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LordReed:Sounds like making things up to believe and hoping you'd believe too my Lord. |
Aemmyjah:If you listen carefully you might surely hear. Aemmyjah:It is true that children imitate or listen to their parents but it is not better for children to make up their own beliefs, and children will not make up their own beliefs unless they "imitate or listen to their parents" making up beliefs. I find "making up beliefs" to not be an efficient surviving skill and definitely not a skill to make one prosper in this 21st century we live in, myself. One sure needs more than a made up beliefs that there would be light just because one says "let there be light". I mean, we Nigerians believe, but Nepa, don't we still? Aemmyjah:Aha. Now you've hit the nail on the head. You see, in your initial post you presented the "conviction" of a mummy and a daddy from a joke you read many years ago "but let us imagine it was real life", and now you are making up beliefs that those imaginations are my own convictions for some odd reason. For all it's worth, if my child believes, then it must not have imitated or listened to me its parent, for it is my conviction to teach my child to use it's own senses to ask and knock and seek with all its heart and soul and mind and being and time instead of believing. Open your eyes and look for yourself and see so you may know, is my child's first and forever lesson. Aemmyjah:Teaching the child to ask and knock and seek with all its heart and mind and soul and being will help it a lot more than giving a child things to believe. Giving a child the tools to fish profits it more than giving it fish. Aemmyjah:So, you will teach your child the things that you "might begin to question some of those things" instead of the things that you have questioned and now know? How are you sure you are not teaching your child the things that are wrong when you yourself have not even yet begun to question some of those things? Personally, I don't teach my children spiritual things. I teach them that 2+2=4 and to use their own senses to ask and knock and seek instead of convince themself that things they make up and believe are true. The benefit is that their iron sharpens my iron. Aemmyjah:So Hard Times, lol. "Now, what I want is, Facts. Teach these boys and girls nothing but Facts. Facts alone are wanted in life. Plant nothing else, and root out everything else. You can only form the minds of reasoning animals upon Facts: nothing else will ever be of any service to them. This is the principle on which I bring up my own children, and this is the principle on which I bring up these children. Stick to Facts, sir!’" Science says no such nonsense, Aemmyjah, since that ignores the minds superpower to process and invent. At the least. Aemmyjah:Depends what you mean by "religious values". Does that include, wipe your bum when you poo, and wash your hands, and brush your teeth every morning and after every meal and before you go to bed, and respect others, and say please and thank you and don't kill and don't steal and don't covet your neighbours wife and love one another and develop all your senses and use them to ask and knock and seek with all your heart and mind and soul and being, and read books and 2+2=4 and exercise regularly to begin with? If so, then I agree, though they are not "religious values", but do well in life skills and values. After all, a child that learns "By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground", is likely to do better than one that prays to God for their daily bread", and most non-religious people would need to teach "by the sweat of thy brow" to their children since they can not teach them to pray to God. |
IjeBos:I think it's more a problem of followers. Most are like magas, I'm sorry to say, and would rather follow a nump, a Nigerian dump, than a saint. We'd likely treat the saint like we read Jesus was treated and elect the thief instead. And education is the solution. And I commend you here for trying though many can not learn it would seem. But these things take generations. I just imagine when we here are dead and our children take over digging through the archive. You'd get it if we were here reading what our parents might have written if they had the opportunity we have. A bright Nigerian future is what I see, though the road there will be very bumpy indeed. |
saxywale2:I heard no such thing myself. What I heard is we all so disagreed and ended up killing each other in a civil war. It's not the system that causes us to "deep sleep". We just have not evolved to organise and unite into one country yet because we have not begun teaching that we ought to and circumstances haven't made us. If say Second World War Germany attacked us or Russia attacked our Ukraine we might decide to fight for our country, but at the moment, in the non-existence of external foes, we must still fight amongst ourselves instead of the things - no light, insecurity, corruption, ill-funded schools, women and children's rights, ignorance - that we should fight to eliminate. We must first wake up from our deep sleep to wake up others but I'm sure you see how hard it is to awake basilico. |
Aemmyjah:Reading is unlike what days? We are talking about the daughter I gave birth to that I was reading to while she was in the belly, right? Are you suggesting a Christian me would not read my Bible every day with my family, and as my daughter grows not let her read it and various other books too and therefore learn to read? If so, I wonder which part of "In the beginning was the Word". Or do you think an atheist me would not make my daughter read the Bible and other books so she knows what's in them so no one can deceive her to believe what she shouldn't? If you think either of those then I strongly suggest you advise me not to have the daughter until I perhaps read some books myself because I can assure you that after she reads she will not have faith in prayers but faith in her ability to get off her ass and work for whatever she wants and accept what some would call God's grace instead of placing her faith in prayers. I would never give my child what to believe because I can give her the ability to ask and knock and seek for herself and gain understanding too. |
