Politics / Re: Wike: Some Members Of The PDP NWC Are Tax Collectors by tayebest(m): 6:27pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Anything to destroy PDP! 118 Likes 12 Shares |
Health / Re: COVID-19 : Panic As Chinese National Dies In Abuja Residence by tayebest(m): 6:15pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
So, why should this call for panicking? Was she the first Chinese to die at home? Radarada! |
Politics / Re: Oyo State Changes School Resumption by tayebest(m): 6:11pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Makinde loves rubbing media |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girl Seyitan Babatayo Who Accused D'banj Of Rape Says She Is Sorry by tayebest(m): 1:51pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
Foool, go and pay your 100m. Oponu oshi 9 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Amid Security Challenges, Igboland Declares Operation "Lion Walk". by tayebest(m): 6:14am On Jun 21, 2020 |
We, therefore, must rise up now to take our destinies into our own hands more especially now that it looks like many of the governors of the Igbo National States of the Igbo Nation and our legislators have compromised the security and welfare of our people in exchange for political patronage. Biafra will forever be a dream that can never be actualize if Igbos are still in government! |
Politics / Re: Ajimobi Allegedly Falls Into Coma Few Hours After Successful Lung Surgery by tayebest(m): 9:43am On Jun 16, 2020 |
His survival chance is very slim... SMH Maybe God is now avenging for bereaved Nigerians! Let the revolution continues... 3 Likes |
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Education / Re: Prof. Oladipo Akinkugbe Is Dead by tayebest(m): 6:29pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
Rest on Prof...
Your legacies will be forever remembered! 109 Likes 9 Shares |
Politics / Re: The Violence In Nigeria Could End In Genocide. Independent.co.uk by tayebest(m): 5:38pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
If e no happen, make una come dig am out... mtcheeew |
Celebrities / Re: Chartered Flight Of Naira Marley Was Approved For High Court Judge - Hadi Sirika by tayebest(m): 5:27pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
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Crime / Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by tayebest(m): 9:31pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
One4me: You see, the FOOLS here are those Feminnist who have their own agenda and the few spineless and thoughtless Men who follow them just to validate themselevs and get rid of their inferiorrity complex, as a Men.
RAPE is a Crime but every Crime has DEFINITION and BOUNDARIES. For example, as bad as Stealing or Robbery is, there is a clear boundary and definition!
- If you steal, (Take what does not belong to you) you would end up in jail ............That is the DEFINITION of Stealing - If you are dying from Hunger and you steal food say from a Store, just what yo need to eat to survive, in most 'sane places', you are warned and then assisted with more food to eat and survive[/b]. You are not sent to Jail, like someone who went to a Store and Stole Jewelry! [b]That is BOUNDARY.
Women generally see Rape Charges as a WEAPON against Men because PUBLIC Rape allegations are against Men, (even though we know that Women also Rape men but as man, all the society would do is ask you if you did not enjoy the rape or did you not have a hard on ). So, Feminists are hell-bent on ensuring that there is NO BOUDARY to this rape of a thing so that they can have the Flexibility to use it to punish men.......extending it into the institutionof marriage is a a coup, for them.
I dont care too much about the level of punishment that is given out to Rapist, as long as it is a GUILTY PERSON that is being punished and ot some innocent Man roped into a rape allegation. Burn a Rapist, Slaughter the person like Boko Haram, Castrate them, bury them alive, l am happy with all those punishment but just dont do them to an innocent Man. It has to be PROVEN BEYOND DOUBT, which is the legal standard for all Criminal Convictions and Crimes that carry Capital Punishment.
So, let me touch on the marriage angle. A marriage is a Union between two individual adults who CONSCIOUSLY and WILLINGLY decide to come together to LIVE TOGETHER, under SAME ROOF, as HUSBAND and WIFE. In doing so, they have decided to EXCHANGE their INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS for 'JOINT RIGHTS'. For example, instead of filing INDIVIDUAL TAX at say 41%, they JOINTLY TAX them at a cheaper 21%! That is one of the ADVANTAGES of being in a marriage.
-In doing so (being married), they have decided BY MAKING A VOW before GOD (CHURCH/MOSQUE/TRADITIONAL or whatever religion) and MAN (REGISTRY/LAW COURT) that: * TWO have become ONE. *MY BODY is no longer just my BODY but YOUR BODY *YOUR BODY is no longer just YOUR BODY but MY BODY * IN LIFE and DEATH *Till DEATH DO US APART!
