₦airaland Forum

*drives in*

What's been happening here?

*sees cuties catwalking towards me*

Now I know what's happening here


*takes a seat and enjoy the show*

Fine things

Fine fine guys

benromeo39:
stressful.

Sorry bro. What have you been upto?

benromeo39:
my man, how u doing? I'll hope it's all good with you.

Yea bro, its been smooth. What about you?

Goodies in the morning to all of you. Hope I've not been missed as the e-husband of Legendarysage. I've been alittle busy lately. What's good? I wish all of you well, Ma Niggurs

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ayokunlei:
Dont get it wrong, all people have mixed traits with varying degree... Am more of an introvert with an extrovertish mixture. Am reserved and gentle most times which doesNT mean I Lack confidence. I have a Choleric secondary. And if you think introverts are mumu like it says from ur assertion,pls step on dia toes and u wld know what dey do not lack confidence. if introverts lack confidence, then Bill Gate wont be where he is today... try and read books on personality. Being reserved doesnt mean lack of confidence.

She said introvert and shy.

achidisucre:
what a mature non-abusive statement. I love ur rxn, exude gud attributes, compliments!

Thanks bro,
Its a small world, u know

tintingz:
Sorry but most extroverts or people claiming extrovert lack good reasoning, they over do things without thinking.

That's the excess part of "some" extroverts

cnnamoko:
bro depends on the individual. They are some very real men that are shy, the control their home and woman perfectly and they are good and calculated risk takers too...I know of one prof and many more

Let's say he's an exception

Zedric:
@legendarysage, guess that position just opened up

She should show interest too

Quite a number of times

Especially, if she's in singing unit.

cryptography:
sorry that was my auto spell-checker

Ok bro, no wahala.

Enjoy

cryptography:
you dont want to generalize extroverts, yet you generalize introverts

one word for u

FOOL

If you have a problem with me, tell me. Don't insult me next time, ok.

You can join in the argument bro

plaetton:
You are wrong on all counts.
First, being shy and introvert does not equate to lacking confidence. No sir.
In fact, introverts have an over-abundance of confidence, that is what makes them meek and sensible.

The more one talks, the more one's tongue is likely to misrepresent one's thoughts and intentions.

When you are very confident, your thoughts, words and actions are very well co-ordinated to achieve the most with the least noise.


Extroverts, on the other hand, have an over-abundance of FALSE confidence, confidence in ephemeral things .
There is a saying that " bullies are cowards " and "an empty vessel makes the most noise " . These perfectly encapsulate the extrovert character.

Introverts are deep thinkers who ponder on ideas, issues and events that have universal significance.
They are therefore the architects of the policies that affect global events.

A simple roll call and biography of the past and present most influential world leaders would show that a far greater percentage of them are or were introverts.

The truth is that introverts, despite all the noisy rackus from extroverts, rule the world.

You're getting me wrong, I didn't say introverts are dull people. Remember she said shy.
when you're shy, you lack confidence. The opposite of shy is confidence. So they lack it. And you know, ladies love confidence.

Introverts in romance are boring and live a calculated life.

Sorry, someone being extrovert doesn't mean they aint good thinkers too. Being intelligent doesn't make you live a solitary life. Doesn't make you shy.

An extrovert can be intelligent and also relate well to the general public. Because he communicates with a lot of people, he learns much about how the society works. The real thing that is happening.

Ololade1999:
Honestly, every she said described me personally. To add to what she said, we are very choosy when we talk of choosing friends but keep that friendship for lifelong. i still keep a very cordial relationship with my J.S 1 close friend(close to 2 decades now). i use to sleep in his house anytime i want before i left the country. i also have a guy from my SSS 1 days that we are forever inseparable. i love living a very quiet life.even some of my classmates dont know me. you cant say every woman wants a leader and what makes you think shy guys cant be good leaders.You seems not to understand women.What a woman want is someone who is able to live to his responsibilities as a man and not an irresponsible guy, someone who will treat and respect her very well and someone who is faithful, honest, purpose driven and diligent. one of my exs that complained that i was too quiet , gentle and use to avoid social life left me with the help of her friends and got married to an extrovert.Today, she is regretting of quitting that relationship and not being patient cos i so understand and know her more than any other guy(even than her present husband).

