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TravelRe: Captain Chinyere Kalu; Meet The First Nigeria Female Pilot by swaz(m): 7:52am On Mar 08, 2017
TravelRe: Captain Chinyere Kalu; Meet The First Nigeria Female Pilot by swaz(m): 7:48am On Mar 08, 2017
EducationRe: "The Truth About IG Yusuf's Sex Scandal With Grace, 400l IBB University Student" by swaz(m): 5:44pm On Feb 27, 2017
Come how much did the lecturer bribed you to come out trying to defend him coming out to the people these cock and bull story ?, Am not surprised when I heard he is from ABU ZARIA, I know what my wife went through from the hands of ABU LECTURERS during her project that it was only GOD'S INTERVENTION after prayer and fasting she almost forfitted the school because it almost got to the VC of ABU ZARIA. The lecturers wanted to sleep with her.
So guy forget it GOD don catch am....
PoliticsRe: Amosun Stops His Convoy, Rescues Accident Victims On Busy Akure-Ondo Road (Pics) by swaz(m): 2:39pm On Feb 25, 2017
The Governor needs to be ashame of him self for putting the poor woman in a pickup truck, why didn't he released his convoys AMBULANCE to take the poor woman to the hospital or his personal official car ?...
Our leaders are something else...
PoliticsRe: Buhari Extends His Sick Leave by Unspecified Number of Days by swaz(m): 6:05pm On Feb 05, 2017
The guy is terrible sick he should just respect him self and kindly step down Nigeria doesn't need a sick president....
Because people's lives is not what he should be playing with...
EducationIntimidation And Harassment Of Female Student By Male Lectures In Universities by swaz(op): 6:18am On Feb 02, 2017
Pls I need advice,
My woman is a PGD student with ABU Zaria presently on her project just for her to round up.
The story or should I say issue started some time back when she was assigned to a male lecture as her project supervisor
And she was advised by people not to do anything with the project supervisor because no woman goes to him and scale free.
So she confronted the coordinator for change of supervisor but the coordinator refused because the man and the coordinator
Are in the same business so she decided to change the supervisor no her own and got another supervisor who supervised her to the end of the project and also signed it.
But going to summit it to the coordinator he refused signing it that all he knows is she has not done her project that she needs to start afresh and she has to go back to the man initially assigned to her or she should come to him to supervised her.
Please fans I need advice on how to tackle these issue.
Thank you
RomanceRe: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by swaz(m): 10:56pm On Dec 20, 2016
Every story has two side just like the way a knife is made of two sides, we have heard the side of ur story
But we can't conclude because we have not heard the other side of the story.
So judgement will be inconclusive.
Thank you
RomanceRe: Nairobi Pastor Shares After-sex Photos With His "Lover” Online (Photos) by swaz(m): 12:15am On Sep 21, 2016
The title of the news should be A FAKE NAIROBI PASTOR SHARE'S THE SEX PICTURE OF HIM AND A LADY not Nairobi Pastor Shares After-sex Photos With His "Lover” Online (Photos)
NAIRALAND IS MORE OF ANTI-CHRISTAINS
CrimeRe: 4 Ritualists Arrested In Ijebu Igbo, Ogun With Human Heart (disturbing Pics by swaz(m): 12:09am On Sep 21, 2016
The title of the post should be An ALFA AND 3 RITUALISTS not 4 Ritualists Arrested In Ijebu Igbo, Ogun With Human Heart. Because had it been there was a fake pastor among them Nairaland will report it as A PASTOR AND 3 OTHER WHERE ARRESTED WITH HUMAN HEART. I get to understand that Nairaland is more of anti-Christains....
PoliticsRe: Ambode Transforms Ketu-Alapere Expressway (Photos) by swaz(m): 9:04pm On Sep 18, 2016
Where is Kaduna state Governor that call's him self El-rufai ?. I hope he is seen what Ambode is doing to Lagos state.[i][/i]
PoliticsA Post Of A TRUE APC Die Hard Fan... by swaz(op): 2:02pm On Sep 18, 2016
Christianity EtcRe: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by swaz(m): 8:22pm On Sep 17, 2016
Guy she is not a witch, witch don't use their form or like or appearance to attack their victims the use someone's else form or appearance so that it can't be traced back to them.
All u need to do is to pray and fast for God's intervention in ur life...
Why not go to Synagogue TB JOSHUA'S MINISTRY.
EMMANUEL GOD WITH US....
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Christianity EtcRe: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by swaz(m): 7:55pm On Sep 17, 2016
Guy she is not a witch, witch don't use their form or like or appearance to attack their victims the use someone's else form or appearance so that it can't be traced back to them.
All u need to do is to pray and fast for God's intervention in ur life...
Why not go to Synagogue TB JOSHUA'S MINISTRY.
EMMANUEL GOD WITH US....
PoliticsRe: Voice Of America Interviews Aisha Buhari In USA(photos) by swaz(m): 8:33am On Aug 06, 2016
If these woman is allowed now she will tell u she wants to contest for presidency in 2019.......
BusinessRe: CBN To Announce New Currency Policy Tomorrow (June15) by swaz(m): 8:27am On Jun 15, 2016
The just want to devalue Naira but the are saying it in a coded form or word...
PoliticsRe: Man Killed By Hausa Man In Aba Today (Photos) by swaz(m): 6:46am On May 06, 2016
The guy was killed by a straight bullet from the security operators when the were trying to disperse them....
Some people like posting false informations
PoliticsRe: Shehu Sani Distributes Transformers And Solar Panels To Constituents by swaz(m): 11:04am On Apr 27, 2016
The will go around sharing small small transformer that tomorrow it will not be able to take care of the society
HealthWorst Federal Medical Centres In Nigeria by swaz(op): 6:27pm On Mar 13, 2016
1. F.M.C Gombe... I was at the federal medical center Gombe and I experienced lots of lapses by some of the personals so called Dr and Nurses.
1. The Doctors are rude and negligent to their duty.
2. The Nurses are feeling on top of the world.
For the cleaners the are trying their best by keeping the environment clean for that am impressed.
And the garden's are as clean as you can think of.
For ABU teaching hospital Zaria (Shika) is nothing to write home about.
1. The Doctors are small God them selfs
2. The Nurses are feeling like midwife UN touchable.
To cut the story short ABU hospital is DIRTY...
And federal government spend billions of naira to keep the facility's move.
You can add your at other hospitals too.

