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Dear Girls/Guys


Many ladies and gentlemen have been in toxic and unhealthy relationship and are scared to leave for fear of starting all over again. Many do this with hope that their partner will change whereas they don’t know that humans rarely change- we only adjust temporarily.


To all of you who think that it will be catastrophic to leave your partner, believe me when I say that is better you leave that relationship that have no future than to be waiting in hope for a happy ending all to no avail.

He keeps maltreating you; he keeps tormenting you; he keeps abusing you; he keeps making you feel inferior, he keeps making you regret knowing him; he keeps comparing you with his ‘ex’, he keeps telling you he regret knowing you; he keeps letting you feel that you are not good enough for him.

How long do you think you will continue like that, how long can you continue lying to yourself that it will be alright, how long can you continue having a swollen face all because of blows from him, how long can you continue to say the word ‘ I am sorry' even when he offended you. How long……? How long…..?


The time for that change is now- do it and you will be glad you did.


Sincerely,


A guy that truly cares,

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Nice one

halfricanadian:
u guys need a puppet to date or marry nd i aint one
So feminist who u hate is who someone else some whr is praying daily to av cos of their disciplined nature

By that you mean there are lots of men queuing up for your hand in marriage ? The last time I checked you are still a spinster so why not just pick one to marry since you have them at your beck and call.

Ask all the so called single, single mother- feminists around , though they won't tell you the truth- they cry under their pillows every night praying for a man. You are here proud of being a feminist. Wise up girl, this is Nigeria in Africa not Europe and the Americas.

Let me tell you something I have understood over the years, feminism is as a result of bad relationship experience for ladies. For a fact, I don't know why a lady will want to be a feminist if she is always pampered by her man. It beats my imagination because ladies have an inherent want to be pampered.

Peace.

FlawlesRebirth02:
you go fear blog name naw

Leave the object and concentrate on the subject.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]there is no boyfriend.
But trust if he ever laid a hand to me, he will be missed by his friends and family.
...... If you understand me let me know? [/color]

People like this are just barking dogs. Someone that is capable of doing what you just said won't even voice it out. Your type can't even stand up to your man. I know your type....Mtschhheeeewwww

halfricanadian:
dose are d ladies

I represent my sef nd speak for mysef nd d real feminist i dont embrace mediocracy

Clap for yourself for being a feminist. You are even proud to come here to say it. Little wonder you are still single. You are proud of being a feminist and we should be happy for you....lols...Continue being a feminist and let's see where it takes you. Who feminism don epp. Mtscheeeeuuuuwwww

Ugoeze2016:
hmmm the name of your blog eh... na wa ooo.... dis blogging business is real ooo

Leave the object and focus on the subject. Thank you.

BE STRONG

Dear Girls,
Pretending to be strong is exhausting. Acting like you're okay is draining. Putting up a front like you're fine is tiring. Making it seem like nothing affects you is a lot of work. Keeping everything bottled up takes a lot of effort. Shutting everybody out uses up a lot of energy.
I know you. I can see right thru you, and I'm here to tell you that it's alright. It's alright to be weak. It's alright to be vulnerable. It's alright to be hurt. If you have to cry, then cry. It's alright if you cry, and it's alright to be angry. You don't have to try to be invincible. You don't have to try to mask how sad you are. You don't have to try to cover up the pain you're feeling. Don't forget that you're only human, okay? Don't lie to yourself and be in denial that everything's alright with you when everything's actually wrong and it's only getting worse by the day. Ignoring what's wrong isn't going to make it go away. Avoiding what's wrong isn't going to fix anything. What you need to do, is just deal with what's wrong because that's the only way you'll be able to properly find closure and get past it. Don't be afraid to let it all out because if you don't, you'll slowly lose yourself and you aren't going like who you become.
You're stronger than you realize, and I can only hope that this makes you feel a little bit better because I know, this is what you needed.

Sincerely Yours,

A guy that truly Cares.

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SirWere:
This dumb Shit again!

The truth is always bitter...lols

Well written

Well written

Well said

Well said

Hmmmmmmmm!

He who has ears let them hear.

He who has ears let him hear.

Guys...SMH

Derailers paradise!!?

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