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Some men just don’t know how to control themselves
So sorry for your experience
Have you gone for any sort of therapy to deal with the negative emotions?

Or should I mention the countless amount of times my username has been debased and vilified by monikers of the opposite sex?

I started out life from a place of abject poverty. One of the things we used to survive as a family was me hawking pasteries like buns, egg rolls and fish pies for my mother

Whilst hawking, my call out phrase was simply “sweet buns!”

As time went by, my father got a better job and our living standards increased
When I registered to this site, that experience and my childhood interest in baking and catering inculcated into me by my parents was what came to mind and inspired my moniker
I didn’t in my wildest dreams imagine it’d become so violated by complete strangers on the internet

Is that my fault too?
Was my retaliation uncalled for?

InquisitorKybon:
This thread was provoked by the recent thread I saw Seun make regarding the “misogynistic” atmosphere of the romance section of late
While this may be true to some extent (some female haters do exist here), same can be said about the other side of the coin
In fact Seun, I believe the misandrists outnumber the misogynists in this section

Here is my list with proof or posts

1. Magnoliaa (this one came out of nowhere)

https://www.nairaland.com/7246970/why-men-shouldnt-internet

https://www.nairaland.com/6547391/reality-every-guy-need-know

2. Sweetbuns (notorious serial offender since 2018. 5 years later nothing has been done)

https://www.nairaland.com/7929914/issue-nairaland-men

https://www.nairaland.com/7929265/type-men-dont-want-personal

https://www.nairaland.com/6001018/broke-guys-shouldnt-even-erections

https://www.nairaland.com/5848611/why-guys-take-rejection-like

https://www.nairaland.com/5842776/where-ubunja

3. Jennyclay (another serial blatant offender)

https://www.nairaland.com/7713442/stingy-men-should-avoided-all

https://www.nairaland.com/7957947/breakfast-morning-picture#127772141

https://www.nairaland.com/7956898/nigerian-man-lists-requirements-wife/1#127772032

https://www.nairaland.com/7953860/dont-bring-wife-abroad-concerned#127705225

https://www.nairaland.com/7942608/recommend-good-android-phone-within#127510121

4. Cococandy/islandlady

https://www.nairaland.com/7523284/why-most-men-derive-satisfaction

https://www.nairaland.com/7351220/confused-nagging-nature-nigerian-men

https://www.nairaland.com/7114064/why-cant-some-men-control

https://www.nairaland.com/7282662/men-always-men-recent-experience

https://www.nairaland.com/7141359/sex-what-men-think-mostly

https://www.nairaland.com/7110054/why-some-men-soo-ungrateful-read


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I initially wanted to ignore this post completely but I think this will be a very good time to address this issue

Half of the threads you mentioned there were simply me pushing back on mischievous monikers trolling me into annoyance

Defending myself now is man hate?

The rest were simply me expressing personal opinions aka “I want a tall, dark and handsome man with a head full of hair” and “men ought to be more sexual responsible because of the social ills irresponsibility causes”

Funniest thing is that in all of those threads, 99.9% of the vulgar words and insults came from male monikers who were either trolling me or outright insulting me

Do you know how it feels to come back from your place of work or church or whatever and log on to your account only to meet hundreds of mentions filled with nothing but insults and rape threats?

I guess not. But that has happened to me 3 DIFFERENT TIMES.
But the moment I try to defend myself, I’m a man hater.
lmao ok
Let’s see what Seun will do. This too shall end

FRANCISTOWN:
"For there is no curse cause less."

You should also show what the lady said to have gotten that response. Make nobody come dey whine us for hia

You keep giving more and more reasons why people shouldn’t even be listening to you
Rape apologist, please justify the rape threat when all I said was this

I’m just happy that those ones who refused to listen and voted in Escobar Pablo as our president will be here and suffer with us

This is just Act 1 Scene 1
Let’s buckle up for the wild ride

codedgalaxy:
Men on this forum should be left alone in peace to reason together in brotherhood.