EducationEntrusting The Future Of Our Children In The Hands Of WAEC by swaz(op): 12:23pm On Feb 27, 2016
God will help us

FoodRe: See What A Lady Cooked For Her Man ! by swaz(m): 9:55am On Jul 12, 2015
The writer is not straight with us.. Looking around from the picture is a student room because of all the books the food is even kept on a jotter. Even though these is what your wife served u will be because of the understanding between u nd her. A wife will serve her husband such food simply because of love if the love is not their she won't even serve u anything.
PoliticsRe: Police To Begin Stop And Search On Roads And Highways Nationwide by swaz(m): 10:45pm On Jul 07, 2015
I hope the will not be collecting Bribe and also Molesting people ?.....
PoliticsRe: EFCC Arrests Ex-Governor Lamido And Sons Over Money Laundering by swaz(m): 10:39pm On Jul 07, 2015
In the statement of the writer he said the 2 sons were first arrested in November 2015 ?, so come to ask are we in the year 2016 or 2017 ?.
Christianity EtcRe: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by swaz(m): 11:11am On May 31, 2015
These is serious....
postmann:
“I have perceived among the youths, a young
man lacking sense, passing along the street near
her corner, taking the road to her
house” (Proverbs 7: 7-8 )

Marriage - a lifetime covenant, an irrevocable oath reconized by GOD, man and spirits, separable only by death. With this truth in mind, a man has to be very careful and wise when considering marriage. And if you follow the counsel of GOD, HE will go before you to lead you to the right path.

NOTE: This is not a sexist post. It's only a guide for men intending to get married.

So here's the 10 women to avoid when considering marriage:

1. THE UNBELIEVER: Scripture is replete with
exhortations against such marriages (in both the
Old and New Testaments). Contrary to popular
misconception, God’s prohibition against
marriages to foreign women in the Old Testament
was not due to racism. Instead, God was simply
preventing the spread of idolatry. Israel, God’s
chosen people in the Old Testament, represented
what Christians would later represent in the New
Testament. Hence, God’s prohibition against
marrying an unbelieving woman in the New
Testament (2 Cor 6:14) is simply the extension of
God prohibiting a Hebrew man from from
marrying a Canaanite woman in the Old
Testament (Deut 7:3-4). “Do not intermarry with
them. Do not give your daughters to their sons
or take their daughters for your sons, for they
will turn your children away from following ME
to serve other gods, and the LORD’s anger will
burn against you and will quickly destroy
you” (Deut 7:3-4).
What then, is a believer? A Christian essentially
is someone who believes in the gospel of Jesus
Christ. What then, is the gospel? The gospel is:
1. God is holy, loving, and just. He therefore,
must condemn all sinners to punishment in the
flames of eternal hell; 2. You and I are all
sinners who deserve nothing but God’s wrath in
hell after our deaths; 3. God loved humanity so
much that He sent His only Son, Jesus (who was
fully God and fully man), to die on the cross for
your sins. Jesus paid the debt for your sins and
absorbed God’s wrath on your behalf. 3 days
later, Jesus resurrected from the dead; 4. If you
repent (turn from) all your sins and personally
put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord, God
and Savior, then you will have eternal life.


