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Lalami3232:

Act of faith indeed !!! If you see some of these unmarried ladies when they were in their prime (20-27yrs) dey talk, you won't be surprised that majority of them are still single in their late 30s and 40s. During that time, dem go make jest and mockery of young hustling men wey dey their age range. Dem go mock legitimate hustling guys and tag them broke. You see them with much older men who had money to pay to have a bite of their tight kpekus. Even if you see them with young guy, just know say the guy get money, irrespective of whatever kind of job the guy dey do. All they know na money, money, money.
When reality starts dawning on them is when they become single mothers or when dem don dey reach 30+ yrs. At this stage, dem go dey lower the bar of their initial standard wey dem set . At this stage, they become very vulnerable and desperate, getting them to bed is as easy as knowing say Nigerians go still vote f00lishly again in 2027. Most times, you meet them in religious gatherings, dem go dey very dedicated . The same girl wey no fit cook or wash a man's clothes in her 20s will now tell you that "if I love a man, I can do anything for him" . Dem go pamper you eeh, you go come dey wonder say, so this babe dey good like this na she still dey unmarried? Dem go come paint a pathetic picture of "my ex was a devil while I was the Angel " bla bla bla. While most SIMPtonians will fall for the lies, real niggars like us will just smile because we love hearing lies when we already know the truth.
But mind you sha, some babes were naturally good from the unset but they were just unfortunate to meet wrong men. But don't be deceived, the percentage wey fall into this category no pass 1%.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, Oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Telltruth123:
I have used my salary to pay debt, no foodstuffs no savings, is this how I will continue living my life?
Despite my struggle to make life better for myself and people around me, I am not making progress.

kellystone87:
OH BOY...THANK GOD SAY U EVEN GET SALARY...WE WEY NO GET NKO....HW WE WAN PAY OUR OWN DEBT.....HE WHO GOES A BORROWING, GOES A SORROWING

MOG6670:
Hello nairafam
Pls I need your advice.....

This writeup is sections one and two .

👉long read 👈
( SECTION ONE: parental bullying/standing as an obstacle towards child personal growth and development)

I'm a guy of 25yr from and average family of 10 Members which I'm the first born.
My parents are religion leaders (pastor) which made it difficult for us to to effectively socialise, build network and have a healthy self image due to high level of emotional and verbal bullying which they termed as discipline and protection ( must pastor lads can relate to this).

I decided to further my education when I graduated ( national diploma) in 2022 but my parents refused to cooperate which in they words "NOT EVERY CHILD GOT THE OPPORTUNITY I HAD, SO I SHOULD BE THANKING GOD"

Mind you we the children are the major source of income because we are originally farmers.
We, the children are the one who sacrificed our our blood, sweat strength and enjoyment to makes sure that we have enough as a family ( especially me the first born) but Alas the thing has turned against us because our parents always bully ( financially bullying)us whenever we refuse to coperates with they selfish goals. ( Many things to say, but that's for another day)

That's makes me to made a harsh and hard decision in 2023, that's to break free from them even though I had no any tangible things to my name to fall back on incase of.......( because all our harvest are sold and invested in our father name, and he will never coperates or give you cash to invest it personally or build yourself as individual)

I break out with only 50k in 2023 and today 2025 my total investment and asset is 2.5 million Naira and still growing... ( My financial projection and goals this year is to worth 10+ million Naira, and thank God it's working)[/color]

Section Two ::::

Section two is about my love life. I had fallen in love last year with a very beautiful, natural & sincere lady, who her good character is top-notch, wife material. This lady is 23 and I'm 25.

In the course of discussion last Month, she stylishly told me that she wanted ( if God permits) to be married at least by 2027.

And to be sincere, I wanted to wife her but one of the issue is that she didn't attend any forms of traditional education (school) but she is intellectual wise, resourcesfullness and industrious.

So I need your sincere in put in both section 1&2 because it'll help me to make a good decision.

Summary::
From part one
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-Those of you who hard and experienced these kind of parents, how did you navigate through?
-Is your relationship with them now good or strained?
-Did you regret your action or not?


