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Prince16:
SMH! Gurl, I can see some issues!
He said d write-up is silly {I concur}

So how does that translate to disrespect?
A wise man once said ,"even d fool is considered wise in as much as he keeps his mouth tightly shut".
ur writeup was a real 'fall-hand'.
Pls ,I beg u in what u hold most dear, don't spew such again!

Your opinion

Yup

NubiLove:
You don't even know the meaning of disrespect.... there is a difference between someone saying your write up or point of view is silly and saying that you are silly.... learn the difference.

I know the difference thanks

adodofemi:
Silly write up!....... I'm happily married to the most beautiful woman in the world. I never knelt down for her, I didn't propose like all these Kim Kardashian sisters would expect, we were friends and we just saw ourselves glued and that was all. I've never disrespected her and she has never looked me in the eye as a sign of disrespect. We are happy together, blessed with a set of twin boys, Eni&Teni. Abeg, no be by kneeling down to propose o. God's grace, determination to keep going on no matter what, maturity and love. These and some other ones make a happy marriage.

You have never disrespected your wife but you come here to disrespect me by saying my write up is silly

Thanks

ethankareem:
With all dis new generation girls wey der life don spoil finish na him person 1 kneel for, abeg make we hear

Old generation boy

Weldone

Goldenheart:
My Generator has refused to start.... I have pulled it, to no avail...


all my hand just dey pepper me

Hajahahahaajjahaja

Dammnmm

U just made my night

Pour am water na

Fuel fit don finish

safarigirl:
was your mother a housewife? Do your sisters, if married, burden their husbands?

Maybe because I never grew up in a family where the man was the sole provider, I usually don't understand when you men say "we go out to work" or "we provide for her and the kids"

I want to know what kind of women you surround yourself with that are lazy slobs who sit around and wait for men to hand things to them, people with no brains whose sole contribution to humanity is cooking, cleaning and pushing out babies.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that the opinion a man forms of women is based on the women he surrounds himself with, so please, what kind of women do you men who see women as burdens surround yourself with?



PS: On the topic, dunno what the big deal is about going on one knee, after all, during the traditional marriage , in my place sha, dunno bout other Nigerians, the woman will still go in BOTH knees and bow her head to her husband as a sign of loyalty and servitude, so uncle, na bad thing make you just go on one knee?

Women have been kneeling to men for ages and ain't nobody bytching about it

God bless you for this

KAYD007:
If man must go on bended kneel to propose to a woman, the woman must lie down on her chest to receive the ring.

I actually laughed out loud

Samakus:
Guy, easy na. I don't get it why some people can't disagree in a respectful manner. That was meant to be a joke but you're taking it to heart

Leave him be

Recession has affected his sense of humor

figo05:
U are lazy yet u want him to go down on one knee and propose? Na to go down on two knees to pray for u to come out of that laziness.

How pimples no go finish ur face wey u dey lazy to even take care of ur face

francisbiz:
Please OP how can one "bend a kneel"?
You know, I want to sit for S.S.C.E. next year ...

Yea seen that been trying to edit it thanks for noticing it too

googlepikins:
I miss GEJ

I went to ShopRite today and I saw a small Christmas tree and light with a price tag of N18,000. Abeg, How much come be I PASS MY NEIGHBOR GENERATOR?

And people go buy that tree still de scream recession

Small gen na 30k

All I have to say is money Is good

While Good genes are better

Hehehehehehhehehe

Not again

Always Abuja

Govament money

Three of them cute scarra

Nice

aariwa:
Kneeling down to propose to a woman is unafrican.We are loosing the core aspects of our culture daily to western civilisation.If we continue like this,what will be of our culture in 50 years time and what african cultures and values are we going to pass on to our children?

Why and how's it unafrican?

I am tired of bad news

From today henceforth good news shall be our portion amen

On a bended knee

SafeDavid:
Good write up Bella.

I like the part where you said she sees all your flaws.
It also goes both ways.

Besides, I don't see any big deal in kneeling since it has become tradition for the guy to do that.

Thanks

LastProphet:
this is what they call complete nonsense. not surprised hearing this crap from kardashian fans, so the man that goes out to take all sort of insults in the name of feeding the family does not deserve some kneeling by the woman? do you know what men go through out there in the course of their work? all these yeye TV watching girls of this generation really really irritate me. their only hope anyway are the plenty mofos and deluded young men of today who will thoughtlessly oblige them. and infact if a man will kneel to u, u hv no right to make it public-that is bragging and that is what this generation of silly girls are all about. no real man with sense up to a donkey's will kneel for anybody women inclusive, a real man respects everybody moreso his future wife but kneeling is a sign of undiluted stupidity. u better clear your head of the nonsense kayne west and his wife are putting in ur empty skulls

Not a Kardashian fan

bitchcrafts:
Excuse me, what if hes has one and a half leg?

Then he has one leg

Tajbol4splend:
You really took your time to write this gibberish, a load of tosh, can you tell me what you see as the duties of women in a matrimony? Or you rather believe a woman's gender is a reason why she shouldnt have responsibilities? How did you nurture a notion that a white man cooks and rather would have his wife do nothing because he knelt down when he proposed to her? Is that what the kneeling means to you? I will help your naivety:

1. The kneeling does mean he values her and would like to have her and would take care of her not that he wants to be her slave

2. What and how do you know about a real man when you are not one, a conjecture? A real man wants his wife to be happy but he also wants to be happy, he balances everything, he's a disciplinarian, he never forgets his family, they are his priority, but he gets furious when he's not appreciated for his effort, he's sensitive to the need of his family and loved by them.

3. Because men are getting married does not mean women are perfect, do you also remember that these people who get married are the ones who divorce? Why do they? It's pretty simple, it is because they did not experience before marriage what they experienced during marriage with the woman, he divorced her because she isn't what he wants as a wife, so to prove you wrong, he who knelt down to propose to her is also the one who sent her out. Ask yourself, what could have happened?

4. In conclusion, Talktobella, how do you perceive marriage? What do you think should be the priority of each of the couple? What do you think each of the couple must do to make sure there's no collapse? Ok, I have to let you know that marriage isn't just about the wife, not just about the hubby but about both of them. To the wife, it should be about her husband and if not, a real man will sense selfishness and that's the last thing he likes about his wife, he is not happy about it because he's seen the marriage to be about his wife but he's not feeling any concern from his wife about him. Marriage is about the husband and his wife, the man sets the pace (He cares about his wife) and the woman follows his footsteps (She appreciates his efforts and does what makes him happy too)... Talktobella, if you want to have a happy married life, be ready to make someone happy too because a happy home is built by sacrifices but not selfishness..

and you took time to respond to my gibberish

weldone

FortuneTeller:
This attitude is why women must learn to be independent. Both of you should enter the marriage favouring one another, but due to our Nigerian mentality, it is rarely true. Please realize your argument can never be valid in places like Iceland, Sweden and the US.

his comment really made me laugh, in this present day and age he thinks marrying a woman is actually doing her a favor

ObioratheBully:



You this bella

what i do

ObioratheBully:



Kneeling for me, Is impossible..


Females exploit everything..


Once they see you can actually go down on your knees for them.. They start acting up..


Don't show any sign of weakness! Be warned!

ehen

Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork.

Splinz:
Hmm. The only reason why I'd kneel to propose is simply so as not to hurt her fragile ego.

I know u know its the right thing to do

Warhawk:
lol... She no dey post all those relationship questions and answers again... Be lyyk Recession don affect am

my inbox full........

i'd start soon'

resting