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Pearl05:
see enjoyment and you won't send some to your sister.

:Dtake one from there nah

tatacherie:
Yesso fancy wears for our cute babies
Longtime ma, trust you and family are well

We are good ma... Regards to ur cuties

Hot corn for the weather for all d pregg mamas

Hot corn for the weather

jenifer007:
Honestly let's call a spade a spade she wasn't wrong by slapping her....she is human.. Why do we see wives as a nobody in their matrimonial homes. The sister in law is just so spoilt and should be the one to apologize.If my brother's wife slapped my sis for bringing in a man to sleep with,I will make sure I also join my sister in law in giving my sister extra slaps so that her brain can reset to normal.

I am not saying peace should not reign but the sister in law must also be remorseful and ready to apologize... Making peace shouldn't be one sided.

Naso my sister..... If she apologize to d sister in-law that is not remorseful for what she did tomorrow she will do a bigger one oo... D sis in-law has no right to turn her house to ashwo joint.. When she marry let her family members turn her house to hotel that's her business. She must apologize to me first before I do chikena

tatacherie:
Baby gladiator sandals

I am in love with this sandals oo

Redrosely:
During schools holidays, hubby came arnd to see us at abj, I showed him d video of his cousin, thou I told him I felt she was acting up so as to go back to Jos, BT never d less we shd inform mother in-law n also go and make peace with everybdy too. So we travelled to Jos during d holidays, d environment was so tensed coupled with d fact that my marriage is inter tribal,so I don't understand their language n I n my sister in-law had a clash too, which was one of d reason's I came to explain my own side of d story and also show her d video of their cousin. My sisters, my hubby called for a meeting comprising of mother inlaw, her 2daughters, their cousin, hubby n myself. Hubby asked why d change in attitude towards his wife, everyone kept mute, he repeated himself agn b4 d eldest of his sisters spoke up, that eh... dia cousin told them that I do control my hubby, n I do stop him from giving them money, in fact so many things that I had no idea of. Naso hubby start the defend me oh, started asking his cousin y d lies n all that.This girl started saying a lot of things oh...dat her mission was to cause confusion n pains. That she is possessed n she was responsible 4my daughter's I'll health, bla bla bla.Plenty things I can't write here. I was just crying, BT I remembered I told my mother in-law that she hurt me badly, cos Even if she heard anything abt me, cudnt she ask me, I'm not dead now for Christ sake, BT she chose to believe every thing she heard. She started pleading, my sister in-law joined, BT d other one that I slapped did not say any thing. In fact till date, she doesn't talk to me.
My issue is this, after everything unfolded, I left their cousin with them n returned back without her. Mama took her for deliverance, after abt two months with them, she ran away from home at Jos, she was found after abt 9days, that is after d case has been reported to d police, cos she had no phone to contact her with. So mama took her pix going from house to house, asking her neighbors if anyone saw her, naso people start to abuse mama say e good as she run say they do maltreat her, dey don't feed her, DAT she do come to their houses to report d ill things d do to her n how d starve her for days. That they the neighbors av fed her countless times. Chai... mama head swell. Last last, d found her at a plateau state polytechnic guys house after 9days. Wen d brought her home she was discovered to b pregnant. Na there mama called me n started apologizing. BT d thing is I find it hard to let go. I just lock up nw, I still feel hurt. Lastly hubby is insisting I apologize to his sister that I slapped for peace to reign. Pls mothers I'm I wrong to refuse? I'm I wrong for withdrawing?

Mama u are a strong woman ooo this ur strong long oo but for that ur sis in-law don't apologize to her na she suppose apologize to u for bring in a man into ur home ....
Keep being strong dear.

maingwaest:
Amen o, same here, I thought by now the way water phase would have passed but for where. The Lord ll see you us through.

Amen ooooo welcome to team December... Drop ur EDD so u will be added to team December list

Limahgirl:
Thank you ma. They gave me injection not to feel pain but e no work. I don't know for others that have experienced it before o but for me sincerely it was painful than labour pain.

Congrats on d birth of ur baby..
For d stitches sit on warm water with dettol in it regularly..
Always sit on a wooden/ kitchen chair nd close ur legs properly
U can be using baby wipes to clean when u pee or poo
Endure na small time u will be fine ... All na d joy of motherhood.

Dec mamas how are we doing? My laziness these days no be here ooo.. To eat na wahala.. I even dey force myself to drink water...
God will make it easy for us ooo.. Amen

Joyfulgal:
please how was the vegetable prepared?

Put ur groundnut oil or palm oil for frying pan
add little seasoning cube nd salt add onions turn them properly
then add ur vegetables and turn then together... if it starts changing colour bring it down... It is ready. Hope this helps?
U can add pepper and liver or crayfish if u want

miraclebaby:
Sure say no be twins? At 15 weeks I was still flat. Keep rocking your bump, nothing do you

I pray make e be twins ooo so I will hang boot
We go dey slay nah thanks

Trippleblessing:
cute bump. you shall carry to term and safe delivery in Jesus name.



