MRbrownJAY:

@poster
it all depends on what your idea of a successful marriage is:

- if you think that a wife who will do and execute as she is told is a successful marriage then OBEDIENCE will be the virtue needed.
- if you think that a wife who is not afraid to tell her husband anything IS a successful marriage then HONESTY will be the virtue needed.
- if you think that a wife who lets her husband go clubbing with his mates is a successful marriage then TRUST will be the virtue needed.
- if you think that a wife who can stay faithful for yrs while you work abroad is a successful marriage then FIDELITY will be the virtue needed.
-if you think that a wife who give all her money to husband is a successful marriage then GENEROSITY is what you are looking for.(beware, some can view that as the virtue of STUPIDITY)

the list is endless but you surely catch my drift. lol!

GREAT!, & above all,there must be "LOVE & UNITY" without which,Obedience, honesty,trust, fidelity,generosity,etc will never be possible.

Wao! na wao ehn, NL is more interesting than a novel!.Hmn,those good old days were really fun.I can still remember one sunday eve, when my elder sis & my parents were in d living room down stairs, while i was all alone in my room upstairs.& that was because i wanted to perform the experiment of "BLOWING MY TV OPEN SO THAT THE KIDS COULD COME OUT & PLAY WITH ME".all alone without disturbance.My mum ran upstairs shouting where is my baby?,she always refer to me as her baby since i was/am the last born of the family of two,ie my elder sis & i.So, on hearing her voice,i pretended to be fast asleep & as soon as she was gone,i jumpd down d bed to continue my experiment.Well,i was watching my favourite kidies movie on tv & really wanted the kids to come out & play with me. Honestly,it wasn't an easy task as d tv was stronger than i ever thought,but when i eventually blew it open,the ugliest sight was what i behold instead of d lovely kids i had wanted to play with.My parents ran upstairs on hearing d strange noice,What! My Dad exclaimed,He wanted to beat hell out of me for d very 1st time, since they aren't used to beating us at all.But when i cried out"No dad! I only wanted my kidies friends on tv to come out & play with me! I've been so lonely in this house without younger ones or a very little baby to play with! Pls buy me 3 or more siblings because i'm lonely!" Ah! My parents were shockd,mum came & held me close to her,while Dad just sat on d floor,then my sis burstd into serious laughter & we all joined her in d laughing galour. Then my Dad instructed d house keeper to change d tv d next day,& also buy us more toys to play with, After which they gave us another round of serious lectures.Secondly,i & my sis always go to d toy room to play & in there are different kind of toys,,veeery many & enouph to form a toy shop.Well, one night my sis came to room & insist on we, spending the night in our toy room & on our toy bed for a change.I agreed because it was always fun 2 play in there,we've often taken a nap of even siesta on our toy bed but havn't tried sleeping there at night,we went in there when our parent were fast asleep,playd with our toys until we fell asleep.Then, comes d most scaring night mare of my life where all our animal & baby toys started chasing me. I could still remember that i shouted with a loud voice,i woke up two days later on my hospital bed!, surrounded my my family.Ah! What i'm i doing here? I had fainted physically during dat night mare.Hmn,we went home d next day & my mum brought a pastor to our toy room,,, oo boy!,come see prayers! Every thing that's not of God in this room,out!out!out! In Jesus name!. Bobobobo,babalalatoto.Holy ghoooost fire.Lol. Another one i can still remember was when i was 5,i was waiting for my sis in her room,she was 12yrs then, very light in complexion & beautiful.She was having her bath while i sat on her chair & was makin face on her dressing mirror, from d mirror i could see her far behind me,she just came out of d bathroom,flingd her towel to d bed & started rubing cream on her body.Hey! Whats dat? I shouted,as from d mirror,i had noticed two beautiful round balls on her chest,i turned round to conferm,ah! What are those?i asked her,shut up! She shouted,muuummmyeeeeee,i ran out befor she could stop me, luckily for me,they weren't down stairs but in d sitting room up stairs,& as such,it was easy to meet them befor she could get hold of me.What's it? Shouted my Dad with his baaaaz voice,my sis saw them as soon as she trew d door open,& ran back to her room since she was unclothed. Hmn,,i saw two beautiful oranges on her chest.What! Dad had esclaimed while mum just opend her mouth wide without a word.Lol.Hehehe, those funny old days!.My sis still rememberd this too,we even joked about it d last time i came,befor i traveld back to d states.I think it's good to remember those good old days at times.I'm off to work abeg, ah! nl's too much.

