@sisi kill, sasha, gestapo, ifyalways (page5), God bless you for your wisdom

@ego law, you are obviously a lwayer, you cannot do simple arithmetic, d guy is 33 and his gf is 24, so, pls use d calc function on ur fone if u avn't got one

@ Apocalypses, it is very possible to be in a relationship n not have intercourse as u said. Since ur brain was on sabbatical n decided nt 2 ask ur gf to take her leave, ur Mom as ur Mother decided to lend u hers, I still maintain no ryt-thinking, well-cultured young lady would still pass the night in a house with her prospective MIL (afterall, u guys weren't having a party and people couldn't help but pass the night.

Can i also take u back to where you said ur Mom was domineering and mean, but you admitted that somewhat made you and your brother meek and mild, helllooooo, naturally, meanness would bring about rebellion, but goes to prove that your is a good mother, who wants the best for her son and family,

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@Apocalypses,

1) It is very wrong of ur gf to have stayed the night with your Mom in the same house (I WOULDN'T DO DAT AS A SINGLE LADY), at least, if ur gf is not wise enough, you as a 33year-old, well-brought up man should

2) Thank goodness, u realised your folly soon enough, your previous posts showed u had already begun to resent your Mom

3) If you still think your Mom had no right, considering your "grown status", I will suggest you also ask her to stop praying for you because you are old enough to start praying for yourself (OR HAVE U NEVER THOUGHT THAT YOUR MOM'S PRAYERS HAVE ACTUALLY BROUGH YOU THIS FAR IN LIFE?)

@all, pls u don't have to render oral assistance to a grown man, HE DOESN'T NEED IT, AFTERALL HE'S GROWN!!!

And wat would be ur description of a mini-flat, pls?

and I refuse to accept that my good friend is a looser,
He's always very lively when he is with us (his guys) that when he is with the thing he calls a wife

@OP Rooneyboy, u r dis same 'good' friend who calls ur friend's wife 'the thing', it shows how much of a double looser u r. if u think u r a real man who can surely eat his cake and have it, why do u keep going after one gurl wanting her to be your girlfriend afterall, she's got nothing else to offer you besides sex which you can get from many sluts (sorry girls) out there, i wonder my men always contradict themselves with foolish statements,

Lets not forget that being a single parent wouldnt mean that you have no women in your life, it would simply means none are official.
a single father who puts priority of his life on his child/children would still get the same perks from the gals in his life as a married one would from his wife anyway. . . . . . . the simple fact that these gals aint "official" doesnt make any difference in regards to cooking and cleaning. the difference is that they have to leave in the morning.
@MrBrownJay, i think u share a large view with poster and his sad married friend, have u ever thought that if your father just impregnated your mother and decided to raise you u up without support or interference from your mother and your father has many children from different mothers he is not married to but you see him daily change women to sleep with them, wouldn't you be the same person to castigate your mother for abandoning you, and then call your daddy a man-LovePeddler for fathering many children by different mothers and irresponsible for 'carrying' so many women

I think mybrownjay and i r both sailing on the same boat here, i mean bleeping who ever i wish to without the fear of someone that calls herself a wife and the condemnation of the society.

Gosh, we must have so many shallow-minded men in this part of the world who do nothing but heap blame on the womenfolk for their miseries and misfortunes,

[quote][/quote]like someone rightly said, what if i call the bank and the person overthere converts the money to his/hers?

what if i go to the customer care and he or she ends up converting the money to theirs?

what if the money was actually sent to me by someone who did not want to let his identity known?

or what if the money was sent by someone i know but has not been able to reach me yet?


i am planning to leave the money there for months, i am not expecting to go to the bank with my money or call them with my money, i need every #1 i have now and not ready to let go of 50kobo.

if the money is not really for me, it would be removed within this month or next month at most, if not, it's mine Undecided


OF WHAT USE IS ALL ADVICE GIVEN SO FAR? THIS GUY HAS CLEARLY MADE UP HIS MIND TO BE A THIEF WHO CAN RIGHTLY JUSTIFY HIMSELF. (HE WOULD SAY HE IS MAKING THE BANK PAY FOR EVERYTIME HE HAS VISITED THE BANK AND HE HAD TO STAY FOR MORE THAN 5MINS). SEE ME SEE POVERTY MENTALITY O! HE ONLY FOUND <500K AND HE HAS ALREADY PUT HIS INTEGRITY TO QUESTION. YET, WE SIT BACK EVERYDAY AND CURSE OUR SO-CALLED LEADERS. HEY MISTER, PLEASE DON'T RETURN IT AND WATCH THE LAW OF KARMA PLAY ITS OWN ON YOU AND MANY GENERATIONS AFTER YOU! INFACT, I WOULD CALL YOU 'STUPID' TO RETURN IT!

