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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ayokujero: 7:51pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I can't see any sense in this write-up. This write-up shows how poor the lady who write this is. Shallow minded and a gold digger. A woman who sees a man as a stepping stone will not progress. But a woman who sees a man as an added advantage will progress. Simple. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by demolagilbert: 7:51pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Sounds plausible in theory, but not 100% practicable..cannot be cast on stone. Ask the average gentleman, and he'll also tell you he would rather wait and work towards building a befitting life before considering starting a family, but you forget that this same gentleman is under pressure from a woman somewhere who is also under pressure from a family somewhere to get married. Fact is most guys would rather wait, but in reality waiting isn't solely his call to make. Also you have to consider the environment and the prevailing economics, in Nigeria today even a hardworker with a fairly average income may only be able to achieve such a feat with years of prudence and savings. If i am 28 and it will take me about 3 yrs to save up to get a decent apartment and a decent car, would my girlfriend who is 27 be willing to wait for me till she's 30 to tie the knot? Those who have had sad tales on this subject matter would give you a unanimous answer. And what's more the greater part of the population may not even have it this good. And lets even say, you do manage to get these volatile securities, what happens when you lose them? Does that also mean the end of marriage? In reality, these things do not work that way. What is most important is two people meeting, and working and striving and planning towards being the best they can be, day in day out. That to me is the whole point. And by the way, i became even richer when i got married. The right person brings out the best in in you, jnspires you and vice versa 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by streetzdreamz(m): 7:52pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:your thread is the best piece have read this year on nairaland,thumbs up....marriage and making kids should be the last set up in a mans life,people ask me about kids and i tell em its the last thing on ma mind,marriage aint even close until i achieve ma goals,if everybody can strive to attain a fixed goal in life before marriage and kids,poverty rate dwindles and life gets a bit easier, everybody wanna marry, have kid cuz thats what the society wants,heck!!!they bring innocent kids into a harsh world and the struggle begins all over again,a never ending cycle......i hope people see the truth and benefits in this thread....... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ginteriors: 7:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Specialbaby:What if the ready made rich guy becomes broke by loosing his job after some years of marriage? We have seen several cases like that dear. Some of my brothers and friends either had no job or being grossly underpayed before they got married. But they had a great future as industrous young graduates which they continued to pursue. Thank God for their wives that saw hardworking men with a future and a hope. Their lives are now better than many of their friends who 'were made' before they got married. A guy can be rich today and somehow become poor tomorrow. Will you then run away if the tide turns against the rich guy? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Asable(f): 7:55pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
So in other words I wouldn't have been born, if my mum was waiting for my dad to get a car and build a house before marrying him wow that's so scary.. or not |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Danfuster(m): 7:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
olihilistic: True... Quite a compensation |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by litaninja(m): 7:56pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Biko, hungry olosho...you, yes, you....Where is your fathers own house? Abi no be you dey follow conductor drag 20Naira change now now Please note, The cost of Waist Trainer and house are not the same oooo Vinshu: |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by joseph1832(m): 7:57pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Creamish:Only a fool goes into marriage without having a house. However, I've seen men who get married without having a house, they bring their wife to live with their parents. OP does have a point...maybe not totally to everyone's tastse but a man who isn't financially stable will develop complex issues when the woman is the breadwinner..no matter how noble her intentions. There might also be a room for insults when d woman continuously remains the breadwinner.I'm glad you agree that some of today's women can be vamps, as soon as they start providing for the family, things change... During the days of our parents, our mothers married our fathers even though they don't own squat. Guys need to understand that taking care of a home financially is primarily their duty. That's d pride of being THE man! Ur woman is ur backup and support...sticking by u thru thick and thin.Of course, the emboldened can't be over emphasized. A man provides for his family, every thing is A.O.K. The man looses his job, the woman takes over and bullsh1t start flying... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
I strongly disagree with you. My uncle married and gave birth to six children while living in the three rooms my father gave them. He later got promoted alongside his wife, they built their own six rooms with boys quarters, bought two cars and all the children are graduates. Marry a man of vision and not a man of television. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by GBYB: 7:59pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Egbami ke! This one doesn't know what is happening in Nigeria o. Just shouting dollar up nd down. You better wake up! This is NIGERIA not AMERICA. House nd car? before even thinking of dating? Kukuma add paradise too. A car, house nd a sure ticket to paradise (for the lady) after death. Even our mothers who almost worship our fathers... In short! Just carry ur wahala nd go... 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by August17(m): 8:00pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Blessed are those who know where their life for start for they shall inherit the earth |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Certifiedboss: 8:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: You're very wrong and very very wrong . Very little amount of guys earn above 150k for a start . You don't get promotions yearly . How do you think a guy can build a house within 5yrs if he's doing something legit. The truth is , only scammers (yahoo boys ) can satisfactorily acquire things you listed that a guy must own before marriage . I'm no saying guys don't do legit jobs to build houses at young age but it's very very few . In other t have a stable family what you should suggest is for the women to get themselves to work . The man is the head doesn't mean the woman should stay lazy and watch the man provide everything the family needs. In this tough economy every man needs a wOman that's capable of bringing something to this he table . I mean every man in a legit struggle needs a supporting wife to pull through . If the guy is earning 150k and you the woman can earn 100k the family will do perfectly okay and can afford a car in a year . And can afford to get a house in the next 5yrs . What you should be talking about is women taking the challenge . For you as a man to be able to care for every challenge you must have put in up to 10yrs where you're working to be earning above 500k . For you to be able to put in 10yrs then you should be about 35yrs of age or more . Only very few guys get a job that can start them off with something above 400k and those are guys who were lucky to get the chevron jobs . And chevron and it's likes don't take up to 50 new staffs in Nigeria every year. What do you say about the other thousand guys who graduate every year ? The country is tough and a man need a working partner that brings something to the table . Once again.you're very wrong to say girls should stay away from a guy if he have not gotten his own house . If you go by that then majority of the girls will have to settle with men above 50yrs cos it's men thay age that are sure to must have gotten the goals you made compulsory for a man to possess before a girls should stick with him . 