@poster,my case is similar to yours,i came all the way from d states purposely for our weddn,she was so happy to see me,& we painted d town red!!.But i traveld 2 Abuja somedays later,came back earlier than i promised her,gave her a supprise visit,& caught her red handed with another guy.I felt she was the wrong girl for me & decided to cancel d weddn.But few weeks later,God gave me a prettier ,reliable,trust worthy,& more responsible girl.I'll be coming back to wed her by december.

Mine happend several weeks ago,she was directly opposite my house when i drove out,her adorable physical disposition mesmerized me & i fell madly inlove with her at first sight.All effort to know more about her proved abortive.All she could give was a fake name as she ran away from me.The funiest aspect of it was when i tried catching up with her--hmn,funny!!.  But the most exciting & interesting aspect of it was when she came back to me d next day,she was also in love with me at first but was playing hard 2 get. Anyway,we are now on telephone & email courtship & i think i may be coming back to wed her by december.

spicyhoney:

How can you put IOU in a vault, IOU's are normally given to tellers and not to the vault. I bet Afribank lacks checks and balances because one person does not even go into the vault alone nor have the combinations to the vault's lock. Its usually two people mostly the head of operations and the cash officer. I feel whatever had happened is as a result of the BACKWARD and inefficient banking done by Afribank. And what happened to CCTV? which is supposed to be viewed at all time by the branch's resident auditor, branch leader and head of Operations.

Thank u very much!! U've said it all, I've nothing more to say, Hmn, what an operational lapse,

tensor777:

Well I am sure it was not things like the lack of 24-hour electricity and other utilities as factors that made most people here leave the country. Perhaps that is what they enjoy now and are unwilling to give up.
I don't really see these as issues if there are opportunities to be tapped in the country. The most relevant factor should be security.

You're right my guy, amenities like electricity,water, etc are very good, but nevertheless, could be created individually in our various homes for comfort.But security is what u cant afford all alone & cant joke with,I tried that in 2001,an ex soldier security man was already arranged by my Dad based on my instructions befor my arrival, but when those mega boys came visitn on the very day of my arrival, **hmn,,they got him terribly delt with,brutalized & maimed.They made away with everything includn my marmoset.It was soooo painful & humiliating, imagine those malodorous beings,shoutn at me!!.& telln me to lie down!.Well,i traveld back within dat week & was too scared to visit again until this yr.SECURITY IS VERY IMPORTANT.

Well,as for me,i think good roads & low crime will encourage me a to travel home once in a while.But being completely Nig based is a different thing entirely & i dont think i'm ready for that now. Thoughts of the Nig mafias,who are ever always malevolent & malignant is really scaring.

Point of correctn: A guy,falling in love at 1st sight is neither a crime nor a form of misbehaviour but a normal & irresistable way of life,especially 4 a guy who's already seekn d face of God 4 a partner.It can hapn 2 any man,irrespective of his financial status.It isn't misbehavior my friend!! Gramarians! go ahead & crack ur respective skulls., If i notice lack of understandn of what i've writn in such a simple eng. Hmn, then,i think i'll even prefer speakn broken eng.4 clarification. Gush! Any one who's so full of hatred 4 me's free 2 come 2 d airport on friday to stop me frm travln out. I'm already very busy now & will even be busier as soon as i get back there.I've seen dat it's such a criminal act 2 look 4 one's love arnd here.I just imagine how u'll feel if u were there in Houston Texas when an extreamly wealthy dude did'nt only look 4 his lov,but fought anoda guy 4 her, brought out his gun & guned him down.Goodbye guys,i still love u all.****closes his lap top,pickd up his phone & walkd straight 2 his room 4 a shower****.