Awesomemrs come and see my type of bump oooo

Amen ooo
Thanks mama

White rice and tomato stew with ugu

Deeedeee:
I don come again mummies...

I am 19 weeks + but I notice I av been having constipation for like three days now. I just dey poo watery poo a.k.a igbe sisan

Is it part of the package for 19 week pregnancy

Pls help me answer...
#firsttimemum #teamnovember #supernaturalbirthgang

Check what u are eating.

Is a bumpy Tuesday something!!!!!!
Team December mamas how una dey ooo?
Us this morning @ 15weeks

Pix taken down

nicoleswizzi:
Hello mamas, Hope everyone is fine, to the glory of God am back for my 2nd journey after my baby in 2017, and 2 losses in btwn... now 12weeks+ I give God all the glory. Team Jan 8, 2021. Hope am welcome.

See my teamie that year ooo. Welcome back and smooth pregnancy journey

@miraclebaby congrats ooo this ur. BS just dey totori me for body ooo
Labor is not a child's play at all.. God bless you and our handsome Prince.

katchycouture:
I sure will, as for the headache I think you should rest well and avoid stress, we will definitely meet to rejoice in December..

December with cute cute babies ooo
I can't wait ooo it is doing me like Dec is next two months sef

4realwoman:
both of us are positive. The whole thing started 3days after he was born, they discovered the jaundice and he was put under the light and after few day we were discharged and ask to come back 2days later for follow up test which we did and it went back up to 16 and he was placed under the light again before we were discharge again and ask to come back for another follow up it then went back from 9 to 11but the private hospital felt it was nothing to worry about but people around us keep saying it's not go to circumcise him when the jaundice is still in his body which made us to carry out jaundice test to check the level so that we can circumcise him only for the result to come back 18 you needed to see me that as I was just crying, someone directed us to one general hospital on Abraham Adesunya Maternity and Child center, that was how we rushed to the place and they had to redo the test which came back 11. N his PCV was 31 and the Dr gave us antibiotics to use for one week and see them again in a week time.
I went back on Tuesday to see the Dr and the same test was carried out but according to the Dr's the jaundice is nothing to worry about as he has passed the danger stage and it will clear with time but their major concern is his blood level for his again is low which made them to admit us that Tuesday to give him blood and we were discharged yesterday.
His ward was on the 3rd floor and I kept on going up and down now as I am typing now all my body is seriously paining me and yet my breast milk is not flowing the way I want it to flow and I have used everything usable like cookies, palm wine, breast milk granola that am yet to use still nothing.
It making me feel bad as if I am seriously failing my son.
Missing my MIL badly, can't wait for her to come and pamper me.

It is well mama..I have experience this jaundice matter with my first child .. It was not easy then but God saw us through it all. Did u try that pawpaw therapy? U can ask on newborn thread for solutions too.
It is d stress that is making ur breast milk not to flow well, don't feel bad about it u are a wonderful mum to him already it is not easy to carry him for 9 months.. Kisses joor u are trying oo once u relax now ur breast milk will be rushing like tap

katchycouture:
Good morning my sister, yes I am monitoring my BP very well, intact at the antenatal yesterday they recorded 130/90 as my BP and I refused and asked for a recheck, it was the same thing even when I was also checked at the doctor's office it was 120/80 so the doctor encouraged my to continue with aldomet, but when I got hom I started getting 160/110, 150/100 so I have agreed with dh to change my BP machine, hopefully it is my BP machine that is faulty. I also developed fever like symptoms since Monday except for cold, I have pain inside my head, inside my eyes and all that sick feeling, I tested for maleria and it came out positive so I have been placed on antimalarial and amoxil.
I also feel plenty pain in my lower abdomen, several scans and doctor has said they can't detect any problems or reason for the pain, the pain is exacy how it used to be when I am 7months pregnant. Intact one scan said baby wasn't developing well but the doctor said it is caused by the plenty drugs I have been taking.
Sorry for the long story but it feels good bare it all out. Hope you are good too?

Don't worry sis u will be fine las las.. Tell God ur worries and pains and allow HIM do HIS work.. Am good just feeling headache since this week oo especially whenever am stress and did not sleep in d afternoon.
Take care

@katchycouture hope u are doing better now... Hope u are still monitoring d bp?
Good morning

whyworryPH:
BS BS
Long post alert!

I want to first of all thank Almighty God for granting me safe delivery. I say a big thank you Jesus!
I was placed on BP drugs because I developed HPB 7 months after giving birth to my son in Nov 2018. Some days in this pregnancy, the BP will be very high even while I was still on medication. But it later normalised to the point that I was getting readings of 110/70 and the rest on consistent basis.

