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Perfectsouth:
not that, I could have said this with my main account, but it was banned..
You see in life, if your first step was a mistake, you will keep having problems....
The mistake I made early in life keeps bringing more problems..
The one his brother did recently was what brought about this thread..
I have been through alot in life, from one problem to another, I keep fighting, I keep praying but if your problem lives with you, you hardly get an escape route..
Those kids should never suffer for what they knew nothing about believe me... Every decision am still making revolves around my kids..
Till today, I blame my father for every thing that has happened to me cos he was nowhere to be found when we needed him most..
And let me shock you, we now give him monthly stipends to feed himself.. The wife he wanted to die for abandoned him.

I have not done a post in Nairaland for years I think but after reading this I had to. I am hoping you see and read this.


Here is my conclusion: As long as you keep blaming your dad, it doesn't matter how bad he was/is, you will keep becoming like him.
If your motivation in life is your hatred for your dad, you are bound to make the same mistake and become exactly like him. I cannot explain the spirituality behind this here but trust me that is how it works. If you want, you can request it and I will share links with you on some messages you should listen to (If you are a Christian).

My advice to you: Forgive your dad. It is for your own good. You don't have to bring him into your family but let go of all the grudges you had against him. He may just be feeling guilty for his mistakes as you are right now about your own mistakes.
As for your wife, when it comes to infidelity and the fact that she is not repentant, you may have to divorce her legally. You cannot continue to accept a prostitute as a wife (assuming all you said about her is true). Stop using the excuse of your children to condone her excesses. You also do not have to hate her, that is not the goal. Save yourself and the future of your children by not condoning porsitution.

Start on a new path with a new kind of mindset that seeks to be a better man because that is the right thing to do, not because you hate your dad and don't want to be like him.

Hello OP,

Please any update on CAC business registration?

How much do you charge for registration today?

Rochas should think of something else.

He is not even a "full" APC member yet and not a qualified mercenary as APC will always outsource the presidential ticket.
Tambuwal is more APC than Rochas as it stands

He should concentrate on rigging into his second term with his 181 APC foot soldiers.

Promhize: Bro match started is different from sub.

In terms of performance, how many matches have mata started consecutively?
Playing is not the same as training.

He is not starting because he is not playing well. He is not playing according to team tactics. How is that difficult to understand?

Promhize: Don't mind him, he then starts him in one game and expects him to perform magic.

Whoscored.com is one of the best stats site out there, except you don't know football.

Fayrouzz: Even as a Chelsea fan, I mst say that Mou has treated Mata badly.. Oscar has been very anonymous in the past 3 games or so and yet he keeps playing him and then leaves Mata on the Bench.. Mou has made games so difficult to win for Chelsea..

You have certainly not been following stats. Try out whoscored.com and you will know you just don't know Oscar. For your information, he still rated 4th (edited: actually it was 3rd on a tie with Ramirez) highest Chelsea player in this game. When he was brought off, he was second.

Promhize: I know what I'm saying, I intentionally said it, mourinho's selections have been reactionary whether u like it or not

Btw why didn't reply my post on the mata/oscar issue?

If you are talking about matches played then you are wrong. Mata was in starting line up several times and Oscar benched and Mata didn't play well.

Don't forget they also have to show their stuff in training.

Gbajabiamila1: You're not dropping points, you're just maintaining your point.

Bros I weak jor.

Promhize: I know what I'm saying, I intentionally said it, mourinho's selections have been reactionary whether u like it or not

Btw why didn't reply my post on the mata/oscar issue?

I didn't see it, lemme check.

I feel better not watching the match. When I saw Lampard in the line up I knew it wasn't going to be good.
Feel sad though that we are dropping unnecessary points.

Promhize: God bless you, Mourinho's selections are reactionary!

He didn't say selection but changes, there's a difference. He should have brought in Mikel earlier on at least when he brought Ba on. We didn't need Ba, we needed someone to balance the midfield and allow Ramirez burst forth.

