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RomanceRe: Truths About Feminism You Ought To Know (by B.O.E.) by theakuko: 5:46pm On Mar 06, 2020
@OP Before you start a discourse on feminism, be sure to look up the term on Wikipedia. This is so that you may have a better understanding of what feminism actually means.

Going by all you've typed up there, I must say that you've got it all totally wrong.

CHEERS
Rap BattlesRe: Flow For Rank by theakuko: 7:38pm On Mar 04, 2020
PunFuMonQ:
Tranquil and serene, I was enjoying the calm mental ambience
Until a kid came into the scene, he need parental guidance
This section ain’t for children, you must be lost wandering like a pilgrim
If you can’t find ya way out, MonQ show you out the building
Talm ‘bout performing like your sister ain’t wake up on my bed in the morning
She yawning, she want the organ, I gave it to her and she begin the moaning
This is a lesson for you, if it was a battle, it be a mismatch kid
You no rapper, if you ever, you only wrapped Christmas gifts
You git ma drift? I am watching Hoobs&Shaw with ya sis, breakfast the meal
She prepared it early at ya mamas, brought it to the crib for Netflix & Chill
Recite your nursery rhymes kid, no games here, go play at crèche
It must be quite simple like ABC, your tuition was paid in cash
When in high school, fool I bet you was getting high
No shit, you pissed, cos back then you were bedwetting guys
Don’t let me grab the tool, push your wig back like I wanna glue hair
This is meant for you to make resolutions about rapping in the New Year

MonQ!
Saw what you did there
How you ripped him to shreds
But chai bros I must confess
Cos you no get conscience cry
(I mean no disrespect) wink

You know like MI's beef with Vector
You for take am like your son
And showed him what he did wrong
Without use of insults

Like that reference to his sister;
(How are you even sure he has a sister?)
Totally way out of line
You can do better
Build a brother
Just don't tear him down
PoliticsRe: Why US Is Stalling The Repatriation Of $308 Abacha Loot by theakuko:
So in other words...

The Goodluck led administration wrongly instructed the US to freeze the assets of Bagadu which was in violation of his earlier agreement with the Obasanjo led administration that his company assets remain untouched.

Now, in a bid to clean up the mess of the pervious administration, the Buhari led administration now intends to use part of the funds to be repartriated in compensating Bagadu. Problem is, the US is unwilling to comply with that sort of arrangement. It's either you collect the whole money and use all of it for the benefit of Nigerians or you forget it. That's where the problem is (I think).

Maybe Bagadu was too hasty in entering into that agreement with the Buhari led federal government. Maybe the federal government should find some other way to compensate him for his loss asides this money. That should be the best option so that the US can do and kukuma give us our money.




Ifyz0001:
See how you are talking "US can do and kukuma give us our money" which money, the money dey reach your hand?
Yes O... The money dey reach my hand smiley
RomanceRe: I Accused My Boyfriend Of Cheating And Now He Wont Forgive Me by theakuko: 2:41pm On Feb 21, 2020
Your sense of humor is one of a kind

cheesy cheesy cheesy




MrBrownJay1:
since you gave us half stories, let me give you half answers:
- you should definitely...
- then why dont you...
- make sure to...
- and also...

see the full answers at www.bsbloggersandtheirnonsense.com/oloshi.html
RomanceRe: He Returned The Car Back by theakuko:
undecided
RomanceRe: Only If All Men Can Be Like My Future Husband by theakuko:
Michellekabod2:
So you are a lady?a non graduate lady?No wonder you came for the head of the man that wanted to marry a graduate in the other thread.

Anyway great points you have over here,but the thought of marrying a Christian or church-goer man is less appealing to me .I find it less attractive and not masculine at all to me. Doing house chores to me ain't attractive and its less masculine, that is why we have people called house helps.
I used to see men holding brooms as pu$$ie$
I find it fascinating that a feminist is typing this @bolded. Indeed very fascinating.

It shows that your views of who a man is and what is expected of such a man is somewhat influenced by traditional standards.

However when a man expresses such traditional views concerning a woman and her role in society, members of modern society particularly the feminists are quick to label such a man as “sexist“, a “misogynist“ and the likes.

Such a pity!




Michellekabod2:
WTF is wrong with you? My spec ain't from a traditional lens but my own personal choice.
I have never condemned a man for his spec/choice, I only condemn shaming of people.
I will NEVER condemn a man for wanting a virgin as a wife,or a housewife, but I am against him shaming and bullying ladies that aren't virgins/housewives
You are a liar!! @bolded. A woman doesn't just wake up one morning and “choose” to see domesticated men as “pu$$ies” or not “man enough”. You hold such archaic views of manliness because of the kind of social conditioning you experienced (whether consciously or unconsciously) whilst growing up.

When an individual's understanding of masculinity or femininty is defined in terms of what a man or woman is supposed to do or not do, then such an individual can be described as a traditionalist.

If I may ask you, what does picking up a broom to sweep as a man have to do with his manhood? Huh? So because his hand has touched broom, he has suddenly become castrated abi? For the fact that you see a relationship between a man's willingness to partake in domestic chores (traditionally meant for women) and the invalidation of his manhood points to the fact that you are a traditional woman take it or leave it.

Traditional women such as yourself have no business being feminists because it is women like you that give feminism a bad name. Go ahead and form your own movement and give it some other name and leave feminism for the modern women that possess a wholesome understanding of the rights and responsibilities that come with being empowered as a woman.

