Thank God she did when you saw the need to.... Open your eyes widely in this country, never fall into the trap of this government when it comes to the sustainance of your business.

The present Nigerian government kills businesses and dreams for leaving... Do your business in this country without relying on government. If you see means to leave this country, don't look back

See relationship advisers everywhere

People that don't even have a relationship or aren't even married are dishing out advice..

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Your first - three lines are totally unnecessary !

To ladies, married or not , please make something great off your career..this extremely important .

Beverlyjean:
Taught she said she was 44 when she got married .... no children and she married man that has divorced 3 times .... young women , I know older women don't like giving good advice , especially after they messed up their youth... young women , pls make hay while the sun shines ... target 24 / 25 at most to get married ... so u can bare children on time ... we are not same with men ... a 60yr old Ned still married and impregnated a 20yr old Regina ... we women don't have that biological time to do same with men... stop listening to bitter feminists, they will ruin u like they ruined their lives ...

U don't have to marry a rich man or wait to make something great off ur career first b4 getting serious... just accept a man that genuinely loves u , even if he doesn't have much , as long as u can see how serious and determined he is to make something off his life ... focus on the future , manage life and spending small small...u will get there ... its just a matter of time ... even if he doesn't end up making that type of money that u see on the gram ...everyone will not be rich , but at least u guys should thrive to afford the basic life needs ... there's nothing as joyful as having a family , trust me on this ... u will command respect, people will take u seriously, even if u don't have much ... be respectful and supportive, ur husband will always defend u , as long as u married someone that loves u... don't take advice from divorcees or single old ladies , misery loves companion...

Madam is it Rita Dominic that made you write all these

See most of our ladies are heading towards the wrong lane...

There is this saying

"A lady won't have sense until she self destruct"

Well it's good you're telling them the truth but trust me, 99.9% of ladies here will look away

Why will you just go sign your death warrant

LordIsaac:
She just lacks sense. Certificates are the property of the Universities that issued them. One of my Professors made this fact abundantly clear. It is but a testament that they found you worthy in character and in learning; and you can be found unworthy of those virtues in future, in which case, they withdraw the testimony!😊

The latter part of the video actually made me pity her. It’s a testament that women are but children in adult bodies. It’s the same reaction you’d get from a 12 year old.

Please protect every lady you love from themselves…they can easily hurt themselves without knowing. 😊

Some women don't receive sense until they self-destruct!

AmiableMosquito:
I am beginning to hate this country. I don't like the way I am feeling right now.

Millions of Nigerians hate the country already na so yours won't be the first

Chimarto:

Calculation of New Salary Based on Minimum Wage Increase

1. **Current Salary and Minimum Wage:*
- Current Salary: 105,000
- Old Minimum Wage: 30,000

2. *New Minimum Wage:*
- New Minimum Wage: 100,000

3. *Difference Between New and Old Minimum Wage:*
{Difference} = 100,000 - 30,000 = 70,000

4. *Percentage Difference Between Old and New Minimum Wage:*
{Percentage Difference} = {100,000 - 30,000}{30,000} \right) \times 100 = 233.33%


5. Calculate 233.33% of Current Salary:
{Amount} = \left( \frac{233.33}{100} \right) \times 105,000 = 244,996.50


6. New Salary Calculation:
{New Salary} = 105,000 + 244,996.50 = 349,996.50

New Salary: 349,996.50

I beg who's this

Like what did I just read

Believe this gibberish at your own peril

FG is allow this betting companies because they are fulfilling that same agenda of throwing millions into the pit of poverty.

We all must brace up for the days ahead.... Betting is never a way out of being broke, it only throw in mad illusions of being rich but you might only win once or twice out of every 20 bets you strike

Dundalk:
Oga you no sabi this guy again..

Dey play..

Na scammer oo.. This vivo since how many years..

He dey use style beg...

I won't make payment without seeing the phone

GentleOLA2:
Good morning, well-meaning Nigerians,

Please I need your help Sir/Ma.

My name is Olaoluwa. I am 32 and an O-Level holder. I had a car accident last year, lost my job, and became jobless for months.

Please help me; I am seriously hungry. The last time I ate was Saturday evening, and it was my remaining garri that I drank. I have not eaten any other food since Saturday evening other than the water that I have been drinking to gain some strength. I can no longer endure the hunger; my body is starting to shake. Please, my people, I am really sorry for begging, but it is just that I am starving to death. Please, someone should help me with something to eat, no matter the amount. I don't mind. I will always appreciate you. I am starving. I know things are very hard these days. Anything you have to spare, I would really appreciate.

I live at No. 26, Osuolale Street, Bode Olude, Ita-Elega, Abeokuta, Ogun State.

If you live near me, please invite me for lunch; I am dying of hunger. May you never lack the good things in life. Please have mercy on me and help me.

My phone number is 0 9 0 6 6 0 4 0 6 5 2

Please help me with any amount; #600 will do a lot for me at this time.

Please, my bank details are:

Access Bank PLC
0 0 2 4 8 6 9 3 2 3
My name is Olaoluwa


I want to sell my Vivo V3.

Price: 20k
Location: Abeokuta
Contact: 0 9 0 6 6 0 4 0 6 5 2

Please buy my phone if you live close to my street or Bode Olude in Abeokuta. I need to buy food. I am beginning to feel pain in my stomach.

Can it go for 10k? If yes, I will buy today

In Nigeria, you don't take business decisions without a backup plan.

Hold on to your job sir...

JAPA if you really desire to.... Stay back too if you don't see any need to JAPA...

