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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Shortyy(f): 7:57pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Woah Six good years. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:09pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
chinchonglee: It was my only offense 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:10pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Shortyy: How can I mean nothing to her after those years |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:11pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Truvel: Thanks alot I'm sorry if I took u out of context |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:12pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Nazgul: You gave me hope. Thanks alot. I'm glad I opened up 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Bigggloadofcum: 10:12pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Just wake up every morning then scream FVCK Y'ALL BITCHES. It works magic. Trust me 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by TooMuchStuff: 10:13pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Hope you awarded her a PhD Thought you said 6weeks sef..... But 6yrs too long naaaa. Habaaaa 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by osazsky(m): 10:13pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona:some guys ehn..how u go friend person for 6 years without seeing her parents if it was actually something serious..6 good years ..are u her parents 7 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chukwuibuipob: 10:13pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by hustla(m): 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: Leave the area or travel to another state Get another babe, even if na friend and make new friends This is what happens when you make someone the center of your all You be spec, never forget 8 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by GreenSignet: 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: Occupy yourself with work 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by DontTradeUrSoul: 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
When we advise youths to abstain from premarital sex, Satanists masquerading on NL would try to water down Spirituality of Sex as nonsense so that Demons that enslaved and controls them would still have more careless souls to feed on. Guy below, if you are not too proud, shy or self-deceptive to tell the Truth about how it started, I will tell you the solution that I discovered after 18 Solid years of passing through this wicked self entrapped Punishment. I did several HIV tests which always came out Negative, at a point I wished they should just tell be I have it so that I could start AntiRetroviral. My Problem started in 1999 when I had sex with a particular girl that has been used and demonized by her Alhaji Sugar Daddy. I thank God for finally giving me Freedom from the Energy sapping Demonic Sickness in 2018. It was hell living with what Medical Authorities acknowledge they don't even understand, they say it is too strange and can never be cured, they term it CFS: Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. I always almost shed tears whenever I look back at wasted years sleeping unnecessarily because of unexplainable tiredness, almost a whole wasted Lifetime. I thank God that I'm now fully a normal Human Being once again! Such a good feeling to truly be and feel fully alive! Now, tell me the girl you had Sex with that passed it to you, I will never reveal to you how to be permanently Free from it unless you reveal this. CaptainZubi: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Dailyhappenings: 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Just kiss one huge transformer near you or put yourself together and move on...pick one... Start a business without capital...here's how https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZcGLzsThUM 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Lawliet(f): 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Wetin cause the heartbreak first ? Before I start to give advice epistles |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Radicalface: 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by sokkatua: 10:15pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
[quote author=surebona post=96700014]Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful Get another woman and shift your focus to making money 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Martinez39s(m): 10:15pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona:Why did she leave you? |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Yoshy: 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
I'm sorry, stay strong...time heal all wounds 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Chessg(m): 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: The way to survive is to go ashawo joint cary daybreak and Bleep, Bleep and till you cum tomorrow you go chop white soup with ur one bor case close (shikina) 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by mekaboy(m): 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: This is a great opportunity. Are there things u need to do to improve your life but you have been procrastinating? Channel this negative energy to self improvement. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by hustla(m): 10:17pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: Go out na Social media week dey there, hang out, church programmes etc Your own no fit worse reach my own sha, I lean soteyyy Las Las na who no get money or options heart break dey do 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by JoeEeL(m): 10:17pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Talking from experience, it can be really difficult. Really really difficult. Many people usually advise to engage in other things; I remember in my own case some yrs ago. Even when engaging in other things, I kept losing focus. Even when playing football, you can imagine how bad it must have been. Once the ball was off my feet, my mind kept flashing back. It wasn't just about a woman, it was because trust, a fundamental component that I feel gives life a meaning, was shattered by her. My case and urs may not be 100% similar but this is what I did in my case. 1. Start going to church a bit more (yes, I dont believe in church, I know). It reduces d burden, your mind becomes lighter, and you can begin connecting with more people. Focus more on girls. 2. Try to abandon all romantic music or any music that reminds u of the past or your time with her, or her special music. Don't even argue with me, just do this. (You can resume the music yrs later when ure with someone else) 3. Convince yourself that 100% love doesn't exist. This isn't self-deceit. If you were bed-ridden, the no of ladies that will otherwise consider you for a partner will drop almost 95%. In other words, you can't find 'unconditional' love from a woman you sex. Maybe only parent-child love. 4. Drink a little, play a little, hook up with guys. Don't be in the middle of people who have blossoming relationships. Focus on personal rewards. Check for milestones. If you're saving money, ensure you have more in 3 months time. If you sell stuff, ensure your market base has grown a number of measurable percentage. 5. Try to have multiple girls chase you. This works on your esteem. You may have to do the chasing first. Do it halfway then stop, let the women take it up from there. Remember its a numbers game. The more you do, the better your chances. Don't go for oloshos bros (yes, I know many are, but don't go for full-blooded oloshos). 6. Choose the best amongst them, then start a new relationship but make it a bit loose. Don't be strict on it, don't anchor on it. At the same time respect her. Don't bore her too much about ur failed past relationship but at the same time don't make her feel special. Just respect her and do your thing. With time you'll be more level-headed and the stings of relationship hurts will reduce drastically. Your heart wil also be prepared to better handle a potential future relationship collapse. Bye. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Evidenx(m): 10:18pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona:START MAKING MONEY, YOU WILL RECOVER FAST... HOW DO I MAKE D MONEY? JOIN CHYMALL AND MAKE MONEY EVERY TEN DAYS. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nueel: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Guy! Forget her, train your brain to forget that you know her from anywhere...Goan chop life, relate with friends, try not to stay alone always. Babes plenty for town o 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by PheelzAlmighty: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Die for love |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Raylight2(m): 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
thatsleepboy1:you're funny. guess this is to make him cheer up and to let him know that it's never the end of life. there's someone better. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by merits(m): 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Buy alteco glue adhesive,use it to amend your broken heart.it will hold it firm till eternity.. 3 Likes
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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Charleys: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Are you not surviving right now? |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
osazsky: 6yrs includes while still in school, nysc... Her parents know me and mine knows her too.. had plan to set things right next year.... Because of all that happened this year |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by We4all: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: If someone can survive poverty for 20 years, what's heartbreak of 6 years that he can't survive. Guy, get your life together and continue to make more money. Only idle people stay back to brood over what will not add any value to their lives. 15 Likes |
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 10:20pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: Toto full everywhere you dey here dey cry because of woman |
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