I'm happy they offered the olive branch of restructuring the loan. I can't imagine going without salary for a full year because of money wey business I opened done scatter.

wroskian:
Mr. Realistica23, sorry o... at the risk of sounding harsh, I would say you are suffering from "Brain relocation syndrome." It's a condition which compels the sufferer to reason with the genitals instead of the brain.

So it is now you know she has character flaws and not a wife material?

Thank God her mother isn't running after you with juju. If your sister or daughter had to be in Jenny's shoes, what would you have done? You better man up & go take responsibility for that pregnancy now.
Congratulations on the arrival of your twin boys in advance.

Respectfully! F**k you! Is the girl also not an adult? Did he force her to sleep with him? I don't know of the legal implications but you can protect yourself by sending money to her account tagged antenatal fees. In the meantime try and see that lawyer so that you can protect yourself from bullying. Also record any threats or similar messages from her people. She should be the one thanking you for donating healthy sperm to give her a baby. All those bast**rds criticizing him for being seduced by a jezebel should just gettat! If a woman seduces you Bleep her brains out after all she is not a baby.

I don't see what the problem is. They are trying to force you to marry a woman you don't love or forget about laying claim to a child you never wanted. Easy answer... They can keep the child and name it for conscience sake send whatever support you can and move on with your life.

A lot of men especially in stable relationships have faced this dilemma. If you can convince the pregnant lady to respect your relationship even if she wants to have the baby you may end up being happy years down the line that she kept it. Take inspiration from 2face idibia. Be willing to face the consequences of your mistake. You will still find happiness after the storm blows over.

I'm planning to pull out by the end of this month. I've already recouped my 100k investment. Life itself na ponzi

You need to keep betting. One big win will turn your fortunes around. Only stake 1/10 of your total weekly allowance anyway. Stay blessed.

Nigerians are big hypocrites especially when it comes to sexual activities until they get exposed. For guys that are into it Analingus or rimming definitely encourages a woman to feel sexually at ease with you since you have demonstrated full acceptance of her body. That said people should learn to jump and pass any topic they find offensive and stop being so hypocritically judgemental.

Kingofhoes:


Quit saying what you don't know oga. They'll only flag your bvn which will make it difficult to get loans from banks. That's all.

He probably works for them. Defaulting on an unsecured loan will only damage your credit. They won't waste time on anything else because their business practice is unethical to start with especially the duration and interest rates.

Hisgrace0001:
Pls sir/ma ...what happens when one defaulted FairMoney loan app.

Do they message the contact or just report one to credit bureau??

I've defaulted for about 3 months now. They haven't called my contacts but they have notified me about my BVN being submitted to the credit bureau for blacklisting. The funny thing is since I started owing them I've seen the wisdom of sometimes letting things be instead of borrowing to solve some problems. Better to go without some comforts or even essentials in life than to take loans. I hope to liquidate some properties so I can pay off everything but those late fees sha...I no send. I'd pay what I owe with the interest. For my conscience sake.

My own case come add credit card debt join. I'm currently owing fairmoney 1.4m naira. I'd have to sell off property to pay it. It all stemmed from borrowing from one to pay another in the hopes that I'd earn the difference in interest. Within just 3 months my debt went from around 190k to 1.4m. my only sadness is it has affected my marriage because I've lost all interest in having fun.