with an inscription "withdrawal approved" written on the POS screen. At this point, there was nothing suspicious about the transaction. She counted the money and gave the young man.

How did she find out?

Well, when the young man left, another customer came to make a withdrawal using First Bank ATM, she discovered that there was no network. If that's the case, according to her, how then did the first person succed (the first person equally came with First bank ATM) when there's no network at all.

The above scenario prompted her to check her transaction history. Unfortunately, there was no trace of initial transaction (N20,000). Instead what she saw on the history was a message that the first person has exceeded his limit. Which means the transaction wasn't actually successful but the young man manipulated the machine to look so. At this point, the young man has gone to God knows where. May be to try his luck on another ignorant attendant.

According to woman, she has never had this kind of experience. There's no trace of withdrawal but the transaction was successful from the indication on the POS screen.

The guy even bought boxers worth N3000 from the attendant using the same money.

Here comes my question?
How was he able to maneuver or manipulate the POS machine for the " withdrawal approved" message to come up? Mehn, one really need to be careful especially in this difficult moment.