These are VOWS BINDING on both partys because you SWORE to them. So, whatever is from your body, including Sexual Parts, BELONG TO YOUR SPOUSE. FINITO! By Right, a Wife has the authority to DEMAND and GET SEX from her Husband and by the same token, a Husband has the authority to DEMAND and GET SEX from his WIFE ebacuse each persons body belongs to the other, as indicated by THE VOW they took under GOD and MAN.
Your Body is no longer yours, if you decide to get married, but belongs to YOUR SPOUSE. Some people dont like this and they have decided they wont get married, which is fine. Even the Property of your Husband (something women have openly fought for!) belongs to you when he dies, irrespective whether he was the one who paid for such property out of his personal sweat/money...and not his family, because the Husband and WIfe has become just one Body. Women insist on sharing the property of their Husband INTO HALF when the marriage breaks up, relying on the same concept of marriage where everything BELONGS TO ONE ANOTHER (they never say 'it is his property, he can go with it).
So, whenit comes to his J.T or her Kpekus, it belongs to the Other and he is AUTHORISED BY VOWS OF MARRIAGE, to demand and use it as he/she deems fit. YOU CANNOT SUE YOUR HUSBAND FOR RAPE BECAUSE HE DEMANDED AND TOOK SEX WITH YOU, EVEN IF YOU DONT FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX THAT DAY. IT BELONGED TO HIM AND HE TOOK WHAT BELONGED TO HIM. If you dont like that arrangement, please BY ALL MEANS, DONT GET MARRIED! THAT DECISON IS ODNE ON FREEWILL AND YOU CAN REFUSE TO PARTAKE IN SUCH 'STUPID' VOWS/ARRANGEMENT. BUT YOU CANT EAT YOUR CAKE AND STILL WANT TO HAVE IT.
Now, to the ISSUE of where one of the PARTNERS in a MARRIAGE, for genuine reasons (as opposed to trying to use sex as a weapon of blackmail or entrapment in a marriage), cannot engage is sex with their LAWFUL SEX PARTNER, it calls for for ENGAGEMENT, DISCUSSION and UNDERSTANDING!
ENGAGEMENT - You cannot just say "No is No", to your Spouse, just like you cant say 'No" to the owner of a Car, for whatever reason, when he or she wants to drive it. You will have to engage in a discussion with them.
DISCUSSION: As the owner of your body, including the sexual part of it, (you are just the physical custodian of it), you must have an OPEN, CANDID, CONVINCING and HONEST discussion with "the owner" as to why you want them to deny themselves of the use of what belongs to them. It is not only Men/Husband that demand for Sex in a marriage and the Wife is unwilling/unable to give it. Many Wives also demand for Sex when the Husband is DOG-TIRED, unwilling to give it, does not consent to it but the Wives still insist on having it.and still have their way, anyway
We have heard stories of women who 'assualt' their Husband because he would not get a hard-on, when they demand to have sex! Its not strange! if you are not married, you may not know what goes on in a marriage. Some Wives would Climb the Husband forcefully , suck his JT, roll it around it until it begins to respond and gets hard and they will climb him like Okada and have their way, no matter his protestations (dont think just because a Husband has a hard-on, he must be enjoying the sex, NO! He is just participating in the act with his physical body because IT BELONGS TO HIS WIFE who is using what belongs to her. But Husbands dont shout Rape on such things because they know the person involves is the owner of the J.T...their wives! I wonder what will be the reaction of Women, if such act is termed as Rape and all a man needs to do, to send his wife to the gallows, castration or death penalty is to say:"My Wife climed me yesterday night against my Will" and that is it! His word is enough and she is killed? Nice uhh?
So, both spouses are expected to have this honest and candid DISCUSSION about how they feel, why they dont want to have sex at that moment, why they want to deny the owner his conjugal RIGHTS, in the most convincing manner such that the owner can say, okay, l will not drive my car today but will walk to work or take public transport! I will make this sacrifice, this time.
But we all know how ((most) women see and use sex in a marriage! It is seen a s a reward for doing something they want or as bait to do what they want or a trap to snag the Husband.