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my experience in the uk has however taught me that we go too far in nigeria about use of english. even the english don't care. i have seen them 'murdered' the language. but they write well - formally.

just understand parts of speech. that is the most important thing. SEUN is a good example here. he writes correctly without 'big' grammar.

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I SHOULD CORRECT YOUR ASSERTION THAT OYINBOS WRITE WELL FORMALLY! I have seen a signpost before that read "elektrician wanted", suffice to say, this is just one of the many mis-spelt English words I have read/seen since I have been in the UK, therefore, u can say "they speak well" (na dem get language),

@ Play,

I will only advise you to let time pass. U're probabli nt in love but in 'lust'. I have been in similar situation before, only that d guy in question wasn't married but he was equally attracted to me. I have since left the office we worked together. I thought i loved him until i gave masef some brain n made use of ma head. I couldn't stand our 'only' subject of discussion for the short time i let go of my reasoning-his escapades with different women. My advice to you is: try to control those feelings n in a short while, u will be glad you did. 1 good strategy is 'always remember d guy is married'. It will work. Note: I didn't sleep with neither did i go close to his house d short period. I disciplined masef.

to you all who have condemed me, i have one thing to say to u,
he has no sin , should cast the first stone.
to all who have advised, thank you.
i had asked for advise not condemnation.
as for the gonzo, who judged me by my educational level, its evident how shallow u r.
i havent even told the man how i feel, i have not showed it in anyway.
haba!!!!!

Lord, I thank U 4 everything that i am. I thank U also, Lord 4 where U're taking me to. Lord, pls give me the wisdom to remember to thank U always 4 it is neva by my doing.

I thank U, Lord also 4 my family, job and every other that concerns me.

Lord, I 10k u also 4 making me a nigerian 4 i believe it is d best place my UR purpose for my existence can be achieved.

Lastly, Lord 10k U for this country and its leaders.

God bless Nigeria. We will make it in Jesus' name. AMEN.

Prescribed by the Great Physician
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The next time you feel like GOD can't use you, just remember,
Noah was a drunk
Abraham was too old
Isaac was a daydreamer
Jacob was a liar
Leah was ugly
Joseph was abused
Moses had a stuttering problem
Gideon was afraid
Samson had long hair and was a womanizer
Rahab was a prostitute
Jeremiah and Timothy were too young
David had an affair and was a murderer
Elijah was suicidal
Isaiah preached naked
Jonah ran from God
Naomi was a widow
Job went bankrupt
Peter denied Christ
The Disciples fell asleep while praying
Martha worried about everything
Mary Magdalene was,
The Samaritan woman was divorced, more than once
Zaccheus was too small
Paul was too religious
Timothy had an ulcer, AND
Lazarus was dead!

Now! No more excuses!
God can use you to your full potential.
Besides you aren't the message, you are just the
messenger.
And one more thing, Share this with a friend or
two,
In the Circle of God's love, God's waiting to use your
full potential.



1. God wants spiritual fruit, not religious nuts.

2. Dear God, I have a problem, it's Me.

3. Growing old is inevitable , growing UP is
optional.

4. There is no key to happiness. The door is always
open.

5. Silence is often misinterpreted but never
misquoted.

6. Do the maths , count your blessings.

7. Faith is the ability to not panic.

8. Laugh every day, it's like inner jogging.

9. If you worry, you didn't pray . If you pray,
don't worry.

10. As a child of God, prayer is kind of like calling home everyday.

11. Blessed are the flexible for they shall not be
bent out of shape.



You aren’t far from HIM whenever you remember to share this with as many as you call friends

We humans just like to select and adopt issues that are only based on our perception of things. Whether anybody likes to hear it or not, Premarital sex is a sin. However, fornication would include premarital sex as well as sexual thou ghts. But i wonder how possible it is not to think of sex(even though u haven't practised it) when even the pastors get tempted.