₦airaland Forum

lefulefu:
There are prenuptal agreements b/w couples preceding court weddings. Had it been in court weddings dat the woman must inherit all the man's property following a divorce then gold diggers would have been hooking with Dangote,otedola,adenuga and other wealthy nigerian men in court weddings and after one week or a month of marriage they had sue for divorce and inherit all of dangote's or otedola's properties. Its not as simple as it looks.

u deserve a kiss Darling. Abeg help me tell them na. Ayam not understanding all these their share property saga o. which property sef the tokunbo car or the three bedroom flats. empty barrels been making noise since the time of Baal.

DatIjebuBoi:
He has to!!.Can u trust someone who does not trust you?,He needs it for the same reason she does if not she should give him the original and be content with the photocopies or she should do what I suggested earlier.its funny how women say things like bad influence,not being a real man when things dont go their way because the reason the wife is holding to the certificate is to protect herself and their is nothing wrong with that.what I have a problem with is the fact when the man wants the same protection he is supposedly influenced by bad people.

Oga wat if during the middle of an argument or misunderstanding the man asks for the cert. let me state mg point her "If anything happens to that cert, while the woman has a lot to loose, the man has nothing to loose.
Wat the hell are we even arguing abt? Hav u heard a woman throw her man out?, rather its the men u does that more often. In such scenario what will the woman hold on to? I dnt want to believe the people arguing this shit are enlightened adults. WTF!

Daboomb:
Just come and see woman "wayo-sense"!

A husband that is capable of keeping family assets like share certificates, Land titles, Passports.... the only thing he is not capable of keeping is Marriage cert!

Mariage cert IS NOT a woman's right. It belongs to the "married couple".
You people shoudl stop talking dumb.
Chisox, these our Nigerian women sef.

lolll @talking dump. that same man this is capable of destroying the cert cos he wants to trample on the woman's right. and mind u this is not church wedding o or traditional wedding. it is REGISTRY, that's if u understand. And it's very clear u dnt, so I don't av time to argue with u. Make ur findings and come back let's conclude.

DatIjebuBoi:
So in essence he should just trust her while she doesn't trust him back.How about placing somewhere where they both have access and no one can remove it without the other consent.

he has to and wat does he even need the original for? if he is not been pushed by bad influence. u sure know she will keep it safe if its with her cos its her right and the man can easily destroy that right cos he has nothing to loose.

lawman88:
I did registry marriage. What I discovered recently is that she doesn't even want me to see the certificate. Any time I requested for it, she only gives me the photocopy. Hope my wife is not trying to be too smart....

she is not been smart, she is just protecting her right, which is keeping the cert. I assume she was given the cert to keep at the registry and not u. pls don't let some of these people who are not too enlightened on this issue spoil ur beautiful marriage. Build ur home, make ur woman happy and with the help of God u would tell ur kids how good their mum is. she may be scared of giving u the original cos I av heard of cases where the man took the cert and set it on fire; cos of ignorant friends who deceived him that the woman will have more say than him cos she is holding the cert. pls sir, I dnt know u but court or no court a loyal and well trained woman will always be one. my sister has been married for more than 11 years and their marriage is still Swt as its first year. mind u they did court marriage.

jarrot:
Can we chat? Based in warri too.

sure u can leave ur digits.

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

you deserve a kiss dear, you can imagine them. broke ass guys be making noise since time immemorial. when the rich get married both traditional, church and registry, some people are here displaying their ignorance. if you are not sure wat u want pls keep it to urself and not come here deceiving the not too enlightened. I even thought u were going to state good reasons and u here talking of sharing properties. wat happens to her ruined emotions. pls don't mislead others from ur side of view.

Hi everyone! So good to know there is a group for Deltans. am Tina, urhobo, based in warri.

I believe that is where the word Forgiveness comes in, u av not yet forgiven him and I don't think u know wag forgiveness means. I also want to leave u with a question to ponder over. if u guys were already married, would u abandon ur marriage for this? and has he ever done this before? the fact that they are keeping their distance shows they are remorseful and don't want to repeat a MISTAKE.

thanks all

OrestesDante:



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I have tried it severally, but its not working. is there nothing else I can do.

pls I av been trying to upload my home page but its not showing. what else should I do?

that's my home screen

pls help me. my tecno spark k7 is just 6months old and all of a sudden stopped ringing out. I tried playing videos, music and games still the same but I can make and receive calls with it. pls what do I do as I have tried increasing the volume in all ways that I can. pls help me.

bgates:
everything is ok yes

wat is the size of the tv

bgates:
awaiting calls

do they av receipts. and how many inch is the tv

candygebsslim:
So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

such swt words from u, infact I feel like marrying u right away.

candygebsslim:
So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

such swt words from u, infact I feel like marrying u right away.

Why is everyone focusing on the woman showing her true colors? Does it mean the man doesn't av true colors to show? I wonder how some people think, don't u argue or rather disagree with ur mom, siblings and friends? how many av u thrown out. some men will just marry u and want u to always say yes to everything they say. My dear op, marriage is like a two sided sword both sides have their parts to play to win the battle called DIVORCE. Communication is always the key not how long u dated. That lady would an angel If and only if u treat her as am one.

why is everyone focusing on the woman showing her true colors? Does it mean the man doesn't av true colors to show? I wonder how some people think, don't u argue or rather disagree with ur mom, siblings and friends? how many av u thrown out. some men will just marry u and want u to always say yes to everything they say. my dear op, marriage is like a two sided sword both sides have their parts to play to win the battle called DIVORCE. Communication is always the key not how long u dated. that lady would an angel If and only if u treat her as am one.

anyone with set of chairs in delta state, precisely warri (not too expensive) should holla me.

:-Xlemme just sit and observe.

Pls help with a job. I am a computer science graduate, resident in Delta state. I have 3 years experience in administrative positions (including but not limited to PA, front desk officer/ customer care officer, Secretary), I am a fast learner and would appreciate any recommendation for employment or internship. Thanks.

Pls any internship for a computer science graduate in any part of Delta state

pls add me to the whatsapp group

pls add me, am interested: tina4easy22@yahoo.com

pls I need a job in warri. I have HND computer science and experience in administrative positions. am a fast learner and would appreciate any assistance to this effect. I can be reach on tina4easy22@yahoo.com

Fifthcolumnist:
Poeple still get juicy jobs in Warri. You're just not connected enough

pls if u av any connection. pls do connect me.even if its on percentage basis.

pls who knows any trusted job agency in warri

couldn't help stopping here. lmao. As for the urhobo to some extent true. Let me park here and wait for the others to come break your head.

debbie:
On another note....today marks my wedding anniversary....over 5 years and counting
Indeed marriage is good and a blessing from God.

All i wish for is your earnest prayers

Congrats. I wish all the bliss that comes with marriage and many more years of happiness.