I'm done here. Have a nice day.
RomanceRe: Can Asthma Be Cured ?????? by theakuko: 9:12am On Jan 29, 2020
pweshdodo:
Amen ..thanks
The Seretide inhaler costs like ₦5,000 or thereabout so as you go, be prepared with your cash.
RomanceRe: Why Must All The Rules And Regulations In Africa Centre Around Women?? by theakuko:
sad
RomanceRe: Are You Actually A Man? by theakuko:
huh
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Nigerian Men So Insecure? by theakuko:
Coolcalmcollect:
Why are most Nigerian men scared or feel unsecure of their successful wives or gfs?
I once had a friend who broke up with his gf cos she had a first class while he has a 2.2 saying she will be more successful and thus she won't be submissive.
I've heard stories of men forcing their bright future wives to become housewives cos they fear she will soon start earning more than them.
Most men feel it isn't until they earn more than their wives they can earn submission from her, they forget like respect, submission is earned via love. When you love your wife and show it to her, she will be submissive on her own.
Please leave that woman to reach her full potentials, if not for anything for your kids, so they can have rich mom to boast of. Mrs awoshika, Mrs alakija etc doesn't have two heads.... Allow her grow.
Dear OP,

The typical Nigerian woman is known to want a man that can take care of her and provide for her needs. All of this comes with a price of course as she is expected to be submissive to such a man in return.

On the other hand, the typical Nigerian man while growing up has been indoctrinated to see himself as responsible for meeting the needs of his woman and her kids in exchange for their submission and respect.

Hence the prospect of the woman becoming [more] economically empowered than the man will end up violating this principle as the woman will be tempted to see no wisdom in remaining submissive to a man for providing her with what she is now able to provide for herself.

Furthermore, the man may begin to feel emasculated. Especially as he loses the honour that comes with actively fulfilling the role of “provider of the household” or “man of the house”

Trust me when I tell you that this is not the kind of situation in which you will want to find yourself especially if you are a responsible traditional man. Your wife or significant other will see no reason to be respectful or submissive to you especially if she entered into that relationship with you because of money or for some other material reasons. It will take only a traditional woman that is genuinely in love with you to remain level-headed even after becoming more richer or successful than you.

I guess it all boils down to the kind of choices we make when choosing who to enter into a relationship with. If traditional men can learn to stop chasing women with money and instead go for women who possess the capacity to show them genuine love; then the issue of Nigerian women being more financially successful than their partners won't be a problem provided that the men themselves aren't irresponsible.

SHALOM




emmaodet:
And the Bigger Question is - HOW DO YOU KNOW A WOMAN WHO GENUINELY LOVES YOU? In a world full of pretense.
Well it can be difficult [but not impossible] to know for sure. However, if she shows more interest in your pocket than in you, or you find yourself in a situation whereby you feel obligated to spend your money in order to “win her affections”, then such a woman can't really be said to have genuine love for you. For such women, being in a relationship is more of a business transaction wherein their heart is auctioned off to the highest bidder.

Dunno if you get my point.

smiley
RomanceRe: Help!!! It Seems My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me by theakuko:
sad
RomanceRe: “stop Eyeing Apples When You Can Only Afford Orange“ - Lady Lashes Out At Men by theakuko:
cry
EducationRe: How Do I Report A Corrupt JAMB Registration Centre? by theakuko: 1:06pm On Jan 26, 2020
UbongCR7:
You see how foolish you are abi.
I have a feeling that fellow may somehow be guilty of what the OP is alleging hence such reply.
RomanceRe: Advice Needed. by theakuko:
cry
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Men Complain Too Much by theakuko:
cry
RomanceRe: The Pains Of Rebuffing, A Guy Says He Was Treated Like A Piece Of Shit By Women by theakuko:
cry
RomanceRe: Should I Give My Husband My Car?? (photo) by theakuko:
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



What happened to wives being submissive and the man being the head of the home?
Today's wife now wants to compete with the man.

She is a foolish woman who does not want peace in her home.
She knows what the problem is yet doesn't want to solve it and is out on radio seeking answers.
How much more confused can she get?

As long as that man paid her brideprice, everything she owns first belong to him and as long as her establishment did not dictate that the car is strictly for her use.
She should overlook his past wrongs and let her husband use it.

Because if she won't give it to him.
There are many other single but aged women willing to give him better cars in exchange for his surname.

She should choose between peace in her home or her car crushing her home to pieces .

One fact must remain awake even in the subconscious thoughts of a woman who is in coma and it is that,
Husbands are scarce, hold your own tight.
I get it now. You are a traditionalist who subscribes to the ideals and values of the old school. However you ought to know that even in a traditional setting, while a woman is expected to be submissive to her man, a man in return is equally expected to love and care for his woman.

A man who will be willing to let his wife suffer the inconvenience and stress of public transportation (even when there are two private cars) can't be seen as one who loves or cares about his wife. Such a husband can be described as an uncaring and selfish husband and hence deserves no submission from his wife. Oga please change your narrow minded mindset.

Shalom!
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: 7 Golden Rules Of Logo Design Every Designer Should Follow Religiously by theakuko: 6:20am On Jan 20, 2020
ATankado:
Nice tips. Please what software do you use for your logo design? Me I use Adobe CC Illustrator - complicated but fun to use.
I use PicsArt. It isn't complicated to use but then, it isn't as advanced as Adobe CC Illustrator.



oluwaseyi000:
Nice, I wish I know how to draw
The ability to draw isn't all there is to it. If you're creative enough you will be fine. wink

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