I also had coexisting fibroids which I had always had with my previous pregnancies. Well, we managed and pulled through until I got to about 37 weeks then I became sick. I treated malaria no way. Went to the hospital and they gave me another dose, yet I wasn't myself. Couldn't breathe well and was always tired.

That was when village people decided to manipulate my digital BP monitor to work against me. It would give me 160/110 but when I rush to the hospital, the hospital manual and digital will give me normal reading.

Anyway, at 38 wks appointment, I complained of the headache I was having to the Obs/Gyn consultant and he said we should go for CS at 39 weeks. That the headache at that stage wasn't a good sign. And that baby was too big coupled with the fibroids. We agreed and picked a date.

Our HMO was contacted and code for payment was sent. But as the date approached, I thought of how to cope after CS with no one to help but hubby. My sweet mother-in-law has been sick and in another state. And I already have a 19 months toddler to handle. I told hubby I would like to wait till 40 weeks since my boy's labour started exactly when I turned 40wks.

I ran scan to check baby's weight and it was 3.6kg at 39 weeks plus. The fibroids were still little and same as when I had my boy vaginally. And so with no headache and HBP, I made up my mind to wait till 40 weeks.

Exactly on 16th, which was the real date my LMP gave me as due date (40wks), my water broke. This was around 6:30pm. I got up from the chair and noticed that I was dripping fluid. After about 30 minutes, cramps set in. It was coming in quick succession but nothing unbearable. But since the water had broken, I thought the labour might not take time so we concluded that it would be safer to head straight to the hospital.

I got there, was checked and I was only 3cm. After about 3 hours, I was at 4cm. Then the main pain started creeping in. The doc on duty told me that I could try vaginal delivery since I had given birth before. But that the consultant said I wasn't to be induced cos of my condition.

That was how I laboured and yet I wasn't progressing. They later took me to the labour room around 4am. The pains were now more intense yet, I was stuck. Then at about 10 am, I got to 6-7cm. By then, the contraction was crazy. It was like the baby wanted to push both my anus and abdomen out at the same time. I was writhing in pain. My BP was just going up and down.

They called the consultant again and he told them to add oxytocin in a certain quantity to the drip to augment the contraction. I started having back to back hellish contraction with baby stuck at 8cm. I was screaming down the hospital and asking for CS, but those midwives and nurses were busy pointing out that I ran away when I was supposed to come for the CS, and that having gotten to 8cm, they wouldn't let me go for it again.

My sisters, I was already dying, they would choke hand to check and I would still be at 8cm. They would say that baby was definitely more than that 3.6kg scan gave me and must be the reason baby was no longer descending.

The matron even said I should push at that 8cm that they could reach my baby's head just that it's a little high. I stupidly started pushing but for where. Thinking of it now, that was a stupid and costly thing she asked me to do cos I could have torn my uterus which would have been a more serious case. They just didn't want me to go through CS after the long hours of labour.

I was crying and begging them to call the gynea to come and do the CS, and they kept urging me to wait. I called for my husband but they wouldn't let him in. God then sent another doc in who is familiar with me and he was the one that mentioned that it was risky asking me to push at the stage since baby's head wasn't where it ought to be before I could be asked to push. He called it one medical term like that.

Before he came in, the MD of the hospital had already come in to ask if everything was alright cos I was really screaming. They wanted to dismiss him by telling him that there was no problem. But I called out to him and asked him to pls call the doc for CS. He then started making arrangement for another doc to come and do it since the consultant they usually use said he was in a meeting.

So after my friendly doc came and admonished the midwives, about 20 minutes later, the team for the CS landed.
The guy administering the anesthetic was very proactive. He gave me the first shot at my back but the thing didn't enter. They were already rushing to cut me to get baby out but I felt the pain which was why they repeated the shot. My abdomen down to my legs then became numb. The other doc then cut me and brought out the baby. I was numbed, but I was still feeling the pains kind of.

I was feeling what they were doing to the point that I grabbed the hands of the doc and his assistant to yank off but they stopped me. Mehn, CS no easy at all!
I was screaming in a tired voice: "So this is how CS is". I was asking them to stop that I was dying. They brought oxygen and fixed to my nose. I overheard the doc carrying out the surgery telling the other guy that he removed a fibroid.

At that point, the guy that administered the anesthetics was calling for blood and they brought one which he quickly warmed up and gave me through the line he had already set up. That guy was so proactive and knew his job. It was like he knew what he was doing more than the main guy that carried out the CS sef.

After everything, they stitched me up and wheeled me to the recovery room. And guess what? Baby's weight was really 3.6kg. I was told that serious cord held the baby which was probably why she wasn't descending beyond 8cm. That she was already turning blue when she was brought out. Had I wasted another minute pushing, the story would have been different. God forbid!

