whatever90:

tangent u still have a lot of rivals ooooooo,stillwater and codered,those two r hannibals favourites

i don't have any rival anymore. tope is the only one i know.

Ms. Lurker:


Amen to that. If a woman has "lucifer" tendencies, shouldn't the man have picked it up before he married her? And I've never heard of CAN relationships, no phenomenon to me.

you are blessed my sister. men go about saying they married lucifer. where was his eyes and nose during courtship? any man playing the role of a freeloader should accept the consequences. nothing is free.

i knew sauron was toying with tope all along. where is he sef? he needs to buy my outfit for the party.

JJYOU:

thank God for lawyers i say again3 months? wonder what would have happened if he slapped her. maybe police would have locked him up and throw away the keys.
am i missing something here? when did the police in england get the powers to restrict a man from coming to his house? there is something wrong in that story. if he had a restraining order always from the courts he would not be allowed to come near her or the house weekend or no weekend. that is the law.

3 months is nothing. all a woman needs to say is she is depressed and may kill herself if the man comes back home. there's nothing any solicitor can do to depression/suicide in the courts. judges and the police take such issues seriously. a woman with kids contemplating suicide. three months is small. it can lead to 6 months. there's no law that restricts a man going to his house but there has to be other parties involved. social care workers must be present if he wants to see his kids.

party is holding this friday nyte, ummmmmh i am so happy. time to find hannibal. he must buy my dress and high heels.

lanre4:

I have a man friend whom i love so much.He promises me everythg in the world,and even promised to marry me if only i can be pregnant for him,we had an unprotected sex when i was in my safe period but lied to him that i was not safe,after a month i told him i was pregnant,while i was not,just wanted to test him,unfortunately,he failed,he called me that i shld terminate it,that we are not ready to do that now,that we need to plan and bla bla,he called my friends and asked them to beg me on his behalf so i cld abort the preg.It then dawn on me that 've been fooled.please advice me on what to do because i want to punish him.thks

did u guys plan to get you pregnant before the unprotected sex? if no then you haven't been fooled. you cannot drop pregnancy news on any man without planning for it and expect him to be happy. put yourself in his shoes. pregnancy news is the best news a man wants to hear when he plans for it and it is also the worst news a man wants to hear when he is not ready for it. you need another test to be sure this man loves you.

if they are demanding it is only because of their quality. if u want a delicious meal, u'd better pay for it.

there's nothing wrong with kissing in public places.

JJYOU:

this is getting better. women have never had it so good in this lovely country of ours.

God bless the Queen.

can aaccommodatewomen are women with aaccommodationseeking men in relationship. i hasten to add this is thankfully a western phenomenon don't tell me this is first you are hearing this word
of course it is always the woman's word and boy are some milking and abusing the system with it?

so u know, women abuse this privilege to the hilt. men have also been known to use women for their papers and dump the women only to marry someone else. it's a tit for tat situation. the hunter and the hunted.

let me say this again this nonsense mostly happen with people men who  live with women who are mostly named occupier in social housing.  
this is not some banana republic that lawyers can't sort in court quickly. police duties is to separate them momentarily they never final say.  i know this for a fact because a friend went through this 3yrs ago.

i know a colleague of mine at work who got locked out for 3 months because he had a verbal brawl with his wife. the met police asked him to go and hang out with his friends. he goes home during the weekend just to pick his clothes. don't dare underestimate the power of a woman.

i don't like the sound of any form of controlling adults.  just imagine the noise you will make if a woman was being asked to be indoors here gamine, not you. would you like anyone caging you for whatever reason? you can't even restrict 16yrs old movement in this part of the world

the man knew what he was going into beforehand. i find it really hard to believe this woman turned to lucifer all of a sudden.

@ bgal, he is not shy. he is prolly biding his time and will strike when you are vulnerable. i know men like that. be careful.

heartbrake?? some people drive me nuts on nairaland. you will see heartclutch or heartgear very soon.

~Sauron~:

Dr Umeham must be smoking spliffs. . . . .

Marry as many women as they can??
One woman is enough trouble(apologies to Stilly), u now want me to marry more??
When is Dr. Umeham's next psycho-evalutaion test? I can't wait to see the results.

roflmao. bad boy.

popping rubberbands until i shot my classmate's eyelid.

ibkaye:

Naija police that she can easily bribe with 1kobo? Spare me that abeg

i know the inspector general of police. he will get tgirl4real arrested.

JJYOU:

sleeping open eye. very manipulative woman. this is not technically true.  it can only happen if the guy is in relationship with the CAN ACCOMODATE women.  if you own your house as the man and was not violent no woman can move you out of your house. not even the courts. thank God for lawyers. capital NO. too many many marriage/relationship of convinience. most of these people are like hell. never satisfied. marriage is suppose to be enjoyed and fun not suffocating prisons

i don't understand this poster. what is the meaning of "can accomodate women"?  if a woman calls 999 in this country and tells the police she feels threatened by the sight of her husband(the police would move the husband out for few days). until the woman says she is comfortable with her husband, the man has to hang with friends or relatives. violence or not, it is the woman's word against yours. verbal abuse is enough to get a man's ass out of his own house. p.s. the woman need not be his wife. any woman staying with a man for a period of 6 months is a partner and cohabitation rule applies.

ibkaye:

That is what I was told 2 weeks ago

i will get tgirl arrested if the party fails to hold this weekend.

spikedcylinder:

Thanks for educating me on the western world. However, I must ask, are these prices worth paying for his peace of mind?

the man is not really disturbed, the friends are the ones disturbed. believe me, most of the time this type of situation arises it is because the wife paid a huge price(maybe marriage contract to secure papers for the man or something equally important). men sometimes think they can eat their cakes and have it but women are matching them up in their games.

zarah:

Sauron, na ur type me i dey find, let me catch you first then you go know say na afghanistan i dey.

leave my husband alone, he is innocent.

on a serious note, i think you need to take a deep breath and relax. it is not over until it is over. there's nothing to say your man won't stage a comeback. let him clear his head and if he is yours, he will come back to you.

ibkaye:

which party? the one that we have been waiting for for a good 9 years

the party is going down this friday.

@spikedcylinder,
he is there for the children. besides, it's a no win situation for the men in the western world. if he moves out, he will lose his house to the wife and lose custodial care of his children.

namun:

they are demanding full stop
every girl is demanding but ibo own dey too much

comments like this makes me laugh.

when is the party? i feel like dancing.