Yet the same Husband would be accused of infidelity, if he decide to get his sexual satisfaction outside. Let us be honest, one of the reasons for putting one's self in that thing called marriage, whether yo uare male or Female, is because you dont want to have sex with any other person or strangers, you want exclusive sex with your spouse. Sex is part of adult life, it is a necessity of married life.
UNDERSTANDING: Marriages should be governed by love, not threats, Violence or Conflicts. Where there is conflict, the "approach" should be CONFLICT RESOLUTION, MOT CRIMINALISATION. If your Spouse is genuinely unable to give you what belongs to you (having sex with him or her) at that moment, as long as it does not become "a pattern of behaviour" OR BEING USED AS BLACKMAIL/PUNISHMENT", it is expected that such Spouse should show UNDERSTANDING. The key element here is that you are convinced that your spouse is not just acting-up or trying to bait you or punish you or entrap you. The convincing is to be done by the spouse that is doing the denial and the onus falls on such partner to convince the other spouse to the point of understanding. If you love your spouse, you would understand that one night of denial of sex will not kill you, "Tomorrow" is always there. As a married man, my wife at some time, had an Operation and we could not have sex for five good Months! Even when she was 'pitying me' and says 'honey come and try it gently', l will say 'Dont worry dear, let we still wait, your health is more important tome than this sex, when you are okay, we will make up for it (And l never strayed to another woman). I could do that because l knew that 'the body l was protecting, belongs to me' and sensible people will normally protect their own body!
Where issues arise in when the spouse makes it a pattern of regular denial and the other spouse feels his/her right is been denied. Under such situation, the Spouse has the RIGHT to take what belongs to her or him. You MUST surrender his/her body to him/her for sexual pleasure. Its not your body because "Two have become ONE". In Health and even in Sickness! That is what the Vows you took says, right?
So, dont take that Vow, if you are the "My Body, My decision" type! You have FULL RIGHT over your body and yoru DECISION of what to do with it. Dont WILLINGLY throw away that RIGHT to use your body as you desire and decide, just for marriage or the benefits of marriage. marriage is a SERIOUS CONTRACT and it is enforceable in Court as we all know.
What we must NOT ALLOW to happen is Women taking advantage of Marriage while at the same time, trying to not fulfill their Role in the marriage, according tio the Vows they took. Nobody has the RIGHT over another's body (Woman or Man), until they WILLINGLY and CONCIOSLY GIVE UP that RIGHT by entering into a Marriage Contract. Marriage has a lot of benefits as we all know but it also has a few SURRENDER OF RIGHTS, most important is the Right over my Body. There is NOTHING LIKE RAPE IN A MARRIAGE, going by the DEFINITION and BOUNDARIES of Rape[/b].
"Feminist and Angry Wives" want to use Rape to cow Husbands (Men is general) and hang it as a threat on their neck in the Marriage but l am also certain that [b]they will not want it coded in law that once your Husband says "he did not consent to the sex you had last night, you the Wife is guilty of Rape and should be sentenced to death, castrated or buried alive. If they allow such coding for Husbands as well, in the law, then we are good to go! Source the Geese, Source the Gander.
Common Sense is not Common. Feminist won't like this post! |
Politics / Re: PMB Aides Connived With Ministry Of Power Officials To Fleece Govt Of N14bn - SR by tayebest(m): 5:45pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Sahara Reporters with their diluted journalism... who cares? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: FCTA Seals Jabi Mall Due To Naira Marley's Concert (Video & Pictures) by tayebest(m): 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
toprealman:
Was he appointed to fry akara? Is that not his job Not at all. Man is just deligently doing his work. When Covid tension was still high, the man was seemingly everywhere for proper complaint. Don't forget he also risk his life as well as his children and wife. He deserve many kudos! |
Politics / Re: Edo 2020: I Will Disclose My Next Move After Meeting Buhari – Gov. Obaseki by tayebest(m): 5:25pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
popez:
Ambode fought till his last drop? You call all those media vituperations fight? Why didn't he defect and contest in the main election.
