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^^^^Good even so, you should sleep with one eye opened and have a plan B ready to spring into action - should the need arise. I believe you have been given more than enough advice now to make up your mind, good luck (not Jonathan )

^^^^Well, I guess then you'll still have to pay bride price, though an Asian lady is likely to be more hard working and ready to contribute materially than a 9ja sister; who is more self centred, veracious and wouldn't waste any time chopping you down to your bare bones like the infamous piranha fish.

Chei, if this kind man vex as him de give im wife/gf mouthaction, just imagine wetin fit happen. E fit vex use dat poisonous teeth chew off de clit completely oO, kai, I no fit shout oO, wahala dey

^^^^Go collect very fine bride whose family would be only too grateful to pay you groom price - no need to tell you its their culture or that Indian women are among the most beautiful in the planet, won miss world title many times more than any other country.

Jubal01: Am vry qualified. Its a management job, nd am a management graduate. I tink u av a point dia. Bt u c, dia is d naija facto whr even if i leta on 'earn' dia trust, she myt use ha influence 2 scuttle it. It hapns. D bst dnt alwys get d bst.

Is she that influential and vindictive? My friend, if you allow fear and pessimism hold you down, you'd never get anywhere.

Even if you should still hold such reservation; rather than sitting on your arse fretting over what may or may not happen in the distant future, why not start planning to be one step ahead e.g. take the job and use it as a stepping stone while looking for similar or even better one.

Meanwhile, remaining jobless would put you in increasingly lesser position to even holding on to your current let alone securing another relationship - should this one fail. Talking about Nigerian factor, well ask yourself how many typical 9ja babes would stay and remain faithful to a broke arsed bf/hubby.

Grab the opportunity while it still last, as there is no dishonesty or shame in doing so.

^^^Ok, I no go talk again, but make sure you keep us posted as how many una done de catch

Gudintent: Neither do I

Nor do I; but I think he is a good student of drama acting out the role of a very poor law student.

LOL @ lickylicky, this your usename na wa oo, suggests you must that thing a lot!

Easy said than done, clearly OP has never been burnt badly before.

Onegai: (apparently ladies, we are old enough to be told "I want to knack you, face to the wall from behind", but we are not grown up enough to be told "I've had enough, pls let's end this", lol)

LOL, your ex clearly never had class or style, assuming he actually did that to you and certainly deserved all the bad mouthing you care to dish out after him

Are you qualified for the Job? If yes, then all she did was get you the initial connection, subsequently there after everything will be due your own hard work and you would have earned it.

Take the job while you still can, preferably expressing your reservations before hand, after-all beggars can't be choosers - unless of course deep down you know that you don't have real feelings for her, then you'd be guilty of opportunism and taking advantage of her her.