The people who deserve to be left alone are the women
Person no fit comment for post again without having one or two urchins invading her mentions with insults

All this epistle and story simply because Seun decided to nominate a female supermod

Keep wailing

And Lmao @ nobody ever said women deserved to be raped on this forum

Seun, your method of monikers nominating other monikers has a major defect
You’ve forgotten how jobless some members of this forum can be
Some of them operate 10, 20 or even 30 different monikers e.g. labâdï, Lǔcìfer, zônëfrée etc
I wouldn’t want a situation where one jobless moniker will vote for themselves whilst beating those with actual but fewer genuine votes
Please look into this.
You could try to utilize the method 4chan uses to nominate its Janitors and supermods

Seun:
Hello Everyone,

There have been numerous complaints about anti-women, anti-feminist and misogynistic content on Nairaland, especially in this section.

This is not unrelated to the rising popularity of people like Sola, who are trying to fight back against the perceived excesses of woke western feminism. But it has brewed too much toxicity.

It has driven too many women out of the Romance section and out of Nairaland. They feel that they are always being attacked by male Nairalanders who seem to hate and despise them.

How can we make women feel welcome in the Romance section and on Nairaland? What rules should we put in place to bring women back and make them very happy?

Cheers.

It’s about time
The problem is now too much presently
Please do something about it quickly
Insults, derogatory statements, rape threats
We’ve seen it all

Oh thank God
Finally

How do I need to replace my Xsmax battery Abeg

Here we go again

Ever since the COVID 19 pandemic I’ve stopped laughing at stuff like this cause the world system isn’t as infallible as we think and you never know, it may be true

I just pray God protects us all

Xsmax
It’s already reaching the end of its support period so I’ll be changing it to the 11pm by the grace of god

It’s just you

It’s called give and take
You provide financial stability and lifestyle, and you get companionship, love and your future generations in return

But I guess you’re too self absorbed to realize that
Women are people, not machines placed on the earth for your selfish whims and pleasures

Lemme guess, 1.2 million eh?

Watching a goal and plan you set years before come to fruition with good results is the best feeling on earth

iPhone Xsmax or later

CHRISTFUCKER:
Take hrt and flaunt what God gave you



You fit do surgery and die amidst surgery

You want him to troon out?
Groomer
Set awon jay boogie

Sorry about it
Thank God what was lost was something recoverable (wounds and phone) and not something irrecoverable (life)

Seems the wound is nasty from what I see up there so please get yourself treated

You just need more time to practice
Trial and error is key
You strike me as a person with high inhibition when it comes to social settings
Also work on your humor. Girls love being a funny guy

No.

So what do you want us to do for you now

This is not the feminism I know

Boyfriend not husband
I see no problem
Overtaking is allowed

Only one sperm actually does something in a woman’s body i.e. fertilizing her eggs

All other sperm cells are taken and destroyed by a woman’s immune system

No nutrients or any other bullshit is added

Nigerian men sha
There is this disturbing misconception among them that any woman who is growing fat and fresher by the day must be “collecting” the testicular juices from either one man or several (yes, they have a very active and colorful imagination)
Whereas the woman is simply sleeping and eating better
Nigerian men. They can’t understand the fact that women can actually do something as basic as growing fat without them
Tueh

Jeon:
Strictly redpill



What happened?. Can't you make the girl come back and be obsess with you by using the games ?

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Guy, going through your posts shows that you are unstable and really have a big troubles.

What's this?

You said "Your heart will be hard towards girls, yet you cried over ladies and relationship ".


Who can you keep when you can't keep yourself and not to mention the one you deflowered.

Gladly this lady rejected you. She just avoided a stray redflag.

Redpill only exists on nairaland
Offline, they’re worse than the so called “simps” they bash here all the time

Go and be mischievous elsewhere
Cause I don’t understand how you were able to read a deleted post

GB Nairaland?