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Christianity EtcRe: 5 Facts About Abortion For The Anti-abortion Crusaders by texanomaly(f): 4:54am On Dec 28, 2013
Logicboy03: 1) Laws against abortion do not stop abortion- they only make abortions unsafe
Death from unsafe abortions is actually higher in countries that ban abortion

The issue here is that unplanned and unwanted pregnancies will happen. Banning abortion does not solve the problem. It is just reducing one solution for the women.
I’ve given my view on this in another thread. You agreed with some of what I said, but chided me for not going far enough.

Logicboy03: 2) Preaching Abstinence does not work
I agree preaching abstinence ALONE does not work.

Logicboy03: Many christians and muslims like to preach about abstinence. They want people not to have s.ex before marriage. However, that is a lie- people will have sex before marriage even if they are believers. In fact, the bible belt states in the USA has more teen pregnancies than other states! A study actually found a relationship between teen pregnancy and religion!
http://www.theatlanticcities.com/politics/2012/04/teen-birthrates-are-way-down-still-high-these-states/1735/
The bolded is true. I live in a city in Texas that has been ranked as having the highest teen pregnancy rate in the nation, not just the state. I will look, but I’m sure there is also a study that shows a relationship between waiting for marriage and religion also. I checked the study you speak of. What it really shows is a direct correlation between lack of sex education, and teen pregnancy, not necessarily religion. I do not believe abstinence should be the only component in sex education. I do however think it should be taught as the ONLY 100% preventative for unwanted pregnancy, and STDs. When I say sex education, I mean ALL sex education should be taught. My city also has the highest rate of herpes, syphilis, hepatitis B, gonorrhea, and HPV transmitted through mouth contact. There are actually some kids who think that fil.latio is not sex, and that it is safe. (It ain’t called MouthAction for nothin’.) The school district here advocates abstinence only. Smh

Logicboy03: Furthemore, research has found out that contraceptives and a general se.x education go a long way in reducing teen pregnancies.
http://www.salon.com/2012/04/15/abstinence_isnt_working/

Here in Nigeria, we preach abstinence while we know that older men are having their way with very young girls- even as low as secondary school girls. We preach abstinence while frowning on the use of condoms and contraceptives. Very sad.
As I said…ALL sex ed. topics should be taught. I strongly feel these topics should also be taught in the home. Sex should be a subject our kids feel comfortable asking us about. Would you rather they ask their friends? I think ignorance, embarrassment and fear of talking about sex is a culprit in this battle too. It is also the reason so many woman fear, or are disgusted by sex. They have not been taught, and properly prepared in the home. (but that is a topic for another thread)

Logicboy03: 3) Contraceptives and sex education work better than abstinence only classes in reducing pregnancies/abortion
While this point has been hinted at in number 2, it is important just to reinforce it.

It is better for the youths to know the various issues surrounding sex if they fall into temptation. Telling them not to have sex is not enough. They should be given advice on how to take precaution and actions if the find themselves in certain intimate situations.

Agree 100%
[quote author=Logicboy03]4) Abortion is a women's rights issue and many developed countries have recognized this.
Yes, a woman has the right over her body. What really gives a man the right to tell a woman what to do or what not to do with a fertilized egg in her body? Of course, there are caveats to abortion, just like every other right. No one is asking for women just to abort babies whenever they feel like instead, the pro-abortion women's rights movement is making an ethical argument for a rational discussion on abortion. Pregnancy affects women in various ways and they should at least have some say in a situation that would definitely change their lives
http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/abortion/mother/for_1.shtml
This issue needs its own thread. Too much to say on this matter.

Logicboy03: 5) Pro-abortion or pro-choice campaigners realise that abortion is not the only solution for unwanted pregnancies.

a) Before the pregnancy/precautions
-youths should be educated on se.x, contraception and pregnancy
-abstinence should be preached but with the se.x education
-youths should have some access to contraception, especially condoms

b) After an unwanted pregnancy (other solutions)
*first step is to meet a health counselor for proper advice
-giving the child to the parents of the mother/father to raise
-giving the child to an orphanage or foster care institution
-giving the child to willing relatives
-keeping the child with an adjustment in lifestyle of the mother (after an assessment of mental, physical and financial stability)


If all the options in (b) are not viable, then abortion is the way forward
Unfortunately, in America, abortion clinics had to be legislated into doing the above steps before the final option of abortion. Before legislation demanded they give other options, many clinics throughout the US did not promote anything but abortion.

I’m not sure if you intended the bolded to include adoption. Orphanages and foster care do not guarantee this. Going through an agency that promotes and facilitates adoption is a viable option too. Most even provide prenatal care. I’m not sure you have this option in Nigeria. You tell me.
Christianity EtcRe: The Non-Christian Chatbox ( sticky ) by texanomaly(f): 4:00am On Dec 28, 2013
oladistinct: Mr troll, rationalmind, logicboy, amanfrommars, plaeton, texanomaly et al, i'm feeling u guys
shocked shocked shocked

Unhand me you!! angry huh














just kidding... cheesy












but seriously guy...stop touching me. angry

Welcome grin
PoliticsRe: For Those Who Claim Sudan As An Example For Nigeria by texanomaly(f): 3:47am On Dec 28, 2013
maclatunji: What's a man to say to certain arguments?
tongue grin
Poems For ReviewRe: Random Ramblings From The Mind Of Tex by texanomaly(op):
noble4d: I love one thing about your collections........ it has rhymes
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...

