KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

According to you , what do you think was her reason?

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

na see finish wey happen. Sorry bro.

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

The problem is from the first paragraph

Your girl invited you to a party and you kept on saying no, and then you only came because your friend whom she also invited, prevailed on you to come.

Your girl may still be angry with you for telling her no to her invitation.

Better apologize to your girlfirend, and explain why you said no in the first place.

Ignore those saying 'There is another man'.

If she does not accept your apology, then move on. She would be petty not to.

KiNg0G:

yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap

Na sugar daddy

oz4real83:
You want her family to know that their daughter "don spoil"? . That will be the message she will be sending by associating publicly with you. She was even the one that invited you and you didn't see her associating with another guy in the party.

am with this nigga here

oz4real83:
that is where she made the mistake, it may be as a result of immaturity. She should have at least met you guys casually to say hi before disappearing among her people. She may mean no harm, just lack of common sense.

True explanation to the situation

KiNg0G:

yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap

You can block people from seeing what u POst on ur status ,so even if she has another man, she can still post u and still post the man ,that one no mean

All this seventeen years old children wey just start to dey date just dey carry their problem flood nairaland.

Your own better.

It is either she was angry, or she had someone more strategically important...so until you confirm which is the case, hang in there.

Back in my Uni days, my girlfriend asked that I follow her to a friend's birthday party, I told her I was not interested...I could see the disappointment on her face as she left for the event. Feeling bad about the whole thing, I dressed up and followed her, before I could get to the junction, she had left. I ran into a friend and we chatted away for like 30mins.

On getting to the party around 8pm, she was no where to be found, and since I was not too well acquainted with those present, I went upstairs and stood by the balcony to try and locate her instead of looking lost downstairs.

Lo and behold, I just saw a guy pulling her to the front of the party...it started with casual dance, but when the DJ switched to 'Turn me on' by Kelvin Little...hmm, this babe started twerking; digging the guy like grinder. After the display in the open, the guy sat down at a corner and she sat on his lap, still grinding and giggling away.

I said to myself, "I have seen enough". Passed through the party furiously ...I think someone told her I just left, and she came after me, knelt down pleading on the road (she knew I saw it all), I didn't say a word and just left to clear my head.

On getting home, I saw neighbours (students and indigenes alike) surrounding her in my room, whilst crying. They started pleading. I was so embarrassed and didn't take time to hug her. Everyone laughed and left.

I forgave her, but never respected, loved and trusted her again. I had bigger plans for us, but that singular act ruined it. I stayed with her for 6 more months until OBJ era 8 months ASUU strike hit. It was a perfect excuse to break things up.

I think you may be overthinking it bro.
This is her cousins party and not a random party.

Hence they maybe a lot of catch up to do with old family friends and relatives not to talk of assisting to ensure the party goes well.

She invited you to a “family members party”, i think thats a plus to you.

Besides are you ready to be introduced to the Dad?

It happens every time. Do you know how many contributed to the party that you wanted to be a chairman?

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

Have you considered that maybe she's not really proud of you?

Maybe it's time for you to start laying your exit strategy?

wumi2017:



Hahaha, maybe na only you dey view yourself for her status...you never heard of """who can view her status""

donbachi:
It's not who danceth whom.. It's who tooketh who home.

Vawulence, how come thou findeth your ways among thorns, briars and Simpsons?

Thou are most wise among men and fairer among nobles, take this cup of grace and drinketh of it favor.

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

Someone she wasn't expecting at the party, probably bankrolling her, unexpectedly showed up

bibiking7:




Amazing to see the things people are worried about these days.

I swear. That's how you know someone who doesn't have responsibilities on him.

Impatience and insecure you are. Imagine staying just 30mins for a party? You should have waited till end of the party naw, probably help them arrange chairs and canopies if actually you love her. So she should be worshipping you because you came to her cousin's party ba? Ozuai ki bu jor

KiNg0G:
i blocked her number instantly... she called my friend who later explained the situation to her.
God knows she needs 2 bouncers to follow her come my house

according to her she said her dad was around, she didn't know how to introduce me to him... because she never planned him to be there.
yes they were some matured men in their table, but I don't believe thats the only reason






I understand bro....but you see I don't think it's an issue of her not wanting to show me off, like shes ashamed of me or something.

She nor fine pass me, this girl don use gragra take know all my own friends finish, same way I knew some of hers.. everywhere I am, she always wants to be there .. hence the reason she had to tell my buddie... cus she know that guy go pull me through for the birthday... because I nor dey too much like crowd....but this scenario when play yesterday na I not understand.

Weda the men when dey with me too rough! I nor know

We shouldn't jump into conclusion, It could really be because of her dad, but you do u know her dad very well, and did you see him there?

Faber:


I dey run am 3 babes on whatsApp. I go post this one block other 2, just that way simultaneously day by day. Na so their head dey swell.

E go shock them when they discover na cruise I just dey catch with them

Girls are cunning and mischievous without knowing that I was born in Cunningham

I like you jare, God bless you...teach them lesson,...

Some people are just stupid

The twist is that she probably invite her crush since you na Oga wey dem gast beg before you go your babe cousin birthday. Clown!!!!

MrBrownJay1:
you are on the SUBSTITUTE BENCH, while all along thinking that you were the team star player!!!
hope you enjoyed the food...

Don't mind this BENCH WARMER.

crazygod:
All this seventeen years old children wey just start to dey date just dey carry their problem flood nairaland.

I swear na so so immature minds na dey relationships nowadays.
Not everything is a problem or complicated.
He could just ask her what happened and how he didn't like how she didn't give him attention in the party instead of been petty and blocking her.
People self dey make things complicated for themselves, he even carried this issue to nairaland where 90% of the guys here will tell him the girl is surely cheating on him

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

She pressed you to come, and even used your guy to pull you over. Do you think if she had other guys coming to the party she would have invited you in the first place? Don't listen to your guys. What they are saying is not logical at all. It lacks proper reasoning and common sense. Her dad was around, and believe me, he is a very strict one. Don't be hard on her

You guys no get problem o

Of all the problems in Nigeria this nonsense making FP


Chai

Waking up to a post about how a simp and his buddies turned up for a birthday and didn't get the recognition he deserves gracing the front page is not something I bargained for on this beautiful Sallah morning fa.

Now let me tell you my mind.. I am not interested in any rubbish you just posted there cos its obvious sense is far from you.. How can u disturb our peace with nonsense na..kilode.. if your gf no recognize u for party how is that our problem?? You see why we dey where we dey ba cos men way suppose the think with their head the use anus think...

Go get a life bro and stop simping.. my only advice for you

Finally, Seun don get competitor

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KiNg0G:

yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap

And you forget say them fit set WhatsApp status privacy to only you.
You are very SIMPle and Kind.

KiNg0G:

yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap

Did she associate with any other guy particularly at the party?

She went up to the extent of going through your friend to make sure your there...that means she wasn't up to anything

Your friends that accompanied you there and yourself...how were you dressed?

Probably she's been talking so fly about you...(you said she flaunt you on WhatsApp)...now imagine the day to meet her family and friends you went there in company of shabbily dressed friends.

You should even thank God she made sure you were well entertained...cos she was the one that directed the girl to bring the food and drinks to your table.

Assumption is what destroys relationships. Most of the comments above are all based on assumptions. I will advise you rule out every form of assumption before acting or taking decisions you may later regret Boss.