The nurses now started coming back to shine teeth after they almost allowed me to die just because according to them, I ran away from CS by not coming when I was booked initially.

Me, I gave it to them o. You don't know my reason for waiting till 40 weeks. My mother in law who is usually my backbone after delivery has been sick. If not that I have an exceptional husband, who else would have helped me after the CS?

My elder sister is good with cooking and stuffing me with food, but she is so fearful of new born babies and can't bathe them ( I was the one that handled hers for her).

If I was running away like the nurses said, I wouldn't have come back to the same hospital nah. I wouldn't have given our HMO the go ahead to approve payment ahead of the planned CS. If baby had descended to 10cm I would have pushed her out. Highest I will end up with tear.

And when you call the nurses to help you clean or feed baby formula, the young ones among them will be pointing out how it wasn't their job to do so. Being dependent on ppl is one other major reason ppl like me run away from CS.

I was told the CS procedure was a little above 3 hours.

Anyway, in everything, I give God all the glory and I have more respect for women whether you gave birth vaginally or through CS. None is easy having gone through both, and my prayer is that at the end of the day, all of you will be rewarded with carrying your 9 months package with no loss recorded.

To our GTC mothers, you are next in line for a miracle.
May the journey be easier for the rest of the pushing mamas. Forgive me for the long post.

BS submitted!

Congrats mama... God is too faithful to fail HIS children... Quick recovery dear..
Don't mind some nurses with their mouth.. Am happy that u and baby are alive ooo that cord matter have killed so many babies.

iamhistreasure:
Goodevening mama's,went for antenatal today and was given paludrine as part of my drugs.Please is it safe?I'm just 9weeks

It is antimalarial. Very safe during d first trimester. That's d only antimalarial drug that I was allowed to take during my first trimester.

Today is Bumpy Tuesday ooo
Where are our big belle mamas come out and show ur modeling positions oo

LoveofGod2much:
Oya oooo, come eat Abacha Enugu state, Abacha Awgu with akidi.

Chai! I missed akidi inside abacha ... My grandma always prepares it for me whenever I visit her.. so sad she can't enter d kitchen again( old age)

angeltolly:
Yam and fried egg for breakfast

Send that my plate with d yam in it come this side biko

19CannyMum:
Really a wonderful lockdown lol. Make we dey enjoy our journey dey go jare.

Naso ooo
Thumbs up��

19CannyMum:
You can be our cappo

See my teamie that year is back ooo
This corona virus lockdown do wonders oo
Enjoy d ride sis

Pearl05:
Huh! You follow dey call me HOD kpekus ministry? Me that is good shild, a virgin mother like me? It's well ooo.
We are doing fine by God's grace and back for another missionary journey. Vision October 2020.



Are you back ? I can smell team December December around you.

we know your qualifications nah
_{Who throw me slippers}

TEAM DECEMBER 2020 JUNE ROLL CALL
Teamies how are we doing?
I welcome everyone into our second trimester.. Enjoy d honeymoon stage oo be giving dh better oza room service back to back as your strength can carry you oo

If you never register for antenatal this is d time to do that so you will be checked and monitored oo we went healthy babies ooo... We need to be taking our drugs regularly no skipping ooo, drink enough water and eat fruits and vegetables for your blood levels oo
I know some of us are showing already biko enjoy d privileges it is not easy to carry belle
Those with toddlers abeg try and get some rest no matter how d make d house busy all d time ( speaking from experience oo)
Let's drop our EDD and gender....
For the new mamas if you have any questions pls feel free and drop it here... We have sabi/ experience mamas here.
Pls teamies come and answer roll call so we will know u are doing great.

S/N NAMES ___________ EDD ___________ SEX
01. sunbestie -------------------- 23rd Dec
02. Zino89 ------------------------ 26th Dec
03. Katchycouture ------------ 26th Dec
04. babsjummy
05. ifeoluwatoyin2
06. tmac4eva ------------------ 19th Dec
07. tyreal
08. kunmisola ---------------- 21st Dec
09. blessedmum11
10. lolaymary ------------------ 16th Dec
11. Rosemariefavour
12. charytea -------------------- 5th Dec
13. funkydoll -------------------1st Dec
14. Saheed69 ----------------- 31st Dec
15. mzbrown ------------------ 13th Dec
16. thowobee ----------------- 5th Dec

We pray for a smooth pregnancy journey and it must surely end in praise
Other team December mamas that are peeping abeg come out and identify with ur team members ooo
#Teamsharpsharpdelivery
#Team Xmas babies for d wins
#Team shakara mummies

thowobee:
I am here edd 5/12

Welcome mama.. Edd noted