2buff, btw, the reason most ppl are focused mainly on the husband in this instance is because a woman didnt come in here saying she slapped her husband to discipline him. best believe if a woman said/did the same, i would say the exact same thing

2buff:

^^ Will you afford the same lengthy word of caution to the female provokers besides the usual vague, short and sparingly mentioned "it's not nice to attack men".
No? 

Thought so. then you are doing nothing to solve the problem. It is like trying to stop a fight , and all you do is hold one person while the other fighter is free to swing more punches at the other.
That is not how you stop a fight  

yes i would and i have. in my previous post, i mentioned husband and wife. i will never say, if they hit u hit back. my point still remains, the moment u even feel the need to "discipline ur HUSBAND OR WIFE, find ur square root. no one should hit their significant other. feel free to reread my other posts.

hmmmm, Life is hard o. one would think in this day and age, people will learn to reason and quit all this"im bigger n better than u" crap. didnt they say when peeps get married they become one. but in some cases, "we r equal but i am more equal than u" seems to be the case? change o. change. for u own good. one day, u will beat the wrong woman. ur blockus go dey ground. people acting like barbarians. if it were our grandfathers them saying all this, someone might say ok, they are old school. but the peeps on this thread are all (hopefully) between 18 and 30. and this is what they are saying. May the good lord help, guide and keep us safe o!

Babe, who is talking of self defense? the guy said a slap or two to remind her whos boss or something like that. If u feel u need to defend urself from ur wife/husband, u shouldnt be with that person. no two ways about it. if ur in the middle of an arguement and ur gf/wife is yelling and screaming and insulting u, slapping/beating her will only shut her up FOR THE MOMENT. But remember, payback is a dogs mother. the day that chick will seek revenge, maybe even 10 years later, u will regret the day ur popsi screwed ur momsi to concieve u. if u cant handle the heat, STAY THE HELL OUTTA THE KITCHEN. you people talking about attacking with knife against ur child, PLEASE GET LOST. Stop making excuses to find ways to make urself feel superior. like i said earlier, if u have to keep reminding someone ur boss, u r not. There is absolutely no reason y anyone, husband or wife, should lay a finger on their significant other. I f u find urself so enraged towards ur SO, u should not be with them. clearly u married the wrong person. find time and go and marry punching bag or cushion so whenever u get angry, u can punch away.

Tobius tobius:

For those who are trying to rationalize Violence against Women by saying, What if she slapped your mother, or rained abuses on you, or whatever ish,  Why would you wife a motorpark tout, an 'agbero'? A normal, decent human being wouldn't do that.

And no, PEOPLE DO NOT CHANGE. A usually quiet and well-behaved woman wouldn't just up and slap your mother or rain insults on you or whatever (even when there is serious provocation, it would still be rare). Likewise, a toutish woman would always be toutish. A leopard does not change its spots.

It's never a good idea to beat up on your wife. If not for anything, remember she sees you when you're sleeping. She could stab/castrate you in your sleep, or put just enough rat poison in your food to send you to the emergency room.

I swear. i always say the same thing. ur wife/gf is the one person that can kill u anytime she wants lol. she sees u sleeping, she cooks ur food, for some razzoids here, she even fetches ur water to baff outside.  Remember that saying about a woman scorned? trust me, an angry woman is the last person u want to piss off. even lion sef, u know all he will do is eat u. but a woman, the list of things she can do to u are endless. If ur unfortunate enough to hit a woman, i advice u to just break up with her. cos even if she begs u to stay, u think she'll forget what u did to her? nobody will tell u ur drinking urine n coffee every morning.  

