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Wolexdey:
Proverbs 3:9 Honor the LORD with thy substance, and with the first fruits of thine increase.

Onegai:
That doesn't make sense, a pregnant lady is still pregnant, married or not. Go ask your HR.

Don't marry this guy. He doesn't love you, you don't love him, so why force things? I'm sure someone will tell you to go ahead, he will love you later. But no-one can promise that. Keep working, if anyone asks about the baby's father tell them with a very strong face "we met when he came to town and it didn't work out". You have to pull yourself together, you and your ex work together, you're pregnant and hormonal, I mean, you really have to strengthen your mind.

If this young man relents, don't allow him to put a ring on your finger till after the baby is born. Don't let his guilt consume your life eventually. He has to prove that he wants you for you, not because you got knocked up. So when the baby comes out, things will be rough for the first couple of months but once it stabilises, both of you can look forward and see what you both want for yourselves and your child.

A lot of guys react like this fellow after making plans and promises in the heat of emotions and then reality slaps them in the face. He did cheat on his gf and you enabled him, so you two must at least try and start afresh on a cleaner slate. But you're not going to fix things now and if you do get married, the next 6 months will feel like hell and if you're unlucky and this guy continues to hate your guts, so will the next couple of years. So put all thoughts of weddings aside until after baby is born.

cruzita:
why not?if he is good ooo

kilode100:
We are so much alike o Everything I own was bought by men

Na one chance you wan enter so o..

kilode100:
That's downgrading na.. Buy Samsung jare

Tonyosas101:
You ought to take it into consideration that my friend is a dunchbag who doesn't deserve her honesty.....its possible that she left him due to his nonchalant attitude and I decided to pick her up from all the bruises and damaged my so-called buddy might have done

Forget friendship jaree....a good girl deserves a better man
Tell me why we're not good to go when am the "better man" and she happens to be the "good girl"

kilode100:
Techno phone right?

kilode100:
You mean Divorced and Bestman??

Olodo rabata

Tonyosas101:
Why not why

As long as she has all it takes to be a potential girlfriend/wife

Sept20:
No, doesn't make sense.

kilode100:
Why the hell not??... My current Husband was our bestman!!..

Cholls:
my brother I can't date a but I can fvck real hard for leaving me guy.

correctyourself:
NO