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Once you have your own apartment, nobody will force you to do anything, as long as you are staying with them expect to receive any shit and expect they I'll think they have to say in your life.
Many people that stays at home hardly progress because they can't do what they want, always trying to please what their family want from them

You are cute, I am sure you will find a nice lady.

You look good in both styles Ma

PastorMIsBack:
@Samueltemi337
@PJtech
@adeoyekay
@SurvivorM

If you haven't received it yet, you will. I have sent your details on to my money transfer man but he's a Moslem so probably celebrating Eid. He's usually very quick to send them out.

I have received Ma.
Thank you

PastorMIsBack:
@Samueltemi337
@PJtech
@adeoyekay
@SurvivorM

If you haven't received it yet, you will. I have sent your details on to my money transfer man but he's a Moslem so probably celebrating Eid. He's usually very quick to send them out.

No problem Ma.
Thanks Ma

PastorMIsBack:
@Samueltemi337
@PJtech
@adeoyekay
@SurvivorM

All 4 of you should drop your account details for a small Eid something.

Congratulations.

Thank you so much Ma.
It's really ask and it's shall be given.

PastorMIsBack:
If You Believe, You Will Receive

I was surprised when I saw posted on April 25th.
Anyway I believe Ma and I shall receive

crazygod:
All this seventeen years old children wey just start to dey date just dey carry their problem flood nairaland.

I swear na so so immature minds na dey relationships nowadays.
Not everything is a problem or complicated.
He could just ask her what happened and how he didn't like how she didn't give him attention in the party instead of been petty and blocking her.
People self dey make things complicated for themselves, he even carried this issue to nairaland where 90% of the guys here will tell him the girl is surely cheating on him

When you love God, you obey God commandment.
Beautiful message

Lost some weight, got very confident in myself.
Self esteem sky rocketed.
Goal oriented, determined.
Haven't made much money but hey the sky is the limit.
And lastly I am so healthy, cant remember the last time I got an headache usually have them frequently last year due to stress and anxiety.
God I thank you

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You would be surprised they are of the same age or the age difference isn't that big.
Fat tends to make someone looks older, maybe they know each other from when they were little or something else involved.
But on another note, they guy face looks weird like seriously

Very possible, the world has become a global village.
Even some jobs interviews are though zoom.
I know a girl who attends church online.
So a youtube chaplain is very good

Medianna:
Can someone please summarise this passage in 2 sentences for me??

Dude is falling in love with a girl his cousin have had sex with.
Dude dont want to love her as he didn't like the fact his cousin have had sex with her.
Dude now in a dilemma of what to do

iLegenddNoReply:
@SurvivorM

Exactly! Contentment is the keyword. I'm glad I learned this naturally from my dad. He doesn't have time for what isn't his.

I feel one of the major drives is the urge to belong. Every guy wants dread, tattoo and earring now else they'll feel they're Jews.

They gamble, f*ck around, and get high (with money), so when this money is no longer there to do the things that give them JOY, they become frustrated and abuse everyone around.

If only they can let go of these addiction, they'll never be frustrated or envy others when they lack money.

My lesson actually came from my Mum, she taught me about contentment and how to be satisfied with what you have, yes I like money but I am not obsessed with it.
I am way satisfied with whatever I have.

Many youths of nowadays want heaven and earth, they want Lamborghini, Ferrari, they want 10 cars without working for it.

If they work hard, yes they may not get those flashy things but working hard was never option for them, they just want to become billionaires without making an effort and when they see their age mates having those things, frustration sets in.

They insults women online because I am going to admit, many girls too like flasy things and many dont want to date the broke guys, so when the guys cant get the flashy girls they want, in turn they become bitter.

It's a vicious cycle, God help the future generations.

That's why there is no love anymore

Social media have changed everything, you see your age mate or someone younger than you living the vida loca and you are filled with envy wanting to be like them,

Ignoring the fact that some of them online are living fake life or not all fingers are the same.

It's the mindset anyway, I have known guys and girls that are contend with what they have and not bothered by flashy things

Nothing, I dont like this kind of food.
Normal fried beans for me

Make this War end abeg

JayPeeOham:
I blee you scarra? Wetin dey sup na? How today dey be abi make I show your self after work today?