Aemmyjah:Like Baptists and Methodists and Anglicans? Please note the below. triplechoice:cc: Dtruthspeaker: |
Aemmyjah:Thank you. You did not force me to answer. I answered of my own freewill. Aemmyjah:2 year old? 9? How old? Aemmyjah:I hope not to convince her of anything as I said. She already uses her mind to question every spirit so to say, so my duty is to encourage her to ask until she finds. Aemmyjah:I do not believe it to be true that "Most books nowadays try to promote evolution to be true as well as teachers", considering the many centuries during which non-evolution books have been being written, but even so, praise be, since I would want my daughter to discover for herself that humans are not descended from monkeys or any other primate living today and that we only share a common ape ancestor with chimpanzees as she will find if she seeks. Aemmyjah:It is poor to you. She came to me to get an answer to a question, and if I were ignorant like the two parents you've described then perhaps I should go to school to learn instead of filling my daughter's head with ignorant crap or send her to a library where she can better seek. Aemmyjah:First, if she is not an avid reader, then I must have been negligent in my duty. For if I were a Christian, I should have taught my daughter to read since she must at least read the Christian religious book, and if I were an atheist even more so least she read only one single book and become even more ignorant. Second, if my daughter is convinced by my own conviction, she will never learn to develop her own conviction nor would she develop her own heart and soul and mind and being to ask and knock and seek. and that's apart from me filling my daughters head with ignorant crap as the parent's above have done. I teach my daughter to fish with her own mind than turn her mind into fish. |
KwaraRat:No, we are not an independent nation. No nation is. You are not independent if you borrow. Liz Truss thought United Kingdom was an independent nation but was quickly set aright.
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Aemmyjah:What kind of questions? Do you mean the kind of questions she'd want answered if told mum came from Kano and dad from Enugu. If so, guess she'd learn some things differ about people. After all, she should know she herself did not come from an ape but came out of her mummy's tommy. Aemmyjah:"Convince her" what? Convince her to continue to use her own heart and soul and mind and being to ask and seek and knock as she is already doing? No, I do not need to convince her. What I do is buy her lots of books on the subject for her to read for herself to know where she came from. The research alone would enable her to develop her own senses such that it can be said, she sees. |
wirinet:Don't you just love dump. He opens his mouth and tells everyone he is not going to uphold and defend the Constitution when it suits him and expects sensible people to vote for him or magas to be the majority. He deluded himself he could shoot someone on 5th Avenue and pussy grab and get away with it too I suppose |
mike404:Lol ![]() |
Should a company be compelled to sell a product it does not wish to make? If you make donuts and you sell donuts to many people in the public but refuse to sell donuts to people who have a certain color of skin then you are clearly discriminating and deserve the negative consequences headed your way.
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wirinet:Southern Strategy thinking. |
SlyfoxxDaBoss:Actually, you're here wailing about me while responding three times to the same posts and lying that you are doing something different to what we all see you doing here. Just thought to tell you in case you think we are all mindless and blind like you are. I wouldn't respond to your uneducated foul mouth otherwise. |
Enugurangers:Been saving this.
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AlphaTaikun:This is insulting You ought to know by now that only those already misled can be misled by the misleading falseperson you responded to! |
basilico:Brazil's dump lost and plans his own Jan 6.
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adamusuleiman11:
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wirinet:This was the greatest travesty of the decade. A conspiracist would claim the FBI was working for Hillary's downfall. |
SlyfoxxDaBoss:
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IjeBos:Pigs like it. It's their strategy to eat up your time with their ignorance and nonsense. But forgive me for saying. You never asked me. |
IjeBos:Took far too long if you asked me.
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adamusuleiman11:Some serious self destruction!
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benalvino3:There is only one budaatum. And no one sent me the memo that says you get to choose one's monicker. |
benalvino3:Why can't you serve your ban ben? Why are you so addicted to make another? |
benalvino3:Are you sicko to be on your third moniker ben? Anyway. Found this. Should educate you. |
1stGenAmerican:I doubt they'd help him 50m worth. Explains his squealing though. |
IjeBos:From way back. https://www.nairaland.com/4508641/american-politics-thread-2022-midterm/3050#109344380 |
adamusuleiman11:Really, Ye? Dump is known for lying? So when you was supporting dump was you helping dump lie or is Ye on self destruct?
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IjeBos:Dems don't need to help republicans screw themselves because republicans always screw themselves themself. Dems fight for democracy even when it's not beneficial to them, which is why some of us support them. And Dems don't lose to republicans as often as you claim!
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You ought to know by now that only those already misled can be misled by the misleading falseperson you responded to!
lol. Kidding. Yeah man... it was that part of me that doesn't like to back down.