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Decker:
Leave me alone now, this girl. Is it by force to talk to you? Even if I am bored I would rather watch an ice cube as it melts than talk to you.

You are just too boring and dumb. Period!

holyFRED:
Chisos ...


.....Dec.ker,that was too much for her na....
Haba

firstking01:
cnt believe dis is coming frm a dude, wateva happens to her certificate, wateva happens to her hands,,,y did she go to skul in d first??,,,cnt she work and be independent?,,,must sheu become a public disgrace to ur family and d society cos u wanna marry a so-called rich man??,,,bro, wud u advice ur sister to marry a ritualist...or wud u advice ur sis to marry a man who wud be treating her wit contempt and bringing numerous gas home??,,,wud u advice ur sister u hold so dearly to go in as a 5th wife all in d name of money?,,,@tyms i wonder d kinda people we have on nairaland,,,bro,i must confess u disapoint me, ur type na dem dey sell their sisters just for money...i'm saying this wit no offence, and @d same tym wit no appology watsoeva.

Decker:
Well for someone as dimwitted as you, it's understandable that you can't comprehend sentences.

By the way, I will be ignoring you henceforth. Conversing with someone like you is really a pain. How does your boyfriend cope with you as a girlfriend? The relationship must really be hell for him. No wonder he doesn't call you that much. He must surely be looking for a way to get rid of you.

Good day, and I don't want to see you anywhere near my mentions again.

donTbone:
Only a guy with substandard brain will melt!




You be COSSY ORJIAKOR?

Decker:
Well, let's face it God his perfect, he definitely couldn't have created something like you. I mean, both physically and mentally, you seem substandard.

You were obviously created by Satan's_retarded demons, but still, you turned out to be a failed product.

holyFRED:
That moment when the OP IS AS BEATIFUL as this bae and hopes her hubby doesn't snoop around

holyFRED:
OP,you got it wrong.
Saying all men are unfaithful is a fallacy of generalisation.
Its just like going into a class of thirty students and saying 'everyone here is dull' which is impossible.

You could be pardoned for saying 'most' or 'some' but 'all',i pity you OP.


If your mum had walked about in her youth with such mentality in her brain,i wonder if she would have gotten a man to marry.

SMH for you.

Decker:
Nice to meet you. Never knew there was another dog in town who could ask me questions and understand my reply.

Thought I was the only one around.

Decker:
Well, it takes a high degree of imprudence and a relative amount of ingrained stupidity to hear a dog bark and still ask the dog if he was the one who barked and expect a reply from the dog. Except of course you are a dog too.

Either way, this, coupled with your previous threads and comments only further goes to prove that you have the IQ of someone with down's syndrome.

misspicy:
how am I supposed to know

donTbone:
Not too late to EDIT.






The start of having diff monicker is the beginning of infidelity!

RexKex:
I totally Agree with You Girl!

I mean a Very High percentage of Married Men Cheat Nowadays. So it is preferable to be cheated on BUT at least have Some Luxury to kind of "Make Up" For the Cheating. & I can Categorically State with 100% Accuracy that most ladies won't mind being cheated on as Long as the Money is Coming in Steadily. They might as Well look elsewhere.


So Basicaly, My point is This; It is Far more Better to marry a Rich man & Then probably get cheated on than Be with a Man who is poor & still Cheats on You.

After all, It is More preferable to Enjoy the Luxuries of life Albeit in an Illegal manner & Then Perhaps go to "Hell" THAN to live a Miserable Life and the still Go to the same Destination. IRMC.

donTbone:

Dnt darling me...





How many monickers do you have?

Decker:
You guys should leave the lady alone naw, she is just airing her silly opinion. She has the right to reason like a fool.

TrapLORD:
Take it or leave it, material girls like you will remain nothing but mere sex-toys for successful niggaz like me.