Oh! U mean u didn't understand d 1st post u quotd frm? Where i was thankn d nlanders 4 their effort & giving God all d grories 4 making it posibible 4 me 2 find her? b4 going further 2 say Becky isn't her real name?.If u didn't see such frm d post u personally quoted frm,Then,u must really be d fool u're talkn about, As 4 calls,i receivd very many of dem, but did u think i've nothing doing other dan flirtn around like u? Look here guy!, HIV is real, And as 4 u,residn in my area? It's a white lie!!!! I cant remember ever seeing such an ugly,sickly, disgustn,terrible, hargard & hungry looking HIV POSITIVE fool arround there, Jealous Bastard!!.

kpolli:


bros, she gave u her name n played her own tape for u but she didnt give u her number, !!!!!hw is that possibleabeg this no be Nairailliterateland.com o

A non illiterate person should be able 2 understand a simple thrd like dis, !! Or didn't u read it frm d beginin or what? All she told me b4 i opend dis thread in search 4 her was just Becky as her name.she neither gav me her number,adres, nor d reason why she was standn there.She even refusd my c.card. Or cant u read? On holdn her 2 talk 2 her she free her self & ran away, Then,my feelns 4 her made me go in search 4 her & even open dis thread,thinkn she could be a nlander, read it,get my numba frm it & call me.I later resignd 2 faith dat i may never find her again.But around 18 minutes to 7pm yesteday,she came back 2 my house 2 say sorry 4 all d stress,She was felln just d same way i was feeln too & couldnt help but com 2 me.I was very happy 2 see her & told her all i've been throu in search 4 her.I then show her d thrd & all d replies.She was shockd dat i love her dat much, It was at dat point she decided 2 open up 2 me why i met her standn there,how she was in pains as a result of a fresh broken hearth from a wealthy guy who told her afta evry thing dat she isn't his class, She also told me dat Becky isn't her real name,dat she only told me d name dat came 2 her mind,so i could leav her alone. Gush!! What's hard 2 undastand here? I told her my main aim of lookn 4 her on NL was because i neither hav her phon numba nor her address.It was at dat point we decided 2 exchang fone nos & adress. She was even still there wit me wen i decided 2 send my last post 2 thank u guys & close d thread.Now tell me! What ar u tryn 2 say now? Are u just being jealous dat i'v found lov again?? Were u just sooo happy dat i came all d way frm d states 2 wed my fiancee & decided 2 angrily cancel the wedn because i caught her in bed wit anoda guy? & was so frustrated dat i even put up the thread below on NL('What's really going on in d mind of babes')?If u guys arn't jealous, why are u feeln so bad dat i find lov again?.Wel,i dont care how any body feel anymor & i dont also care if u guys beliv or not, All i now care about is d lov dat i'v found again.U know what? any body who so much hate me,my babe, or my thread should jump into d lagoon & drown 4 all i care, Gush!!!!,, What's all these bullshit!!!.Thank God i hav just few more days 2 spend here,& over there,i'l be too busy 4 all these useless questns & answers section, Damn!!.