Thanx.




It doesn't all rhyme though.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 3:41am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: On The Other Hand.

What does "Too old for you" imply?
I might tell you if we ever meet. cool
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 3:40am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: you never do. Ask of Patrick Obiahagbon.
hehe...thanks smiley

The message is too easily lost, if one must use a dictionary to decipher every other word. Simple, intelligent conversation is much more effective than flowery language. grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 2:45am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: OTOH, what makes you think I'm asking you for romantic reasons?
What is OTOH? Did I say you were? Where you? cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 2:43am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: speak verbosely. He will respond
When am I not speaking verbosely? grin
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 2:38am On Dec 28, 2013
Nite MEILYN. smiley
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 2:36am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: how old am I?
Too young for me. smiley
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 2:36am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: ask him what happens when we get bored or tired of our creations, I.e God. wink
Ok...I'm not sure he will respond. He tends to ignore me.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 2:34am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: grin

How old are you? No oofeinse kiss
Too old for you.
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 2:24am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: ask Deepsight.
Ask him what exactly?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 2:24am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: embarassed embarassed
Now what? Geez
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 2:12am On Dec 28, 2013
MEILYN: Agnostic? shocked i didnt see that on your post earlier. I am far from agnostism. I believe in the bible with no stripe of doubt.... But count me out of any organised religion.
I didn't mean any disrespect by that. Or by calling you a Bible reader. I simply meant you read the Bible and live accordingly. You don't simply believe what any church tells you. I don't have a problem with that. smiley
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 2:09am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: smh. Try dictionary.com abeg.
tongue
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 2:07am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: hehehehe. Careful now... wink
Well haven't you? We frequently speak. All be it here. We communicate on a regular basis. Do we not? I look for you when I come online. (Where have you been lately, when I am online? btw) We have not met face to face, but communication is communication. Thus, you are a part of my life. I would say you are a regular part of my life.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 1:57am On Dec 28, 2013
MEILYN: I am just 18 miss grin...

Not atall. They will believe what i believe. Majority of Christians are hypocrites, i dont want my children indoctrinated with rubbish lies.

Secondly let me just spill it out, God hates christmas.

"I hate, I despise your feast days, and I will not smell in your solemn assemblies." (Amos 5:21).<< I hate your feast days. Tradition of men. Dictating when Christ was born. Mehn. Any Christmas day you goto Church God wont be there. I will not smell in you assemblies. grin
So you don't have a church, right? You are simply a Bible reader? You don't believe in organized religion? Does that make you an agnostic? I'm lost when it comes to all these terms.
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 1:53am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: grin
well, I created my own god and then killed him tongue
smh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 1:49am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: am I part of your life now?
You have been a part of my life since the day we met. wink
Christianity EtcRe: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by texanomaly(f): 1:36am On Dec 28, 2013
ARareGem: I'm good, Texa. And I'm off to bed. Toddles. smiley
g'nite. smiley
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 1:35am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: Turkey kiss
Story of my life...You are a chicken, and I am a turkey. kiss
LiteratureRe: Literature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by texanomaly(f): 1:33am On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=Larry-Sun]Bumpy test.[/quote]shocked shocked
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op):
MEILYN: Of all the days. Why december 25th grin? Why not 26th?
I think it was this that threw me off. I didn't pay attention to who was addressing me.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 1:27am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: I thought he was a Christianhuh

Is he not? Abi is he a black Israelite?
Oops...I gotta pay attention to who I am replying.

Sorry MEILYN. embarassed
Christianity EtcRe: Please Don't Take Christ Out Of Christmas by texanomaly(op): 1:23am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: smiley

We need more of your type in Nigeria embarassed

Not the air-head arrogantly ignorant loud mouthed bible thumpers we have here aplenty.
awww...thanks swtz. kiss
Christianity EtcRe: New Rule For 2014 by texanomaly(f): 1:21am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: Nobody created god! angry



Oh wait....
tongue
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 1:19am On Dec 28, 2013
Mr Troll: tongue


Yep. Its official.
Chicken... tongue
LiteratureRe: Literature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by texanomaly(f): 1:15am On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=Larry-Sun]Now, here's my test subject! grin[/quote]Hmmm...what kind of test are we talking here?
Foreign AffairsRe: Gunman Opens Fire In American Hospital by texanomaly(f): 1:14am On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=Somorin#1]I see.

I agree with that sentiment. If not gun, a crazed person can also find a stick, knife, screwdriver, etc to further his bent ambition.[/quote]yup
Christianity EtcRe: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by texanomaly(f): 1:11am On Dec 28, 2013
ARareGem: ^^ Now, that's serious. grin But I was the one who liked your post just now. Hello smiley
lolz...stalker... cheesy

How are you Gem?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Uyi Iredia by texanomaly(op): 1:09am On Dec 28, 2013
So it is official now…

Happy birthday!!

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