TrapLORD:
Mindsets like these is why we use & dump your likes.

midehi2:
i dont think its better to keep male friends so he wont be suspecting anything, keep calm with him since you know he loves you dearly, dou you might be jealous sometimes but dont let it go too deep...thats how i roll mine but like i said 'it aint easy oo

midehi2:
babe, it aint easy i swear

JanuaryTempest:
Fine or not fine, there should always be boundaries in place when he has female friends so you don't feel disrespected. Is he a flirt?

MissMalia:
Takim107 take it or you leave it, no matter d number of ladies, u wuld knw if d guy loves u. I ve been dia nd knws wat it means 2 date such a guy. Infact, still in it. Patience and Wisdom is d key. D guy may flirt wit oda ladies but trust me, if u r d 1 he loves, he wuld always prove it.

Acidosis:
Your boyfriend needs to understand your love language. He needs to start calling more.


If I tell you I love you, and I don't call at least twice a day, then I'm a liar. That's my own basis, and my girl reciprocates adequately.


As a matter of fact, nobody can help you on NL. Some people can go 2 weeks without calling their partners. Do not compare yourself with them as some of them have 2 to 4 partners so its practically impossible to maintain adequate contacts with 4 partners equally.


For me, failure to call my partner is a sign of divided attention/cheating. I can never be too busy to call my partner. It is never an excuse. Even drivers call their wives, so what kind of job will make him too busy to call? Only prisoners are restricted from calling, and any job that takes all your time, with no space to call is no longer a job, but slavery.


Kindly talk to your bf, his ex is not an excuse.

Lastly, if he refuses to change, I urge you to stop calling. Your boyfriend's airtime is simply not meant for you and stop playing the role of boyfriend and girlfriend in your relationship. Why should he even call in the first place when you've taken upon yourself the duty of calling every minute? Stop the obsession! It always end in BREAK UP.

BecaciaBarbie:
You mentioned your relationship is just 2months old right? Do you intend to always call him all the time like the way you are doing now in the next few months? Oh he likes it now right? Sweetheart! Too much of anything is bad, he'd definitely get tired of you! Reduce your calls to twice a day abeg. Don't you talk on WhatsApp or bbm? If you do, then there is no point for the everyday calls. If you really love this guy, give him some space and let him miss you.



To answer your question, if you stopped calling....

If you stopped calling, he'd notice this, he'd respect you more, he'd feel more like the man in the relationship, he'd miss and crave to be with you or hear your voice, he'd be more creative about how to spice up your relationship, he'd value you more cause he wouldn't wanna lose you to some other guy! But right now, he is certain he can't lose you, cause you call him like your life is depended on your calls to him... so he wouldn't even care to spice up your relationship, he wouldn't get bored, you'd give him more breathing space and so forth....

One thing I have noticed about guys, especially naija guys....they hate it when you give them too much attention. Do yourself and your heart a favor by reducing your calls!

By the way you said you'd die if he broke up with you...oh dear! I'm sure you wouldn't but the pains might feel like death itself. Watch your heart dear and protect it, most importantly pray like never before.

tafrica:
Don't ruin your relationship based third party advices. What rocks my boat my not rock yours, so don't spoil ur relationship by stopping to call and begin to develop "uncare" attitude.
I will only advise you watch his reactions when you call him, if he's cool with your numerous calls and doesn't complain, don't stop cuz people told you to do so.
I'm pretty sure your bf will definitely improve his calls since it seems to be his natural habit albeit his previous relationship experience.
Enjoy your relationship, don't loose the communication link, sit him down when you have an issue. Be wary of third party advise.
Note this: Never expect he will call at your own rates, unless you are lucky, most guys aren't obsessed with calling especially when now there are several chat apps now. You will continue to do most of the calls, but I expect him also to know when to call where necessary, communications can't be via texts alone all the time.

Abduletudaye:
That is it! Take advantage and let him know whats in your heart thats hurting you and believe me, he will adjust..

osesology:
Don't worry, let me be your boyfriend's surrogate, I ain't gat no jab so I'll be calling you ten times a day, I hope you won't find me boring.
*winks*