Dear naira landers, I thank u all 4 ur advice so far,& as 4 many of u who dont belive me,it doesn't really matter.Afterall,it wasn't even mearnt 4 u,i just put it up out of despiratn,Beliving dat if i narrate every thing exactly how it all hapnd & if she's also a nairalander, it'll convince her immediately dat am refering 2 her. Well,now dat i've found her,i think i'll give God all d glories.(1)Her real name isn't Becky, & i dont want 2 disclose her real name here.(2)She was just too unhappy yesterda because of a fresh broken heart frm a wicked wealthy dude.(3)She isn't a nairalander,but a pretty decent Angel who thought of all dat hapnd yesterday & decided 2 come say sorry.It wasn't necesary, but thank God she came.Thanks once more again 4 all ur effort,I show her d write up & all ur resposes,& she was suprised dat i could go all dat lenght in search 4 her, What else?? Now dat i'v found who i'm lookn 4, Since she isn't even a nlander & i wouldn't like 2 discuss my love affairs here,i therefore declare dis thread closed,

segunjowo:

This is drama in disguise. i can tell some cheap NL babes will fall for this guy and he'd get under their pantie and out b4 they know it. Tell u wot?? this guy is a Naija based, looking for cheap bleep!!

Im disapointed!,How on earth will i be chasn d NL babes dat i'v neva seen b4.Am a nigerian based abroad,but tell me! What's so new or special about that,wen there're so many nigerians based abroad dis days, Inshort,what gav u d impresn dat NL babes are so cheap,spoilt, corrupt & indecent 2 d extent of goin 2 show a guy their undies just like that? Oh! Is dat what has actually become of nig babes dis days? Was dat why i caught d one i came 2 wed wit a man few weeks 2 our weedn? Now u're really scaring me, I mean,u're really scaring me,& it isn't funny at all.

pinky lady:

@ poster

dont you think your trying to find her thru NL is a waste of time, if u guys are meant to be i bet u, u'll meet her again cos i doubt if you'll achieve anything here

Thanks very much,i've just realised now,dat it wont be easy this way, I guess i was just too eager 2 see her since i've just few days 2 spend here.

ReachRich:

I can predict this movie.Some1,probably the poster would register Becky on NL and claim that he is the Becky the poster is looking for.From there they'll be giving us updates on their romance.Lets continue watching the movie.***grabs a pack of popcorn and pulls a sofa***

Hehehehe, i wish it's as simple as putn up a drama on NL.Even if i see her,i can only thank u all 4 ur response & let u kno dat i'v found her, Every other thing'll be between just d 2 of us through txts ,calls,visitatns, outings,etc,

Deep Soul:

Poster is just bored. From the boldened part above, we can tell this story is fictitious. He's looking to get the attention of women who might be just as bored as him and who the line "too handsome & wealthy" appeal to. Oh puhleese jo!

Thank God u're not d Becky i'm lookn 4. She'll understand as soon as she reads every thing, because THOSE WERE HER EXACT WORDS .Why will i be seekn d attentn of d nland babes dat i dont know, havn't seen,& may never see? Look here babe,i dont belive in such ok,if not because of d broken heart i got frm my ex fiancee, i actually came 4 my weddn & not 2 be lookn 4 Becky on nland.& as soon as i'm back 2 d states on friday,i'll be tooooo busy 4 all these.

Kx:

nor go dey look for mammy water!!!!!!!!

Hmn,i hope not,let's assume she's busy in d office,school or something, I'll wait till may be 7:30 2nite & if i cant see her,then i'll start prayn against any possible attack frm a ghost, But i think she's just too 'real human' to be a ghost.

fubiluv:

What makes you think she is in Naira land.
How are sure are you that person that will call you is her?
i think you should hang around were you met her,and ask some questions around.
You could be lucky,Also pray let she not be a spirit.
Hahaaaaaa.

I actually askd questns arround there dat yesterday but no one seems 2 kno any one by dat name, As 4 d calls, i'm even confusd, some anonymous nos has been calln me since morning, & each time i pickd 2 say hello,d person wont respond.Only once,a lady's voice managed 2 say Hello,but as soon as i said 'hi,is dat Becky? She paused 4 a while & cut d line.& as 4 her,being a ghost, hmn, I'm afraid.I just hope she'll prove us wrong by meditatin on what hapnd yesterday & comin 2 me,even if she isn't a nairalander.Becky pls prove us wrong, Come 2 dat house where i drove out of,ie dat house opposite where u were standn.Ring d bell, & as soon as d gateman opens 4 u,just tel him u're Becky, Every one arround me already knos dat am lookn 4 u.

nanidee:

, so what now happened next? 