From part two:
_______________
-What is your experience/ or take on marrying uneducated but exposed wife?
-Did she later learnt how to read and right?
-If the need arise, what are the ways and forms did I need in other to teach her how to read and write

Telltruth123:
I have used my salary to pay debt, no foodstuffs no savings, is this how I will continue living my life?
Despite my struggle to make life better for myself and people around me, I am not making progress.

hisexcellency34:
Atiku sitting down to greet GEJ is disrespectful. Even if you are older than him, that's a former president for crying out loud. All these abokis think so highly of themselves.

Empresa:
These Igbos no de hear word. Take your investment to your state. If they need your goods, they will come there and buy.

Bobodee09:
Well it depends.

I have borrowed my wife countless time and I don't even expect her to pay back, she most times this money for her personal stuff.

Anytime my wife want to borrow me money is for household expenses or groceries and she will be on my neck till her pay part if not all back.

The major problem is

A wife borrowing her husband money isn't not seen the same way a husband borrowing his wife money.

I don't think a man can call Family meeting if his wife resfuse to pay the money he borrow her.


Double standard.

Kobojunkie:
Did the woman get a promissory note or something as proof? If she did then she could simply take the issue to court and the courts would help resolve it.

Preston114:
Recently one of my sisters went to visit our elder sister and found out that her husband has been assaulting her. According to my sister who went visiting, she said the first time she noticed this, she perceived some struggles in the apartment and decided to check what exactly was happening only to find my elder sister pinned to the wall by her husband and held tightly on her neck that she was grasping for breath.

When I was informed about this, it felt so disheartening. I called my sister in question and enquired what was happening as none of us ever knew that she was going through such in her marriage. She swept the topic under the rug with an excuse that it had never happened before and it was just a misunderstanding. I felt something off but I thought we should let it slide since my sister does not seem interested in us taking actions.

Early this morning, I got another call from my other sister that the husband is assaulting her again and this time it was more serious. She shared a video evidence with me and it sincerely broke my heart. However, I asked her to delete the video so it does not erroneously get to the public as she was naked in the video.

It's important to mention that they have been married for more than 10 years. I sincerely don't know the root cause of their issue. However, I find it hard to understand how fellow men get to this point of battering their wives without any sense of remorse.

I'm not in Nigeria so I'm constrained on the actions I can take from my current location. I was making an arrangement with a friend to help me deploy some soldiers do their house but I had to pend it as I was informed that he has left the house and when he does that he probably stays out for a week before coming back home. I guess this is part of the issues they are having.

My parents are quite old hence, I would like to coordinate necessary actions on this issue myself. Although my sister is appealing that we overlook the matter as her concern is to keep her marriage. She's not even considering her safety.

Can I file a report with human rights activist on behalf of my sister? If yes I would appreciate advice on how to do this.

Arostar2023:
USA can target those that Russia does business with. And that's going to hurt... even China's economy will suffer if America decides to play rough ball with them. Or is it South Africa that can withstand Trump? None of the BRICS nations can challenge the USA.

Arostar2023:
USA can target those that Russia does business with. And that's going to hurt... even China's economy will suffer if America decides to play rough ball with them. Or is it South Africa that can withstand Trump? None of the BRICS nations can challenge the USA.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Hello parents and guardians and health practitioners in the house, I want to ask can a 2year old bow legs straight naturally or only with surgery.

because her parent cant stand the look of the bow legs, many people are recommending surgery, while some said it will correct on it's own between her 3years to 4years as she grows.


pls her parent needed your advices to know which actions to take.

BabaIbo:
Hello people, I am also searching for a good freezer, between new and old which one is the best?

And what brand is the best?

Sonofgod1990:
I will like to credit 4 people with 5k each for this great news. Tell me what 5k can do for you at the moment

adalame:
Choosing to go seems like freedom to me, but it's not courage; it's an escape. Not every problem has a solution, and sometimes, the consequences of our actions are heavier than we can bear. I am certain this is my path, I hope i find the peace i seek. Facing the storm seems to painful and difficult.

helinues:
When my papa was alive, I swear to God, I dey enter Governor's office, governor's house and even governor's private house. We are from same ward from the governor

To burst your bubble, I can't just can't count how many times our then governor came to our house personally, ride on dad's car for disguising.

We are son of an elite not I never chop people

Could you tell us about your own family recognition even in your village?

SmartPolician:
What kind of business?