₦airaland Forum

icedbeatz:
you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better.

ObiOmaMu:
This happened to a kind hearted Nigerian named Foghor Kagho living in Manila, Philippines yesterday and he took to his Facebook page to share it. Quite touching.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/12/read-this-amazing-encounter-guy-had.html

chomytex:
I will go first..

Mine is sweeping, it's not like I don't sweep, I see it as a heavy duty!

I prefer washing of clothes and dishes..

So fellow nairalanders, what's yours?..share it with with us.

This's actually my first post here so let's keep the ball rolling!

CastingCrowns:
Pls wats ur take on this?do u think it can work out?

experts:
well to my knowledge, the national open university of nigeria,is not in any way inferior to any university here in nigeria. all the courses offered in the national open university is acrditted by the natinal university commision and these bodies are the same bodies that acreditted other universities, so i think there is no point thinking about may be there certificate will be accepted or not.

about job application, i want you all to know that the national open university is not giving cheap degree, they are only giving everybody the chance to be a graduate by making thing flexible.

the national open university student are better than many institution here in nigeria because here, the student have to do alot of work on its own. you have only ur course material which contain alittle information about the course u re studying, so they have references where u will go to find out more about the course so this makes the student to under go alot of reserach on each course and it makes u a better student.

u only have facilitators who are like lecturers to guide u on how to go about the studies, so if u come of out the national open university with a second class lower, u are better than some one with second class upper of other universities.

so i am very sure that applying for a job with the certificate wont be any problem. just make sure u re sound on ur copurse of study. so that u will be able to defend ur self.

jnrbayano:
WAHL

MrCork:
... So u planin to cheat...an then u wonda why u can't find man on nairaland....... This is why we don't truss black women (no ofeense)

snakebeat:
既是不是指导弹出去死 and
那时候选人生物。

stephenqueen:
Since I was born and now that I'm old, I have never seen a lady thing with one guy




Like if you agree with me that op is double dating

englishmart:
you can as well throw dead: if you Don't mind.

englishmart:
For those of you who are interested in getting married soon, look no farther if really you need the best of wives.
See the kind of wife you need. A wife that can push you and your car from gwagwalada to kubwa. A wife that can cook a pot of delicious soup with just #150. A wife that can fight and tear apart all your detractors.

Holatunde007:
****Pls warning before you read, I want you to knw this is type on a mobile phone, and again I plead with you pls and pls try and finish reading this story before your comments thanks........***