Thats part of the problem some men have. They like to feel unnecessarily big: they are allowed to "discipline" their wife. is she ur child? does ur wife discipline u? who derives joy from making someone else feel like a lesser being? If u are upset to the point of considering hitting another mans child, LEAVE. If u cant leave temporarily and calm down, leave the relationship/marriage for good. If a guy hits a girl once, he will never stop. he has seen it is ok to do it. What makes a wife beater any different from the guy that beat his wife to death? all na anger. most guys dont sit down and plan to kill their wife. While they are so enraged, they lose control and next thing u know they kill the woman and say sorry. it was a mistake. all these men here screaming up and down that they must discipline, let her know who is boss, the fact that u have to keep "reminding" someone that ur boss means ur NOT. they have inferiority complex. Does ur boss at work slap u every time u piss him off? a woman is not a goat or dog that u beat to correct. if u and ur wife/gf cant get into an argument without u hitting her, u are a wuss and u might as well cut off ur wee wee cos u are not a man. u are an ignoran tpiece of crap masquerading as a reasonable human being.

who is dis goat? y would u put ur hands on a woman and claim ur a man? did she beat u? if shes annoying, be annoying back. if she breaks ur blackberry, break her own. if she yells at u, yell back. what do u gain by putting ur hands on her? to prove ur stronger and superior to her?  when was the last time "stronger" and "superior" paid ur rent? i taya for some type of men. when u have kids, if u hear ur daughters bf or husband slapped her, ur honestly telling me the first thing u will ask is,  "why"? "what did she do to him"? TUFIA!!!! i spit on all men like u. ur a complete waste of skin and deserve to be hung on a tree from  ur tiny balls. REAL MEN DONT HIT WOMEN!! especially someone u claimto love. If ur boss/dad/pastor/coworker pisses u off, will u slap them? but u will slap the woman u claim to love simply cos she upset u.  pls get lost











for the record, yes, i dey vex. 

Rubbish, useless thread. hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

what rubbish is this? u should be ashamed of urself for even taking the time to type that. when they call u tribalist now, u will say ur not. isnt that what the rubbish post up there shows u to be? useless goat.

lol

i cant see any of the pictures. Can anyone help me with that?

the guy is fine. those tribal marks are just very unfair,in my opinion. no worry, im sure he will find the bone of his bone who will appreciate his beauty. Inner and outer.

lololololol sorry jo. as soon as i read the guys story, i just see red. even if it was written in 1900, the guy is an everlasting obukor.

ok. This Mobo creature is a joke right? You have the liver to insult anyone ontop your horrible grammar and useless e-personality? chei. this cant be life. you are clearly an excuse for a human being. im sure even cockroaches no go gree claim u. were u raised by a strong naija woman or a pack of wolves?  Thunda faya both your useless tiny balls. beast of no gender. i pray u come back as an iranian woman in your next life. amen

Eziuche, dont mind that bloody sucking waste of semen. he sounds like he cantt even hold a conversation with u in person. u sound like an intelligent person so dont stoop low enuff to this maggots level to even trade words with him hun.

Trojanking, so taking the child from her would make her want to see u? try to figure out a way to reach an agreement regarding seeing/visiting ur child. Taking ur child from his comfort zone, his primary care giver and most importantly,his MOTHER is wicked. Unless she is mistreating him or incapable of taking proper care of him, you have no right, legal or moral sef, to take that child from his mother. so wat, u remarry and the next woman is raising another womans child? unfair. check ur self. All ur saying here is concerning issues between YOU and YOUR WIFE. Dont be spiteful by taking the child from his mom. Unless theres further gist ur not sharing with us.

I get ur pain and all but why the hell would u want to take the child from her? is she a bad mom? has she shown u that she neglects or abuses the child? why would u want to take a child from their primary caregiver just cos ur getting a divorce? i cant understand why SOME people think its ok to take a child from a perfectly good situation just out of spite. If u are the childs primary caregiver, no one would be arguing with u keeping him but his mom has been his primary caregiver and has offended u, not him. Get the divorce and maintain a relationship with ur child. if u feel she isnt taking proper care of ur child, then u can make an issue. damn

lol. I like "ur not dangote's son"

also,

ur not bill gates (or his son or daughter sef )

wow.see horse na. They for feed the horse few days before the royal wedding. This is not fair