@promhize,

Whoscored.com ratings:

Top 5
Chelsea Branislav Ivanovic (DR) 7.7
West Bromwich AlbionShane Long (FW) 7.5
West Bromwich AlbionBoaz Myhill (GK) 7.3
ChelseaOscar (AMC) 7.1
West Bromwich AlbionYoussouf Mulumbu (DMC) 7.0

Promhize: Oga, oscar and mata who is more important to that Chelsea team, you don't just get to a club and do anyhow because u re Mourinho.

Ronaldo may not be doing much in Madrid in terms of team play and assist but u can't get there and just bench him.

If you have followed stats, Oscar has been doing better than Mata.

Oscar is not our problem, he is one of our key players this season.
Muo is making a mistake playing Lampard. I am not watching the match because I know it was going to be poor. How did I know?
I saw Lampard in the starting line up!

Now he is bringing in Mikel, to do what?

Promhize: Since mourinho said oscar is his main player, he disorganised the team. Nonsense, chelsea sucks, is this the best willian, oscar, mata and hazard can play?

My pal, Oscar is playing well, he is not the reason for the way we are playing. It's Lampard that shouldn't be in the field.
Oscar's rating is second only to Iva in this match so far.

With Lampard out Mikel should have been brought in to allow Ramirez move forward while the defensive play is balanced by Mikel.

Let's see what Ba's inclusion will do, fingers crossed but I feel Muo is gambling on Lampard.

See why Lamps shouldn't be in the field in the first place.

AMOSBID: Oscar form is questionable, why on earth will Mata be on bench always. The creativity quality of Mata is second to non. Chelsea need Ramires up front.

Ramirez cannot go up front when Lampard is paired with him. He does a lot when it's Mikel. How I love those his burst forward.

Mata seems not to play the kind of all-round game Oscar plays. It's not all about passes (which Oscar does too), you have to be able to join in the defense too when not in possession. Mata rarely does that.

Von Bismark: SEE THEM

wetin I do?

lexxwiz: Jose really needs to understand that Hazard, Oscar and Mata pairing sucks.. they all hold on to the ball for so long and frustrate the striker... Lampard has no business starting. Mikel and Ramires pairing is badass!!! Try a 442 diamond formation sometime!! Pair Cahil and terry more often..!! Just saying... Chelsea rules..!! Say no to locker room politics (lampard)

I really don't understand why Jose plays Lampard. Lamps is a legend no doubt but he is not adding much to the team.

Ramirez enjoys and gives his best when Mikel is on the pitch.
Lampard's presence kills the moral of the entire team.

GEJ looks finer without the hat. I know it's traditional but I prefer he goes without the hat.

tonardo: If it's as you have explained, I smell hacking /bypassing in the nearest future..

It's already unlimited in BB10. No one has been able to hack that yet

Imanuelle: the pinging is not our problem

We can pay for it.

Just make data cheaper

Since when did I become MTN.

I speak for myself. This move from MTN will make other telco do same or better.
Again, let the competition begin!

twaintoy: Who has dialed the code?

The code is to select a databundle to buy.
You may as well send a particular code to 131 to buy the data bundle.

It's amazing how simple the text is and most of you are missing it.

Let me explain. On MTN BB, when you reach your usage limit, you may not be able to browse, use social media apps like Twitter and Facebook etc but you will still be able to use BBM as long as your subscription has not expired.
MTN is saying they are offering the same thing for BBM on Android and iOS.
Let's say you subscribe for 100mb data and it's exhausted while the subscription expires days or weeks later. You will not be able to use any other app but BBM wills still be working.
Y'all should be happy because I'm sure other networks will follow suit.
Let the competition begin!

If this is true (since source is facebook), I commend Amosun for taking on this project. It's long overdue and my prayer is that it's done to perfection as soon as possible. If he says their cheque is ready, then it's good to hear.
Truly, the notice was passed since 2011 and also sometime last year and this year. I can attest to that.