2. THE DIVORCEE: Jesus clearly taught that unless
the first marriage ended due to a partner’s sexual
infidelity, a second marriage is to be considered
invalid and adulterous. A divorced woman, therefore, is
off limits for a Christian man. Unrepentant
adultery being a sin that prevents one from
obtaining eternal life (1 Cor 6:9). “If she
divorces her husband and marries another, she
commits adultery” (Mark 10:12). “And I say to
you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual
immorality, and marries another, commits
adultery” (Matthew 19:9).


3. THE OLDER WOMAN: Not a sin, but certainly
not God’s ideal. God expects men to be the
spiritual leaders of the home (Eph 5:25) and it
certainly requires an extra measure of grace to
lead a woman who’s older than you. Again, if
you’re a man and you’re already in such a
marriage, then honor it till the day you die–it’s
still a valid marriage and divorce is not an
option! However, if you’re not yet married but
thinking about an older woman I want to remind
you that God intentionally (with good reason!)
created Adam before Eve in the First Marriage.
Scripture informs us that God created man first
chronologically for the sake of authority! Listen:
“I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise
authority over a man; rather, she is to remain
quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve” (1
Timothy 2:12-13). Evidently, within the First
Marriage, God intended chronology (age) to be a
reason for authority.
Apparently, even secular researchers are now
beginning to discover results that back up God’s
wisdom as demonstrated in the Bible:
“If you’re a woman two or more years
older than your husband, your marriage
is 53 percent more likely to end in
divorce than if he was one year younger
to three years older.” (Source: Rebecca
Kippen, Bruce Chapman and Peng Yu,
“What’s Love Got to Do With It? Homogamy
and Dyadic Approaches to Understanding
Marital Instability,” Melbourne Institute of
Applied Economic and Social Research,
2009.)


4. THE FEMINIST: There’s no room within
Christendom for the “Christian feminist.” Though
women and men have equal value in the eyes of
God (Gal 3:28), they certainly have different God-
given roles. Any woman who tries to usurp her
husband’s authority or even claims to be a co-
leader with her man is gravely dishonoring the
God who created her to be subject and obedient
to her husband (Eph 5:22, Col 3:18, 1 Pet 3:1).
Eve was distinctly created “for” man, a point that
the apostle Paul makes abundantly clear in 1
Corinthians 11 when he writes, “For man was not
made from woman, but woman from man.
Neither was man created for woman, but woman
for man.” (1 Corinthians 11:8-9). Men, your wife
is to be your “helper” (Gen 2:18)–not your leader
and certainly not your equal in terms of
authority. Look for a woman who agrees with
you in this very vital God-ordained relational
dynamic.


5. THE IMMODEST-DRESSER : Sexy might
inadvertently catch your eyeballs, but it
shouldn’t catch your heart. The way that a
woman is willing to expose herself says much
about her heart:

“And behold, the woman meets
him, dressed as a prostitute, wily of
heart” (Proverbs 7:10).

The text in Proverbs
explains that a woman will dress in a certain way
to catch a certain type of man. Don’t be that
man. Don’t be the fool who’s led by his
hormones instead of the Holy Spirit. Remember:
you want godly, not gaudy.


6. THE GOSSIPER/SLANDERER: Women may love to
talk, but there’s wisdom in looking for a woman
who speaks with wisdom. Gossip and slander are
not good things to have in your marriage.
Desperate housewives make for desperate
husbands. “Besides that, they learn to be idlers,
going about from house to house, and not only
idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying
what they should not.” (1 Timothy 5:13).


7. THE CHILDBIRTH AVOIDER: Do not marry a
woman who is not willing to have children of her
own. In the Christian worldview, there is
absolutely no room for two married, biologically
capable, human beings to remain intentionally
child-less. If you are adverse towards having
children, then there’s a simple remedy for that:
single-hood. However, if God has called you to
marriage, then He actually expects children.
Both the New and Old Testaments are very clear
on this teaching: “Did he not make them one,
with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And
what was the one God seeking ? Godly
offspring” (Malachi 2:15). “Yet she will be saved
through childbearing—if they continue in faith
and love and holiness, with self-control” (1
Timothy 2:15).


