₦airaland Forum

The human reading act we were talking about now yesternight.

apart from handwriting, shape and thickness of eye-brow, tilt of mouth while talking or lol, . . . .
Birth month and date, fav color, walking pattern and some other stuff could be use to read people too?

Oya pele. . . .about the "identity crisis". . .
Or do you want me to appease you?

circumcision of a male child is necessary. . .
else the fore-skin will always be a hinderance.
Moreover, it looks disgusting and makes sex quite difficult . . .(so I was told)
The fore-skin doesnt allow proper cleaning/hygiene for the "payanyan"

Which story would I tell this girl oooo. . .

Okay, Embezzlement story. . .
In my 3rd year in the University. . .
I was appointed the Treasurer of my department. . .
it wasnt like there was any election. . .
I realized that no 1 was running for that post, so I saw it as an opportunity.
The whole department knew I was just too silly to hold the post. . .
but no 1 was ready to contest, . . .so i won un-opposed.
They gave me money and I spent their money to cut the long story short. . .
Each time the department needs money, I will call my Pops. . .and he will send some money
then I re-imburse the department.
I did the same thing. . .and suddenly, the department needed an amount I wasnt expecting they could need. . .
I couldnt call my dad again. . becoz he already warned me that i wouldnt be getting a penny that semester again. . .
I nearly ran mad!
I couldnt go to class. . .
Finally, I had to borrow from a nasty girl who happens to be a family friend. . .
She made sure I take her to school and drop her at home after class. . .
the day I finally paid her was the day her bondage was broken!

learnt my lessons never to take what is not mine . . .and I try as much as possible even not to use credit cards when necessary now sef. . .

Oya . . . .your honest story. . .

Can that possibly hurt you?. . . .
hell no. . .
You stronger than that. . , (tot so )

Where did we stop yesterday about reading people. . . .
let me tell you something. . . .
would you believe that my mum taught my the act . . . .?

Circumcision of a female child is nothing but a brutal mutation of an innocent child. . .
because they might just be denying her something that will sure make her feel like a real woman . . .
later on in life. . .


But for a male child, I think it's the best. . .(my opinion please)

Ebony-Silk:
Plz, tell more stories, am really interested.

Lol, yes, keresimesi is almost here. . . .so what did you do to get ______?

You tell me story 1st. . . .
then I will tell mine. . .and your story must be interesting o, else you will tell anoda inplace of a boring story. . .
Xmas tree has no meaning now. . .
abi did Jesus parent has 1 when he was born?

I didnt do nada now. . .
Just wanted to be like you tonight.
Identity crisis. . .

Sillyboy has no story . . . . . until you guys drop some more stories.

The bonsue story . . . .
I just watch the girl from a far. . . .since the broda adugbo wouldnt let young boyz play. . .
I tried getting close to her. . .
by going to fetch water. . .even do the tap runs in my house. . .lol
my family members tot I was just restless.

@ Ebony. . .
Your siggy is a xmas tree now abi?

@ Topic.

"Yes you can!"

Most people, boy or girl has "back up plans" knowingly or not.

@ Topic.

Hell no. . . .but yes @ attraction @ first sight.

@ Topic.

You should have responded by asking her; "How much her "V-boot" is worth"
And tell her you dont think it's gonnna be that expensive from what you see and her question . .

Moyola:
even a 'normal sensible girl' that iznt redi tu suffa wuld like tu know d size of yur pocket!

It's not about suffer. . .but believe and commitment and hope for a berra 2mrw.

Am so scared of marriage with all I read here!
This Nairaland can definately turn a man to something else.

@ Topic.

Normal sensible girl =          Committement
Abnormal insensible girl =   Size of your pocket and other irrelevancies for herself interest.

@ Ebony.

I guess you did, I know absolutely nothing about French.

I pray this your Identity "palava" stop real soon though. . Learnt you are Ruby too. . . . lol.

Ebony-Silk:
rotflmao!!

@post
I don't think you should make her facial appearance the priority na.
If you feel for her the same way she feels for you, then go out with her.
No big deal.
Or is this the first time a fine girl is asking you out?

. . Impressed and knocked off.

@ OP.

Why do I think you are the girl in question. . .and you are scared of what people might think of your turn around?  

@ Dashannel.

Why would you hae to create a new thread?

You quite freaking amazing pal. . . .

Deshannel:
@chika
R u trying 2 contradict yourself because thats ma point
I simply stated using d word 'think' because kids wit single parents tend 2 grow up smarter n well exposed. Only d stupid ones follow peer presure.

