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What a solipsistic post
Nigerian men ehn….

They make money and you ignore them, they begin to shout that women are “hypergamous” and they don’t want men on the same level as them

On the other hand, if they make money and you give them a bit of attention, all of a sudden we are all “gold diggers” and “useless parasites” who are after one thing

Which one is it, oh XY clan of nairaland?

Let’s even assume that the women in question are pissed. How did you know that it’s because of the so called “money” you make?
Could it be your character instead?
Or how you treat other people because you’re now making small change?
Or how you give condescending airs to who ever is unfortunate enough to cross paths with you?

Or she’s simply too busy being pissed off with the problems bugging her own life whilst not noting your existence?

Nooo


That can’t be true
It must be because of money. Yes

I wish them nothing but the best

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You could’ve gotten the 60,000mah romoss power bank instead

They should first insert 5 broomsticks into that one eyed snake between his legs
After that, they should use Tiger razor blade to make small cuts on the tip before putting fresh Cameroon pepper on it
After that, he should be beaten till his spirit will beg to pass on

Just you wait, they will soon start calling you a fool and a simp

Hmmm
What she did was bad sha
Both of them have some talking and healing to do

Okay?

dominique:
What is the correlation between you feeling like kill chicken and inviting tour girlfriend over? Having a girlfriend/fiance/wife does not make you an invalid. Kill and cook your damn chicken! The girl should better dust her slippers and flee from a broke lazy ass like you to avoid had I known.

Lol @ broke lazy ass
Succinctly put

Tempulated:
You no dey sleep?

With your big full lips.

Why you day track my sleep pattern

1. She was willing to place immense trust in you when she exposed her vulnerability and shared a significant and albeit traumatic period of her life when she was likely exploited by older and more experienced boys, all at the tender age of 7.

2. Additionally, she confided in you about her ongoing journey to heal from the emotional trauma caused by that stage in her life, which she is attempting to overcome by refraining from engaging in the very act that caused her distress.

However, instead of acting as a normal human being and show some degree of empathy and mutual understanding, the only response you could come up with in that head of yours seems to be "Give me sex or I will leave."

Really?
That was all you could come up with?
How old are you?

Honestly, I'll be happy if you leave her because the type of boy you are isn't what she's looking for at all.
Please move on and let her heal in peace bikonu

Seems nobody is allowed to have preferences on Nairaland again
If you have as a woman, you're getting attacked
Now even if you're a man, you'll still catch some smoke
E go reach everybody

SuperOnyi:






The great ilegendd! Indeed, the mind is a powerful weapon but nowadays, I've been stuck in stagnant waters and lost my purpose because of how I watched my neighbor die.

I've been unable to get back to writing, the only thing that give me purpose — the drive isn't there anymore, maybe because I haven't mastered keyword and niche research.

You're NOT NwaAmaikpe

I love Lagos
Eko o ni baje o

Go to a hospital

To other neighbouring African nations?
Maybe

To the other continents (Europe, Asia)?
No.

Amarabae:
Who remembers me?
Its been long dearies,
Where are all those Wonderful guys and babes in romance section back then
Am just seeing new new monikers here.
All the same
Its good to be back
Let me briefly re-introduce myself for the sake of ndi pm
I am Oriaku Amara
A nurse
A wife
A mother
A relationship counselor
I believe that romance section can truly be a refreshing point of educative threads that will benefit our relationship and personal life.

Where have you been
We missed you 💓

TheFinesseKid:
why do you always hop on every thread created by males. And when they come for you, you'll start crying with your pork nose. Please get a life.

"...why do you always hop on every thread created by males....."

Isn't that like 99% of the topics that appear on this section?
For such a being of logic (as you claim), you still failed to notice such a flaw in your argument. Logical sex Indeed.

You could've been more direct and kuku tell Seun to ban females from saying anything in this section

Efulefu

The OP be like,

"My girlfriend is expressing her right to freedom of movement as the fully grown adult that she is and it bothers me. She doesn't ignore me, but she's also not disturbing my phone all day so that I can find another thing to talk/complain about. Is this a red flag? What do I do?"

Oh grow up. You literally broke off communication with her because she attended a FAMILY FUNCTION, a social occasion she had to do with people that she'd known years, if not decades before she even noticed your existence.
What will now happen if she wants to go to her friends wedding? She'll have to tender 2 months notice or else... Bah?

Not only that, you expect her to constantly blow up your phone with attention because she doesn't have a life bah?
The replies she gives you when you chat, is that not reciprocative enough?

I expect the alpha mails and red pillars to come through for you with their bogus advice devoid of any actual real life experience

Edit:- they never disappoint

tochez24:
You MUST be an slowpoke⚠️

YES..... You must be truly plain foolish to be dating who's is not dating you♂️

I can even smell your stupidity from thousands of miles away!!! Why will she then contact you first? When you obviously have NOTHING going on in your life to attract her....

You ATTRACT people oga, you don't force friendships/relationships!!!!

Focus on making money, develop yourself, hit the gym and do the things that make ls YOU happy. Genuine people will naturally come to you...

I personally have over 500+ contacts blocked on my phone and all social media platforms.
*You don't reach out to me i block you❌
* You don't reply my message or chat after some hours i block you❌❌
* You disrespect me i block you❌❌❌
* You don't focus on making money too i block you❌❌

People treat me like a celebrity blah blah blah.....

Most Nigerians are naturally dumb and proud people, most especially the broke and unexposed ones... This is the only way to handle them⚠️

How narcissistic

Best I can do is to be more receptive and initiate body contact
If you don't step up, it's your loss
When you make the moves instead of them, they hate it cause it emasculates them

See them looking for people that will suffer with them

5g samsung for 170k
Okay oooo
Just make sure you don't land in police net you hear?

Nairaland stories are soooo 2016

ikeno:
If you have no interest in her why would you be jealous of her with other men.

I wonder o
Confused man asking some confusing questions

Nation of confusion

God help and protect me and my loved ones
What is the world coming to?

On today's episode of things that never happened.....

Tueh
Na so you will use your hand to bring children into this world just for them to suffer endlessly