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Please pay more attention to the details, body and language of the letter. The perm sec is only acting on directives and not on his own powers or volition.

@misshipy88,

From ur post I can deduce this is a recent developement, now, if sex or lovemaking was great wt ur hubby before recently, then pls check well, something has gone wrong.

if ur hubby was all excited and ready to go the whole length wt u before now, again something went south somewhere.

Thid is not a case of ur hubby cheating on u wt a certain strange gal or woman but in ur own observation and words, he wld rather masturbate than sleep wt u.

please, pride and jokes aside, u need to talk to ur hubby, up ur bedroom game the brst ways u can and understand that u might need to make sacrifices and necessary adjustments to accommodate ur hubby's libido.

Lastly, if u were in the habit of complaining and whinning whenever ur hubby makes the move, u might need to av a rethink as this hurts most men and with some men, that cld get them to that point where they wld favour that preference against the hassles of convincing their spouse
for a go.

Masturbation is an act not alien to men and most of the men dropping some of the holier than thou comments here are probably the worst hit so pls, in ur own interest filter the responses u get here and work towards regaining ur man the best ways oossible and save ur marriage in time.

Good luck.

I dont get this, a wife prepares a meal for her hubby who apparently was either returning from or embarking on a journey as the narrative suggests, the husband is to stop by, have the meal and proceed to whereever.

The hubby stops by, has the meal as expected and washes the meal down with the only cold water he found in the cooler and the wife is upset with that?

My questions are:

(1) Shouldn't the wife make provision for a cold satchet of water at least for her hubby to go with the food?

(2) How was the hubby to know the water wasnt meant for him?

(3) Which is more difficult, preparing the food or sending for additional satchet of water for her hubby?

Folks, in my opinion, it all boils down to laziness, disrespect and gross nonchalance and may also suggest how much regards she has for her hubby.

Little wonder why the man left in such a manner and now we are surprisingly here aportioning blames.

Na wa for today's world ooo, with all the ill innovations in today's excuse of marriages.

@delta007
U cldn't say it any better, very concise, straight to the point and comprehensive.

Thumbs up.

Its not a photoshop, its a reality and one of the decors at the Toronto's Pearson airport in Missisauga, Ontario, Canada.

Superrich:
That pile is one of the decorations at the Toronto Pearson airpot in Missisauga, Ontario, Canada.
its there for the admiration of all and like you've seen in the picture of there, anyone including you can also pose for photos there.

Its not a photoshop, its a reality and one of the decors at the Toronto's Pearson airport in Missisauga, Ontario, Canada.

That pile is one of the decorations at the Toronto Pearson airpot in Missisauga, Ontario, Canada.

its there for the admiration of all and like you've seen in the picture of there, anyone including you can also pose for photos there.

In the Aniocha/Oshimili areas of Delta state, Nigeria particularly and probably other areas of the state and other igbo cultures, it is a common practice to find their dead buried with their heads inwards and their legs to the door or outwards.

It is generally believed that that burial pattern ensures the spirit of the dead stays out and not roam about in the house or within the household.

I cannot support this line of belief with any emperical proof but this has been the practice in these areas for as long as I know.

I have particularly noticed this pattern in all the burials I have withnessed in these areas and have cause to believe there must be good reasons for that.