Good job Amosun. More grace to finish the project.

Coming from a pro GEJ...

Aksally: I talk am. B patient mtn go free us.
Btw FTC

FTC for this thread?

I just received this message from MTN. They are giving free access to customers with active data bundle on their android and iphones.
Is this the burial of BB?

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Handsomeemmy: In as much as i will want to agree with you on the above statement that says two section have been ruling this country since independence, we are talking about corruption in high places here, alot of people are running around with no work, food and place to lay their head, someone is busy building Car garage of exotic cars, Senators, enjoying Jumbo pays even more than that of industriliazed nations of the world, Obasanjo own a university(where did he get the money?) civil servant (rtd) are owners of various company and houses abroad , where did they get such money from? The list is endless, i know all these didn't start with Gej, but if i were him, i will dare to be different and do the right thing, even if he is not stealing which i doubt, a lot of people are stealing under him, it makes him look weak, when you are friends with theives, it makes you vulnerable to arrest or death, either way it will never end well.

When THE PEOPLE can decide "if and how" we should live as a country, we can then decide "how and who" govern us.
NATIONAL CONFERENCE is the beginning of THE PEOPLE DECIDING THEIR FUTURE AND GOVERNING THEMSELVES!

Any one who think APC is the solution is deluded. Lagos is one of the most corrupt states in Nigeria. I live in Lag so I don't really mind all the APC propaganda.
One man is trying to turn the state into private/family business and he has the backing of the same people he is milking to build his empire.

Other APC states are not left out. Nasarawa is quiet as the woods, absolutely nothing is happening there, that's a CPC/APC states.

I repeat, we need NATIONAL CONFERENCE. Any group or person that does not want it is the real problem of the Nigeria!

For me, this is the BEST DECISION by GEJ so far!

Handsomeemmy: If you like, take side with your tribe, that is your own cup of tea, when i read comment here on nairaland, i weep for generation unborn, they will surely not forgive us for choosing the tribal line instead of fighting corruption, why did we all get it wrong? Youth of Nigeria, who turned our brain into what most of us are exhibiting now? So corruption can be fought because one person belong to your ethnic group , no matter what he or she does, they are right. Education is suspose to be a light that will shine on our path but instead we have abuse it, even the unlearned are better than most of us.

For the records, i am Yoruba, Tinubu is corrupt, Obasanjo is very much corrupt , so also is Gej, stella, Fani Kayode Buhari, clark Babaginda and the rest. It is a shame that most of us are willing to be identify with something bad.

Re-trace your step brethen, remember posterity will Judge and you will be accountable for every word you have spoken or written.

Things have really gone bad.

We are not a country yet. Corruption is not the problem of Nigeria but the fact that we are not a country!

China is corrupt, Russia is, Brazil is, Italy is, France is, Saudi and other Mid-east nations are corrupt. Israel is, Iran is, South Africa is, even the great USA is corrupt.
Nigeria is not unique in corruption, the only problem is that 2 sections of this country have decided to rule and enslave the others.
What you are seeing is not new, it's only now obvious because someone from a section tagged minority is at the helms of affairs.

THIS IS WHY WE NEED THE NATIONAL CONFERENCE NOW!

I couldn't help but laugh at Sahara Reporters and all these band wagoners.
It is obvious that some folks don't want Stella at the helm of affairs in that ministry. It's not like they are concerned for Nigerians. She most likely "puncture some tires" and these folks are fighting back.
They did same to Barth Nnaji, and we are paying dearly for loosing such a talent in government especially the power sector.

Yes, she fell for the trap with the BMW purchase. That's where I think she missed it. She should have left no opportunity for these opportunists.

One thing I know, the opposition DO NOT want Nigeria to thrive under GEJ. They will fight everyone that's bringing good publicity for his camp.


Sahara reporters remain a bought over tool.

APC has won more support for GEJ than any other single group! #FACT