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[quote author=Oluwaseun2020 post=96739797][/quote]I'm ready

Stefenijoan002:
just try n not be alone .stay with people n try hard not to pounder over it though I know is not going to be easy but you have to try coz of your own sanity.okay see it from this perspective since I've been thinking has it med the broken pieces inside of me ?has she come back to me ?I'm I doing myself any good ? Lastly see her like someone who's no longer in this world .I'm sure when you reflect on these you'll loosen up a bit .I know it's not easy coz a lot of us has pass thru it n we survived so I'm certain you too will .stay strong .

Thank you alot

osazsky:
some guys ehn..how u go friend person for 6 years without seeing her parents if it was actually something serious..6 good years ..are u her parents

6yrs includes while still in school, nysc... Her parents know me and mine knows her too.. had plan to set things right next year.... Because of all that happened this year

Nazgul:
Suicide what....don't say that again. You want to kill yourself over a woman who has made it crystal clear that it's over between you too. Haba don't say that again.

One of the best way to make your ex regret leaving you is to work hard and attain massive success. She would sit in agony and regret why she left you. So begin your journey to the top, and forget about her. When you get to the top everyone including her would celebrate your success.

Good luck

You gave me hope. Thanks alot. I'm glad I opened up

Truvel:
If U Understand My Comment, U Will Know I Don't Mean Dat. I Don't Av Dis Mindset Dat She Can't Be Replaced Anyone.

Thanks alot I'm sorry if I took u out of context

Shortyy:
Woah Six good years.

How can I mean nothing to her after those years

chinchonglee:
Ahh!
So cheating makes you feel guilty?
Ahh!

It was my only offense

Henryfour:
guy wen my own hppended I wanted to die. Cuz I dated her for 6yrs.pay her school fees. Buh since I relocated to Lag, I met Gr8 gals, who are working and I v seen a gal 1000 times betta Dan her. I'm now happy. Get busy n tink of all thinks u hate abt her. I now see her as notin na God I dey greet for making her to leave me

Thanks alot

chinchonglee:
What's the reason for the breakup at first..
From there I'll know how to advice

Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

SmellySperm:
good for u,wen we advise y'all simps that there's nothing like true love anymore y'all will tag us redpillers..
nothing like true love anymore, everyone is in a relationship for a beneficial reason, fall in love at ur own peril

Don't believe this.

BBL3691:
With time you will definitely get over her unless you willingly commit suicide.
These following points can help you get over her.
1. Morning exercise. Do exercise every morning and the result will surprise you. You will be lifted from worry, anxiety, boredom and unnecessary depression.
2. Try as much as possible to think about her negative lifestyles. Never focus your mind on her positive attitude. Consider the money and time you spent on her as unplanned sacrifice. That way she appears totally replaceable.
3. Socialise. Mingle with new friends, watch game (football), soccer hall can be your second home for the maintime but I don't encourage you to bet ooo except at your discretion.
4. You can survive the world without her. In fact you can survive the world without majority of the so called irreplaceable ones around you. So give yourself time and don't rush to have new girlfriend yet but just be friendly with people that way your social life will improve.
5. Dress handsomely. Good appearance Cannot be over emphasised. Ladies and people generally can't resist good looking guys except your character
6. Hope you have source of income. That way you are independent. Then be sure your heartbreak is just for a moment

You have been indeed helpful, I am really grateful for this.. I will give it a try. Thanks ones again

Usorohtheman:
Bros, u need to cry small oooo. Then after that, you lock up. Gold wey don lost for inside ocean don lost. Call your guys, make una go drink. You go cheer up.

That's the point brother. I really don't have friends in Lagos that we are that close. And the few times I drank made the whole thing worse I was force to start bugging her lines....

Nazgul:
Get busy, one of the ways to get over a heartbreak is to engage in other gainful activities that would take your time. Be happy, stay positive, talk to friends and family members who mean so much to you and believe me you'll get over it.

Thanks alot, I even sleep at work. Just to be with those working at night . Because staying at home is making me suicidal

Truvel:
U Can Survive Heartbreak If U Av Dis Mentality Dat Says "The Beautiful Ones Are Yet To Be Born"

I didn't fall in love with beauty. She was just an understanding type.

Twelfthman:
U go dey alright las las.
Everyone at some point experience different heartbreaking situation. U not the first and won't be the last. Nobody can really help you except you help yourself o.
Goodluck

Every waking day seems like it just happened the previous day, that's my fear

Mood11:
Oh dear

So sorry for your heartbreak.
It's hard to just move on especially if you really loved the person..

Give it time.
Time heals all wounds.

And you will find happiness again.

Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

falcon01:
well well well look who woke up, urmm you just have to pack those broken heart and make them into something beautiful.

How do I start doing that thanks for your response

Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

I have cried and still crying.....
Na me cheat, na me confess, na me dey cry...


I really don't know if it's a sign of weakness but believe me, I cry basically everyday begging her not to leave me but everyday is always worse than the previous. I no even know when I go stop to dey cry self....

So yes, I cry for a girl I love. Because I cheated on her. But wait, how can you cheat on a girl you say you love?

EyezofGod120:
leycon fans are like Edo people,,dem sabi vote

E must togba

Ozo no just normal... Abeg love who love you o

Officer woos

And we no see Magu pictures

My brother etokhana, from the central if etsako I guess.. I greet you...

genius43:
Change of clothes

ebuka be like member of the Night of saint molumba

Omoh, I no fit forget o.. I woke and my girl was by my side only to think I was already in the bathing room, I brought out the guy and faced the tv on the floor. Na my babe slap the guy if not I for discharge there... Shayoo na bastard last last o....

Another day it was almost raining I had to leave my house to tell my friend in his own house that it's about to rain. And the rain caught me there....

Lucy na character

Timoleon:
This agent na legend! His courage and optimism is outta dis world. To want to rent an empty land out? Damn!

My brother he was so confident

I was in the office jejeli, when the agent called that he has seen the best house for me!! I was very happy and rushed down to meet him up so that we go check it out, you won't believe on getting there, he showed my to an empty land close to the landlord building, he say if u pay now, before 1month them don build am finish, he went further by saying I can even decide to give them the plan I need for the bedsitter.. My people I weak dat day

Same thing here! Really dont know what to prepare for

you are not serious for saying only!!!! is the pedestrian bridge in front of federal polytechnic auchi a pedestrian road?
u just post anyhow! see person wen I be dey like e post self! he no go edo, he dey make noise

tosins:
Lol, heard they are GNLD

another scam of a job!!! na dem know jare!! all the same thanks