Eriokanmi:
Relationships are difficult nowadays because we've either lost or abandoned the process. You're sleeping with ladies/men when you're not yet married. In those days, my heart would be beating fast just because I wanted to toast a girl because I wouldn't know the kind of response she'd give me. Girls were God-fearing, just like boys. The reverse is the case today

Most of us lost our virginity in our late 20s and early 30s. I married my wife a virgin at the age of 29 years, she was almost 30 years old. As pretty as she was, long, pointed-nosed, dark and skinny with amazing frontside lol. She's escaped 2 times from rapists who pretended to be friends. One of them was a head of campus fellowship.

Many today have lost body count. There's an unseen and spiritual bond in sexual intercourrse which many are oblivious of today. You share in his/her spiritual problem and bondage when you sleep with that guy/girl. You can now imagine the number of wahala on your head when you sleep with many.

A friend of mine won Gbenga Daniel scholarship in those days when he was Ogun governor. This guy was so poor. Luckily for him, he was among those selected,alongside children of senators and powerful politicians. A week to their interview at the British embassy for their visa, 2 ladies who didn't know each other visited him. They said they just wanted to see him as he's refused to check on them, they came separately and on separate days. Meanwhile, he had wooed these girls before but they turned him down while in the university. In short, he slept with them, one after the other on their visit.

Everyone got visa approval, except my friend. I now told him to not give up but avoid sexual sin cos the devil had seen the future and set a trap , using those ladies to destroy him. He didn't appeal but reapplied. He was on 3 days fasting when he went back to the embassy. His visa was approved. Today, he's a great man, an entrepreneur of repute.

Many have entered a wrong relationship today because they abandoned the process. I prayed and fasted over my relationship. I was interested in 3 ladies but I didn't show it. I had to take their names before God. I also engaged my pastors. They never knew each other but God revealed samething to them. There was one of them whom a man of God said had 4 spiritual eyes and possessed with a marine spirit. That I shouldn't near her. To confirm this, there was a day she called me and told me what I was doing. I had malaria and she told me so. GSM was just a year old in Nigeria then. Today, you don't need to toast. They meet on social media, dating app and enter a relationship just like that. No wonder there are rampant divorce cases and family wahala nowadays .

People should go back to God and everything will be ok, including marriages, jobs and spiritual life. Even in the olden days, both families would do some ritual
rites and consult oracles before going for their life partner. Marriage no be beans. Happy Sunday people

occfx:


Since the parents don't want you, let her remain friends with benefits to you... Use her as a stress removal and don't let her attach to much to you in order not to prevent other women into your life. Fact is if a girl loves you much, she won't care what the parents says but since, she takes what the parents says serious, let her remain a fuxk mate till eternity and always remind her what her parents says whenever she wants to play victim.

occfx:


Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

occfx:


Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

clinician2x:

If I was born a Muslim I would be feeling sorry for myself by now.

How exactly can a human being practice a religion so dirty, blood thirsty and violent like islam. Especially the Nigerian version of it.

Rubbish religion.

Try quit their Islam infested jihad military and go use your life for something more meaningful bro, now that you have seen the light disassociate with that dirtiness and bloodthirst.

God bless you.

seanfer:
Used to be Tony Anineh of the blessed memory....

Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

NotAWierdo:
Currently at 795/$ on in most Peer2Peer black market exchanges. Naira will keep sliding down against the strong currencies of the developed country because our economy is import dependent and the pressure of chasing $€£ to import these goods/services/education cannot be met by relying on solely on forex from crude!

Better save your money in $$££€€ in the long run than to allow inflation and further naira Depreciation to eat your hard work and savings.

kenedyx:


'Overtaking is allowed.' But don't forget there are plenty of fish in the river, too. So seek out other partners as well, so you don't end up wasting a lot of time without a plan B just in case.

I mean women do this all the time.. they double date to keep their options open, so why shouldn't you?

kenedyx:


Men love broke girls because they're inexperienced and men love inexperienced girls because they're submissive, young and impressionable.

Women consider money as the standard when looking for a man but men consider youthfulness, beauty, character and availability.

Men don't need your money and that career of yours only makes you too busy/tired to make out time for him and rob him off of the quality sex life he desires.

The choice is simple for a man really.. make money, go low-key into the conservative areas of the state, pick a young girl - who's usually broke by the way (you don't expect a girl of 19-22 years to have a lot of money) and court her. She gives him maximum love, time and respect. Unlike that rich babe who'll have to check her schedules to make out time or be too tired when she comes back from work, the young girl is always there, always curious and wants to be around you, good vibes and living a bliss life in the arms of her lover.

You have to understand that men and women see dating and courtship very differently. So it's okay to set your standard while we men look out for those character and traits that are valuable to us.

StrongAlphMale:


From your comments, it's so obvious you're suffering from inferiority complex!

Dude you seriously need to grow up and expand your sense of reasoning. Rich men marry their fellow rich people. Have you ever seen dangote type getting married to a poor broke girl? Bros real life isn't Nollywood.

At the bolded, this is why I know you are a simp. Bros you don't do things to impress a woman, only SIMP does that!!!! Honestly engaging you is like I'm wasting my time. You really need exposure bro.

If you think a poor broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money and gifts you will shower on her, bro get ready for the rudest shock of your life.

Dear simp

"The Good deed you've done for a girl expires the moment a more richer man shows up in her life.

Do you need explanation to the above? Only an insane man will leave a rich girl to a poor broke girl.