Bro, lemme tell you. Politics hates weaklings. Politicians hate weaklings. Heck, even the world doesn't favor weaklings. People respect you more when you show courage and fight for your right. I don't care if you agree, but Ambode fought back and even try to bite harder. He struggled with the mighty power of Tinubu and some political oligarchy in Lagos. Obaseki in the other hand has been defeated before the game starts proper. Infact, if he seeks PDP support and eventually won the primaries, he will be sued for certificate fraud. Eat it, Obaseki has lose! |
Crime / Re: FCTA Seals Jabi Mall Due To Naira Marley's Concert (Video & Pictures) by tayebest(m): 5:17pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
khalidx: how come he missed this??
Missed?
Let him matter reach court first, na en friend go drag am out... |
Politics / Re: Edo 2020: I Will Disclose My Next Move After Meeting Buhari – Gov. Obaseki by tayebest(m): 5:09pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
popez:
He isn't an Afo.nja coward like Ambode. He will fight like a man. This is politics. Nobody papa get Nigeria!! Ambode fought till his last drop. He hosted over 100 journalist on a live broadcast over sanwo-olu. He garner courage against many odds. But your MCM was not able to contest for common primaries. pity 5 Likes |
Crime / Re: FCTA Seals Jabi Mall Due To Naira Marley's Concert (Video & Pictures) by tayebest(m): 4:55pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Jail dey smell for this Naira Marley head! Meanwhile, the FCT ministerial task force chairman deserve a befitting promotion after this Covid. The man has been doing some wonderful job after all. Kudos sir! 89 Likes |
Politics / Re: Godwin Obaseki Meets Nyesom Wike Over His Disqualification And Move To PDP by tayebest(m): 4:38pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Celebrities / Re: I Support Hushpuppi, Says Bobrisky by tayebest(m): 4:36pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
This one is obviously broke considering the rumbles he has been having with the security officials lately! |
Politics / Re: Edo 2020: I Will Disclose My Next Move After Meeting Buhari – Gov. Obaseki by tayebest(m): 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Man up and eat your defeat pie! 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: JUST IN: Gov Obaseki Runs To Wike For ‘help’ by tayebest(m): 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Crime / Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by tayebest(m): 4:22pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
I'm not surprised, olosho doesn't know what rape is. Seeing a dangling dickk is enough for consent. Nonsense... 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Mercy & Ike Beat Davido, Chioma, Others To Win Most Popular Nigerian Couple by tayebest(m): 4:22pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Chioma and Davido were not couple to start with... |
Romance / Re: How Will You Feel? by tayebest(m): 10:51am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Well Comfortable... With follow come sex! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: SSA To Obaseki On New Media Called Out On Old Tweet by tayebest(m): 10:41am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ruggedniggaone: and who told you that he can contest with his o,level? He has engaged in fraud, by forging his certificate. That alone is enough to stop him in court. |
Politics / Re: The Many Sins Of Governor Godwin Obaseki by tayebest(m): 10:12am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Even if Obaseki moves to PDP, APC will use his fake result against him in the court. Obaseki should just go and retire... bazooooka don finally hit him 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: SSA To Obaseki On New Media Called Out On Old Tweet by tayebest(m): 10:10am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Even if Obaseki moves to PDP, APC will use his fake result against him in the court. Obaseki should just go and retire... bazooooka don finally hit him 4 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Hushpuppi Has Been Extradited To The US And All His Cars And Properties Seized. by tayebest(m): 12:05pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Religion / Re: TB Joshua Celebrates His 57th Birthday, Reveals How God Wants Us To Mark It by tayebest(m): 8:36am On Jun 12, 2020 |
No be this man dey talk with Lucifer? Somebody was seen holding mic for Lucifer sef 15 Likes |
Crime / Re: Hushpuppi Has Been Extradited To The US And All His Cars And Properties Seized. by tayebest(m): 8:22am On Jun 12, 2020 |
tunize: how can someone pay 100m out of 35m? Bros, Court proceedings is for the ballers! There some kinda money you'll steal, court will start negotiating with you and not otherwise. |
Politics / Re: Divide Nigeria Now, No Angel Can Unite Us – Northern Elder: Arewa Gazette by tayebest(m): 7:43am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Let's start afresh 1 Like |
Politics / Re: June 12: Governor Akeredolu Grants Amnesty To 28 Inmates In Ondo by tayebest(m): 7:36am On Jun 12, 2020 |
We stand for humanity |