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I'm ready

osazsky:
the thing weak me..6 solid good years.i guess he is her dad..na wah for guys o..d girl needs to get married now....he is wailing but has failed to tell us d cause of d break up..unserious guys flocking around everywhere with no bearing..if he kept himself busy with work or trade he for no date d girl reach 2 years before marrying her..joblessness and laziness everywhere.i weep

surebona:


Thank you alot

don't mention

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Don’t even waste your time reminiscing.. go out and date someone else. That’s the only way you can heal, it’s ok to cry once in a while but remember go out and smash other girls, safely..

Good luck. ��

JovialJune:



When you cheated on her, you forgot you have someone that meant everything to you abi? Yeyenatu ni e.

Really are we perfect?

Interesting. You were waiting for the day she will kneel down and propose to you? Anuofia.

Men Don't suffer heartbreak. Who send you work?

surebona:


How can I mean nothing to her after those years

You cheated Mr man.
Confessing to her like a sissy only worsened your fate and no doubt diminished her respect for you.
It's a weak move. Why couldn't you simply stop cheating and move on.
You seem like an overly emotional guy.

Anyways, she might come back and if she doesn't try to live your life and be better next time.

Very soon someone must break your heart

mosdii:
If You can't move on, you can commit suicide.
I deal on sniper and other chemicals that takes life you can contact me to supply you.

I promise u under God that if u r innocent and genuine you WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN HER......JUST BELIEVE GOD

thatsleepboy1:
buy a thick towel and soak it inside hot oil and use it to massage your chest.

Don't show yourself here...go and sleep

chinchonglee:
What's the reason for the breakup at first.. From there I'll know how to advice

I guess he became broke, that's why

Mpchi:
No amount of words will ease the pain you feel now, try to do something that takes your mind from her (biking, hanging out, etc), also try telling a good friend how you feel, talking about it with someone makes you feel good. Now is a better time to invest in yourself and a time for sober reflection, note what you did wrong and try not to repeat it in your next relationship and also note where you excel in the relationship and ensure you work more on it... The best part of your love life is yet to come, I know the pain you are going through and you feel like your world has no meaning but this might be the best thing that happened to you when you think about it in a few years from now.... Finally, remember time heals.... If you feel like crying, please do... Ensure you don't bottle up your emotions...

Thanks it's not easy for me.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

All you have to do is bear the pain....
We experience heartbreak every time,from brothers,sisters,friends,even from the society we're in but we treat it differently...
There is no short cut to solving heartbreak,you just have think if loosing your life a lost course is worth it.
Most importantly,know that you've just been used and dump...that's human for you.
They dispose whatever they think its not useful...channel your hatred towards that and see the result. If you decide to kill yourself...safest course,its a win win for you...

Try sex,I did bro,and it worked for me when amaka disappointed me

Your own self is good. Mine was 6 years, 6th month,6day of the week and at 6pm.. I know die that means you know go died too.

BBL3691:
With time you will definitely get over her unless you willingly commit suicide.
These following points can help you get over her.
1. Morning exercise. Do exercise every morning and the result will surprise you. You will be lifted from worry, anxiety, boredom and unnecessary depression.
2. Try as much as possible to think about her negative lifestyles. Never focus your mind on her positive attitude. Consider the money and time you spent on her as unplanned sacrifice. That way she appears totally replaceable.
3. Socialise. Mingle with new friends, watch game (football), soccer hall can be your second home for the maintime but I don't encourage you to bet ooo except at your discretion.
4. You can survive the world without her. In fact you can survive the world without majority of the so called irreplaceable ones around you. So give yourself time and don't rush to have new girlfriend yet but just be friendly with people that way your social life will improve.
5. Dress handsomely. Good appearance Cannot be over emphasised. Ladies and people generally can't resist good looking guys except your character
6. Hope you have source of income. That way you are independent. Then be sure your heartbreak is just for a moment

number 2 is helping me ooo....the hate is neutralizing all the love i had for her

maak400:

You should have taken that secret to the afterlife. Don’t ever confess cheating to your woman, a man doesn’t do that.

I'm sorry

Mynd44:
You'll live.

He is not to be pitied, the lady he cheated on is who I have pity for.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

If you die because of her, another person will marry her. If you die because of one babe, thousands of babe will walk pass over your grave.