8. THE WANDER-LUSTER: There’s nothing wrong
with the occasional family vacation. There is
something very wrong with a girl who regularly
needs to be “out of the home.” The constant
desire for new experiences, new places, new
faces, and new forms of entertainment only
serves to clearly manifest the fact that the
woman has not found her rest in God. Believe it
or not, Scripture speaks repeatedly about such
women: “She is loud and wayward; her feet do
not stay at home ” (Proverbs 7:11); “Besides,
they get into the habit of being idle and going
about from house to house . And not only do
they become idlers, but also busybodies who talk
nonsense, saying things they ought not to” (1
Timothy 5:13).


9. THE CARIEER-FIRST WOMAN: Now, I want to
clarify something here. There is nothing wrong
with a woman who works (Acts 16:14), what’s
wrong is a woman who puts her career ahead of
her family. Modern society might hate
to hear this, but God made men to be the
providers and women to be the nurturers of the
home (in most instances). It’s okay for a woman
to be a doctor, attorney, or any other
professional. However, if her career is coming at
the expense of her home, then something is
wrong. If day-care is raising her young children
while she’s working, then something is wrong. I
understand that there might be a season of life
where the wife might have to be the main bread-
winner due to her husband’s unemployment, but
it should not be the desired norm. The woman
ought to be willing (and even desirous–to some
extent) to give up her job for the sake of raising
her kids in the Lord. “So I counsel younger
widows to marry, to have children, to manage
their homes and to give the enemy no
opportunity for slander” (1 Tim 5:14).


10. THE DEVOTION-LESS WOMAN : Is the woman
having a regular, daily devotional time with her
God? If she doesn’t love the Lord now, chances
are, she won’t love the Lord after marriage.
(Don’t delude yourself–you’re not going to
change her.) You want to marry a girl who has
an intimate relationship with Jesus. Jesus (not
you) has to be the first man in her life. Here are
some good questions to ask: Does she have an
active prayer life? Does she have a heart for
evangelism? Is she hungry for God’s Word?
What does her pastor think about her?
Do you remember this account from Scripture:
Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a
village. And a woman named Martha welcomed
him into her house. [39] And she had a sister
called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and
listened to his teaching. [40] But Martha was
distracted with much serving. And she went up to
him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my
sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to
help me.” [41] But the Lord answered her,
“Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled
about many things, [42] but one thing is
necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion,
which will not be taken away from her.” (Luke
10:38-42 ESV)
Marry the Mary (no pun intended). Such women
have picked “…the good portion, which will not
be taken away” from them. God be with you
men. Strong families start with strong wives.
Choose wisely and choose in the Lord!
EducationRe: 100-Level UNIJOS Course Rep Proposes To Course Mate(pics) by swaz(m): 12:05pm On May 22, 2015
Make him no go read hin books....
CrimeRe: Airforce Men Beat FAAN Staff To Coma At Lagos Airport (see Graphic Photos) by swaz(m): 7:01am On May 20, 2015
The said he identified him self as a FAAN staff putting on his uniform with his ID card, so the question is did he go back home to change his clothes to come back to be beating or was he beating before going back home to change to personal clothes before going to the hospital ? From the picture he is not in his uniform
HealthRe: At 29, She's Still Bed Wetting Please Help Her!!!!! by swaz(m): 8:45pm On May 09, 2015
Kindly tell her to visit SCOAN in Lagos.... All she need is prayers.
PoliticsGood Bye To The Former Governor Of Kaduna State by swaz(op): 11:49pm On Apr 11, 2015
Say Hello to the Former Governor of Kaduna State.... :PSay Hello to the Former Governor of Kaduna State....

FamilyRe: Help!!! Missing Children by swaz(m): 9:58pm On Apr 08, 2015
bodeoni:
Got this broadcast this evening

This is from a dear friend " MISSING KIDS!!! Our children Aderomola Orekoya, 11 months, Adedamola Orekoya, 4 years and Demola Orekoya, 6 years are MISSING!!! The house help only resumed yesterday (April 7th)took the kids out at 8am this morning and never returned.
We've never known what it means to miss a child until now! What kind of heartless person will do this to a family??! Please help us, our hearts our broken, we've cried and cried so much, we don't know what to do anymore. Please if you see these kids kindly call this numbers 08052062117, 09098097935. or 08060184514...Pls help.

CC: lalasticlala
pls it happens in what state ?
PoliticsRe: Fleeing Boko Haram Terrorists Drown In Lake Chad by swaz(m): 8:09pm On Feb 21, 2015
Kudos to Nigeria Army
BusinessRe: Nigerian Engineers To Repair Refineries For N99bn –NNPC by swaz(m): 9:36am On Feb 12, 2015
Why spending the money on petroleum when the price of petroleum has crashed in the world market, Government re suppose to channel the money to the Ajakuta roll and steel or Agriculture sector.

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