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Angrydaveed:
Hi guys,
So last week I was doing a video call with my cousin in the states and we were just talking about random things; ranging from girls to cars and money etc. And he made a rather strange assessment.
He said I act in this manner because I am an introvert.
I always knew I was an introvert,but never really went further than that, because I thought every introvert is the same and every extrovert is the same.
But he said no that there are a lot of variations ,and I should check out mine.

He recommended a website : www.16personalities.com

Guys I swear the answers I got on there were so accurate,It felt like I had been studied by someone. My cousin said it's very popular in the USA. You guys should check it out

USA nor
Libya ni

Amakavula:
No i am a man, now can you let me rest..stop policing my mentions and thread I am a grown up.

I only asked a simple question

I just had to bring the thread back. So so funny

Another useless thread.
Sorry but no one cares about your opinion

I don't give a shit to what guys think. Most of you here live fake lives anyway. Dearie don't trouble yourself, most of the things guys post here are either lies or what they don't really practice.
Take lefulefu as an example, he may be a Playboy admiring every ass he sees but in reality, he might be a faithful man

What the hell happened to brushing her up and teaching her?
Nigerian men and their unrealistic expectations form us.
Tell me if you don't have any shortcomings yourself. Love is not all about food. Its way more than that.
You need to change the way you see and think about love and marriage. It goes beyond a delicious meal

Two jobless bastards

ChiefAzubuike:
Reminds me of my good old days in secondary school, sex was free, sex was fun. Sometimes after school hours me and my goons would arrange with some of the hottest chicks in class for a sex party in one of our friends house whose parents were always not around. Then we play a porn movie CD to put every morafuker in the mood. Some go dey bang for toilet , some for kitchen, plenty for palor, as you finish with one you jump to another free one waiting on the floor for you.. Tight and young puzzays everywhere. The good old days was fun.

stop telling us about your young wet dreams

Fighting because of a man, smh.
You should let her test your bf

Its clear that the feminine gender bashers have taken over this thread. The purpose of the thread has now been defeated.
Thread closed.

I don't thnk the story is true

I pity her

theapeman4:
one thing I know is that Nigeria women are very stvpid!

your assumptions you are claiming is wrong are all true base on the fact that this assumptions are base on Naija Women!

our contemporary Naija women are useless piece of shiit who can open their smelly leg just for a piece of paper!

Naija women are fish minded creature with no future ambitions

I'd have replied you but when I saw your moniker, I figured that your brain operates in the IQ of an ape.
You say my points are wrong, but instead of backing your argument with sensible points, you rave and rage and throw insults like a madman high on weed.
I know you wanna start a fight, but I won't give it to you.
Now run along you mutated ape

skyme:
I always tell people life is happiest outside relationship when you are brok,they thought am mad.

now the Christmas is here nd your woman is expecting something from you..the little you hav to manage yourself you call her nd give her.now u are with me crying lik a baby because you need money for yourself.
Later again you came telling me she has broken up with you that she said her feeling for you have gone.for gush! sake why wouldn't she lost her feeling when you fail meeting her need monetarily.
the truth here is that ,the only thing you should take very seriously when you don't have the means to keep a woman is hold your God thight and build yourself. *read my lip no gal will stay with a brok guy.*
she might manage pretends she loves you but the truth is she is managing nd pitying you..l

Read my lip avoid relationship when you still trying to survive and quote me> Leaning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.

just tell us the name of the lady who broke your heart last year.

HazardAwka:
Am 25 and she is 20. And i want to marry her when am up to 30 but then again she will only be 25 then. Is the age difference that much because i look a lot older than her. But we love each other. What should i do?

see question. Sometimes I with wonder the kind of questions you people ask here at times.
President Macron, the presido of France married a woman 25 years older than him. And you're here complaining of 5 years.
You're not ready.

sacajawea:
See Go and Make Money (i.e billions) and Stop all these Analysis on Nairaland

where are your own billions?

Amakavula:
I saw this picture today and it had me speechless. The people in the photo are both married but one thing couldn't leave my mind. How are they having sex ?

The man is huge, definitely his "Cassava " will be monumental, like that of an elephant. The Elephant's D is big and a human can't take it. So how will she take it all. The vagina expanses alot during childbirth, but it's painful and a one time thing.

So how is it possible guys, ladies. Mature answers please.

Are you really a girl? Cause I'm confused

She has been banned by an anti spam bot. Revontuli, please stay safe. I know what will happen if he tries to find you

revontuli:
Not carrying but keeping at home and car in case.
I can't learn martial arts cause of a disability I have.
If I could I would.
The possibility of him making such a long trip to go after me is low, though.
I will report the threats and such to the authorities here, if it's possible to get him denied entry to the country. Looking into the options.

there is ability in disability. And don't think he won't come after you. He is now unhinged mentally and won't think like a normal human
Girl, its almost midnight here and I need to catch some sleep. I have a big day tomorrow. Stay safe okay?

Dapsonemmanuel:
just get a life..




dazall


biatch


don't mistake me for one your customers
I don't do whores

you lack morals

revontuli:
Met him through mutual friends. He wasn't a psycho then, though, quite the opposite. He had a reputation as a good Samaritan. Helping everyone in need, protector of the weak, he also helped me with a lot of difficult things and gave me support when I battled with chronic illness. Who could guess? None of his close friends had any idea, either.

