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Acidosis:
The question is: can you afford it? If Yes, spend as much as you can. It is your money.

Hmmmm.

helphelp:
Hi Guys,

The topic is mainly for married couples with kids.

I just keep wondering how money zaps whenever I get hold of it.

After proper study, I noticed we(Me, my wife and our 1yr 4months old son) spend on average 200k(Manage) every month.

And I hear of couples with more kids that manages on far less than that.

Please share what you spend monthly and a break down of how you manage the funds.

you really don't need to know or ask how much other people/families spend on a monthly basis.
just thank God for your own. always be appreciative and help the less privileged and forever remain grateful. That's all you need. *my opinion *

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reserved111:
Pls don't crucify me yet.
I'm someone that is good in attracting and keeping female friends but most of them can't marry me because of one reason or the other; of course one can't marry all his girlfriends.
These factors include:

Tribe -
(most yoruba and hausa gals dat luv me can't marry me cos we can't fight d battle of convincing our tribe people to accept the differences. Its a big war.

Age Difference:
I also have girl frnds who are not yet ready to get married cos they hav to at least pursue a degree and maybe get more matured.

Lifestyle and taste: I also have girl friends who want to marry very rich men due to family influence.

Opinion: I also have girl friends who want plenty children while I insist on only Two kids.

I also have girl friends who are also in relationships with either their tribe person or smone they can't afford to leave.

Business: I also have girl friends who help me run my business.

Now, I want to get married but I think I have to keep all this my girlfriends cos we also share emotional tins. And they all love me. I can't afford to leave my girlfriends Esp. **NJD**

that shouldn't be a problem at all na. afterall it's your life so who cares.

just be ready to leave a VERY SHORT life battling with different types of STDS.

your life, your choices. init

jaybee3:
My Sista i been dey ooo. We just dey push am as per normal na
How business?

business doing fine o we thank God. thanks sir

jaybee3:
You had a brain fart?

Roflmao. oga Jaybee3 eku odun mewa o. how are you and all yours?

Please also add

TRUST and very effective COMMUNICATION.




EOD : end of discussion. No more no less.

nice one op.

Good evening.

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SWITANN:
so cos a man does all that means his wife has lost all rights to her freedom particularly keeping her last name if she wants too. that's bad.

Sorry are you from this planet EARTH

Hehehehe. laughing in Swahili


1. NO

2. B

3. no idea.

uplawal I know you quoted me. unfortunately I dint get to see it before it was hidden/deleted.

it's too obvious what you typed was horrible and as usual full of hate hence the reason it was hidden. it is well with you, if all Muslims were to be like you, this life would have been far worse.

God help you.

if you truly love and trust your husband, you wunt be asking this question.

if you are going to do it, do it because you love and trust him.
some other men buy and build in both husband and wife name WITHOUT the wife adding a dime ( what will you say about that? )

the choice is yours madam. at the long run it is your home and your husband so the answer ls right in your heart. Best of luck.

Holywizard:
I'm very confused and sick right now...
Right from my primary school days till now am about going for service anytime I lie concerning my health either to avoid chores or responsibilities I ended up falling sick.

Like If I lied to my mum that am experiencing headache within some minutes or hours I must experience such for real.
Few hours ago I lied to my elder sis that I was having stomach pain to avoild being sent on errand & right now as am typing, I'm in pains via stomach pains. The funniest thing is that I have visited the toilet like 5 times now.

I'm confused; Is it normal like power from the tongue & is there anyone with such experience?

Moderators pls help me out...thanks!

YES you are very normal. You only need to stop lies and cursing yourself with your own tongue. God is your strength.

uplawal:
Were you bitting by a rapid dog?cos i can smell madness from you afar,i have just told you fact in my religion,pls die in your rage madman.

Am not disappointed. Telling someone to "die" someone you don't know, have never seen before might never see? I guess that's what your quran/religion teaches right

you are a big disgrace to your religion. may God forgive you.

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GoodBoi1:
****clapping****

Lol. Good boy, now go and take paracetamol for your headache then lay down and rest. smiles

koboko69:
So you even read he/she previous thread and u couldn't see this one is just looking for who will send money to him/her on this forum.

