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Haryohdeji:
Please I need help, I am dying of hunger, no food and am stalk here in enugu state...Pls I use God to beg you people sir/ma to help me. No amount is too small. My acc name is Kukoyi Ayodeji, Bank GTB , acc no:0151792475. Thanks and I pray that whosoever help me will never feel hunger in his/her life again. He or She will never lack in Jesus name.

quick search on your history on nairaland shows you have/had a farm/poultry as at may 2016.

so I ask what the hell happened to you to resort to this

yea right, so the rest of the people not born in October fell from the sky right. oya clap for yourself.

by the way you need to make a book of your epistle, you sure will sell a great deal *winks*

just thinking out loud and wondering where she could be. she just suddenly went silent on here. last time she was online was November last year, now that's almost a year ago. I just kinda miss reading her post.

tipia as well.

and a lot of others too.

I believe we all are doing great wherever we are. may God help us all.

following bumper to bumper....

lalasticlala:
https://www.nairaland.com/3370692/it-proper-me-go-back

So how come you are now married? Abi you are married but played away match?

Lobatan !!! wetin person no go see or read for nairaland. hehehe

Acidosis:
heheh, if the brother can afford flight ticket for 2 brothers (myself and a friend), we'll pay him a visit in Delta.

It's a serious issue, and I'm willing to help.

Hehehe. no be only flight ticket, you no want flying boat or paddle for canoe

you willing to help, this your kinda help na fake oo. if you wan help you no go ask for anything. Go ye and epp your brother and the heavens will reward you. lobatan !!!

EfemenaXY:
Relax madam T

It's all about embracing our rich heritage - our African roots.



Chei!!

my sis I gentle oo.

no mind Acidosis. he dey dia dey form voltron, defender of the universe. I can fit climb mountain he Don forget say no be all mountains be the same. lol

Acidosis:
Ah, for real o

if you are so REAL, make sacrifice for a brother then and take a trip to delta. it ain't so far, just a few hour trip by road. you get there in good time and spend the night in the room and leave early the next morning, before you know it you back in lasgidi.

*remember to come back in one piece * how about that

Amelian:
Lol... Never judge a book by its cover..
Word.
Am also surprised at Efemena too, so surprised.. . But hey! Such is life..

yea such is life. some people are gifted spiritually while others are not. I just never knew EfemenaXY could be. Above all GOD is GOD and his will shall come to past.

RiloKiley:
Lol, thanks for your concern miss. But I just can't move out of the house, my rent hasn't expired and besides what if the next house I move to I experience the same thing. I just brought the matter up cos I was curious if anyone else had experienced same and what they did/if they did anything to stop it. I usually use the room as a guest room and most of them don't complain(at least not to me).

Thanks once again.

my brother you rent hasn't expired is not an excuse if you really want to leave and sleep in peace and also having rest of mind in your own apartment. na STRONG HEAD they worry you.

no be you pay the rent from the very first year you started feeling funny about that room? and you kept renewing the rent up until the 5th year abi them force you ni


like I said earlier Bro, it's your life not mine. I can only but wish you all the best of what you wish yourself.

me I no get time or mind for this kind wahala so I just FLEE. call it cowardice or whatever but I just love to have my PEACE. it is well with you.

EfemenaXY:
All these claims to "knowing" me...

What's shocking about my posts a.k.a book cover?

Both of you know in your heart of hearts I'm right. Stop blocking @op from answering his true call.

to be honest I kinda agree with you that it's attached to something spiritual, the thing is I don't know anything about it or what the solution might be. so I did just rather run far away from it right from the onset if I were to be in the op shoes than wait and keep paying up to 5 years rent.

I can't just deal. may God help us all.

hmmmm it is well. I pray you get a good couple to adopt him or her. chai this life...

EfemenaXY:
Anyway @op, there's no point getting salty with me. You asked for help and I'm trying to do just that. You don't have to take my advice though.

Just one more thing:

You mentioned you live in delta state, so I'm presuming you're not too far from the rivers.

What you need to do is strip yourself stark nàkèd at midnight and proceed to the nearest river in nothing but a pair of white socks. Take with you a shiny new frying pan, balance it on your head and walk as slowly as you possibly can, to the river bank.

WARNING: Don't speak to anyone the minute you step out of your house.

