₦airaland Forum

Inobeyourmate:
His life no be the same again since he had that fallout with Naira, I guess depression paid a major role here, rip though

Eriokanmi:
Relationships are difficult nowadays because we've either lost or abandoned the process. You're sleeping with ladies/men when you're not yet married. In those days, my heart would be beating fast just because I wanted to toast a girl because I wouldn't know the kind of response she'd give me. Girls were God-fearing, just like boys. The reverse is the case today

Most of us lost our virginity in our late 20s and early 30s. I married my wife a virgin at the age of 29 years, she was almost 30 years old. As pretty as she was, long, pointed-nosed, dark and skinny with amazing frontside lol. She's escaped 2 times from rapists who pretended to be friends. One of them was a head of campus fellowship.

Many today have lost body count. There's an unseen and spiritual bond in sexual intercourrse which many are oblivious of today. You share in his/her spiritual problem and bondage when you sleep with that guy/girl. You can now imagine the number of wahala on your head when you sleep with many.

A friend of mine won Gbenga Daniel scholarship in those days when he was Ogun governor. This guy was so poor. Luckily for him, he was among those selected,alongside children of senators and powerful politicians. A week to their interview at the British embassy for their visa, 2 ladies who didn't know each other visited him. They said they just wanted to see him as he's refused to check on them, they came separately and on separate days. Meanwhile, he had wooed these girls before but they turned him down while in the university. In short, he slept with them, one after the other on their visit.

Everyone got visa approval, except my friend. I now told him to not give up but avoid sexual sin cos the devil had seen the future and set a trap , using those ladies to destroy him. He didn't appeal but reapplied. He was on 3 days fasting when he went back to the embassy. His visa was approved. Today, he's a great man, an entrepreneur of repute.

Many have entered a wrong relationship today because they abandoned the process. I prayed and fasted over my relationship. I was interested in 3 ladies but I didn't show it. I had to take their names before God. I also engaged my pastors. They never knew each other but God revealed samething to them. There was one of them whom a man of God said had 4 spiritual eyes and possessed with a marine spirit. That I shouldn't near her. To confirm this, there was a day she called me and told me what I was doing. I had malaria and she told me so. GSM was just a year old in Nigeria then. Today, you don't need to toast. They meet on social media, dating app and enter a relationship just like that. No wonder there are rampant divorce cases and family wahala nowadays .

People should go back to God and everything will be ok, including marriages, jobs and spiritual life. Even in the olden days, both families would do some ritual
rites and consult oracles before going for their life partner. Marriage no be beans. Happy Sunday people

occfx:
Since the parents don't want you, let her remain friends with benefits to you... Use her as a stress removal and don't let her attach to much to you in order not to prevent other women into your life. Fact is if a girl loves you much, she won't care what the parents says but since, she takes what the parents says serious, let her remain a fuxk mate till eternity and always remind her what her parents says whenever she wants to play victim.

occfx:
Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

occfx:
Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

clinician2x:
If I was born a Muslim I would be feeling sorry for myself by now.

How exactly can a human being practice a religion so dirty, blood thirsty and violent like islam. Especially the Nigerian version of it.

Rubbish religion.

Try quit their Islam infested jihad military and go use your life for something more meaningful bro, now that you have seen the light disassociate with that dirtiness and bloodthirst.

God bless you.

seanfer:
Used to be Tony Anineh of the blessed memory....

Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

NotAWierdo:
Currently at 795/$ on in most Peer2Peer black market exchanges. Naira will keep sliding down against the strong currencies of the developed country because our economy is import dependent and the pressure of chasing $€£ to import these goods/services/education cannot be met by relying on solely on forex from crude!

Better save your money in $$££€€ in the long run than to allow inflation and further naira Depreciation to eat your hard work and savings.