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MrCrackles:
This poster registered last November, and his first post is all about looking for a LovePeddler like himself!
Moronic Arrow!

I think this comment is unnecessary.

DaPhoenix:
Mad? Puh-lease, I'm only shoving your shit back in y'all faces. Like it?

Huh. . .
You sound angry, . . . . .bye

@ Arapa.

am positive you're loving Phoenix points abi?. . . .
ok oooo

HeatFusion:
ti temi koni bami lagbara Jesu!

Afi to ba je ire ayo ati alafi
For where? opuro oshi.

Hey babe. . .I wasnt refering to you. . . .
I was commenting on the post right above me.

You too fine now. . . .for me ooo. . . .u be the "finest"

@ DaPhoenix.

You seems to often hit below the punch lines. . . . . .
You mad at the boys?

@ Topic.
I get to wonder how some pretty girls end up with some not too "eye apealing" , dirty and bad tempered guys. . .?
I saw one the other day with a drop dead beauty and I was like. . . .WTF

Woman mind. . . . .so un-fanthomable!

HeatFusion:
What kinda animal is it?
If na tigeress, e fit tear your clothes off

Truly. . .there is an animal like that. . . .and I think its herbivoros too.

*** Ugly girl wey get negative attitude. . .hmmm. . . .tie ti ba ni yen.****

Just like you think of women in such way. . . .
some women think of guys in such way too.

You need to understand that humans are animals too. . .but a "superior" one.
You can get to have anybody believe, respect, honor and serve, love , hate and trust you. . .
just like you will have your pets do to you.

It's all in the psychology of human and understanding the way the human mind and body functions.
I must point out that, the woman's mind is the most difficult to comprehend. . .yet the easiest to manipulate.

That's why men like you . . .that has the opportunity to manipulate /captivate a woman's heart will think the way youve reason. . . .

An average guy will see it differently. . . .

@ Topic.

When it comes to relationship, I think the women should invest more than the guys emotionally. . . .
while the guy should invest more financially and security wise. . .decision making too.

My opinion. . .please.

jalether:
@ heatfusion u no serious, if i catch u i go flog
u with ma anaconda

@ topic.

I tend to agree with the OP.
Not too good looking chics tend to build a wall around themselves to "protect" themselves from a form of complex. . .(inferiority, I suppose). . . .by beign snobbish and a bit rude to guys.

It's not like they are like that truely. . . .it's just what they believe. . . .
Its like this animal. . .(I have forgotten its name) that grows thorns on its body when it sense danger.

tope2000:
I have been cheated on 2 before but that doesnt mean i am not going love and appreciate the next guy that comes into my life because it wont be fair if i don't. so its no ,at some point in our lives we all get heartbroken that doesnt mean we shudnt move on and be a better person. so one girl or two cheated on u and suddendly u don't appreciate women?


Bring it on

Well , what can I say about your "twice" experience?. . .except shit happens.
I was cheated on once and this was about 6years ago and trust me, I have definately moved on. . .then, i wasnt even sure of whom i was or what I really wanted to do with my life. . .so really, d experience doesnt leave a scar one bit.

My point here is that. . . .NOT EVERY GIRL LIKES TO BE DOTTED ON". . .So guys, becareful of the advise u get here from women.
some girls see all these caring caring attitude as bn weak. . . .and it could annoy and irritate them. some girls just like a man bn a man. this does not mean u wldnt care and respect her. . . .but dotting?. . . .hell no.

@ Toyin.
Am gud. . .n u?
This your outing. . . . . . .well, take care of u .
dont go see brother Lukumon my rival ooo
Talk to you soon

@ Toyin.

@ Tope.
Definately a woman has cheated on me before. . .its no big deal. . .
and I have lost a coupe of women to being "wussy" too. . .so am like telling guys that not all women like bn dott on.

Show me a man who has not bn cheated on. . .and i will point a man who has just started the game to you.

StephenP:
Try to listen and like JJYOU said take what you like and bin what you don't. After all, it's an individual perspective so there's no guarantee it works for all women

What's with your. . ."try to listen" phrase?
I find that a bit insultive.
I only gave my opinions on ur topic and if you dont like it you simply pass.

nada much. . . .just wondering if u by chance know where its popping this night.

tope2000:
Tell her you appreciate her. Most of the time a guy will take it for granted that the girl knows, yet, it can be really hard to tell by just his actions. It's special to hear it from his mouth. You could go out and get a card, but cards are mass made and it's not really your words. Of course, the time you take reading each card and choosing a special one is good too. You could also make her a card, in your own words. Gifts are all material things. If you have money, material things are a dime a dozes, so to speak. For me, if my man tells me he appreciates me, and he's sincere, that means more to me than anything materialistic. After telling her, give her a special night where she chooses everything. Treat her like a queen. You can tell her how much you appreciate her, then draw her a candlelit bubble bath, cook her dinner, complete with champagne. Get her some chocolate covered strawberries which you can hand feed her. Then while you two are lying on the couch, watching a love story that she chose, give her a gentle massage. When you go to bed, leave a long stemmed red rose on her pillow.

I gat this quetion for the female folks here. . . . . .
If a man does all these. . . .what are women suppose to do?. . . .same?
Moreover, doing all those stuffs afore mentioned "upstairs" doesnt guarantee the lady wouldnt fall for another guy. . .
So guys be warned. Dont listen to all the stuffs the women say here, . . .try to filter it because, at times. . .all these "wussy" behaviours annoys and irritates most women.

Mad man!

Missy B:
*You wake up in the morning and kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

Women  sha!!!!
Thank God that God is not a woman (He is a man). . . .it would have bn difficult to make heaven!

@ OP

She doesnt give a crap about your ass.
She definately wants something from you. . . . .and as soon as she gets it, you wouldnt even see her "flash" anymore talkless of calls.

Good luck.

Hell no.

I like 2 face. . . .

and I have heard abt 4 songs from this album. . .
the flex with R Kelly is a bit over rated sha. . . .

Maybe when I listen some more, I might just get into the groove.

Please I miss

Smurf mi atata. . .
and Moyola. . .

I really wonder if Borlarge is still on nairaland too.

Be yourself and be down to earth. . . .
never you try to be whom you are not because of competition. . . (for guys)
Be respectful and consider empathy most times.

Ladies should be more supportive and tolerant and . . .
not listen to all advises their girlfriends gives. . .because most of em are lying.

I cant say am in a relationship from heaven though. . .but these should do it

@ Topic. .
I cant date her. . . .
But definately marry her and live happily ever after. . . . .

H2O2:
I think it depends on the guy. Some guys think women who ask them out are cheap and loose.

You right. . . .but I think only " a bit shallow" guy should think that way.

Most girls that guys ask out are loose and cheap. . . .so it doesnt just add up to thinking that girls that makes 1st moves are loose.

@ OP

There is absolutely nada wrong in what you have done. . .at least in my opinion.
It's your right to offer and he's gat the rights to accept or decline your offer.

He might just not be interested. . .and I seriously dont think youve cheapened yourself by inviting him out for a drink.

Keep ya head up.