When you get to the river, take the frying pan off your head. Place it gently on the ground and kneel before it. Then have a serious wànk and èjàcùlatè three times into the pan. Conjuring up images of Ogbanje might help you achieve this.

Once done, still kneeling, swirl the contents around three times before pouring it into the river while chanting these words out loudly, "Take me, o divine beauty!"...

Cc: Bennyrazz, Amelian

chai sis this is really YOU right the same EfemenaXY I know. I swear I have never seen this part of you before. You they scare me sef.. make I go sleep, I no know why I open this thread.

RiloKiley:
Thanks.

RiloKiley abi wetin be your name
do you have any problem with moving the hell out of that house abi they told you you wunt succeed if you don't live in that house for 5 solid years and you still dey dia!!! doing what actually waiting for an angel to come give you sense abi Heaven they say helps those who helps themselves.

you will be better off living in a face me I slap you and sleeping in peace than in that house. the noise of face me I slap you apartment is better than this your experience.

Anyways, it's your life not mine so you can please stay there for like 5 more years or 10 years and keep being strong and hopeful. good for you.

Acidosis:
Ops!
I wish I could spend a night in that room but I'm far away.
That woman or kid will have me to contend with

u gotta be kidding. init

Handsome777:
I'm a Batch A 2016 corps member in the FCT. I have a girlfriend whom I started dating from the university. Currently, she is doing her NYSC program in Kaduna state.

Whenever,we had free-time, we used to exchange visits. Sometimes, I go to Kaduna; other times, she comes to Abuja. Both of us enjoy each other mainly because we understand each other very well and have experienced both hard times and good times together in the past.

Her younger sister is a 2015 batch B corper in Gombe. One day in July 2016, my girlfriend and I decided to let her younger sister come to Abuja and let's stay together for a while since she has been saying she wants to come to Abuja... she wants to come to Abuja.

We planned as much as we could for her coming in August , somehow I ran out of cash in August and we were suggesting she waits a little bit let me raise some cash but the Gombe corper insisted that if she doesn't come to Abuja in August, she cannot come in September because there will be headcount for 2015 batch b corpers in all the states for their passing out parade in October 2016. So, we told her we were low on cash but she can come however she should come with some money in case she sees anything she wants to buy when she's comes.

Fine, when she came, after one week she started telling my girlfriend that I am not romantic enough because I call my girlfriend by her first name like I have always done since our days in school. Again, she started telling my girlfriend (her elder sister) that I live a fake life claiming she understand psychology more than both of us simply because I took them out and bought them things not according to her expectations but according to my pocket at the time. But my girlfriend who understands me better didn't agree with that. so her ego was somehow wounded. Next, she started interfering in our relationship matters with style in the guise of bringing us closer. It wasn't long, my girlfriend started acting funny towards me.

However, anytime my girlfriend and I are gisting and laughing enjoying each others company like we used to, the younger sister will be boiling inside her. Sometimes, if I plan something with my girlfriend and go to work by the time I come back my girlfriend will be saying a different thing.

Now we're in the middle September, she is not keen on going back to her Gombe. Both of them are still in my house. And, all these mess is disturbing my peace and the peace I share with my girlfriend when we were alone. To me, the Gombe corper has overstayed her welcome in my house

How do I handle this situation?

Please, help!!!

nawa for you o, stylishly send her back her na. tell her sister and let her handle the situation.

but you need to be very careful with her and begin to avoid her by all means even after you are done with service year.

it's obvious she has a crush on you and wants you for herself. so open your eyes and shine am wella else she sets you up and get you out of her way if she can't have you.

byvan03:
I tell you, too much sentiment kills. That sense of entitlement is something I discourage as soon as a relative starts showing it.

it's so annoying. Can you imagine the guy had over 700, 000 and wrecked it till the last kobo and never gave a dime of it to his younger sis or even their mother. so what now happens if she rents him a house or set him up for the last time as they say? he will wreck it has has done to the previous funds and come for more.

@ op no fear at all. evil no fit come near you o. make a drastic decision and stick to it, you no fit come kpai ontop him matter na, wetin

don't renew your rent and don't ever let him know your new address once you get married cause mark my word and the time you are reading this post it will not stop there, he will come to your matrimonial home and keep asking and not just you but from your hubby too.

# they always have this pity look when asking like they will drop dead the next minute if you don't give the # EXCEPT a miracle happens in their life.