I'll now wait & hope she reads this,because dat'll make her know dat i'm refering 2 her. Which was why i took time 2 give d detaild explanatn of how we met, where we met,& what hapnd.I just hope she's a naira lander.

190:

rubbish

poster if you dey find becky why u nor go CNN office go complain~

rubbish,
Driving outta VGC Ko
Pink and black trouser ni~

**complains and leaves thread**

But i wish u did'nt enter d thread at all, because it isn't even mearnt 4 u at all.But i promise 2 disapoint u by makn sure i find her, I've just taken d 1st step.

Just pull ur shoes & run 4 ur dear life now! U've just met an irresponsible gold digger.It's better u dump him now!than 4 u 2 sit back & watch him milk u dry b4 dumpin u later.

BECKY,where are u?where hav u been all my life? Seeing u 4 d 1st time was like seeing d star.I kno most guys would like 2 be d sun dat lights up ur life, But Angel,i'ld rather be ur moon, so i can shine on u during ur darkest hour wen ur sun isn't arround.I look forward 2 seeing u again 2day.

I met u yesterday, cool sunday eve arround 6:30pm, wen i was driving out of my house at VGC.I mean dat house directly opposite where u were standn.U turned arround & u were lookn sooo cute in dat ur black & pink combination of trousers & top outfit.I wind down 2 take a closer look at u & u said Hi,i offerd u a ride but u declined,i askd of ur no,but u declined.U told me ur name was BECKY,but are u really BECKY? i tried giving u my c.card but u declined,i came out of d car 2 drop it with u,but u flinged it off & walked away.U walked so majestically as i've always wanted.I ran & held u very close 2 me,looked straight into ur eyes & told u "i wanna know u better"But u became scared,u started breathing fast,& started shivering.I could see tears in those pretty & sexy eyes of urs wen u told me that i was too handsome & wealthy 4 ur liking. & dat,u hate sharing ur guy wit other babes,since frm my looks & wealth u're very sure dat babes will flock arround me.I tried explainin 2 u dat i dont double date,but u strungled out of my grip & ran away.U ran as fast as ur legs could carry u.I ran after u 2 some extent then i decided 2 go back into d car & drive after u,but u were gone! I searched arround 4 u but could'nt find u.I decided 2 use dis medium 2 communicate with u,knowing dat if & only if u could read dis,u'll know whole heartedly dat i'm refering 2 u.Pls Becky,dont be intimidated by my looks & wealth,i'm just a simple guy, God! Pls Help me explain dis 2 her, I'll be going back 2 d states on friday & i just wish we could see b4 then, maybe 2day.Baby, pls! Can u call me on dis line? 07040250937. i'll really appreciate dat,u'll never regret it.I promise never 2 hurt u, I just hope u're a n/lander.'God! What am i gonna do now? what if she is'nt? somebody help! Am i insane, or is dis d lov at 1st sight dat pple are takn about? But i dont belive in such,.Why cant i get her off my mind? After all i've been seeing so many babes since i came but have neither felt dis way nor even try 2 be close 2 any of dem, Now i know what Raswagga has been going through with dat babe arround his estate.I just wonder how i'll feel if i dont see her till i traveld back 2 d states, Becky pls cal,look! Becky,just saying Hellow I'm Becky is just ok 4 me,i'll call u back immediately so dat we can discuss on how 2 meet face 2 face, We really need 2 talk.

