₦airaland Forum

Suprises: @Op
If spending real money on a sexy gal like u is labelled gold digging then i wil endorse it.Mehn...U luk so pretty,i wil be in brisbane in 3weeks time,wil like to see u then

DJX50: Ok, my magic stick is faaaarrrr more valuable than money.
Its really magical n works wonders....
Would that draw you to me then?

faceit: there r so many ladies dat i v met dat doesnt ask for anytin from any man...they work and doesnt want to b trample upon by men dat think all women r gold diggers....as if dey r even billionaires in d first place...rubbish

agabasam: gr8 den...am hia in Nigeria.....am nt going 4 lectures...jst 2 clerk sme1....wishing u d best in 2013

caesaraba: (Almost) everyone digs good looks. Men and women alike. That said, experience has taught me that although the beauty of the 'container' matters, the content of said 'container' matters more.

Gbawe: By the way, this message is for all the wannabe 'pan-Africans'. Get involved and don't just chat crap online while judging others via taking some pretentious moral high ground when your contribution to improving Africa is a big fat zero !!!!! You folks talk a lot but I don't see your contribution on the ground where it matters. If your talk translated into real effort then Africa would be better today but the fact is that you are all firmly ensconced in your diasporan bases , talking tediously, while 'whitey' you malign so much is probably doing more for your own rural community than you ever can/will.

This is exactly what we are talking about. People like u who are so negative. You turn people off instead of encouraging them. What if we are currently just talking cant u encourage us? Sick and tired of people like you. Do u think by talking to us like this because we have ideas would encourage us to pack up our bags and go and contribute Some people talk because all they need is 1 or 2 people to get behind them and encourage them.

agabasam: av gat 2 rush 2 skul..wia do u stay...seems like gud luk z a myth dia...lols....sme ladies dig gud luks....i remenbr 1 dt gts gift 4r ha male pals n gv me in ma yr 1....gud luks z gd bzness......

usermane: The tip of the iceberg is men aren't looking for the nice girl,they are looking out soley for beauty. A lot of men are so superficial that they value looks far above manners on their scale of preference. And since a lot of men are after just one beautiful girl at a time,each man tend to see his wealth as an ace in hole to lure the lady to him. Hence the girl is surrounded by gold mines and have no choice but to dig and mine from the largest mine deposit.
In short, unless we guys become less superficial we might just have to endure the gold diggers.

agabasam: aw u wish lols...... I dnt lie nah...med sch hs calmed me down sha....lif z a stage...

agabasam: If they is no gold digging, ugly folks would be deprived of d beautifull 1c......no spoil bizness 4 sme pple o........as i fine so,i no d spend moni 2 get "u knw wat", it comes as a free gift of nature...sme even bring thnksgiving gifts afta d events

dmcdad: Wow... This got me ruminating... Op, in as much as you are right in most of the points you outlined, yet, there are some iota if not more than that of fallacy as regards this piece of yours. I would agree to some extent that men are one of the contributing factors that tends to spoil a lot of women with the all-money mentality today, but even at that, men are not entirely to be blamed.

dmcdad: What happens if a girl is the principled and very disciplined type that doesn't get gifts just anyhow? In as much as men get you gifts every now and then is not a yardstick for you to base your aim of going into a relationship or whatever on money. That would be a misconception. Yes! I agree a lot of men flaunt these stuffs to trip them girlz, but even at that, a lady who knows her worth hook, line and sinker cannot be bought no matter what.

dmcdad: The fact that the last three men a girl dated gave her gifts it's not or should not be a yardstick for her to be requesting from the current boyfriend. Tell me, if a guy comes on here to give a complaint as regards how a girl dumped him or something, and how he had suffered similar fate from the past three relationships he had been, and because of that he decides to generalize that all girls are the same, what would you say? I presume your answer would be that, despite the fact that three or four girls did hurt him, that is not to say that every other girl will hurt him. Gbam! This is contrary to what you said. Like you said, because she had dated three guyz probably her past three dates), that did buy her gifts and stuffs, that means she would also expect that from the current guy. This would be very wrong because it would mean generalizing that all guys are indebted to act as such. Do you catch my drift?

dmcdad: Men like to show off quite alright, but you and I know very well that, there are few (rare gems) that you can't flaunt your wealth for and succeed. You would agree with me right? Now, this means that, the fact that a man flaunts what he has is not enough reason for you to have that fishy kinda mindset that the guy is suppose to pay or be an office to you.Do you think it's enough reason to tell you that I was unfaithful with you blah blah blah due to the fact that I saw a woman on the street who was unclad? Would you accept that as good enough reason to justify my unfaithfulness? C'mon! I know it plays a role in the seduction game, but that is not an excuse to be unfaithful, right? Same applies in that assertion of yours.

dmcdad: In a nutshell, in as much as I agree with you that men play a contributing role in helping to shape the minds of a lot of girls today, that is not to say the men are entirely to blame because it is still up to the girls involved to choose to fall or not. After all, there are girls that will NEVER receive any gift from you, no matter what you get them. Are these same set of girls not humans? Or do you want to deny the fact that they do exist?

dmcdad: Bottom line: Men are not to blame for female gold-diggers but the females involved. Men play a contributing part in flaunting or offering gifts or the likes, but it is always at the disposal of the said women to accept or not.

pleep: *Sigh* when i started reading this i was really impressed, my eyes glazed over with pride and love.... suddenly i was standing naked in the savannah with my mixed breed princess... her African bootie trembling in the wind... Then i got to the last part, and realized it was all a joke.


but seriouslly tho, to all yall who are taking this serious, it is a cruel hoax! she is actually mocking us

oraclefemi: so when we see a girl we like, we should throw all our hard earned wealth into to the trash just because of a relationship, pls bore me ..i am waiting . A well trained girl will see beyond material things, when you find her you will know , until then if you discover a gold digger, please your desires and move on.. simple

dmcdad: Abi oooo. I am just wondering... It seems the Op didnt take alot of things into consideration before making this thread, else she wouldnt have come up with this thread cos it's.... just awkward. Gosh!

ojemzy: well lets just say it takes 2 to Tango, if women can resist d lure of materialism, then it makes it easier for men to start doing the right things.

btw how do i date a sweet babe like Sweet.gurl in 2013 without spending my life savings (Sexy gurl)

DJX50: Sweetgurl, if dats you in your pic, I wouldn't mind flaunting my greatgrandpa's properties for you to come and dig my gold

Blackteeth: When I remember p-square's "chop my money" and similar Nigerian songs with the same theme, and also remember posts from Nairaland guys saying all it takes to get women is money, I think guys are RESPONSIBLE for making Nigerian ladies gold diggers.

lalaosky: yep you're right but in naija, it has gotten to a sorry state where without money, you'll hardly find a girl of your own as evidenced here too in NL where you'll see advice such as " GUY, GO MAKE MONEY AND THAT CHICK WEY DEY SNUB YOU GO BE YOUR OWN"