Back to the matter;

Some people will just open account on NL to extort people. The tone of this OP plus he or she's other threads suggests just that. There are also many inconsistencies in the story. There is always a loop hole for every scammer. You were in 300L just in April when u created a thread. This is July, you are suddenly in Final year looking for sch fees and project money. You are even talking of clearance when u have not even settled project. Lets assume u resumed final year in Jul or may or June, its too early to talk abiut clearance or whatever song u are singing. Appologies if i am wrong!

Lobatan!!!

GoodBoi1:
Shut up! Can't you understand for one second? Did you even graduate from a university? And I mean from a demanding course? And you graduated with a good degree? Not 2:2 and below. Everyone needs help at one time or another. How far can your independency go? Haven't you ever thought of getting a loan?

ROFLMAO. now give yourself a round of applause. the one and only demanding graduate in the world and with the most demanding course who also came out with first class. Lol.

sorry o. when you are done go and rest.

Prettiepearlz:
Bia my sister don't even try to drag Christianity into this issue at all, na you talk say Christians are evil and now you're talking of having good Christians as friends. You're sure confused, why bring religion into this matter? As if Muslims are any way better, see everyone should be responsible for his deeds and not the religion or the tribe. And for the records Christians help each other especially in the Catholic Church although with the exception of a few Christians sha but that shouldn't define the whole religion. Anyway you're not one so I don't expect you to know, likewise I know nothing in your religion because it's none of my business. Oga ooooo, give your advice and leave religion out of it. You people should quit hating.
Humbledbyfaith, if all you have said is true, quit the pity party and find a way to be independent and make your brother and his wife sorry for their deeds. You have opened about three threads on your brother and his wife ahn ahn kilode, live your life like they don't exist and make the best out of your life. To achieve success, you need to stop complaining and face your life squarely. I wish you all the best.

FINALLY aonther person seeing it exactly from as it should. Thank you sis.

freecocoa:
I agree that the most important thing is a way forward but I still understand why she mould lament and may not have wanted her brother to marry the lady.

My family would have preffered my cousin didn't marry his wife but he said he wanted her and everyone had to get on board, believe me sister, there are people you should advice a loved one against marrying, there just are, so OP may actually have good reasons why she didn't want her bro marrying the lady, and from her story, I think it's pretty obvious.

you could be right. if only we heard the other side of the story we all would have gotten a clearer view of what's actually on ground. which was why my entire post goes directly to the op and how she can help herself out of this. the brother and his wife will also have their own stories to tell.

it's the irony of life, we deal with every challenge as they come and it only makes up stronger. I wish the op the best of luck

uplawal:
Pls get behind me wicked wife,if you care to read well of my posts you should not be blind to the ."until after she get married honourably",pls carry your fake attitude next door.

you are the same one that called me wicked, arrogant,fool,idiot and yet you don't know me. it's a faceless forum woman. you got so much hate in you, especially for Christians and this just proves it

https://www.nairaland.com/1817946/hijra
even a fellow Muslim like you correct you and here you still are hating about. what the heck has religion gotten to do with this thread you really need a brain reset.

enjoy yourself woman. the floor is all yours. have a good night.

freecocoa:
Ofcourse, I agree, that's why I encouraged her to seek ways to help herself, but then, somehow, we all still need each other one way or another, even if we feel or think we don't. The fact that OP needs to be financially independent, doesn't mean her brother shouldn't help her when he can, she has said she is not lazy and I see where she is coming from, let's even assume she works and somehow, doesn't have money to meet her needs, can't she ask her bro to help if he can help? The point is, she needs help and is sure he can but just won't help, instead he is helping only people on his wife's side, that's not cool na.

vert very true sis, she will certainly need some little assistance once in a while. but I tell you the op isn't completely posting the whole truth. she has never for once said something nice about her brother wife judging from her previous topics. it's more like she dint even want her brother to marry which is kinda selfish. in my second post on this thread I apologise to her for my previous post and I went ahead ahead to read her previous topics.

to be honest, I really don't have any ish with her brother or his wife even though they both have their faults. am more on the op and how she is trying to get herself out of all of this. life is not as we always expect it to be, it deals with everyone in different shades of blow. rather than her sitting and lamenting a way forward is her best bet. her hairdressing doesn't stop her for studying for her final year.

there lots of ladies out their who don't even have shelters not to talk of a brother or sister and they still find their way (doing legal and clean stuff)

her brother and wife should be her priority now, rather the best possible way forward.