As for the car, if it were me, I will repair that car and sell it off and start taking public transport till I move to my husband house.

show him a different you. stop eating and buy food stuff in the house pending the time you still living under same roof. always eat better food before u get home, hide stuff in your room so you can munch on should in case you feel like taking something before you go to bed.

tell him you broke and you can't afford to cook cause you haven't been paid for months. keep less than 500 naira in your purse always. if you have to hide your extra change in your inner shorts DO IT.

Such ppl need to be put on their track else they will wreck you.

robedu:
Renting a house is not an option now as my wedding is coming early next year, so i think i will have to put up with him till then, i would have loved to leave the car for him totally but 2 things bothers me, 1) the fact that while he is making money on the car, he cannot even repair it, if anything is wrong with the car he will leave it like that until im tired of complaining then i will fix it myself, if i leave the car i use my hard earn money to buy for him, he will let it rust, secondly, since my weding plans came up my elder sister told me our house in the vilage is in a bad state that even coming for intro will be a serious embarrassment, so i am doing some renovation, at least the roof that has all gone bad so rain will not come and be chasing inlaws on the intro or trad day, putting that house together will cost me over a million naira, and on the other hand, my fiance just started work few years ago, he was living with his parent until our engagement, so renting a comfortable house plus doing all the wedding stuff is going to be difficult for him so i have to save some money to support where i can, so in literal meaning, i need all the money i can get to plan my life, knowing none of them will offer help

Chai !!! Even your elder sister? nawa oo. it is well

byvan03:
I have the same thing in mind but OP seems too soft. If you disturb my life, I cut you off, that's how I live happily.

chai sis the thing dey pain me wahalai. ELDER brother for that matter, not younger brother which would have been a little bit understandable considering that he is younger. but for this I will collect all my keys and send his sorry asS out of my house. make anybody come ask me wetin happen.

this op needs a resounding slap to wake her up to reality, chai she come turn to zombie. those ppl posting and telling her to give the brother a last chance and set him up finally. if I hear, in this kind of case the elder brother is just taking advantage and using authority over her so there will never be a last chance till she wakes her brain up else she will continue to work and sweat for the comfort of her ELDER BROTHER.

@ op abeg how old is your ELDER BROTHER

SPEECHLESS. what I have in mind to tell you is harsh so make I just sit down dey look before them nairalander label me wicked.


but babe you try oo wahalai. I really commend you. God is your strength. that your elder brother ehen....

true picture of a Good fearing man. Nice one, may God bless all responsible men who TRUELY loves their wives.

NevetsIbot:
the fire has died down now ma'am. Thanks for the insults. She's 6.... Just asked her bro.

and I will need you to point out the part where I turned to a slowpoke cos of an underdeveloped girl. your acccusations are gone to the wind. If I enjoyed it, I wouldn't be here. I don't wanna call you names cos you've got children. Hell, I don't even wanna call anybody names here anymore. I suffered the same thing this small girl is suffering from a paedophile when I was her age... And you don't expect me to be bothered? I know how that abuse is still afecting me till today.

Just goodnight and Sweetdreams. You clearly don't understand me here and I'm cool with it.

#bye

oh I hit a chord! it hurts right who threw the first vide or did you loose your memory when you quoted me using insulting words.

I still stand my grounds either harsh or not. As long as you remain quite and not help that girl out then you are an accomplice, take it or leave it.

sit and watch how the mother of that child, including her brothers tear you into bits when they realize how you have kept the destruction of their child to your self FOR A WHOLE YEAR !!! which most likely the dirty and wicked act is still going on.

have sat to imagine if that girl was your blood sister or your daughter
what will be your reaction finding out a close family friend has known about it for a year and kept it to himself

NevetsIbot:
will you just reason before you start shouting... Don't I know what I'm talking about? I doubt if she's four! Dummy! Cut me some slack! Ive seen proud and arrogant people and this girl is both combined. If you think I'm exxagerating... You can come to Ondo and deal with her yourself!. There, go and hang yourself!