Sorry o for replying you
Bye

Kantebets:
you don cast
Cheap girl

Whatever
I am as pure as they come.
Keep been obsessed, I know my worth.
Ok now I am done with you

Kantebets:
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Why are you obsessed with me.
Do I know you??

JayPeeOham:
Do you really eat bullies for breakfast?

Lol I just have some bunch of kids trying to bully me here.
Just letting them know "they no reach"

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
This is actually very true , I was always the one getting hurt before and then I got used to it , I just started going with the flow
Last ex came to me , cute and everything said he wanted me , he got me and all of a sudden , he didn't pick my calls anymore , didn't call or text , lied about where he was when I was seeing him at a different place , cheated on me a lot but I acted like I was dumb , I was always happy around him , he didn't even know that I knew everything coz I actually did not care and I did not want to address it , I believed at the time he didn't know what he wanted and maybe in a month he'll see that I'm definitely a lady and not a girl and he'll get his act together and if he's still blind adieus

One day he raised his voice at me and it was an absolute turnoff , I know the patterns coz I repeated it twice so I ended the call and I waited to confront him physically but when I saw him , I couldn't help but feel stupid for allowing someone like that to feel comfortable to the point where they think they can talk down on me because I look like a nice little girl who doesn't know what love looks like ( he said he wanted unconditional love from me LOL)
I Sha came back home and blocked his entire existence and it was like that till he found me on FB and started trying to do that rubbish where exes become friends and just keep each other around but I had to tell him off , I blocked you for a reason and I haven't unblocked you yet that's a sign that I don't want anything with you anymore,
If you see the insults he rained on me on top of say I don't want to be your friend " you're heartless , I regret anything I had for you , you're this and that , if you see me don't greet me "
Someone that was seriously fucking around and even asked my friends out , someone that I did not take anything from , someone that couldn't even make time to speak or come and see me

He just packaged himself as fine boy and one innocent girl will think he has sense and I feel like I'm the first girl to break lose so quickly and that's probably why he was so upset because I can bet with the last #500 in my akant that he was trying to use me and he didn't give two shits about me from the get go
He wanted a girl that would kiss his butt and rub his feet and he got the wrong biatch

Baby u are worth so much more.
I am so happy for your getting out of that toxic situation.
You are beautiful and you will meet someone who will cherish the goddess you are

lexy20I4:
I hope that unnecessary drama did not have a toll on your mental health, please always stay strong,you are loved.

I have moved on, no point caning a dead horse.
Thanks for the support.
That experience actually taught me a big lesson.
And I hope you are having a good day too

lexy20I4:
SurvivorM how are you doing today?

Fine thank you.
I had a wonderful day

Everything depends on your height, if you are tall, that means your weight is very average.
And your BF is probably teasing you but if your are feeling fat, you can lose weight but for yourself not for someone else.
Lastly he saw you like that before the relationship, just take it as a joke

czarr:
being loved is different from being in love. Love is an action word. Being in love is a feeling.
Some one can be in love with you without loving you and vice versa.
When God said husband should love their wives. Loving your wife means protection and provisioning. That is how a man shows love. Not these toxic dependency we call love where people stab and kill people they love.
Being in love is not sustainable and is drama upon drama, it's not functional.

Ever wonder why our grand parents arranged marriages seem to work and last longer than all these emotional in love marriages today. It's because they understand that feelings are not sustainable. Instead the man loved(by leading, protecting and providing) the wife arranged for him and she in turn submitted to his leadership.

So at the end of the day, what you are driving at is an understanding relationship where the woman submit to the man.
But if the man is in love, he will let the woman ride on him because of his emotions and give his individuality up because he loves the woman.

I dont think life works like that, we only live once so why just live a mundane life without excitement or feeling in love, what's the point of loving if you can't take risk.
Been in love is kind of an ecstasy feeling, so why deprive yourself of that, forget heartbreak not every relationship lead to that

Palema007:
Mentions make you fly? Okay.... Not going to comment on that.


I hope to read the book soon.


BTW Magnoliaa why them close that thread too nah?

Thanks dear, May 27th is the date.
I will remind you on the day anyway

RealityKings:
Your time don reach to blow be that

Thank you please save the date May 27th.
It's an ebook, the prize is not much

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