A shy person "cannot" be a leader, brother.

You are generalising, extroverts are not irresponsible but are likable people. People that will show you how the world works. People that will make you experience life.

Extroverts get things easily unlike introverts because of the easy way they relate with people.

Extroverts don't hold grudges on people for long. They live life as it comes.
Introverts are only good as scientists, philosophers, etc.
They aren't social.

Her living you to marry an extrovert doesn't mean all extroverts will have failed marriages, ok.
I know some extroverts who live very good life. The husband will take his wife to the pitch and they'll play ball.

Introverts are cool but are not the best lovers bro.

Everfrank:
Continue celebrating mediocrity.

So, I should support sharia and its ills?
I should support the financier of Boko haram?

Ololade1999:
Its a lie. I am extreme introvert who hates and avoid leadership role but when i have no other choice than to lead, i lead and perform excellently and perfectly
.we can never be sidelined infact people trust us with leadership roles than our extrovert counterparts because we are honest faithfully and brilliant

You don't even talk like one, so you might be an introvert to some people while an extrovert to other people.

Being an extrovert means you can win people from afar by your brightness, you bring life into any gathering.

If you read what she highlighted about NYSC and co, you'll see them away from the crowd.

A woman wants a leader, she wants her man to be admired by others. Not a shy, lonely guy somewhere.

Please learn to respect people.
Tiwa is still upcoming. That was how some compared saka and osofia.

No more respect in Nairaland!

Shy guys are boring, they'll take the position of the girl while the girl will take the position of the guy.

They lack confidence in the masculine world. Where men do things, they'll shy away from it.

Shy guys can not lead, they'll always be sidelined by the hard reality of life.

I think you're a lion with this kind of write-up

Buhari has never shown himself to be a credible leader since his military rule. He has always be known for his loose tongue and religious bias.

With him being the presidential flag-bearer of APC, he will initiate the unbeaten streak he has in failure!

GEJ till Nigerians get sense!

Juicysam:
Feb 10th

Birthday mate bro!

Which of E's is vacant. I guess its E-husband

I guess I'm capable to be that

She shouldn't wait all the time. Some are broke with prospects of a better tomorrow while some are broke with prospect of being more broke than their present status.

Rozzay,

You don't have to measure up with what your man is doing online. He is a man and the best way a man get to be friendly is to flirt alittle and also talk friendly.

If you want him to stop, you have to tell him how you feel whenever he compliments a girl online or better still flirt.

A forum like this should be taken as fun and nothing serious except its has turned into a private message flirting. As far as he is your man, you'll take his reactions to things you do seriously than anybody.

You should pedal down and discuss your feelings with him.

Saka is a funny man. But osofia is one hell of a funny man. I watched him mc a wedding, everyone nearly died as a result of laughter. He has words in his mouth.

Elantracey:

I think ur comment was the best.

There are cute ways of making her forget you added her without her intention.

You can say:

"Forgive me, I'm a thief. I saw your pin in my friend's fone, and I stole it."

Girls be like:

*after sex*
Girl: what are we?
Boy: we are nothing but pencils in the eye of the creator.

Sexual attraction is one thing you can't remove when it comes to love but its not the all and all. When you love someone, you have this chemistry between two of you.

Men can wait till marriage and not have sex with their spouses doesn't mean they don't feel it except they're practising sister and brother love where they'll only talk about church things.

When you start sharing your feelings with a woman you love, saying how she makes you feel. You'll start having the urge to kiss and touch her.

So, saying sexual attraction is not love is false because to love a woman romantically, there'll be romance except its just friendship where emotional things are not shared, just normal daily life gist.