I am trying to get him arrested for possible child rape, cause he nearly admitted that to the woman he kidnapped and raped. He said he did "something horrible" and his little nephew took his own life. A 9 year old child. If they don't open a case with this, I will lose all faith in the American law enforcement.

people change until their last breath

revontuli:
I relocated to Europe and we aren't allowed to get guns here. I can get a crossbow though, there are no restriction on non-firearms. Crossbow is just as deadly and no permits are required, just some marksman skills.

carrying a crossbow around is both unethical as it is strange. Imagine carrying a crossbow to work? Looks and sounds strange right?.
Take some judo and karate classes on self defense. You might never know when you'd need them (your life could be on the line)
Also get some thing lethal but less pronounced like pepper spray. It helps a lot( it has helped me once)

revontuli:
I couldn't tell any of this to my close friends and family cause of shame.
Easier to tell complete strangers you know. I felt ashamed for allowing this to happen.
I got the divorce in 2017 but didn't have the mental energy to kick him out and dealing with the lawyers and such, until this past summer.
I shouldn't be ashamed, the shame isn't mine but it's quite embarrassing to tell family and most friends about such a thing.

He got committed into mental hospital against his will for violent and suicidal behavior before, I found that out much much later.

that mindset you have can get you killed. If you can't tell your family this and call them to help you in this your time of need, what do you have them for?

revontuli:
I already ran away overseas to the other side of the world.
He is going after the weak and vulnerable people nearby, not very likely to go after me but I still have some fear and watch out.

don't worry. You'll be safe. Just confide in the authorities or someone you can trust. Also arm yourself. Anything can happen. Getting a gun is easier over there right?

revontuli:
The girl he raped was local.
I am thousands of miles away, overseas. But I am always cautious, got my address removed from directories and made me population registry record private and closed to everyone except the government. But he is more likely to go after the easy prey, which he did. We have reason to suspect he raped his little nephew. The kid hung himself, why would a9 year old take his own life? I am reporting this to the police too, maybe they will do something cause a child is dead. This is messed up, no one treated this as a suspicious death or done autopsy. A 9 year old boy hangs himself and no one bats an eye. Police doesn't care, no autopsy, no questioning the mother for neglect.

He is a sadist of the highest order, only hid it really well. I was the milking cow and slave, to work and make money to feed his fat lazy arse so he never laid a finger on me but did terrible, terrible psychological torture, threats, sleep deprivation. I planned my escape and ran away. I tried everything to get him arrested, but the rape-torture victim will not speak, she is mentally devastated from the ordeal and the law enforcement doesn't care unless the victim talks. He would be tried and sentenced long time ago in a civilized country!

At least get the jungle justice anywhere else. He wouldn't get away with any of this in Nigeria for sure.

Texas is the cowboy and steak capital but there is also poverty, ghettoes and sick psycho mass murderers.
There are a lot of unsolved murders where I used to live.

wait, what?
A guy rapes a guy like himself? Not even a mature one, a 9 year old boy? Why are the authorities throwing a blind eye to all of this?
I wonder how the nigerian police would've reacted to this. I'm short of words.
How can he do such a thing? Green snake in a green grass.
I'm watching CBS Reality right now. They're investigating a murder. A real one.
He gone too far to be saved. You guys have a potential serial killer in your midst.

Dapsonemmanuel:
..shut up



biatch


what is your own there


better go and mind your whoring business
you know
Xmas is coming..

now you have my attention. What else do you want?

revontuli:
I try my best, I always have the fear in the back of my head he may try to stalk me, even with the ocean in-between. I feel nervous when I see any car following me, if they follow long enough I get spooked and make a diversion to lose them. It's always coincidence just people going the same direction, but if it's small rods and they take all the same turns, I get really spooked and divert to a well-lit crowded place or main road where I can shake them off in traffic.

You have only one solution. The law has failed you. Man has failed You. Please turn to God and start praying for yourself.
Relocate to some where far. And when I say far, I mean very far. I hear getting immigration permit in other countries if you have a us visa is easier, so it shouldn't be much of a problem.
He's losing his sanity fast, and he doesn't want help. Please run away. Run!
God will see you through. I've seen too many CSI shows and most murders come from this kind of situation. Police call it "A Crime Of Passion''

highcollide:
So why are you telling us? So that we can go and arranged the house for you?

Try to read between the lines

revontuli:
Oh I ran away for my life and took my things with me. He stole my gold, silver, valuable things and never gave any of it back, despite the court order. I learned later it is pointless to try to enforce the court order, it will cost me tons of money and I am not likely to get it back. Apparently he won't even go to jail for stealing my valuables, or trashing my house. He completely got away with this.

I learned that he kidnapped, tortured and brutally raped a woman who is a friend's girlfriend. He bullied and intimidated the victim so bad, she refuses to go to the police, refuses to leave her apartment too. We couldn't convince her to file charges. She is convinced he will go kill all of her family if she talks. We don't know how many other people he possibly hurt. I tried to call the sheriff's department to report him as a violent criminal, but they brushed me off and said they can do nothing unless the victim herself comes forth and officially presses charges. They will do NOTHING and let a violent, sick psycho walk free and get away with all this crime.

This is Texas for you.
Dark and ugly side of America.

He's a rapist.
He's a thief
He's a sex offender.
He breaks the law.
Please stay safe and be safe. Men are creatures of habit. If he had raped a girl brutally and got away with it, he's sure to do to again. And his next target will be you. He will see it as payback for all the charges you pulled at him. Please, please and please, stay away from anyone who might disclose your whereabouts to him. Your safety and health is paramount. He seems to be a sadist and a very callous fellow.

Texas is ugly? I had always seen it as the steak and cowboy capital of the United States

revontuli:
I have never been to Nigeria.
The house is in the US (Texas), I'm in Europe. Ran away form that monster pretty much.

its a good thing you did. He's crazy. Cover your tracks well please. Don't let him know your whereabouts. He is the type of man who stalks his exes