St*pid ladies just keep springing up in this thread! Bimbo

young fool, I have children so I know and understand what they can say at that age.
Now between you and I who is a dummy? is it you that can't control yourself in front of a 4 year old girl, who turns into vegetable while with a 4 year old girl does it show how smart a man you are by loosing your senses and turning into a slowPoke when dealing with a little child that you need the help of others to get her away from your tights

Now you doubt that she 4 years dint you just state here that you are very close to her family? now you really got some nuts missing in your skull. how evident that you are having the fun of your life with that girl.

your issues, play the game as you like. ish

Chubhie:
To solve this mystery, you will have to understand that the female energy of that child and the adult are sexually attracted on the soul level.perhaps one funny demon experimenting and playing psychic mind games with their energy fields?

On the soul level, it's quite understandable and healthy when two souls unite in pure love. love on this plane is beyond the sexual connotations we give on this earth plane.

Now, the brother having sleepless nights cos of the earthly 5 year old is neither grounded spiritually nor morally disciplined.

The 5 year old neither has the right home trainings and guidance necessary to lead her.

One thing I can guarantee you is that the moment the kid and the adult are mistakenly left unsupervised,the energies will overwhelm them and the news would be all over the internet and the brother would never understand what hit him.

He should continue playing hanky panky with forces leading to his ultimate doom.

GBAM!!!

NevetsIbot:
Lol.. You can't understand her. Her parents and brothers have been trying their best to rid her of her proud arrogant attitude since she was wise enough to use a spoon. And currently, she's like two times proud than she was before.
It's cool you're replying well to this now unlike ''somebody''. Well, I'll be seeing the kid this wednesday and I'll be talking to her. Thanks

can you just stop using the words "proud and arrogant " what exactly do you mean by a 4 year old girl being proud and arrogant?? I can't count how many times you have attributed those words to that little girl.

she is just way too young to act such. I just don't get it, you keep hammering on proud, arrogant, her brothers can't wrap their hands round her, what the hell! A 4 year old girl who is likely yet to be able to spell her full names correctly. cut the crap man and stop blowing a trumpet out of it. PROUD ARROGANT for a 4 year old child. jeezzz

Hmmmm op, how are you sure that new woman wouldn't be worse than your wife you have only know her barely 5 months and you willing to leave your wife and kids for her?


Have you tried giving your wife another chance to see if truly she has changed? the saying " the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know"

you saw signs after your intro and you still went ahead because your folks and pastor pleaded. Are they the ones separated from their wives and kids now??

don't be too in a hurry to conclude on the other lady, you only think you are madly in love with her because of the situation with your wife. sort out things with your wife and watch how your face go clear.

But your wife no try at all o. Things went wrong right from the very beginning, intro, lied about her real age till after wedding. it is well

NevetsIbot:
Your words are so critical.. Everyone know I try to avoid her. So, don't place any blame on me.... If I enjoyed the body rub and attention, I wouldn't be asking for advice here. I want to help the girl and that's why I'm here. .you speak as if I'm in support of this. Thanks anyway

you call that critical, we talking a child here and the damage being done to her life and her future.
the table is all yours man, enjoy yourself.
enuf said.

NevetsIbot:
This issue kept me up all night.

whalai all this your excuse is getting me irritated jare. what do you mean by " it takes others to get her away from me" if it has gotten to that extent then am sure ppl are suspecting already of stylishly molesting her, they just don't have enuf nail to nail you for such act.

if you can't tell her parents and help the girl then relocate and zap from that vicinity hence you get accused. if I were the parent and you dint tell me dis as soon as you detected this act, I wunt find it funny with you at all. don't toil with a mothers instincts/ heart over her children.

with what is going on around lately. the longer you keep quite over this, then you are now an accomplice.

spare me all this crap you call excuse and act right as you should, except you enjoy all of her attentions and body rub on you. prove everyone wrong and act fast. A lot of ppl have seen your closeness with her, only that you can't read their minds else you would know what they thinking about you. they only waiting just for a few more seconds to nail and hang you.

NevetsIbot:
Bro, Ive decided to take that step, to spend very little time with her. Before my new gets on NL... And that girl can pretend to be hurt to put her brothers into trouble.

Ion think I can tell anyone. This little girl actually looks for ways for her mouth to be close to mine and she does strong eye contact. Whoever is doing stuffs with her is a bastard

if you decide to keep quite and let her keep being destroyed then you are no different from the animal molesting her, you are far worse than paedophile.

be rest assured that when she is found out by her parents or anyone, you willl be the first on her list as her molester and it will be too late to prove yourself wrong cause people would have seen her around you alot.