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by enny4real23(m): 8:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:you should read 'superfreakonomics' and 'think like freak' they use economics to explain human social behavior in a crazy out-of-the-box way, you'll appreciate it |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by anigbajumo(m): 8:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
adeaks: Real G,most of em are nofin bt broke ass ladies that are ready for gold-digging. All they want is to open their legs' make dick enter and continue to milk guy dry. Specialbaby dis guy don reach over 500likes,sign of contexs wif lots of sense. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by adeyinkasegun(m): 8:01pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
This just a 2 fighting den & 1 person will suffer it most! If to hold on untill acqured car & house b4 getting married den d ladies will suffer nw bcs guys fill marry @ any age & stil av a kids but ladies hmmmmmmm! I dey fear menopause Oooooooooooo! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 8:02pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
i m even suspecting ur dad dont have a house. noteby; i never read d post.. idiotic gals |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by MrIyke222(m): 8:03pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: U re just seeing tins 4rm ur parochial nd pesimistic point of view. Wot u bliv in is wot wil dfinatly work 4 u!!! As far as ur eyes can see, so can u achive. And if ure a christian nd undstnds God's word very wel, u'll knw dat ure completly wrong. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by MIGHTYMAN82(m): 8:04pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:shai under 13 child don full nairaland no wonda i 4 say |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by fromnigeria(m): 8:04pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu:Why do they remain promiscus if they marry for sex?? You are 10% right and 90% wrong 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Smellymouth: 8:06pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
The rate of asslickers on NL is getting too enormous. Tufiakwa!! Some dudes tho 1 Like
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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by banmee(m): 8:11pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: Just by reading this i can deduce two things; 1. You are still in your teens. 2. You are a gold digging who.re or going to be one. The concept of building a home with your spouse is lost to you. I and a lot of my friends met our wives when we had nothing. Living in one room apartments, no car, nothing. Now, we have everything we could ever need. We built it together. You want a ready made man. Don't come crying when he begins to treat you like a slave. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ayokujero: 8:11pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
God give some women sense. [b][/b] |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by GodblessNig247(m): 8:11pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: What abt the house and car? hope he had his own house before getting married |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by tommychow(m): 8:11pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
kaziblake: Can you listen to yourself? "I know a lady"...A LADY O, not women, a lady and you fixate your mentality on what happened to "a lady". What are you gonna say now? That you know more ladies? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Sunlad16(m): 8:12pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
But you are not God. Olorun ti o da enu ni ibu ti mo nkan ti o ma fi sibe |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Victorkenz35(m): 8:12pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Any lady that takes to your Advice might end up setting up a notice board (HUSBAND NEEDED) at the entrance of her gate!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Shedybliss98(m): 8:14pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
HAVEN'T YOU HEARD THAT SOME PEOPLE BEGINS TO SUCCEED IN LIFE IF THEY GET MARRIED TO THE RIGHT WOMAN, WHO WILL ADD MEANING TO THEIR LIFE, INSTEAD OF DEPLETING HIS OZONE LAYER. 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Creamish(f): 8:14pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
joseph1832: My friend moved into her hubby's family home and was turned to d maid by hubbyz mum n sisters. Hubby is a mamaz boy.. His family stuck their noses in their business and ofcourse D marriage Dint last.. Y risk it? Get ur own place...even if its a face-me-I-face-u.. Yes I admit some women can be foolish when they assume the role of the breadwinner... Times have changed from that of our father's. No one says u must be bouyant...at least have a place and if y'all are OK soaking garri 3 times daily, who are we to complain? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by bezimo(m): 8:14pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Just like a number of folks commenting on this thread, When my dad married my mum.He neither had a house or car. Though he had an accommodation and a maneagable income.But my mum saw a future. Today he owns cars, houses and landed properties and his children are all trained some to bachelor level, some to masters level and doing fine. Where did they come from? The Op is highly misguided and is a comfirmed gold digger. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by pasco30(m): 8:16pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Ladies you have heard na so keep staying single until you meet a man that can provide for you and possibly your family. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Gmatspecialist: 8:20pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
May be this OP needs to know that man is not created because of money, but the other way. Sometimes we need to be rational in our thinking and the fact that you're raised with silver spoon should not make you think LIFE is that easy.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by tedimola(m): 8:21pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
OP, pls how old are you? I am asking, cos ur post stinks of Immaturity. U've not experience life atall, that's why u'll post this. U'll realize how stewpeed ur post is when u come of age. Ciao. NB: Same reply goes to anybody in support of this post. No pun intended. |
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