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By the way, you didn't tell us the reason behind the misunderstanding. You said his unforgiving, i suspect you got laid by another man ( Did you cheat on him?). If so, just forget it 'cause even if you guys make up the trust is gone like a fart in the wind.

Why don't you just leave that buster/loser alone and move on. Are you waiting for the time you will see him locking lips with another woman before you get the message his sending you? You better start looking for a guy now to occupy your mind and time. Don't be caught sleeping young lady. He probably doesn't worth a crap anyways.

Stay alive, because "Payback is a mother^&%$% ". If you know what i mean!

Babygirl, drop this loser and find yourself a man that is ready to love you and make you his wife. You maybe thinking you young right now, but day in day out you 'll find out that you are 30 and still single messing with that loser !!!

By security, i mean capital returns, thiefs, fair competition, how many people to bribe to secure permits e.t.c

I love African women a lot but i'm beginning to think that situations back home is driving these women to immorality. I'm not generalizing but the things you hear about university girls are scary. I know that most western women do not have to worry about some things African women worry about. So people, what is your opinion ?? I read an article about how Nigerian universities have been turned to brothels.

I;m beginning to start investing and doing business back in Nigeria.

I found out labor is cheap and resources are readily available but i'm scared of security.

Can anybody with experience give me a down low of how to start and be successful in business in Nigeria?

Will family be trustworthy enough to manage a business for me?

Take your time and search for a convenient job pending the time that you are independent and have a means of transportation. Take it easy and be prayerful. You are a lucky chap.

@ ferlie

I've been a member for a while now, i just decided to change my account because i got a new E-mail address. Now go lay down.

@ hot

ferlie/gay has never fallen in love, he's still busy trying to figure out if his male of female !

@ ferlie/gay

Where is your mama? how did you get on the computer? Don't start s#!^$% with me, aight?

@ ferlie, faggott or whatever your name is.

The post was not for you, you fu#$@!@# butt breath.

His Job is not enough reasons not to call, I don't know how things are in London but i know he has 30 min. in a day to call someone that sings a sweet song to his heart. Or may be his finding it hard to settle down since he just left 2 years ago. Talk to him and ask him wzup? And also do your own homework and be prayerful. It always works ! How old are you by the way? If time is on your side, take your time and follow the rules of righteousness and all will be well with you.

I feel you. You realy need to becareful, study the situation and don't jump into conclusions too early. It's possible that he might be busy and takes you for granted that you will always be there or he might be up to something. Only God knows. But you being the woman, you need to be true to yourself and try to get to know somebody in his family that you can be close with. Long distance relationships work sometimes but it depends on the faithfulness of the individuals involved. My situation was very sad. we parted for 8 years, only communicating occassionaly. She decided it was time to marry and she began to communicate with me. I fell for it and ignore all the neccessary signs of changes that i began to see in her. She was always giving me reasons to be suspicious. From Lagos to Abuja to Ibadan. But love blinds you sometimes. Everything came crashing down last october when i went to Nigeria. Her phone revealed some texts messages to her doctor that ended a sweet dream. Prayer does work, God revealed to me that she does not deserve a man like me. As at the time of typing this reply, she still has a valid U.S immigrant visa in her hand that i filed for her. But i had to change the plan in order to have a happy marriage. I hope she finds another man that will take care of her. My advise to you is find someone that knows your fiance in London and see if you can get some information from them before you put all your heart into this relationship. Some people don't like to be watched but i think it's good when it comes to marriage to know who exactly you are dealing with. People can be decieving. And are you sure that you are faithful too? I don't know your condition in Nigeria, but i found out that the level of poverty in Nigeria is driving men and women into unbelievable acts to survive. It's sad. But i'm all good now.