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@OP Before you start a discourse on feminism, be sure to look up the term on Wikipedia. This is so that you may have a better understanding of what feminism actually means. Going by all you've typed up there, I must say that you've got it all totally wrong. CHEERS |
PunFuMonQ:Saw what you did there How you ripped him to shreds But chai bros I must confess Cos you no get conscience (I mean no disrespect) ![]() You know like MI's beef with Vector You for take am like your son And showed him what he did wrong Without use of insults Like that reference to his sister; (How are you even sure he has a sister?) Totally way out of line You can do better Build a brother Just don't tear him down |
So in other words... The Goodluck led administration wrongly instructed the US to freeze the assets of Bagadu which was in violation of his earlier agreement with the Obasanjo led administration that his company assets remain untouched. Now, in a bid to clean up the mess of the pervious administration, the Buhari led administration now intends to use part of the funds to be repartriated in compensating Bagadu. Problem is, the US is unwilling to comply with that sort of arrangement. It's either you collect the whole money and use all of it for the benefit of Nigerians or you forget it. That's where the problem is (I think). Maybe Bagadu was too hasty in entering into that agreement with the Buhari led federal government. Maybe the federal government should find some other way to compensate him for his loss asides this money. That should be the best option so that the US can do and kukuma give us our money. Ifyz0001:Yes O... The money dey reach my hand ![]() |
Your sense of humor is one of a kind ![]() MrBrownJay1: |
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Michellekabod2:I find it fascinating that a feminist is typing this @bolded. Indeed very fascinating. It shows that your views of who a man is and what is expected of such a man is somewhat influenced by traditional standards. However when a man expresses such traditional views concerning a woman and her role in society, members of modern society particularly the feminists are quick to label such a man as “sexist“, a “misogynist“ and the likes. Such a pity! Michellekabod2:You are a liar!! @bolded. A woman doesn't just wake up one morning and “choose” to see domesticated men as “pu$$ies” or not “man enough”. You hold such archaic views of manliness because of the kind of social conditioning you experienced (whether consciously or unconsciously) whilst growing up. When an individual's understanding of masculinity or femininty is defined in terms of what a man or woman is supposed to do or not do, then such an individual can be described as a traditionalist. If I may ask you, what does picking up a broom to sweep as a man have to do with his manhood? Huh? So because his hand has touched broom, he has suddenly become castrated abi? For the fact that you see a relationship between a man's willingness to partake in domestic chores (traditionally meant for women) and the invalidation of his manhood points to the fact that you are a traditional woman take it or leave it. Traditional women such as yourself have no business being feminists because it is women like you that give feminism a bad name. Go ahead and form your own movement and give it some other name and leave feminism for the modern women that possess a wholesome understanding of the rights and responsibilities that come with being empowered as a woman. I'm done here. Have a nice day. |
pweshdodo:The Seretide inhaler costs like ₦5,000 or thereabout so as you go, be prepared with your cash. |
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Coolcalmcollect:Dear OP, The typical Nigerian woman is known to want a man that can take care of her and provide for her needs. All of this comes with a price of course as she is expected to be submissive to such a man in return. On the other hand, the typical Nigerian man while growing up has been indoctrinated to see himself as responsible for meeting the needs of his woman and her kids in exchange for their submission and respect. Hence the prospect of the woman becoming [more] economically empowered than the man will end up violating this principle as the woman will be tempted to see no wisdom in remaining submissive to a man for providing her with what she is now able to provide for herself. Furthermore, the man may begin to feel emasculated. Especially as he loses the honour that comes with actively fulfilling the role of “provider of the household” or “man of the house” Trust me when I tell you that this is not the kind of situation in which you will want to find yourself especially if you are a responsible traditional man. Your wife or significant other will see no reason to be respectful or submissive to you especially if she entered into that relationship with you because of money or for some other material reasons. It will take only a traditional woman that is genuinely in love with you to remain level-headed even after becoming more richer or successful than you. I guess it all boils down to the kind of choices we make when choosing who to enter into a relationship with. If traditional men can learn to stop chasing women with money and instead go for women who possess the capacity to show them genuine love; then the issue of Nigerian women being more financially successful than their partners won't be a problem provided that the men themselves aren't irresponsible. SHALOM emmaodet:Well it can be difficult [but not impossible] to know for sure. However, if she shows more interest in your pocket than in you, or you find yourself in a situation whereby you feel obligated to spend your money in order to “win her affections”, then such a woman can't really be said to have genuine love for you. For such women, being in a relationship is more of a business transaction wherein their heart is auctioned off to the highest bidder. Dunno if you get my point. ![]() |
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UbongCR7:I have a feeling that fellow may somehow be guilty of what the OP is alleging hence such reply. |
NwaAmaikpe:I get it now. You are a traditionalist who subscribes to the ideals and values of the old school. However you ought to know that even in a traditional setting, while a woman is expected to be submissive to her man, a man in return is equally expected to love and care for his woman. A man who will be willing to let his wife suffer the inconvenience and stress of public transportation (even when there are two private cars) can't be seen as one who loves or cares about his wife. Such a husband can be described as an uncaring and selfish husband and hence deserves no submission from his wife. Oga please change your narrow minded mindset. Shalom! |
ATankado:I use PicsArt. It isn't complicated to use but then, it isn't as advanced as Adobe CC Illustrator. oluwaseyi000:The ability to draw isn't all there is to it. If you're creative enough you will be fine. ![]() |
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