Just move on, there are 100s of ladies out there that can replace her. Nobody is irreplaceable. You are a man, move on bro.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Men don't get heartbroken young man wake up!!



Did you sleep with her if no then I see why you are crying

Did you sponsor her through school like all these our women sponsors If yes, then sorry, next time don't sponsor a girl

Did you helped her to secure visa or PR to migrate abroad and she dumped you If yes, then its a pity.....have your solace in the fact that you will still make it okay


If the reason for your so called heartbreak is not in the above, then you need a hot slap.......there are plenty prettier, hotter, sweeter, classier, better chicks than her, like millions of them......sometimes I wonder why guys complain of being single and lonely when we have millions of sweet chicks walking all over Nigeria with killer ass and profile to match




Guy wake up oh....in few years to come you will thank your stars that she left you because you will realize how foolish you were loving someone that ugly, dry, broke, etc, bookmark this page tonight

Why did you call it heart break


When it's not that you lose a family member


Abegi

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Develop a wonderful relationship with yourself.
It is difficult for people to love you if you don’t love you.
You must be your own best friend,
don’t be desperate for the endorsement or approval of people.
The first step in cultivating a personal relationship with yourself is understanding and accepting who you are first then defining who you want to become.
Once you set personal goals and a vision, begin to develop plans and strategies for your pursuit, you’ll discover you’ll start falling in love with an advancing you as you keep progressing and achieve your set goals.

A life without personal goals, dreams and pursuits is a confused and frustrating one, hence the desperation to seek people and friends to fill the void. When you’re very busy working hard on yourself, chasing your goals and building your dreams, you wouldn’t even have enough time for too many unnecessary people in your life.

https://www.nairaland.com/4879367/what-friends

Consider this the best advice you get here because I have been there, gone through what you're going through presently: (A) Bro, if you can help it, and if it can be possible for both of you, return to your estranged girlfriend and seek reconciliation and restart the relationship. (B) But if you feel the relationship has come to a point where I cannot be redeemed, move on, move ahead and never look back again.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

Women don't like the TRUTH. If that your truth won't make her happy, just STFU. Don't lie, but be silent.


No matter how religious you're, don't tell a woman the truth that won't make her happy.


This people are not logical like men.


Go through this thread >> https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know it's filled with wisdom.

How can you date for 6 years. You mad ni

surebona:


Really are we perfect?

No we are not, but she was faithfully perfect that she didn't think of ever cheating on you right?

surebona:


I didn't fall in love with beauty. She was just an understanding type.

meaning she’s the only one that have sense in the planet abi
Continue

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Occupy yourselfwith something else, like work, I am a lady and ds is the second heart break I am going through, first one I used a song to get over it and this work I am using my creative talent I never saw in myself to get over it, you can work more, duplicate tiktok videos, visit Instagram , follow some funny comedian on YouTube, enjoy life go, nobody deserve ur tears. Mine too was almost 6 years and I am till standing, set standard for yourself and move. An unsuccessful relationship is far better than a broken marriage. Move on , we move

LOL.

Sha no kee yourself because of woman. At least na relationship. People that found out their children belonged to their best friends nko?

Better calm down and focus on your business/career. Life doesn’t give you egusi everyday, sometimes, bitter leaf will be on the menu. Just use your eba and pack the soup and move on.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

I feel your pain but i.dont knw that some guys still v hrt o.. Thesame tin happened to me some weeks ago.. It is not easy I cried so much that I started using eyes � drop �..just engage yourself with something keep yourself busy.. Meet people talk to people go. Out have fun.. A broken relationship � is beta dan a broken home �.to hell with her.. She doesnt deserve u..beta gurls full everywhere.. Pls your happiness is all that matters.. Bleep her

surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

See your life

Jaapu:
Interesting. You were waiting for the day she will kneel down and propose to you? Anuofia.

Men Don't suffer heartbreak. Who send you work?

As in.....how can a man say his heart was broken by a lady, how


The only thing men experience is losses.....as for heartbreak, all men get heartbroken everyday......you see a sweet chick you cherish, you plan in your head how sweet she will be and how you will make her your Cindy and then you summon courage and approach her and she turns you down or blank you for no good reason, that's the only heartbreak men experience that I know of


and losses when a man spends a lot on a girl and he could not see her panties.....