₦airaland Forum

michelin89:
THE AMAKA looks like Adaeze!

beejaei:
@THE.AMAKA

I am sad to hear that I come of as defensive. If you are correct that the girls that I have seen so far are actually also ignoring  me, then I am in trouble. Because if such unattractive girls can ignore me, then I have no hope of getting the "queen of my dreams." And the "queen of my dreams" is not even outlandish.

SEFAGO:
Why not a good banker, good lawyer, good doctor? Why does she have to be a good wife?

LOL

All the ladies have gone in hiding, only the confident ones are still around.

not really, this shizz is just getting dry.
everyone has said his/her piece.

san26dy:
Ofcourse Rita bleaches. It is a blind person who cannot see that. Tonto is the worst, her skin color is different in every movie.

beejaei:
@THE.AMAKA


Are you daft, or something? Dem use mumu take swear for you? Shey ko n she pe nkan mi n ba e ja? How many times will I have to say I don't give a bleep about whether or not you think I am "all that?"  And I don't want the best of the best. Now I see what commonsense people go through on NL. I have said I want an attractive girl that reminds me of back home, while having a little perspective and insight on serious issues. Is that too much to ask for? Is is your eyes or your brains that missed my constant reiterations in the past few posts.

And yes, you may be right that some girls may want to look past me because I don't meet their criteria. Fair enough. But the problem is, I have not even met such girls, "talkless" of being rejected by them. If it is those babes that I find unattractive that are rejecting me, then my life is finished!!!!!!!!

And I am not venting my anger on 9ja babes because of my situation. It just pisses me off when u guys bring your usual shallow nairaland balderdash to an issue I take serious.

you are obviously the one that's daft if you don't get what im saying.
YOU DONT HAVE TO CARE ABOUT MY OPINION, IM JUST LETTING YOU KNOW! all this screaming "i dont care blah blah" okay, YOU DONT CARE, WE GET IT, SO STOP ACTING LIKE YOU DO!
anyway, like i said the reason why you are looking past girls because of the beauty & brains they don't have may be the same reason why girls look past you.
so the next time you go about thinking there are "no good girls left" ask yourself this question. is the problem that i cant find any girls? or is the problem me? or maybe. . . are they all out of my league?
you seem to be a little too defensive. looking at your title and your initial post, you know what you mean when starting this.
anyway. . . i have said me piece, take it or leave it.

after all this is being said and done, WHAT THE FUK IS THE POINT OF THIS THREAD?! IM LOST HERE.
did you open this for moral support because it seems you already started this thread with all your "questions" being answered. i don't get it.
then you wanna start shouting when someone wants to give you their piece.
really? wow. . .

H2O2:
both of you can suck it together if you don't like it.
or tell that to the insensible female pikins who expect you to take charge of 90% of the home's finances and still split the house chores with them 50/50.
do you think marriage is a parlour where you watch tv all day and paint your toe nails
mscheww go make me a sammich jor  

beejaei:
@THE.AMAKA

you are probably right. I don't think I have swag, although most of my colleagues think I do. And as for the look in the mirror part, funny enough, I do too frequently, and trust me, more often than not, I LOVE what I see. I will never give up my slender, boyish, local looks to be any other man in the world. My presumption is that most you ladies here find it hard to be believe that I am so comfortable in my own skin. And maybe it was probably wrong to generalize 9ja babes as worwor. It was a slight of the mouth-and I have those quite often.

But that does not derail from the point that I have not  been GENUINELY attracted to any 9ja girl's person since I came here I guess we can say "person" includes such stuff as brains, beauty, personality, charm etc. (The whole package, if you get the idea). I do not think I am asking for WAY too much.

sentimentalsoul:
Eni is hot I can do anything for her even if to die for her i will do it again and again

semid4lyfe:
Agreed but some are faker than others. The wigs are just too thick, heavy and long for crying out loud haba! A wig shouldn't stand out too much as been fake IMO. _{At least there should be the possibility it's your natural hair}. _{reminds me of Ofunneka who wore a blond wig to the Hip-hop World Awards}

@ topic
Song is just there IMO.

rapjunkie:
1. The phrase is 'monkey dey work[b] baboon[/b] dey chop'    wetin be bamboo?  they should fire their managament pronto
2. The weaves are a bit OTT
3. Song aint bad BUT what market r they going for? Naija? I dont think so.

beejaei:
Its funny how 9ja babes like chiogo can easily get on the defensive and play the feminist card whenever they see a topic like this. If you think a little deeply about the course the thread has thread (no pun  intended), you will see that the title is misleading, and the crux of the matter is a dearth, in my area, of girls like back home. Except this time, I will appreciate a little perspective and insight into issues along with the nigerianness and attractiveness. I know normally a girl does not have to be attractive to be a person's friend, but I must pay due cognizance to my own reality as I consider this issue.  And my reality is that being shy person, i come out of my shell for guys who have similar tastes to me like love for soccer, a little perspective and insight into serious issues, a good vision for a good life and a good career etc. Since very few girls like soccer, or discuss serious issues -without letting them degenerate into gossips and carping-I will usually overcome my shyness for an attractive girl, with a tinge of "localness" and a a little perspective and insight into serious issues.

I have mentioned "a little perspective and insight into serious issues" 3 times. That should tell someone that is as much a priority as physical beauty.

londoner:
Some Nigerian parents dont listen to their children because they think they know it all, and can never be wrong.

I dont think its just Nigerians though. Even when you speak up, you are considered rude.

hauler:
Of course THE FAT AMAKA will hate on anything that isnt Igbo

semid4lyfe:
Jeez! They look so fake with all the wigs dey put on their heads.

koolchicco:
She's not bad! What villa is she from?
[size=2pt]abeg comot ijoya's pix frm there, or is she your look-alike 4 real?[/size]
I guess u already know why. NO?

LMFAO!! leave me, i like my pic. 
*ill change it soon though*

Abuseay:
Thanks so Much Platinum babez, U had me right on the Spot, well, Thanks once again,  I appreciate

so you're the guy in question? when are we doing a track together? lol 
let me introduce myself, i'm THE AMAKA 

SEFAGO:
gerrout, pastor coming to romance section

can someone explain what AjeButter is?

FL Gators:
ahhhhhhhh S.B LOOKS WAYYYYYYY BETTER

FL Gators:
b,t,w, Igbo accent is sexyyyyy.  gawwwd