Without wasting much of time this is my story
I was at a bar very close to my place of work, with the major motive of getting drunk, I had always visit the bar each time I remember wat d doctor told me, 3yrs ago, dat I may not be able to father a child with my low sperm count, I knw within me dat I've wasted lots of my sperm, in some useless relationships, before deciding to get married so I assume its my punishment, I taught of dis statement several tym only for me to end up getting drunk, another thing that captured my peace is conceding with d doctor not to tell my wife, the woman that came into my life when I had nothing, she accepted me just for the sake of love, no matter how hard I tried to show her the love she deserved, this piece of secret wouldn't just let me, now its been 4yrs after, she hasn't knw yet, hmmmmmm! I was abt to finish d 6th bottle of my beer when I felt a hand touching me, I looked back to see a young beautiful lady telling me something I can't really comprehend, d only thing my brain could translate was that she's so beautiful and light skinned, she came closer, picked something on the floor which I studied carefully happen to be my car key, hey thanks I manage to collect the key frm her, she looked at my hand and return her face back to my eyes then said "u r married nd yet u find pleasure drinking dis much, are u having issues u would like to discuss?" I looked at her, if only she had knw my intentions, if only she's knws hw I wish to talk it out wt sm1, without relenting I offer her the next seat, then speak out everything in me, she felt sorry for me, she asked if I could drive myself home, I manage to say yes only for me to stand up frm d chair and fell back to the seat, she picked d car key and helped me out of the bar, I notice I was at the back seat of the moving car, then I slept off, I woke up in the morning looking confused and shocked wen I saw her beside me unclad, I woke her up, then asked where we were, she said its her room, she couldn't allow me to drive alone after the discussion, and she asked me several tymz my address but I wouldn't wake up frm my slumber to say smtin sensible enuf, then I asked her y she was unclad, had smtin happened btw us, there she started, that she was lonely and depressed that was the reason she came to the bar in the 1st place, she just quit her relationship of 15 months wt her overseas boifrnd, when she received his wedding pictures and a letter frm him begging her to forgive him as he has to marry the white lady for him to able to stay abroad after his visa has expired, that he would definitely come back for her, she narrated, she was confused and wanted get drunk too, when she met me at the bar, hearing this made me felt sorry for her too..... After all this conversation we ended up having another 2 rounds of sex, then we both decided to call it a quit as she knws am married and I knw her bf may come for her anytime too....but we both really helped each other to get off the thinking stress that very day, we exchanged num, her name was so sweet to save on my contact (Adesewa) remembering my wife could be asking strange question if I used that name, I quickly changed it to (my Boss) and I left for home. I met my wife waiting all night for me, I immediately lied that I went for an urgent meeting with my client in another city, and my batry went down to make a call, I apologized, then she gave me a hug, she stepped back and looked at me, then said darling u looked rough, did u by any chance get into drinking again, she has warned me never to take alcohol anymore, I left her and went inside the rest room, my heart filled wt remorse nd regret, I love her very much, several times I think ow life would be witout her, two weeks after my meeting wt Adesewa, I saw her missed calls, I was wondering why she would call me 1st, could it be that she wanted more of wat we did? But we've agreed it was a coincidence, I tried to wave it off my mind and continue my work, I got home to met my wife packing some clothes inside her traveling box, was curious and asked what's going on, she smiled and said hav u forgotten next week is my sisters wedding ceremony? Ooooo My God I screamed, darling I've forgotten, am sorry so u will be leaving for the preparation? She replied yes, the following day she left it was a 7hours traveling. Since its been 2days she hav left I try to ceased d opportunity to call adesewa back to see to the reason for her missed calls weeks ago, I dialed her num, she picked up greeted me then said we need to talk but where she is now, she can't speak freely, I asked if we can meet @ bar she said she had traveled for an occasion of one of her old frnd, dat she will be back next week, I dropped the call, thinking of wat she could want to talk about, or she want to blackmailed me? No she has a nice job than to involve herself in black mailing, while waiting patiently for both adesewa and my wife to return back to the city, I heard my phone ringing, it was my wife, she sounded so excited, I asked her what happened she said "honey I just met an old skul frnd I lost her contact 4yrs ago, I can't even believe we were staying in the same city all dis while, we will be coming home together to meet you" oooh! I replied her wt same excitement, she once told me her regret in life was not remembering her old frnd num offhand, she did sometin great for her, that she can't forget, I asked her wat did she do for you to hav said that? She always end up saying its school stuff jare. After droping the call I received another call 45mins after it was Adesewa, I picked it, she went straight to the point, "hello Tunji am 4weeks pregnant and u r responsible for it, what do u want to do with it?" Yeeeeee! I wanted to scream, I wanted to laugh, but I can't just believed her like that, the doctor said I can't father a child, how come? She was still waiting for my ans on the phone, wen she added that if I didn't believe her, she wouldn't mind to terminate it before its too late, there I shouted pls don't do that, give me some time to think it over, she said she will only give me a week, after then she won't wait before she terminate the pregnancy, has she's not ready to settle down with a married man.
Two days after I my wife called she's on her way, so I shud wait for her at home, my heart started pounding, if only this pregnancy was for my wife I would hav been the happiest person by nw, I reasoned with my mind could it be true, does it mean I cn nw father a child? Can I keep dis away frm my wife? Hmmmm so after hours of thinking I decided I must keep the secret away frm my wife no matter wat happens, then later I will figure out wat to do wt Adesewa issue, I was in the middle of this thinking wen I head a car driving in the compound, it must hav been my wife, I sensed frm the car horn, I immediately adjusted, she shouted Honey am back frm the corridor, I opened the door believe me I was about to collapse wen I saw my wife wt Adesewa smiling and laughing seriously ,we both looked shocked seeing each other, my wife said honey this is that my old school frnd I lost her contact, my wife came closer to me, saying honey she was the one that helped me with my final paper exam wen i suddenly fall sick 2hrs to the exam, adesewa sat for me to make me graduate that year, making her to hav an extra year has she finished mine before writing her own paper that day and time wasn't on her side to finish 2 questions on time............ She noticed as she was talking both of us were full of tears, Adesewa what's wrong? She asked? But sewa can't manage to say anything, than to rush out of the house, my wife turned to me, Tunji do u knw her smwhere? I said yes, but dis stupid tears spoiled the own drama, it kept rushing out........she was confused, I told her to give more time to settle down my brain, its been 3days now, my wife has been waiting patiently for an explanation, Adesewa has refused to picked my calls,..........am confused who to settle matter with first my wife or the woman with my first child, as I don't knw wat Adesewa might end up doing with the pregnancy. This is my story only a mutured advice can't help me, what should I do? Should I visit Adesewa 1st and settle with her or her my wife 1st
Will my wife understand my relationship wt Adesewa was an accident?

*Just confused*
That this point what should be my priority?

Acekidc4:
Every girl want to be engaged by a Serious man and dreams to get married to a responsible man. But what kind of man will want to marry a babe with status like;
"Liquids loading" "elegushi loading" "Movida on point" "Wine bar Abuja toh badt" "6 bottles I gallant" "Clubbing mode activated" "Champagne rain" "Missing my bed tonite" "You know urself#" Off to Crystal lounge" "Am gonna party real hard 2nite"
"Owerri, Benin, Lagos, Ph. Abuja, Asaba, Bayelsa on my Mind" "Painting Accra Red" "nolongtin"?
You wear skimpy cloths, almost naked, loud nails n painting" you call makeups and you put them as your DP

Pictures you took in different hotels, hotel bedrooms and Bathrooms"Alhaji thank you" Baby thank you(as ur Bf no get name) "Senator god bless you" "Hon you're too much"
Take pix in different cars; are you a Driver? Ipad4, bold5, porsche as DP and your bf dey use curve2. Brazilian hair, Romanian hair, peruvian hair etc Who is fooling who? You think those men are fools Ba?? You better have a rethink. Nobody wants to marry a "Public donor" maybe when you are 33 years, you will change status to "Church On ma Mind" "I Love Jesus" "Jesus Saves"
At 35 years you start, "All men are evil"
At 37, you no go miss any church service or Crusade again by then u don expire comot for Market
Fresh adventurous babe full university dey roll out then beef go start
You spend hours in your saloon gossiping about younger girls, other married girls and how bad Men are.

I know say Many girls go vex but sharing this might save a frustrated depressed girl before its too Late.......

Glock8:
do you speak romanian?

Kolade354:
Coming from a gurl who cnt date muslim guyz...........Topic Like this where you will be while you are still Blinded by religion........Ignorance is Bliss indeed.

Ivanspring:
One of who?