Where did you get that? . . .Man that your assumption is troublesome
Were you raised by a single parent?. . .if yes, then you dont have to make everybody believe that single parents tend to raise smarter kids!

25%more:
how can a single parents have more bond with their children than 2 parents? he/she has to work everytime to support the kids/ cook/clean/ i mean do everything whereas, 2 parents one works or two works but they will still have more time to discuss things with their kids. even if the father dnt do it the mum would. i guess maybe we have different views on what constutites a single parents and what they do, but i still think it is the opposite.
i dnt mean to say that single parents dnt have bond with kids, having one parent makes it eaiser for the person to relate to their parent, cox he/she is the only one you have but i think when there 2 parents they learn certain things from each of their parents.

The highlited statement is very correct.
To butress it, . . . it kind of helps the child have a balanced view of things without being lopsided to female angles or male angles

@ 25%

Am not attacking you.

I just want to know if these submmissions could be linked to rape. . .no offence meant.

Moyola:
w0t makz yu fiink I du?

Because I know one when I read from one.

And I hae read from you more than once. .

25%more:
it is actually the opposite in a study conducted it was actually girls who were raised in a single family that cited that the most reason for having sex early was due to their father absence in their life. no father figure to caution them and at least direct them on certain things especially boys.

here are some of the reasons why teens  don't use contractptions and have sex

1)ignorance 2) guilt related to sexual activity 3) minimal commuication about birth control 4) alcohol use 5) mass media norms of unprotected promiscuity

here are some reasons some of the why teens abstain from sex

1)high intelligence 2) religiosltiy 3) father presence 4)participation in service learning programs

In as much as your submission is true, I think environment of should be considered and it could sure "up" the reasons for these negative behaviors. . . .moreover, are these responsible for rape and the consequenses of rape as the Initial topic wants to discuss?

bettes:
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Its frustrating to know that even when these rape cases are reported,the police do little or nothing about it.In some cases the victims are even blamed.

To be honest. . .the law enforcement in Nigeria is quite sad and the judicial system is pathetic too. But it must be made clear that most Nigerians even dont know how to present their cases. The Police guys could be annoying. . .but trust me, when you make it clear to them that you are serious abt your case , they tend to sit tight.

Moreover, they would want to prosecute the criminal to the latter knowing fully well they will milk "him" too

There is still justice in Nigeria. . . .it's just that it's quite expensive in Nigeria to do than rest of the world.

@ Topic.

Never give in to blackmail, because if you do. . .he will always come back for some more.

I really dont know what you've done that's so bad. . . .but if it means you paying for your past in any form, then I suggest you bow your head and just pay the sins for what you did in the past.

That sounds better than giing in to blackmail. . . .then afterwards, you will be clear of your conscience. . and move on

Moreover, should this be in Romance?

Deshannel:
I think kids brotup in a single parent family tends 2 know more bout d good n bad about sex than dose brougt up by 2 parents.

Thats rather a dumb assumption.

Yea,I heard about that and it really ANGERS me! Those rapists AND MOLESTERS SHOULD BE PUT IN JAIL.!!
Sometimes I think Nigeria is a backwardS country, how can they want to jail people for stealing things of no importance BUT let rapists and molesters go FREE? This just motivates me to study law, go to Nigeria and persecute those BASTARDS. This is COMPLETELY UNBELIEVABLE!!!  
WTF! these stupid dumb ass men are stealing these young girls innocence!!!!!!!!!!!!  SOMETHING HAS GOT TO FREAKING GIVE!!! I MEAN C'MON. NIGERIA can't HELP HER CITIZENS?! WTF!!

I want you to understand that 90% of rape cases are not being reported in Nigeria, perhaps because of stigmatization. And if a rape case is not reported, how would be prosecution be effected.

NB. Most rape cases are not being reported in other countries too. . . .not just Nigeria

If a fine girl asks you out and you know you're not particularly stunning. . . thank your stars.
If a fine girl asks you out and you know you're ugly. . . be afraid, be very afraid.
If a fine girl asks you out and you're fine as heck . . . better say yes. Birds of the same feather flock together.

If a fine girl asks you out and you know you're not particularly stunning. . . Know that there's something good in you that you aint seeing.
If a fine girl asks you out and you know you're ugly. . . be self confident, be very self confident.
If a fine girl asks you out and you're fine as heck . . . you dont have to say yes if she aint you "style". Birds of the same feather flocks together but hardly do something tangible together.

@ Real Post.

My response will be determined much more by her person rather than her pretty face.