I met u yesterday, cool suday eve arround 6.30pm wen i was driving out of my house at VGC,i mean dat house directly opposite where u were standn.U turnd arround & i saw u! U were lookn soooo cute, in dat black & pink combination trousers & top outfit.I wind down 2 take a closer look at u,& u said Hi,I offerd u a ride but u declined,i askd of ur no,but u declined,U told me ur name was BECKY.But Are u really BECKY?,I tried giving u my c.card but u declined,i came out of my car 2 drop it with u,but u flinged it off & walkd away.I ran after u,held u very close 2 me,lookd straight into ur eyes & told u"I wanna know u better".But u became scared,& started shivering,i could see tears in those pretty sexy eyes of urs wen u told me dat i was too handsome & wealthy 4 ur likn,& dat u hate sharing a guy with other babes since from my looks & wealth, u're very sure dat babes will flock arround me.I tried explaining 2 u dat i can only date one babe at a time but u strungled out of my grip & ran away.U ran as fast as ur legs could carry u,i ran after u 2 some extent but later decided 2 go back 2 my car & drive after u, But u were gone.I lookd arround but could'nt find u.I wish u could just read this,u'll know dat i'm referin 2 u. I'll be going back 2 d states on friday. How i wish we can see b4 then, maybe 2day.Could u pls cal me on this line?07040250937.i really wanna kno more about u.Pls Baby,just cal me & u wont regret it,i promise u.Dont be intimidated by my looks & wealth,i'm just a simple guy. God! pls Help me esplain dis 2 her.I just hope she reads dis.I'm just confusd,someone pls tell me what 2 do!, Now i know what has been happening 2 Raswagga.'cant even get her of my mind.Is dis love at 1st sight or what? But i dont belive in dat,.But why hav'nt i felt dis way 4 any babe since i came? What i'm i gonna do now?.

googles:

duh. . . . . . . must you make yourself obvious

my friend go and sleep jor and quit calling me lil' girl its your 2nd time and am not finding it funny "SWAGGA MAN"

EzeUche:

My bad lil girl, it was not meant to be funny. Yes, embrace my swagganess.

Hehehe, U're all very funny, 'cant help but laugh out, Hmn,my guy! No yarb googles again oo. Googles na mature babe naa.4get dat profile picture,lets check out her maturity & not seniority.

@hbabe,u're right. It depends on who is more financially buoyant & who's willing 2 spend. Take me 4 instance,i always spend so much on any girl i love, Taking her shoppn in exotic places, expensive pure gold jewelries,car gifts,etc.but i dont always espect anything in return but love.To me,it's not investment but sharing with d one i lov.That was why even when i broke up with my fiancee few weeks ago,because of her infidelity,i never felt bad about all i'v spent on her,but d broken heart as a result of d love she took away from me.

U're my lov,u're my life,d most lovely Angel i've ever seen.You're like d rain dat washes away tears,life aint gonna be so much fun without u.Pls! Come into my life & put a smile on my face again, I LOVE U,

As 4 me,i dont go sleepn with d girl i dont love & cant marry.I propose as soon as i discover that she's good enouph 4 me,i'm always very happy to spend so much on them without looking back,all because of love.But what do they pay me back with? Disapointment, infidelity,& any bad thing u can think of.Just imagine me, catching my ex fiancee,RED HANDED,cheatn on me just few weeks 2 our weddn, Tell me! Why wont i be too scared of commitment even if i eventually fall in love again? Hmn,i'lld like 2 study,study, study,& study d girl until i'm tired.& what will she say? That guy is baaad! He does'nt want 2 be commited! He's only using me!.U see.,Some men are not born 2 be scared of commitment,but d attitude of d babes arround them make them 2 be.

rawswagga:

Tampa plz send me an email nd I will update u

Alright.

Manty:

guy be careful d lady u just mentioned is someone else wife

  It does'nt have 2 be her,there are so many babes out there with such stature.

Siena:

That's a strong word. You hate them??

   NO!,it's not really the babes in persons, but the stature.

Yeah! That's cool, start sending out texts 2 her & watch events unfold.I've always liked such,it's just that others dont seem 2 like it.GOOD LUCK.