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emperorchedda: say 11

I was still playing with dolls at 11, and I thought boys had cutties.

I am not Atheist. I could not just pass by this comment though.

Seun: Nobody who is mentally ok wants to die. Anyone who claims not to fear death is either seriously depressed, deeply brainwashed, in denial, or a liar and hypocrite.

Wow! Those are some harsh words. I disagree with your second sentence. It is not strange or unusual to NOT fear death. It is a logical end to this life. Everyone dies. It WILL happen.
There is no need to fear something we already know will happen.

Seun: The fear of death is normal & healthy. It motivates us to take life-saving precautions e.g. using condoms & seatbelts.

I am not afraid of death. I know it will come for me one day. It is better to have a "healthy" respect for life, and do whatever is in your power to keep yourself and your family safe.

I have friends and family members who have had children die before they do. I do worry about this happening. There are also small children who lose their parents at a young age.

No matter when it happens, someone is affected by it. Remember to always tell those you care about that you love them when you say goodbye. It may be the last thing they hear from you.



Don't fear death. Respect life, and live as if death can come at any moment.

emperorchedda: at the poster above me. Now its highly inappropriate for parents to have sex in the presence of their kids but that alone won't make the kid have carnal knowledge at an early age, the media, the internet and most especially peer groups are responsible for this. Back in the days all the little girls I know were already getting bleeped one way or the other by neighbourhood guys. We even gist about how we did it to them and who will be our next target lol, though I grew up in a very wild part of surulere so my environment was really at fault and it plays a key role in every child's life. This gives credence to the highly debated psychology argument on what shapes a child, (nature or nurture)? I say nurture all the way

What age are we talking about here?

Paroman: Definitely it isn't any bit appropriate for parents to have sex in the same room or on the same bed with kids around as they run a very high risk of having their kids witnessing a lotta explicit stuffs. But with the high cost of living in Nigeria, especially the huge cost of getting accommodation in cities like Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt etcs, parents without much funds have little or no choice but to live, sleep and f**k in the same room with their kids. Errrr I think to a certain extent it does contribute to young kids displaying sexual behaviour but I do not think it is the major reason for it. I feel the major reason is because parents over here don't really care much what movies their kids are watching or they are too busy to monitor the kind of activities or things their kids indulge in with other kids. Movies censored as +18 is watched by everyone at home including the kids and whenever these kids are alone playing together, they tend to practise what they learnt from the TV. Parents carelessly leaving porn tapes and pictures around is another prevalent thing over here. This to me is the major reason why kids tend display intimate behaviour at a young age.

Wow...seriously? I thought Nigeria was really religious. Both Christians and Muslims are opposed to this aren't they?

Dubby6: E don tey since jungle mature and no b today nyash dey back

Can someone interpret this please?

Don't all dogs do this?

Took

Even

Mull

I have read about and heard stories of children having sexual experience very young. Some here on NL and also many friends have said they had sex at a very young age with an age mate, older friend or family member. Some said they had sex as young as 5.

I'm wondering why this seems to be so prevalent. A few friends have said they grew up sleeping in the same room or even the same bed with parents and siblings. These friends said they often listened to or watched their parents have sex.

I know a family in Ikorodu. Three small children and the mum and dad. They can only afford a one bedroom flat and they all sleep in the same bed. My friend said they wait for the children to fall asleep then have sex quietly in the bed so they don't wake the kids.

Do you think it is appropriate to have sex in the same room or bed as your children?

Do you think this behavior contributes to children displaying sexual behavior in early childhood, or do you think this trend is the result of something else?

What other contributing factors might there be?

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UyiIredia: he he ! Such is life. My Dad mastered in PUB ADMIN but didn't hold a public office. My mum majored in Nursing but sacrificed her career to be a housewife. Man proposes, God disposes.

UyiIredia!! Where have you been my friend?
Long time.

Garbless

frankben: texanomaly, we call it a day here..... I'm sleepy. Nice chatting with you.

Goodnight.

Goodnight Frankben

frankben: hahahaha. ... I've got a lie detector here.... Hahahaha

“I’m so clever that sometimes I don’t understand a single word of what I’m saying” ~Oscar Wilde

frankben: I usually give her a french kiss to allay her pains but this time, i suggest we get her an ice cream

hmmm...what's her favorite flavor.



Btw...she looks very young. Are you a dirty old man?

Paroman: elope

Lol. Oops wrong game again. We both got it wrong.

Eels

frankben: sorry.

What can we do to alleviate her pain?

Only on Neptune

Missmossy: Ease

Escalate

ggrin: but you said you're new here
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How come

How come what?

ggrin: husband snatcher

You are welcome to join us.

ggrin: babe what's happening here frank


Ur cheating again

Lol. For a minute there I thought you were calling me Babe. You're cute, but not that cute.

frankben: you a lawyer?

You'd pass for one.

I majored in English and Political Science. I intended going to law school. I became a teacher instead.

frankben: huh! .
Your just hearing it from me?

Lol. I've been on NL for more than a day. I've heard football mentioned a time or two.

frankben: you got me smiling again.... I'm not the bitter dude.

Hmmm...so you are an old not so bitter dude?

frankben: this reminds me.... Which football club do you support?

Before coming to NL, I didn't know of Chelsea or any other football team name.

ggrin: oh anoda woman u man u in da makin

I have no idea what you just said.

frankben: lmfao . Don't count me among those that grey prematurely.

Glad I could make you smile.