Everyone is free to do whatever they wish!!

I have seen those who Jappa with no plans or skills and end up living terrible life over there

There are also people who stays back and makes good income monthly (like 700k to #1m) in this same Nigeria.

Finally, do whatever suits your desire

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

Until our government wake up from their slumber to regulate these betting hubs here and there...

Gambling is wrecking homes, sending able men to debts.... Gambling is a bloody addiction...

That man won't change, a fool at 40 is almost a fool forever...

Take your kids far away and accept your fate to Carter for them till adulthood

.

Ensa777:
Men be doing men.
When older men marry 20s girl,who will 20s and 30s men marry?

Where's the bro code in this?

That is why men will always develop themselves to acquire wealth and power because they will always look attractive.....

Ladies should ensure they get picked earlier 30 and below because once they cross 35 years.... Only very few men look their way

phemy36:


You waste your precious time replying that attention seeker instead of you to read and pass. The first lady I married do more than what this one is doing. Their type want to make man look stupid. The best way to deal with them is to totally ignore them. She's begging me to make her my second wife now. But the ship has already sail. If my present wife misbehave, I will send her packing. She behave herself because she knows the kind of person I am. I no dey take shit from them unto feeding, shelter and establishing you, you go dey give me wahala. Who does that. No time to waste time.

Wooow.... This is exactly what most women needs... Serious iron hand

vazsily:
No be if she gree sit down! My matter dey really complicated. Things are expensive now and it's not funny. She no dey hear. Na to run dey my mind. Bcoz at the rate we dey go na BP remain for me. How do I even make her understand. She go market comes back and nah over cooking. I go the market, same thing. If say these kids are already grown, I swear I will walk away.

Sir, you're not a kid in this game of marriage .... For crying out loud, your marriage is 15years.

Just sit and device a means of talking sense into the woman. Reduce by 50% the amount you give her, gradually she go receive sense.

The brain of most women na one way traffic

Goalnaldo:
Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992).

About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes".

I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me?

PS; I'm not a virgin

Uncle at your age you're taking a 23 year old serious

She will only call you pet names to leverage on you for cash gift and other stuffs, and of course you will have her pussy but let me tell you

You're just living in a fool's paradise, her brain is not formed yet for anything serious, you're just to Bleep her and move on.... Before she begins to take a man serious starts from 27 to 28 years of age.

I repeat never take such girl serious, she's still in her Bleep-around stage, if you look well you're not the only man in her life....

They are everywhere, looking around for who you carry their burden financially until they get much older

Foreign or naija

Price?

This world and problems sef....

Lolz.... Sope otilo!!!!

Salaries that have always drop into the pockets of their ogas while in office

Baba wants to finally pack the 12,000 Nigerians back home from Germany

His 3rd leg has finally sent him to prison... Too bad, every single young man as a matter of fact should have full control over their sexuality

spy24:
Na freedom of expression from childhood dey cause all this thing.

They will always blame it on mental health, but their upbringing makes them have weak mental resistance to adversity...

Talk say you get mental health issues take try nonsense for Nigeria. Your eyes go clear, the worst you can do is suicide, which is still bad

This is why it pays to train up your child in Nigeria up to the age of 18 before relocating abroad.

God help our relations over there in the state

The ladies here can't even drop comments all because of shame ....

Instead of those ones with sense among them to call their fellow women to order but no, they prefer to watch how useless their gender is really looking...

If things continue this way, men won't take an average woman serious for anything anymore....

Just to entice with sweet words, do mad sex, when tired, kick out and move on to another

Clocking 37 alone as a single man should bother you as a father....

To God be the glory he found his feet.... Wicked parents like you are still around in every state in Nigeria.

If you're in that age range and still trying to find your feet and also praying to settle down, may your dream come true.... Amen

Germi9:
There are eligible men in Nigeria

True but what marriageable ladies face these days is that "Dicks are everywhere (even if they want 10 per day) but you see that thing called commitment is actually scares to find"

Nengiraw:
Thank you. I have actually already blocked him, because for the life of me, my mental can’t deal with a lot of things surrounding him, even if I decide to marry him, I don’t know how the first wife will feel, cause I know that she will definitely still be in his life, because of their daughter, who still stays with the mother, and he has her on the weekend. He even started comparing me and the wife, saying that I look more attractive than her, so now she is ugly. I just felt it was childish of him, and I don’t want a man like that to be my husband

Aunty, it's obvious you have too much time for nonsense from men...

That man obviously want to have you and still hold down his wife....

For you to even allow him do a video call with you gives him that impression you're desperate or maybe you're considering his offer...

Just relax, your man will find you soonest...

One love!!

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

If you stay and give her some space, the kids won't really be affected.

Divorcing her will destroy a lot especially the psyche of the children...

If you stay alone, will this suddenly quench this sex drive of yours

Oga sir, don't use your own hand to destroy what you've built for years.

10, 20 years from now, your joystick won't even stay awake on the sight of a pretty lady ....

Uncle just embrace your woman and accept her the way she is... She has given you kids, taken care of your home and even stay loyal to you...

What crime has she committed now for you to have such terrible plans for her?

SEX IS NOT FOOD... At least she gave it to you and to have those lovely kids... THINK ABOUT ALL THESE MR OGA

No wonder our ladies are almost walking naked this days

Because they know some of you men will always look for where to dig deep your third leg

Almost all young girls around are big time into hook up.... The boobs and ass are for biggest bidders now..

The question is 10 years from now when the standing breeze has fallen flat, what will be feeding these girls o?? Since many has no other skills to put money on their table