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“I am completely unable to attract members of the opposite sex, so instead of fixing the root problem (which is me) I would rather convince myself that relationships aren’t worth it in the first place and that other people who have succeeded where I failed are definitely having a terrible time.”

Continue in your tomfoolery sir. It’s quite entertaining

Take him out to a good restaurant and give him very good food
Also be a good sport and provide excellent company
He will go home with a full belly and a happy mind

Not everything has to be expensive and flashy

You mean to tell me that she cooked for 19 days straight? That’s two days shy of 3 full weeks!

Wow. Just wow

Fake story but watch as the redpillars and alpha mails drink it all up because it agrees with some of their twisted world views

pocohantas:
That shouldn't be your business if you ask me.
Dollar is N1500, focus on that.

The day you start giving that thing audience will be the day it will start pestering you
Hell, even if you don’t engage it, it will still be a nuisance
I have reported and got 2 of its alts banned, but the the thing still persists
I can’t count the amount of times I log in and meet 6-8 mentions from it saying the most random retarded things
Just ignore it. That’s the best option i have found for now

I love how the thread was completely derailed

Iyanuoluwa007:
Instead of you to say you're interested.

If I want a man the last place I’ll go looking for him is nairaland

You will just get scammed
Nairaland is not the place for this. Not anymore

FRANCISTOWN:
The girl is a hero. We are already too much in this world

Yes
I also think it will be a good thing if all your family members join that same class of heroes

We truly need them to step up

Wicked heart

Stable diffusion
You can only get it on pc

What the lady did was bad but he shouldn’t destroy his home because of this and deprive the child of his fatherly attention and care

Seeing a wojak meme on nairaland was quite unexpected

Touché

Karen2024:
I'm so hurt! Ouch! It hurts 💔
Why are men so wicked?
Why are men so heartless?
After spending years building relationship and helping to shape him, he dumps you in just a matter of few seconds and pick up a lady who never contributed to his successes.
I can't bear it anymore...the 7th time I am hurt in life.
I can't just believe that men have human heart, they don't.

So you spent several years “building” with him
Osheyy…. Bob the builder lady
Better learn and fix up or you’ll continue to suffer

What is going on 😭😭😭

I won’t even just block her
I will go to her house and give her a very dangerous and stern warning
I don’t want to see her close to my husband
Home wrecker
Husband snatcher
Witch disguising as friend

1. Why are you bringing your marital affairs here for strangers on the internet to judge? Aren’t there people in better positions e.g. your or her relatives that can provide better perspectives?

2. What’s the point of making a “part 2” thread? Are you sure this story isn’t fake and is being made just to seek attention?

3. If 2 is true, shouldn’t you be making better use of your time?

MumEmdy:
Then what are you still waiting for let him go because it will only get worse. In as much I am not a feminist I dislike all these redpill/redbeast stuff I read here on nairaland.

Move on, your life not does begin nor end with a certain guy, why can't we live our normal life void of unnecessary laws from both genders, haba!

I hope your son is in good spirits

Jobless bad belle individuals
They should leave my man alone Abeg

writetopoker:
Consider how your actions affect your reputation and relationships. Focus on personal growth and finding a fulfilling job that matches your skills and interests. This reflects positively on your character and shows respect for your parents.

Don’t waste your spittle and time on such individuals
All of it will be for naught

Well, do you?

Man:- normal but eventually gets influenced by boys on the internet and becomes progressively self-absorbed, narcissistic and dismissive of his other partner’s needs

Woman:- Why did you change in such a bad way? What did I do to deserve this?

Online Redpillars/Alpha mails:- will you keep quiet? Can’t you see how he’s becoming an alpha mail? Can’t you see some features of redpill in him? Oh? What did you do to deserve such treatment? It’s because you are a woman. Yes, there is no other congent reason I can give you.

Normal humans:- but can’t you see that he’s just being a terrible human being?


Alpha mails:- Well he’s a redpillar but at the same time he isn’t (mental gymnastics begins)….. redpill is all about love…. Even though most of our philosophy is centered around putting women down physically and mentally…


In case you were wondering what that toxic sludge of a thread does to humans, here we have it

Beautiful
I wish them a very happy marital life ❤️❤️❤️

Suffer and build with a man and he will reward you when he becomes stable

Tufiakwa

Lies from the pit of hell.

Jeon:
Once a lady is well package with hourglass or pear bodyshape, she is a hoe.








Most Men and sense are enemies.

😂😂😂

Baby don’t hurt me
Don’t hurt me
No more…

Jewessgratitud3:
I'm telling you.

My dear I've not gone for any therapy. Like I'm so ashamed to tell anyone this. I can do that here because no body knows me here.

It was a terrible experience..

Thanks dear.

I understand
But at least try to do one or two therapy sessions. Letting out bottled emotions is always a good thing
I hope you find happiness and joy in life regardless of it all

Some men just don’t know how to control themselves
So sorry for your experience
Have you gone for any sort of therapy to deal with the negative emotions?

Or should I mention the countless amount of times my username has been debased and vilified by monikers of the opposite sex?

I started out life from a place of abject poverty. One of the things we used to survive as a family was me hawking pasteries like buns, egg rolls and fish pies for my mother

Whilst hawking, my call out phrase was simply “sweet buns!”

As time went by, my father got a better job and our living standards increased
When I registered to this site, that experience and my childhood interest in baking and catering inculcated into me by my parents was what came to mind and inspired my moniker
I didn’t in my wildest dreams imagine it’d become so violated by complete strangers on the internet

Is that my fault too?
Was my retaliation uncalled for?