₦airaland Forum

frenchman:
A very good friend of mine has become a prisoner in the name of marriage. His wife has driven all of us (his friends) away, the guy does not hang out again. If he comes late from work, he is in trouble with madam.

If he ventures to go out, madam will time him, and he dare not exceed the time. If he dares make any shakara like a man would want to do, madam will threaten to call police or abandon the kids.

Our friend has become so unhappy and frustrated. I stopped visiting my friend, the day madam stopped my pal from coming with me to a party I had invited him to. The excuse was that my pal didnt inform madam on time.

Marriage could really be a nightmare sometimes.

the madam is possessive.

Gamine:
Whats wrong in building house where you want, whether na village or lagos

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they build in the village(where they don't stay). i think nigerian government should make every house owner pay huge council tax on their properties. that method will help reduce the madness in nigeria where one man can have 50 houses in the village and he only goes there once in a year.

be happy. smile always, show her affection and she will get the message. love has no language.

so who is the original poster? is it darefestus himself?

PepERSprAY:
Igbo: Okonko festival where human beings are used for sacrifice

igbo: new yam festival which may involve human sacrifice

Igbo: Building a house in the village when they don't have one in lagos.

this is funny.

chamotex:
Whats the posters point?

he is just making a fool of himself. these pictures have not proven anything.

desperate measures are needed for desperate situations.

the federal government should be held responsible for this nonsense. why did nysc send innocent female graduates to the niger delta?

xpagnol should promise to marry the girl. make a verbal agreement(not written), get the job and dump her.

@xpagnol,

you are between the devil and the deep blue sea.

capital punishment.

hannibal/sauron
danke
tope2000
missy b
shegirl71
spikedcylinder

Timmmy:
hi nairalanders,
Am a guy that i so much believe in true love since i started dating gurl. but i so much wonder y i can't find true love. when ever i meet a new gurl to God i always do my best to not to loose her. but i find out that i loose them after sometime and what i want is a long relationship but i can't find. Not that am not caring, loving. but i just don't understand. the gurl i have now i have loose it again. and this thing is always bothering my mind that am i going to marry in life. please can someone advise me wats happening or what to do. please this is a serious issue to me no joke. gurls and boys are all welcome. thanks looking forward for your post or send me a mail if it is private. timmyadejare@yahoo.com or +2348074871094

you sound so desperate. get another woman and be yourself.

it's a disgrace!

inferiority complex. men with money in nigeria are demi-gods and gods are worshipped.

lynching petty criminals(jungle justice) should be abolished.

ikeyman00:
tangent
ur username spell it out, we are adjesent not tangent, u see u are menat to be sittin on the fence

adjesent=adjacent, menat=meant. i think you should take baby jinx's advice: spend some time in school.

how can one be tired of clapping in the church?

covetousness:excessively and culpably desirous of the possessions of another man.

best james bond: george lazenby(on your majesty's secret service).

worst james bond: timothy dalton(license to kill).

this is so sad.

ikeyman00:
tangent

u fine? only fine hausa ladies are welcome here, the only ulgy one here so far is baby-dumb

your attempt to sound funny is weak, try again.

tpia:
I read the thread. I was also in a boxing match at the time with plus-queen, aloy-emeka and some other folks defending Igboland against people like me, so I couldnt be bothered to comment.

I did a quick google check and found the thing all over the internet, just like most other African customs people try to sweep under the carpet.

Of course we all know in most parts of Africa, traditionalist minded people always insist nobody can die a natural death. Most times its either the wife killed him or his enemies got him.

The one I know of ( not Igbo), is where a guy died and his relatives categorically told the wife that she was the one who killed him, and that they were going to kill her too. _{though I know a Yoruba case where the inlaws said the same thing}. The lady got the shock of her life because both she and her husband were highly educated and she'd expected her inlaws to be enlightened. Most of the Yoruba instances I know of, tend to involve the semi literate brothers/relatives of the husband struggling with the wife and kids for the guy's property.

there are so many areas in the east with weird traditional practises. i was told a man that lost his fiance few days to their wedding still go ahead to marry the corpse(dressed in wedding gown). it happened to a distant cousin and i am sure some villages still practise this evil act.

what about hausa women?

i am afraid it's not possible. it is covetousness.

chei, it's 4.30 already. i have to go work.

yes they are the same. i only added a clearer pix. her name is selita ebanks.

Busy_body:
Before nko, who told you, you had a choice whether to accept or not

Ha, don't remind me again, the thing pained me sotay. I was in labour for 36 hours straight and e no pain me reach this, honestly. I was even scared of using the @ button, so that people would stop comparing and get off my back. . .

Like everyone else, I just overlooked the fact that Libragirl could have been a genuine newbie who was just being naughty. Once again, I am very sorry

awwwwww, you are very sweet.

tope2000:
excuse me??
make una leave my handsome sauron alone please

tope, leave my husband alone. it's not funny anymore. sauron belongs to me. u can try geolabious and agaba. danke, please help me out.

Missy B:
Tangent
Don't provoke me!!      
Why the fine bikini without fine shape and tummy to go?

Check ur archive again please.

one's man meat is another man's poison. danke is drooling and missy b is angry. i don't have anymore in my archives.

shegirl71:
I am totally speechless.Gosh it is so beautiful.

another one for you.

shegirl71:
Oh God this is beautiful.If had that i will never remove it.lol

you are the only one here feeling my vibe.
this is the 2007, which included a thong, garter, cuff bracelet and barrette - cost a mere $4.6 million.

n-guage:
Abeg tangent stop posting pictures of white girls.

racist? the thread is about bras and not colour of the skin.

spikedcylinder:
E gree 2 for 120? At least Tangent go wan buy that one. Chinese diamonds? they are the best na.

hell no. i can still afford $20 ones like this.